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Mariangeles:
Was your husband already into betting before you married him?
Why is your ex good enough to pour out your heart to now?
Why is he asking you if you’re enjoying your marriage?
Are you sure he wishes you well? I think he’s a busybody/monitoring spirit.
What if he wants to take advantage of your vulnerability?

The ex is in for some adultery, it is a matter of time.

Mariangeles:
No matter what you do and how strict you are, you will not always know what your children are up to.

So, the best approach will be to give them some freedom and the privacy they deserve, so that they can trust you and let their guard down.

Children with strict parents are the most likely to be mischievous because they’re always scheming, looking for ways to manoeuvre and outsmart their parents.

You are grounded with parental knowledge...You are very correct with the analysis.

Kids must outsmart..

We outsmarted our parents, the kids will do same.

Being friends with your kids is thw only way you can intrude without them noticing.

Hahahahaha I wonder how some of these governors will perform woefully and still have the audacity to declare for presidency...

See them all...Even the Kogi yeye guy that workers were committing suicide under his tenure...mstchwww

Suspect33:
This thread won't get to a third page despite it being on the front-page and we all know why

We don't know...Please tell us.

CAPITALBEE:
Kabaye!

Well nourishing cassava flakes is the best combo for me

However, Fresh agege bread would suffice for Ewa Agoyin.

You sabi...

Soaked garri or bread finishes the porridge beans.

Gastrocnemius:
What is the essence of having a large cashew farm without it bringing forth fruits. Knowing well that the joy seen in a cashew farmer can't be over emphasized when he sees each of the branches bringing forth flowers which eventually results into cashew fruit and the seed.

My Dad owns a large cashew farm which occupies most of our farm land. Thereby, depriving us of growing food crops in those areas. With the spike in the price of cashew seeds, it always saddens me when I recall how those trees has been failing us.

As at 3 years ago, we realized 11 bags of the seed. Subsequently, the yield has decreased drastically. We got only 5 bags this year which has become the worst of all. Funny enough, more cashew trees are grown every year. Some of the trees don't bring out flowers at all. whereas, some will and the flowers dry off later.

If you have any information which will make the yield of those trees increase, please, you are welcome.

They probably aging and may likely need a new replacement.

Again I hope they are not infected with fungi disease and other common plant disease.

These economic trees can be a mess sometimes even after huge resources invested in them.

My best economic tree remains palm.

See if you have cashew farmers around, consult them and explain the problems, they are in best position to fix the issue.

TriCee:
Lol, I hope this is in the joke section though.

I would have loved a video of you telling us why you should win the presidential election.

As a matter of fact, Buhari has bastardized that seat of power, everyone now feels it is easily accessible.

The slogan: ''If empty headed Buhari can sit there, why can't I''?

As in eeh!!! Buhari made the seat look common.

Zonefree:
Munzy nwoke oma, you want to help scatter the relationship kwatakwata

As e no gree work after 5years, no need wasting her time na..

Make she see road clearly for another guy.

Deltatoto:
who no get money Dey do research?cut soap give me bros

Them say if I cut my soap I no go laugh for 4days..

Deltatoto:
hmmmm.no wahala bros

Is ok man.


Just do a bit of research so you don't enter a learned circle with a wrong mindset.

statutory1:
She came to my house thrice, ate and left plates unwatched. when she did that the 4th time, i asked her why and she said she can never do anything in my kitchen because its too dirty.

Lmao

And she contributes to it or she is trying to behave like the Romans in rome?

But, is your kitchen that dirty?

You know if one visits and the whole place is neat, common sense will reset the person's dirty stuffs.

Then you can say you have influenced the person positively.

Deltatoto:
bros wetin I do u again?u can’t deny the fact that u will see a very beautiful looking girl from the east u will approach her and she can’t speak simple English.it’s what I have seen.Igbo ppl generally are not academically sound.both their men and women

You are living in denial bro.

So speaking English is a yardstick to judge intelligence and wisdom?

A tribe that rose to a height with 20pounds after the genocide 50yrs later is not intelligent? Maybe you are talking from a biased point of view.

The only people that comes closer to Igbos in Academics should be Yoruba..

Anyone else is below.

Go and do your research.

CheedyJ:
People are different bro, if it was that easy for her, I bet she won't post it here for advise & support ..

