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Juliusmomoh2:
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My gang that year...Just hide inside hall behind OBS make commandant no catch you na FUp.

englishmart:
A kid gifting a car to a fellow kid.

When a rich ancestor is funding the lifestyle... normal struggling guys will now look like ss1 boy chasing his ss3 senior girl.. This life eeh lmao

Hattbricker:
Guy this is coming from someone older than you. Sex is overrated.

Good sex is not overrated

He should focus on the main things first.

Anonymous03:
I'm a 21 year old virgin , a final year student in Babcock University and I created this new account to ensure anonymity.
People say I'm good looking but I don't see such when I look into the mirror.
Girls love to associate with me ( Note; I don't spend) but none is ready to get down with me. Girls flirt with me a lot but they would never have sex with me.
Some of the girls willingly sleep with guys that are less cute and not rich,yet they deny me sex but still cling on me even when I try to caught them off.

Most of these girls are act naughty with boys but they suddenly become saint and holy when it gets to my turn.

I almost begged for sex at one point and I don't want to patronize sex workers.
Where am I getting it wrong? How can I sexually attract girls? Do I need to dress like a pop star?

I solicit for your advice.

Them send you go school, na pussy dey hungry you... When I was your age, even with a dedicated gf, sex wasn't on my list of cravings.. Read your book and focus on your project make your future dey bright...Because when you focus on the main things now, ladies will come later if na your problem, na you go fvck run sef..

Success attracts..

Techguy96:
Thinking with one part of ur brain. China is an atheist state not a christian country, nigeria christians like you will receive the same treatment Muslims are receiving if china becomes world power.

If being like China is what it will take to get the world right, then it is a go ahead..

If the world boils today...Only China and USA can sustain their countries independently...Everyother country will succumb...

How China got to this well developed stage must be studied as course by Finance and Economic ministers of every country.

Religious fanatic people have destroyed the world.

DaniDani:
Putin, the man with ball. He isn't shaken by any world threat, he is the world liquid metal, the undisputable ndaboski of Europe.

There should be a touch of PUTIN in Every man... Talk and do...Plan and execute...

Illuminatiship:
Face your life Juliet if I like I use red oil my wife complain give you?

I tire o...

Oppy2k2:
AK-47 against RPG or ballistic missiles.If it is naija u will need to empower our girls with guns and iPhone 11 for selfies
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u will hear our slay queens

- Chilling with my guns
- Rocking my AK-47

Lmao

Will there get to a time, I will carry a rifle to defend Nigeria? Smh

Not to talk of allowing my woman to, I dey craze...

walkingshadow911:
ladies don't love who love them but who use them. bad boys don't love but use women
woman don't have that capacity to love a man but only use the man to upgrade her social class.

if you can beat em at their own game. you will have their maximum respect and loyalty.

this is how niggas role
take this to the bank

Change this mindset...Bad boys love women to nonsense...But are driven by focus..A bad boy leaves a woman when job calls...Then returns to unwind with her and give her a little spoil ones in a while.

But the SIMPle men, leave work to care for women...This is a woman's thing, she will get fed up and irritated and eventually dump his sorry azz..Then he will come an create thread here..

A woman is a complex human..Only another woman can try a little to understand the other...If you know this as man, why trying and cracking your brain to understand a woman? You want to challenge God na..
A focused guy who doesn't care about a woman, but deep down loves her is what the society call bad boy.
The truth is, na them the marry the best of females.. They spot them from a distance.

Slynation:
Boss...You have said it all...!! Every man needs that heartbreaking experience, most are the necessary motivation and drives needed to succeed in life...

Exactly..

TechTack:
I see. So the energy shoots from the men... " To love ", and is reciprocated , by " care ".

I see one of my wrong patterns now

Exactly...You love by providing as man...With this, you will always get the drive and motivation to keep focused on hustle.

Knowing fully that a success for you, strengths the care from her and extended to your kids as well.

