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Mariangeles:
I hope they find a way to resolve their issues sha…before things get way out of hand.
The woman also should tone down her stubbornness and be reasonable, ‘cause everyone can’t be wrong and only her right.

It is a simple case..She should start a small business..Let the man sacrifice some cash for that.

Maybe her returns can bring just food...So the hubby can tackle lesser bills, save more and relocate them sooner or later..

A man does well when he leaves a happy home and return to a happy home after the day's struggle...It equally comes with special grace.

One grace can cover up 20years of steady hustle.

usagee36:
His lucky she didn't accuse him of rape.

There is no difference between this and rape allegations now...Three months suspension is depressing.

Looking at the useless case pushed forward by a strange woman..

You guys out there should becareful o...A woman can destroy your years of struggle in one hour..

khalids:
You know the funny aspect...it is men who caused this problem.....we are the ones who have enabled the maltreatment of our fellow men...And it is usually the SIMPS amongst us....

Some men are lesser male than others..

cocolacec:
Why would a sane man hug and blow kiss to a strange woman who is neither his girlfriend or wife? Only perverted men who have no respect for women do that? If the woman didnot stop him,he will touch her on the buttocks one day.
Sexual harrasment is a norm in Nigeria and doesnt mean every country tolerates such nonsense.

Will you say this if it was the other way round?

The question is rhetorical which automatically stamped a hypocrisy tag on you..

Heavens know you won't said this if a woman did that to a man...

Reading through, a male handle said something about a white lady crossing her hands on his neck..I mean a total stranger o..

Well I won't blame you, I blame the sisi man that think he is cool with a strange woman...Even the scriptures warned men to beware of strange women..They come to destroy..

Anyman who controls and draw boundaries when it comes to women will live longer and happier.

Loewe:
Nowadays most laws, especially in Western countries are traps for men. It's just so unfair!

If it was a woman who hugged a male colleague and blew him kisses, nobody would have reported anything or seen it as a big deal.

Men be careful, the devil is using women to destroy men's lives these days.

I can't can...

A time will come when men in these countries will avoid women totally..

And if they have laws to protect the LGBT community, Then, gay marriage will be on the high side.

Just A hug and kiss o, he will be absent for a whole three months...This is purely frustration...And it happened because he was reported by same person...smh

Antoeni:
PDP Will never change,,He is consulting 2 criminals / Ex Convicts , Gani Adams and Bode George

If they are criminals, they are still in nursery stage compared to Tinubu that has gone tertiary...

Landlord of lagos....Government of my family and friends...

seunmsg:
Anyim was the SSG that signed the pipeline protection contract between OPC and FG during the Jonathan era. It’s payback time now. Unfortunately, Adams, Adebanjo and Bode George are irrelevant when it comes to getting votes in South west. They are only useful as noisemakers.

You play useless politics of bitterness without conscience...So Anyim was the president that gave orders for the signature right?

The SGF is an appointee loyal to who appointed him/her.

He/she takes orders from his/her Principal.

All this semi- educated APC urchins self..

Anyways, a good name is better than all the lagos money in a drug addict's pocket...

Anyim is way better and clean compared to Tinubu...you gerrit..

Mariangeles:
K’ahu gbasara ha.
You can never please everyone, so it is best to always be yourself, and do what you feel is right.



E nwere ike gi hu nga ha bi, I gahu a tacha ya uta.
Ihe I shi ike wu ihe ojoo. Especially from grace to grass.

Of course, you shouldn't even try to please everyone.

Iwe m wu, the woman refused to do anything...I mean I thought a wife is a helpmate?
She stopped the kids from going to school, she too doesn't want to work..mstchwww..Some men tolerate rubbish in the name of having a companion...I just can't deal.

The man is to be blamed, for enbaling her excesses till ya ru this extreme boldness/daring...

Even a good working class mom wouldn't dare her husband like this...She will simply economize resources, save up and add up to what the man brought and relocate.

Anyway for men wey want marry house wife...Not me... Things like this should be a lesson.

Even Regina and Ned some lazy ladies make reference to, Regina is making her own money and is also, an asset to Ned...Regina's fame spread to Ned and Increased his popularity...

A woman coming into a home, should be an asset to the man that found her..That is the favour you always hear.."A man who found a wife, found a good thing and obtained favour from the lord.

Make we no meet liabilities tha will frustrate us to early grave..

Mariangeles:
She can be homeschooling them till she’s ready to let go.