Yea for sure..In my reply to her, I gave her the format.

My case was keeping my respect and prestige and keeping the woman..

I chose the former...Because No man deserve a rebel as wife...In your down moment even though we don't pray for such, she will find a thousand and one excuse to mess up.

Deltatoto:
it’s not just Onitsha.there’s no smart Igbo girl alive

Nonsense with audacity in one comment

Nothing good can come out of Nazareth they said, but when it happened, they nay sayers remained incapacitated for life..

Delta toto try to the reason well make your future dey stew.

Iyaebe:
Materialistic men everywhere na wa ooo

Taa!

This is sounding strange..We know of materialistic women..


So telling you to keep your body, while the man keeps his money is now materialistic abii?

Iya rest.

CheedyJ:
5yrs relationship go hard to just snap out of like that but i guess time dey say heals most wounds provided you're willing to let go & move on, slow & steady but surely you go dey alright las las....kpelle

It won't be hard bro...As a woman she is going to move on faster than the guy..Let her work on herself..She will attract more guys.

I have been there, same 5yrs, she bought biased rules, I walked away.. It wasn't that easy, but if I can as guy, she will snap out quicker.

princeemmma:
I met this girl .... we dated for almost 2years, it was a deep relationship that i never thought we won't get married, my dad knows this girl and she even always visit my home.....

Later i was having a diploma course then at Lagos, so i travelled and left her for just 1year, during this 1year i did always visit home sometimes.

After the course i came to see my girlfriend with heavy stomach........... (The truth then was that, me and this girl was having a no s&x relationship, just kiss and romance stuffs)........... so how belle come?

The rest that happened na story.........

No sex relationship! Another scam after I will make 1dollar equal to one naira by one quota system General...


So she didn't explain how belle take enter?

Iyaebe:
Every wise woman will know when and how to assist her man and I agree it’s not easy out there but asking women to share bills (some even demands equality) is what I find very difficult to accept , isn’t that too much on a woman who will also be attending to other things that concerns the home, most homes where women provide are highly unstable because women are not designed to be providers.

This money you are hoarding, who will eat the money las las?

Iyaebe:
No sex does not equal no shishi, its a sign of irresponsibility for any man who sees sex as exchange for his spending

You will always have something to say...Whether appealing or not.
A man doesnt care about spending so long as he is fit to make more..
Most women place value on money...So a man want sex in exchange..

If you say no sex till marriage, stick to what your parents gives you in addition to your legit earning..

Don't bill him to chop and run, if he applies his wisdom, he is labelled stingy.

As man, If a woman thinks you are stingy, just know you are doing very well..

Iyaebe:
No big deal,move on after all men do same to women

Mstchwwwww

Illuminatiship:
As you ugly reach wetin enemies wan use you do?

LMAO...you guys are something else...I don comot before una go crack my ribs here..

HRprof:
Men who do una this thing ohhhh
98% of comment here comes from men, una own worst pass yet they are bitter about women. Men are responsible for women attitude these days. Ask your mom if your father test run her before he paid her bride price. When you guys are test runing everything in skirt in search of good girl what do you expect Is costly these days know this and know peace. If you dont want to pay Bill's ZIP UP AND GET BORN AGAIN Lala are you there

Your opinion though..

slimsophiediva:
Good evening guys, just got dumped from a five years relationship. Moving on has been difficult, I really need to be out of this pains. My chest hurts and I don’t have any friends. Any tips on what I can do please

If you don't see a coming back.

Erase everything you both shared...Things that will bring back memories.

Delete and block him on all your SM handles and block his line.

Think over it, move on.

Work a bit on yourself and improve for the your next man.

Break up helps in shaping us human...If not we may go completely foolish with wants instead of needs.

Legendarytonyy:
She was vibeless, a vibe killer, I couldn't hold a conversation with her for up to 10 minutes, 0 sense of humor.
Her matter taya me I swear.
After her, I vowed not to have anything to do with Onitsha girls.

This can be a serious vibe killer...

Be like na those umu ogbe girls.. for Onitsha..If you go dey gist with her in English, church go dismiss..

But use, those slangs mix with Anambra dialect, you will find energy to keep talking.

Zonefree:
Trying to convince you is like the P in Psychology.

Lmao...

Dude you no get joy at all..

Na Iya you wake up for like this...