TechTack:
I salute you elder. I applied this a few times, and i found peace. Women should love, we provide. Simple

Don't expect love from a woman...Rather expect Care...If she loves you, she is going to care much about you..

A man brings love..A man chase a woman, A man finds his woman..It is never the other way round..if not it is bound to scatter.

Slynation:
It's so painful tho...A lot of people might not understand this young man, Emotional trauma is very painful to experience because at that point, you are on self destruction, bobo might not be crying because his girl left him, but because he has built his happiness around the girl and has invested so much emotions, resources, time to the extent of losing himself in the process...!!

March 28th 2020 was a very bitter experience for me, My ex broke up with me just like that 8days after her birthday, A birthday I SIMPingly sponsored before lockdown was fully activated, Omo fear this gender...!! I was down just like my manchi up there, but I didn't shed tears physically, only did that in my sleep, it was a bitter experience that gave me the necessary strength, sense and pills I needed in life...I quickly remembered the badboy quote "Every heartless man once cared too much"

Now I live by two principles...As a lady "if you are Good, I will make you a saint...but if you are Bad, I will make you worst"

I think every man should experience break up issues..It comes with a huge advantage..Your senses and alertness will be top notch.

And it will teach how to spot good ladies from a distance.
The bolded explained that reason every man need that break up with a lady/ladies he cared soo much about.

If we men realise that Loving comes only from men while caring is a thing from the female side, the better we live happy.

Men express love with providing, women reciprocate with care.

Illuminatiship:
The man stupid 6 years you dey cry my neighbors don dey suffer for more the 30 years the day God bless the man the woman say she nor marry again,she just too like suffer.

Wetin no dey happen for naija, no dey exist...

Needadvice200:
Bro I get your point. The journey is about 6 years now. Before I met her my income is 80k above most times 6 digits. I carefully observe this and the signs are obvious bro. She herself knows because we been having issue on it for years yet I kept on overlooking. Am just tired bro. So tired and exhausted

You have been brainwashed to believe rubbish and make excuses for laziness...

What does your wife do for a living?

Is the networking thing your only source of income?

This two questions will be a guide out of your financial woes.

And not believing rubbish or sex starving the woman who agreed to be by your side for the rest of her life because your pastor said

tollyboy5:
if you want come and collect

Egbon Tinubu! If you want the power come and collect it..

ifadiuyu:
Small yansh they shake o

E dey shake E dey shake..

Mariangeles:
Hopefully, that day will come.

Surely...eshi i ga eri akpu..

Sergio101:
What's the slogan of Unizik sef

I dey school people..you no sabi your school slogan....Every zikite is a Giant after graduating.

Our motto is Self reliance and excellence.

edmaraja:
He better not say something stupid there.

Lmao...That's if he is not begging for loan...


Meanwhile we are test running our Ogbunigwe to support Ukraine since our colonial masters are supporting them...

Esthered:
No they aren't and my FIL is a pastor.
I feel it's waste of time as to know many person. Why not wait to meet the chosen one.
Yes o....mummy has been asking since my undergraduate days.

Ok...FIL no get issues..

Na mothers be the prayer point...You pray to have one who is welcoming.

Mariangeles:
I bu oso m kaga wu I bu onu.

I doubt I can ever like akpu.
Garri is tolerable.


Girls are especially interesting.

I bu onu kwa? Mba na..

Somehow some day you will come to realize what you've been missing..

I ga alike ya

Yes, I see...

Mariangeles:
Kama m ga e ri ya, m buru oso!

I remember when I was little, if my mum wanted to make me cry, she take the utara ball in her hand as she’s eating and paste it on my lips all of a sudden.
That act would make me cry, and I’ll keep on cleaning my mouth over and over.

You really cracked me up...

Buru oso kwa? gbara gawa ebe kwanu..lol

Forget, na love go conquer those your dislike for it.

