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She failed her Instincts...

Underestimated her smartness...

Even failed to listen to her friend who requested she alight following her instinct...Sad she paid with heavily for that.

I doubt if she is alive.

God used her to expose the atrocities committed by these particular clique.

Mariangeles:
There are some parts of Africa that eat cassava leaves, and there are some that eat roasted cassavas.
I even just found out that potato leaves are edible too.

@bolded, it could be nutritious o.
No matter what we know and are used to, there are still some new things to learn, even about what we already have, okwaya?

There is an edible cassava with little or no cyanide...Eaten way back in the rural areas..They eat It like yam..Roast and eat with palm oil with utazi and fresh pepper...

My dad gisted me 10years ago..so i was curious and ask them to go get it lets rekindle whatever is associated with it..They did..Went into Orlu town and got the stem...They have it plenty now..The tuber has a pink coating...I believe that's the cassava you are talking about...Northerners chew it raw with kernel.

As for the leaves, yes some said it is...

For nke potato, My benue neighbours do...

Yes..A lot of new things to learn...Life is the only stable teacher,We learn as we live.

pocohantas:
As at when she put it out, I doubt she knew they would reconnect again. Na why e good make people dey calm down before casting their EXes or partners. You know some genuinely want to reconnect with their EXes, but because of what they have used their mouth to say to others about that EX, pride and shame no go gree them settle.

Congrats to your uncle and his ex. I believe the way they broke-up and how the relationship was plays a huge role in the return match.

Things of the heart are Dicy..

I believe the hubby will understand considering someone in pain and putting it out on SM. Which is common with our generation nowadays.

When it comes to break up, Ladies move on faster than guys...As long as she is good looking, another guy man is in waiting..
Men take time to, but when they do, it over...Except if it was destiny..

In issues like that, I leave it to destiny...
Another thing is, Cases that make people break up, sometimes are not worth it just unnecessary stubborn and insatiable wants.


Yes It did, probably his first babe...Before he moved to the one that died while having his first child...Imagine the day we went for trad, her people were singing the owner has taken her possession.

It was destiny that kept them together now...She is my favourite aunt as well..We gist about everything.
Though grandma cherished his first..

Arysexy:
When you get there u will be tested. Don't hop into the car and start driving when given d key.

Open d bonnet and check d fluids, oil, radiator fluid, gear oil confirm they all gauged before starting the vehicle. While engine is steaming check d wipers and allow engine to steam a while before driving

You will fail the test if you hop in and start driving

I hope you have a driving license

Also check d Tyres. It shows you are an observant driver

Drizzyjery this what you need to know...in addition to few..I hope you know how to drive a manual car as well...

Mariangeles:
If it is, then it seems like one that is yet to mature, ‘cause there are hardly any seeds in it.

Who knew it could be eaten some other way?
We learn new things everyday.

Exactly...if it is, it must be one that is still young and not even mature sef.

Ihe ana eri eri ka nku... Chukwu zowa afo anyi

But I won't try this.

Again, it could be a specie of it.

Who knows..

Mariangeles:
Ihe owula I huru ka I ga cho I ri.
Is breadfruit not ukwa?

Mu.nzy14, is this ukwa?

Looks like when it is still fresh from the fall or harvested.

But, normally we leave it to stay for long, to ripe and becomes very soft...So you can preess the flesh to bring out the seed which is the only edible thing in that whole fruit.

So, looking at it from outside, it could be ukwa

pocohantas:
And every right thinking woman knows this too. What I don’t understand is why a right thinking man doesn’t know there is also a deeper reason the woman showed up. Also when a woman fcks an ex, she doesn’t count it as an increase in body count, unlike when it is a new guy. So she can just hold on to him for that as it doesn’t change much, while seeking out a final partner or even in an active relationship.

There is nothing wrong with marrying EXes. Hers is getting this outrage because she came on a whole social media to cry and narrate a painful heartbreak. She dated someone else and they broke up for some sensible reasons. Next thing she is getting married and people were like, no be this girl part with her guy 6months ago? Boom! It turns out that the person she is marrying was the initial EX. Which is fine too. When men are ready and with limited time, they look inwards to their old circle and pick the goodest girl there.

Agreed...Ex knows themselves more than the new person coming in..

For me, I know an ex showing up after a long while, is deeper...I will be at alert more.
Even eating a meal she cook,is risky...Because I see revenge if na me dump her.
As to the body count issue, you are correct, Ladies feel relaxed if person wey dey chop her before is still in the picture than a new guy..


As for the lady, If she was courageous enough to put it on SM, she is prepared for the negative comments...