To tell you the truth, homeschooling is better than some “schools”
Your kids will come out worse off.
They will pick up languages and behaviors that you don’t recognize within a week.
A ma’m ihe m kwe e kwu.

How are they going to socialise and interact with others if they learn in Isolation?

My neighbour doesn't allow their kids interact or step out...ga hu umu ya, ha na eme ka Ndi eriri eri...Until the first son enter uni...Just one year...he has changed a lot..And automatically he scattered that Isolation stuff.

Now their friends do visit their home...

Kids are sensitive..They will question some actions when they grow.

Mariangeles:
Not really.
Just giving the benefit of the doubt.

Smh...I told you this last year...Small small i ga ahu a ma mgbe ji wuzie full time warrior ndi gender stuff. Ndi ogwu red na ha enye la gi close marking

In this case the woman is plain foolish and wicked.....I have a total dislike for lazy people..Their mouth na needle, they are usually selfish, entitled and codedly wicked..Nwunye my uncle di like that...nwaanyi ga eburu uzo rie nri tupu umu ya e rie...Growing up we eat well before mma mu enwee obi i ri nke ya...Na now we don grow, she dey look sharp and younger...Then it was sacrifice to support her husband to train us...And it paid off...

I stopped somewhere to greet a friend one day, I was with momsy, my friend told her mummy go for back this front seat na for my wife
Mma m asi ya, eeh mgbe o biara nu mu agafe na azu.


If she really want to leave that environment, let her hustle and support this man..If that man die under pressure, she will understand how painful the world is...Even urgent 2k, other guys will want her back for bed..

Mariangeles:
She might come around when she gets used to the environment and neighborhood.
I understand her fears, especially putting into consideration where they might’ve lived before there.

Ikorodu is a very remote part of Lagos and can be very dangerous, and I’ve heard of people who moved to that place because of cheap accommodation, and moved back out almost immediately.
They just need to understand her fears.

Now the man isn't that buoyant to relocate his family, what do you think is the best solution to this case?

Princeadebayo11:
I am very sure these one are not couple, it's either the relationship is long distance relationship and the girl just arrived or the boy just arrived. So they must be heading home from the motor park

You are talking from experience...

Sonnobax15:

Trust me, immediately dem alight that okada,na for their dormot dem go take run am via lashing...

Las las, konji na mugu abeg

Today be like adventure day..

Tapout:
But why will people be having intimacy and not lock the door

Meanwhile, I no dey believe stories from Twitter sha...

Some sex happens unplanned..

Na unplanned the sweet pass..

If you want to remain crippled from progressing, marry a liability..It can come as wife/husband.

Mariangeles:
It could be that the part of Ikorodu where they’re living is not safe, and your brother’s wife is just being careful with the children.
I’ve heard that most part of Ikorodu isn’t safe for anything. Cult clashes from time to time.

Is it when the man is linked to robbery, she will get the memo?

She is having an external influence...Which is Indirectly mounting pressure on the man...With this protest, only God knows what that man is passing through now...Even sex that should have been a stress relieving therapy must be alien between them by now...

This protest don enter gear 3..smh

Let her relocate the family na...After all a kwa si what a man cab do, a woman does better...

Ihe nyiri ya wu relocation to Banana Island or nothing..

To comrade Charles Oputa...Nwa Oputa panel..

Mariangeles:
You will enroll okwaya?
A ga’m e nye gi discount as onye mmadu.




Style ndi mpa na mma…mgbe uwa wu uwa.
Ugbu a, unu e mebishiala uwa, mejisa ya oyi.
Umu ngwugwu oge!



Effective communication can only happen when there’s no pride.

E kwu otu k’e kwu abuo? Couples should be able to resolve simple matters by themselves.

Lol..a ga m anoro na akuku na anakoro gi ego ndi registeranu.

no be small style o...A gbanyuo oku, aruwa ala..We are in the modern age biko...To chop no suppose get schedule..It can happen anywhere in the house..O ya wu adventure..

True.

NGpatriot:
As a public official, David Umahi is the most accomplished and productive governor in the SE, he performed better Peter Obi, than Obiano and others.

Umahi has less baggage and his more sellable so why are the SE folks and the influencers in that region not actively supporting David Umahi?

Umahi is a big time azzlicker....His people see through his BS...They keep am for fridge, when it is time he will be set on the hot grills.

Kosoco:
He Don turn Celebrity

And ladies don they snap with him... smh

YinkaOlusesi:
What is makinde doing in that list?

You mind a a list compiled by a foolish APC agent..