This thing you said reminded me of a friend that was on the farm yesterday with her daughter and son...Amahum ihe omere Ada ya, she stood at a place for 30mins..refused to talk to anyone ma si ya hapu..she is doing shakara...She later had to pet her before ya agbasaa ihu ya..

Kids are fun when you study them....Especially the girl child.

So onye choro ka i bee akwa, ya ebute utara bia gi nso.. mgbe ahu.

Mike1stSon:
Hey family.

I have been a very long time member of this family, just created this for privacy.

I feel very happy to announce this here but before then...

Hear my this little story.

From 2007 to 2012, I was a cleaner collecting 25k monthly in the office and was allowed to go to school because I showed interest.

Served in Ebonyi in 2013, and still working with the same company, was not regular NYSC type but grace saw me through, despite that, I have forgone my N19500 monthly allowee.

After my NYSC, was moved to a warehouse and placed under a salary of 54k from 2013 to 2015.

Got married between 2015, resigned, and got another job for 100k in between 2016.

Sacked after 1 year because the company was closing up due to bad economy under Buhari.

Stayed unemployed with my wife who took over the family responsibility for 1 and half years of unemployment from school fees, feeding, bills and transport fares for job interviews with 4 kids at that time.

All these were done by my wife through her frozen food and foodstuff business in a rented shop in Lagos.

My breakthrough came around March 2019, was called for an interview in a construction company with a salary of 70k as a store officer, remember that I am a graduate.

70k and you will be moved straight to Ebonyi State, to Isu Nkwo/Agba community for road construction from Lagos. For 70k!!!

My wife advised me that I should take the job, and gave me 10k as pocket money to start.

Thank God for the WhatsApp video call that kept us together with 4 kids for 8months and I returned to Lagos....please for clarity's sake we usually do return to Lagos from time to time.

From 2019 to 2022, my salary had been increased from 70k to 150k in 2021.

Got an email today, from HR that my salary has been increased to 250k.

Isn't that wonderful?

This long article is to encourage someone out there.

No matter how small the salary is, please continue with hard work and dedication.

Before I forgot, I won the CEO Award for the most dedicated staff of the year for the last year 2021 with a cash prize of 300k.

Pls, keep, keeping on ladies and gentlemen here.

And most importantly, be loyal to your wife and dedicated to your family.

Your immediate family will always stand by you when your friends are gone during your trials time.

Peace.....

Don't mind my errors.....

Was just thinking about this life sha.....

Kudos to you for allowing yourself pass through that growth phase..

And kudos for having your own woman who understand the assignment, held the family in your lowest time...she deserve a ones in a while spoil if you ask me.

Stay focused you are just starting..And most importantly keep being you.

Thanks for sharing, some people need this, in this public space...The get rich quick syndrome is becoming something else.

Mariangeles:
I already thought about it and have it figured out.

How can I hapu ji? For what kwanu?

I huru gi eeh...smh.

If your man is like me, na influence go make you chop swallow pass ndi mama nor na village...

I did it for a stubborn babe, ya shi chara m nri, ya ga ñuo tea...I hukwa...O ji mu egwuriegwu..lol

Mbia mu ekuru ya , m rie 2 ya erie one..like that ya amuta iri ma garri and senior brother ya wu akpu...

I huru akpu, I ga eri ya o...I wunu nwa-afor...I ga eme ihe na usoro..

joyandfaith:
Economic war is better than military invasion.

I swear..it leaves the people alive but useless...

I hope Russia survive things coming their way...As a business man, I know what it takes losing one serious customer not to talk of losing a handful of sure customers...motivation will die..

Putin

Esthered:
You're right.
Very dicey as my parents could have said no, we don't want you... and then I question the essence of taking him to them but he wanted to show commitment. Upon meeting our parents, we started courtship officially. We started talking in October as we knew each other from school but weren't friends, met parents in January, introduction May and wedding December.
Good afternoon sir.