Many men married their ex...My favourite uncle did as well when his wife died while giving birth...He returned to his ex and they are cute like that going to 15yrs now.

reddingtonblack:
Quick correction, speaking of "sex starved" married women are not the victims, let not forget women use sex as weapon to manipulate men when need arise, any small fight wives lock up there legs some even extend it to the kitchen, wives believe not giving too much of sex is how to keep a man on leash @least make him beg for it in the course of maintaining statue quo body no be firewood triggers, the only way she eat her cake & still have it is to fvck an EX. that way she feels less guilt and oga is still on leash that gender ehn

Men love sex...

Women love cash..

If you play games with your cash/provision, she is going to tell you I am tired...I am not in the mood.

Truth is, what makes her happy, don't game with it..especially when it is there...Otherwise she will game with hers.

Mariangeles:
Yeah. The easiest money is the one made from doing what one loves.



Lagos not only depend on Ogun state for food supply o. States from all over the country bring most of their produce down to Lagos na.

They have the goods, and Lagos is where the money is, so they have no choice but to bring their goods down here.

Remember what happened to the northern farmers when they were doing shakara and hoarding their tomatoes and other goods? Yeah. They suffered major loss!

Truth..Lagos has the Market
Population and cash.


Hapu ndi ara ahu....You can hoard everything but not perishable goods.
Even if there is glut, you slash price and sell clearance to retain at least 70% of capital.

pocohantas:
So you also have never slept with a MARRIED EX ALL THE TIME? Some day we would find these men that sleep with their married EXes. I need to take a headcount of these men and upload on NBS website.

I have not...The closer I got was kiss...

How many will you find?

Let us know when you find them.

pocohantas:
Stop deceiving yourselves. There is nothing like Okafor’s Law, just two people that decided to refuck because most times it is easier to lay with someone you already have a connection with than seeking out a new partner whose intentions and ways you might not be sure of.

The refuck could go your way, it can also go the other way (i.e) you could get burnt or poisoned. This has happened to many men especially because y’all always think it is about your stroke game and jump out like willing bushmeat.

Every right thinking man knows it is easier to fvck and ex than a new lady..Because you know where and where to touch her and evevrywhere go rain..

But then, this right thinking man should also know it is not worth it especially when he has a new babe in his heart..Allow the ex to be ex...He/she is ex for a reason that didn't work out...

But, if destiny is to happen, so be it...Some people still married their ex today.

pocohantas:
How many of your married EXes have you slept with?

Why will I sleep with an ex to show I don't hate her? Not to talk of a married one

I had an ex that came visiting some years back even while I was with a new babe..

It took grace of God and Period to stop sex that time...And it would have been something I will live to regret...Cheating isn't my thing...

If ex happens it is in the past..It doesnt mean if she call to request for assistant and I can, I won't deny her as long it is not sex or romance.

pocohantas:
It is how you carefully failed to comprehend that 8 out of 10 times, men are not saddled with nursing their sick wives!! Even if parents are sick, it is the woman at the hospital most times. If a married man brings his old and sick parents to his matrimonial home, it is with plans that his wife would take care of them.

This is not subject to semantics, it is what it is! Don’t twist around it with long talk of people you know. The stats are out there.

Smh...Who collated the data to project hypothesis in the name of statistics?

Nke a wuzi akuko Dee mike..You I know will never agree Men do sha.

pocohantas:
Hopefully I find at least 1000 Nigerian men that can boldly say they fcûked their MARRIED Exes.

Same Nigerians that so hate their EXes and wish them extreme evil. I wonder when you guys find the time to fck yourselves while married.

who made you believe Nigerians hate their exes like that? It is some not all.

Married people doing rubbish outside matrimonial homes, run the paroles most times with Exes..The truth is most married women are sex starved..Especially when they must have given birth to number of kids agreed. Ones they fail to settle issues, or use sex as a tool against the man...Likely he is going to abstain, and a woman in her cloud9 will find alternative...which is intimacy gadget or her Ex...If the ex is single, matter don finish be that.

Some still want intimacy with a younger, more handsome guys than there hubby...This is why married younger ladies who are my friend, I set boundaries...Ones things don dey cross elbow, I am off...Further pushing, I will cut off...

A man messing up with a married woman has everything to lose...Physically, spiritually and otherwise..Unfortunately many guys don't care.

Not all Nigerians hate their Exes...Some ladies, we cut off, to avoid Married woman getting dicked.

It is not hate, being sensitive to block future mess.

pocohantas:
It is not for ladies who married ancestors. Men are most times older and due to lifestyle, they most times have illnesses that require special diet. If a woman is sick, she is sent to her family or kids. If a man is sick, his wife cares for him. It has nothing to do with ancestor really.

Instead of asking why a lady should try same,
Ask why you should dish out what you can’t take. Wickedness, superiority complex or hypocrisy?