Hope uzodimma should be number 1

Elrufai and his inability to manage security situation in kaduna.

Yahaya bello..smh

List long..

phemmyfour:
How can one have sex without sweating...kilode gan

Help me ask OP o...

Shebi na 10seconds quickie

CSTRR:
If you are above 40, try and minimise your missionary style.

Let your wife or girlfriend climb you most times and let her work for her orgasm.

Cool advise..

Sex is enjoyed when both parties are active...

Archtoch:
I have never come across a story of a married couple dying on top of each other during sex. Emphasis on married couple.
Let he who is wise receive the message.

The question is how many married couples are enjoying sex after dropping number of kids they agreed to...Madam will be coming to bedroom dressed like Vice President of CWO ..While singing any of chinyere udoma or Mercy chinwo's tracks .....

Even the little arousal will die off at the mention church stuffs...

In the end, the woman becomes sex starved...The man sorts himself anyways.

Mariangeles:
It shouldn’t have to be so.
What happened to learning from men who are successful husbands and fathers, and women who are successful wives and mothers?
I wonder if they still have godparents in marriages these days.
I’ve heard my father on several occasions talk about his and my mother’s marriage godparents.

The bolded is the surest way to learn these things...

Funny enough I was with my Dad and some of his church committee people yesterday, they were discussing how they were there for their wives in the early stage..I just the run my stuffs with ears open..

The older man amongst them, was gisting them how he specifically cooks the mmiri ogwu nwaanyi muru nwa ohuru for his wife even when his mom and MIL are there..And he said he did it for all their kids....

My Dad said his own wu to assist momsy wash some of her clothing during pregnancy and after delivery till she becomes strong after omugwo.

Forget, Our generation need to learn a lot from our parents who enjoyed and worked well to sustain there marital homes.

Mariangeles:
I’ve realized that not all men know how to be husbands.

Business idea, open school for how to be a husband and wife 101.. some people will subscribe o

It is not easy sha...Some couples live like they are cohabiting..I am sure sex for them might be a case of putting off the light..

There is no problem in relationship, that effective communication cannot solve...

I wonder what the clergy men teach intending couples in marriage course prior to the wedding proper..Issues like this should be dissected in away even a layman will understand perfectly.

BluntNigerian:
Most men out there are passing through this, and they cannot voice it out.

It is a case of speak up or forever hold it down to 6ft below..

Go and tell him to work on the communication gap between him and his wife...The gap is extremely wide that is why he doesnt know what his wife earns and probably doesn't know how much she contributes to the upkeep as well..

He should get her in her happy mood and then have a heart to heart talk with her...Discuss and plan well on finance and future plans...Goals and ambitions..Not just enter room bathe, chop, wake woman up by night and have sex couple...

They need to discuss finance since both earns...And in finance, how you spend it is the koko, not how much you earn.

With what I read here, the man no get retirement plans...And the earlier he bridges that communication gap, the better...If not the wife will deviate..Thats if she hasn't

Soon na roit act she will begin to read out..And if he objects, she will frustrate him... Under the usual statement " Di gbakwa oku"(husband my foot)

He should go and effect communication with his wife jaree...No be to they shift her draws and impregnate her...Couples must be 1 and on the same page..Two will work fine if they agree...

Reminds me of the late colonel Abu Ali....who was killed for being too serious to kill APC's boys (bokoharam) this government used those guys to destabilize government from yaradua's regime...

They succeeded...but they made monsters they can't handle now.

Iyaebe:
That shouldn't have come from him sha.I no dy visit man oooo,but I dy collect transport fare but won't ever show.lol

Continue...make you no go show for Yahoo plus guy one day..

So we don't get to see a thread like this on FP.
A nairalander escaped being used as sacrifice...

Kriss216:
Iyaebe na Olosho na. She will not see it as insult.

Lol...you and her...Tom and jerry..

If you are not ready to bring meaningful things to table in this 2022...Just return back to 1823.....And marry your self...Lazy people project the highest entitlement mentality.

Iyaebe:
His statement shows he's a masturbator.Imagine a whole CEO practicing such,if its Kriss216 we'll understand and try to preach to him against such.As I full ground remain like this na im he go dy indulge in such act,dem say some people get head but no cap while some get cap but no head.na wa ooo

Lmao...man never invite you for house enter toilet the self-service... you go fear if you are not appealing for him to go masturbate inside toilet.

Na serious insult o...for your man to masturbate when you full ground with appeal.