Iyaebe:
Stinginess

Lmao...you probably did no sex, he on his part did no shishi

Stingy men association, AKA let me see what I can do..

Ishilove:
As long as you are living under my roof, no privacy. No locked doors, no passworded phones or devices. Nothing.

In a pragmatic approach, these kids will beat you to your games.

Just like this generation beat the parents to their strict restrictions.

Even Children raised with tighter measures, most times turn out to be something else when they leave your roof/presence.

Regarding this topic, it must be approached with a liberal mindset..If Not curiousity will make a mess of everything.

Modern day kids are x3 smarter.

VladimirPutiin:
Was Sambo already a sitting governor ??

Pls you can tell me as I’m open to learn and know where I’m wrong. Thanks

I confused the whole thing..It was meant to be before the final conclusion of an election..

In essence...Only yahaya bello and Amaechi qualified for the topic.

And the guy who took over from Atiku in old Gongola now called Adamawa state.

Kodifashionhub3:
So in essence what are you trying to say � because you obviously didn’t make any point

Small children mindset dey worry am..

Mugu is feeling like Cubana..

Your girl friend who is serious with you, won't even bring her sister along for an outing not to talk of coming with two of her friends.


He needs the experience and lessons as well..it will shape him later on.

TheOldGods:
We have been dating for a while now. Been coming to my house and my parents knows her. Normally she visits and sleeps over and ofcourse because she is my guest ,I'll have to give her food etc.


So today I decided to be different. I told her I was hungry and if she was, ofcourse she hurried and said yes, dresses up and jumped in my lexus. I just smiled, and started the car and we drove to a restaurant.

Before we got down from the car, I told her that I don't want to spend more than 3k on the meal between the both of us, and I told her to handle it, which she said fine, and split the fees to 1500 each. She got her food and a huge chicken which everything was 1500 naira on her end, and I got swallow which was about 1050 naira on my end. And the total money was 2550 naira. Then suddenly my girlfriend told me she also wants plantain, that the money is not yet upto 3k. That it must reach 3k. I was shocked because, if we were married then she can't help me save money when I tell her let's cut down cost. I thought she would even be happy that she saved me money and now we didn't send upto that 3k. But wow.

The waiter wanted to take the food and add the plantation of 450, but I refused and told her to collect her payment as we were done ordering.

My so called girlfriend then got angry and decided to seat somewhere far away from me, and we didn't see each other till I was done eating, although she waited for me. To my surprise she didn't eat that food, she packaged it back in a takeaway bag, and kept it for me. I asked her why she didn't eat the food she ordered by herself which was already 1500, as we agreed, and she said she won't eat it, and I took the food back. I ate the food myself with the chicken.

Right now, I don't want to take this relationship serious. Did I do the wrong thing by not allowing her spend the remaining money and making it 3k? Which ofcourse was the remaining money from my own food.?

First, she isn't the next level babe..This one is for the high way.

Reasons;
1. If you have your apartment, what is stopping her from cooking?

2. A woman who sees future with you, must find ways to economize things so you can both enjoy quality at a reduced cost...meaning she will opt you take her to market to get some things after checking your kitchen to know what and what you have in there.

3. Anger issues..Most ladies are water that quench the fire in a man, if she is a fire too and you from your narration is a fire as well, you guys are time bomb waiting to explode.
Relationship works and walk into marriage that becomes a success when one is fire, one is ice water.

Normally, she will be the one that will tell you to spend less so you can save.

GUYS!!! A lady that sees future with you, no dey bill you...She hates seeing you spend extravagantly..It worries her as well.

Even, she makes serious contributions.

But, you see these ones, ones you start the car engine, she don dress up for activity, na dem..

Make you dey wise sha.. This is a small issue, but be on the look out.

VladimirPutiin:
But it’s clearly stated in the constitution.

What happened in kaduna when Namadi sambo was chosen as VP?

VladimirPutiin:
I thought Abubakar Audu died after the APC primary election ??

Or was it after the gubernatorial election?

Yahaya bello was exactly same as Amaechi...In fact he didn't spend on court stuffs..

He only came second in the primaries..

Instead of giving james faleke who was Audu running mate, they gave it to Yeye bello according to Fayose..

Same happened to Atiku when oBJ picked him for vice.

Similarly in Bayelsa when goodluck was chosen. After removal of DSP alamesiaya