It is really that simple babe.

It is how you carefully avoided the fact that some women equally pass through ailments as they age, with their men standing solidly behind them...Even with the resources...smh
I know married men passing through this...But you are making it seem like it is one sided.

For your information, some men cherish their women, just as some women do.

Not all women will be there for their husband..I know some who abandoned their hubby when he is in incapacitated...Even one live in my neighbourhood...She left the man in the care of her DIL...Thereby frustrating the young lady Now the man is dead and they are at logger heads..Because the young lady saw it as punishment.

When two people with understanding meet and marry, they will always be there for themselves in good and bad...At least some of us have aging parents who are still together and being there for themselves...

Some situations will always give one gender upper hand whether the male or female.

pocohantas:
I think it was more about the way she cried when he broke up with her. They (online in-laws) said she said he fell in love with someone else and was no longer feeling her. So I understand their outrage. We all want to be first choices and even universities didn’t give priority to people who picked them as second choices way back.

If there is anything to be learnt here, it is to keep certain relationship details off the internet. People would comment based on their own values and rightly so. Many of us would be slighted if our partner takes to the streets and returns to us when he/she sees there is nothing out there. Men would not take it, though they do it all the time in marriage sef only to return when they are dilapidated Nigerian used humans to turn their virtuous wives into a retirement nurse for cooking oilless vegetable soup and snapping family potraits.

Try same with them and that is when they would come to Nairaland to tell us their ex is still single at 39.5yrs and they are now happily married to a more beautiful woman.

I don’t know the married women that sleep with their EXes all the time. Have you slept with any married woman? I reckon you have many married EXes. Chochocho…

You and this your cooking no oil vegetable soup sef...

Thats for ladies who married ancestors with underlying ailments.. shebi them force such ladies to marry their grandpa?

By the way, while should a lady try the same? Genders are wired differently.

A man is a man, a woman is a woman...
There are privileges a woman will enjoy, and a man will not and vice versa..

In justice arise when you treat equals unequally...Or you treat unequals equally.

Tallesty1:
That's normal thing, especially for men.

They eat around until it's time to settle down then they will head back to the best cook.

I was surprised to see women attack her on the internet. Married woman sleep with their EXs all the time but the one that legit married her own is a problem.

I don't understand this gender walahi. A gender that cannot marry a man that is living with his mother but has no problem sleeping with the one that's living with his wife.

Lol..

I said something weeks ago..

When a man moves forward and couldn't find what he wanted, tendency of looking inwards to check what they had before is certain.

A man senses is usually X2 active when it comes to picking the one for settling down..

This is where you see a man bodly ignore that slay queen his been fvcking for a just ok lady with decent character and has a lot to offer than just sex and baby awwnnnnnn..

ecomalchemist:
Great analysis, Teddy A was the right man that she needed to put her in check at that time.

Women don't really know what they want if you ask me.

Rightly said...Teddy was the right guy for her..I followed the show, and he was constantly putting her in check...

The bolded is the reason they date who they think they love, but marry who is available and ready..

DontBullshitMe:
Alpha male and the church girl.

As in eeh...She proved to me women aren't sure of what they need till it time..

She was saying TeddyA isn't her type of man as church girl and tatoo guy...

Before the show could go 3weeks into, she don love up...Na good lady spotted by a bad guy

For her to make him cry when she left was the confirmation of Teddy's love for her..They started well.

Congrats to them.

gasparpisciotta:
Nassarawa state should be carved out of Nigeria and donated to Kenya

seconded.

Same state, a lady had two kids for her biological brother...And got jealous when he wanted to bring in another woman.

Mariangeles:
'ke owula soro gi nnoo.

You seem passionate about what you do, and that is most important.
Passion is a major motivating factor. Even more than just money.


Yeah. Lagos rely on other states for food supply.



Very.

Okwa nke o wula soro m

Yea, very passionate....If you do what you are doing well, the money must come..Issa must.

True true passion motivates...It is when you monetize the passion, you will achieve happiness without stressing it.


Soon E go backfire o...If Ogun decide to tax heavily on those movement, ike ga agwu Lagos people o..

Uyi168:
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a 600l pharmacy course rep.
shes popular.

I see...A time to live and a time to die.

Mariangeles:
Mbakwa o!


You do know how to think ahead.

As at the time you predicted it, I still bought 3 eggs for about #120, now see...



I ka n'ekwu? Biko kwa!
Onye amuma.



You sell quite cheap.
The eggs we buy in Lagos, come majorly from Ogun state I think.



May God help us.

Isi mbakwa ka o wu mbakwe

Business eme la brain na enwu ka oku abanyere petrol.. If not opportunities will keep passing.