Thank God your parents approved from both sides..They seem to be liberal people.

To me I don't see the need taking my gf to my parents, except if she is the chosen one, though my parents will love to...

As for meeting her parents I feel it is not necessary except if We are moving to the next phase which is fiance/finacee then marriage.

I dated a lady whose people were not happy I didn't come around to say hi and Introduce myself...Even when I visit and spend days with their sister coming giving excuse to come be with me..

Well after a while that relationship didn't progress, but opened my eye to know more about how some families will love to see who is dating their daughter....I also learnt some mothers are extremely curious to know the man in their daughter's life.

I also learnt parents use style to state the type of DIL or SIL they will love to have..Such things must be a coded guide in choosing the one.

Good afternoon!

nedekid:
Oga, if you have a girlfriend in present day Nigeria you have not married, there is 90% likelihood she has someone else fucking her as backup or suger daddy.
2003 I was doing business with one man in ikeja. He had a huge bongalow as his office and house. As in 1 room there was office, the other living quarters.
I was with him in the office when this beauty brought her fiance to introduce to her "uncle" for marriage. After he spoke to them advicing them to be tolerant in marriage bla bla bla. He told the guy to excuse us while he adviced the lady. Happy boy go parlor as uncle don promise to join finance the wedding.
Omo as boy commot, not minding say I de there na so this lady come my guy side, commot him gbola start to give am bj! Omo I get up excuse myself.
When him bank manager or account officer (both married women) come nko, that one na steady nacking.
Bottomline, don't wound yourself ontop woman, abi don't you know most married women "do" too? The cheater na the one them catch.

Lol...you have seen things...


Them no fit deceive you...I have this man as friend..Call any big man in my state, this my friend I call chief will dial his contact in your presence..His paroles made me realize a lot..Witnessed a lot..

Fear women, especially those that grew up in dysfunctional homes, poor moral upbringing, poverty and entitled mentality ladies...

If you like put 50 rings on her finger, just pray she is intelligent, satisfied with what she has so far,has the fear of God in her, respect for herself, the man in her life etc...Because so long as she is good looking, men richer than you, more handsome, influential than you will hit on her.

But the above qualities in her will help her avoid temptation...My parents told me this when I was growing, now I am a man, wetin I don see, experience the shake me...But the bible will say in the book of proverbs, follow your father's Instruction and keep the laws of your mother.

I remember going to see a senior man when I needed his attestation to a form, I met him outside his corridor fingering his semi-naked babe, I excused myself...He said don't worry stay let me sign it...The babe no worry her self join...

A man who respects such lady will atleast tidy her in privacy..Not comfortably in The presence of another human..

Nothing wey this money no go cause.

MrbasHH:
Hmmmm Brother man I think you should allow her to enjoy herself. Are you ready to wife her now ? You enter road from ogun to Lagos for that early morn morn; If to say you don die for road now wetin you go tell Baba God ehen? Zero your mind because all these girls you are seeing around 98% dey do runs. If you like kill yourself Ontop smelly pu**sy na you sabi.


You even dey cry self. See your big eyes.

Alaye fu*k the girl anyhow make you enjoy yourself to stupor no girl dey loyal for this generation. Who still dey love for this period self. Love ko! Love ni!


Be happy


Alaye smile


Thank God say you never marry am before you know say na olosho be your wife

That ugly man fit be your babe client for bank; you know all this thing with target target target


Oko olosho stop crying sir. Man shall not live by Pussy alone.

You are really bash..

The guy seems jobless..to have time to go track a woman that early mor mor from Ogun of all places..

As men we usually see these red flags and signals, but remain adamant till it becomes obvious..

Ezemarcel:
But on a serious note why will a female student go to lecture hall without bra..,

Is she trying to learn or practice olosho I’m the class?

I am really really confused..as some ladies have normalised no bra dressing...Nipples be staring at us like cinema