Very cheap...Thats the affordability.
Yes Ogun feeds Lagos...I have associates who have farms in Ogun...like OPE farms, forthworth farms even depearlfarms..you can check them on Insta...

Ala lagos di onu...you can't spend millions to buy land just to farm..

Plus human expansion is high there.

Mariangeles:
A si'm ka'm nyetu unu ohere nga.

O na a ga ofuma. The weather here is pleasantly humid.

Ehen! I ma si otu akwa a wuziela #80?
O foro ntakiri ya wuo #100 otu I shiri kwuo na mgbe gara-aga.

O kwa esoro la m na unu... Ngwanu na.

We've been having a mix of it since last week...

Hahahaha..Every smart business person is like a politician, they calculate and do projessions for the future occurrences to a greater percentage.

Before the second quarter of the year goes half, it may get to or exceed 100naira per egg.

With the current War between Russia and Ukraine, things are about to go higher with speed of light..
With 80naira per one, that means wholesalers sell at 1800 -2100 per crate.

Then, retailers sell 2200 and above for a crate.

I sell 1500...It was yesterday I instructed the guy in charge to step up to 1600...Before we spend all weekly profit on fuel

My motto in business is Available and Affordable Some humans are still insatiable. BUT, I don't let them destabilize my principles.

A time will come when, you will have to keep your money in foreign currency.. The moment they fail to bringing a young and intelligent technocrat to fix the Buhari mess, I will give up and convert things to assets and foreign currency..The country is on autopilot

AoifeNightfall:
There's nothing tricky there. You're just avoiding responsibilities.

Responsibilities ke...Me that has made up my mind I will adopt, even after having number of kids I will love to have in agreement with God and my wife.

All it will take is for my wife to say yes and I seal it.. A baby girl.

It is one, among many way I want to make Impact to humanity...So responsibility is no excuse.

And no seriously focused guy will do the single mom stuff unless he too is a single Dad.

Mariangeles:
O nwehu o.
O ruru e ru, mana o wuhu pitch black darkness all through.

I gbara oso ebe a yesterday okwaya?

Gini chuga gi

Oku nor kwa ebe a at least 21hrs a day.

Fuel wu nke wu zi 250 Rubbish country.

Sunday gi o na aga kwa ofuma?

AoifeNightfall:
You're right.

Men who don't want to raise other people's kids are stingy and wicked

Stories...

A man will prefer to adopt kids with his wife whether they have thier biological own or not than marry a single mom. with her own baggages..

AoifeNightfall:
Actually this question is for redpillers. They don't like single mothers because... I don't even know why.

They come with someone's problems already..Unless you are a single father, two can play better.

If not, it is tricky.

Bornbiafra:
Omo this fine girl wants to send me to jail..

Around 10am today rose visited my house from her hostel with a short skirt..and a revealing top.
Immediately she came in I rushed her with a hot kiss and she reciprocated,one thing led to another we started knacking..

It’s all fun and she was screaming so loud that I had to turn on my speakers

After about 30mins of constant knacking she was not moaning again and just remained stiff

Omo I stopped immediately..
Started calling her name rose rose rose and she was not responding

I heard to call my lodge mate to come and help me out..we poured her water and yet no movement

Omo I started sweating and praying

She was like that for like 45mins ..

I now remembered I have olive oil ….I mixed it with water and poured everything on her
Next thing she woke up and started crying

Guys I will never have sex again oo

Thank goodness I escaped this ,,,,who would have believed my stories…

As I’m writting this message she is stil at home with my guy while I went out to buy food

Guys be careful oo

anyway I reserve my comment for monday.

Uyi168:
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wasn't a stray bullet.
robbery, yes, resisted, I'm not sure.

This her death is somehow...more like some things are hidden...Saw it on a friend's status she is pharmacy student and student politician in Uniben..She had been crying since yesterday.

Seems the susan na popular girl.

NwaAmaikpe:




Do not shortchange yourself with this premarital sex nonsense.

Conji kills.
Have sex responsibly or just masturbate.

Excessive semen retention can make your scrotal sac so heavy and once the spring suspending the sac snaps because it's hydraulic release has not been serviced by frequent ejaculation....all hell will be let loose, sperm will flow into your artery and mix with oxygenated blood and get circulated round your body.

Sometimes the sperm gets to your lungs and even your ears, nostrils, your brain or it becomes the pus in the acne, boils and pimples on your skin.

Well, this is what my mom told me, that's why till this day, I always lick my catarrh just to taste it and be sure that it is not sperm coming out of my nostrils.

Foul mouth...

Mariangeles:
Happy Sunday.

Lol...wetin happen yesterday?

Energy crisis a nor ebe n'ile orutere your side yesterday?

Wishing you same