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Iyaebe:
You better adhere strictly to all he told you. Most people don't know the implications of sex before marriage,it's way beyond common knowledge.

Na so...Even car engines are tested before you proceed to payment.

Not checking compatibility has created room for extra marital stuffs.

betcliq:
Today one Elderly Man that's in late 80s came to my shop in the morning to patronize me . He was happy with me he bought a bottle of Hot drink and I offered a small bottle of dry Gin in appreciation and a New year gift.
He uttered some words of prayer for me , lastly he told me I'll be great in my business that I will grow in heights . He advised me to be very careful in choosing a girl to marry that I shouldn't pregnant a girl before going to see the parents and pay for bride price that I shouldn't even have sex with her , that a woman I marry will determine if I'll be more successful or encounter challenges in Life . I just dey reason the talk since morning.

This is spiritual I'm From Igbo and I strongly believe in Tradition this got to do with tradition think deep.

What do you guys think about it

This old man revealed a secret to success to you...

It is not even about the sex, It is the lady as whole with her spirituality.....My father will say, something positive will happen, and continue to happen the moment she step into your life...

Marry the right one, you will multiply in all dimensions...Do otherwise, you get reduced to a church rat..

These elders are filled with wisdom.

worriedhubby:
My daughter is autistic.
My wife is a graduate, and she was working till she went for her surgery last year.

I have engaged the service of a marriage counselor. She preferred meeting with the counselor alone. We only met 2 times as a couple. After that she stopped, telling her friend that the counseling session is a means to get words from her that I will use for divorce.

Whenever I engage someone, she will raise dust and accuse me of bringing in a 3rd party, especially if the person is trying to make her logical. Must times when she makes false accusations, she would mandate that the person shouldn't tell me.

Someone confided that my wife could be doing some diabolical stuffs against me, but since it is not working on me, she feels I am occultic. Her extended family, as I later discovered after marriage, is big on such activities.

Chai...
She is using reverse psychology on you.

She is hiding a deep secret from you...

How did you get into this mess?
Seems you didn't run a background check before marriage

She can't team up with her brother to sway you for nothing..Something is fishing somewhere..

Sometimes it is necessary..

Kriss216:

Munzy, ihe love na amasi gi too much

Reduce tu aka na love, biko

Na rope I use tie love...Like one Owerri bongo music will advise.

fredoooooo:
The girl is going to be one of the most luckiest girls alive .. financial wahala no dey again.
But I believe Ronaldo isn't stupidity to go into marriage without prenuptial agreement

All this money money protection, something he will leave the day he dies..

10 Georginas cannot finish what this guy made in 50years.

insidelife22:
well love is beautiful when you found that right one

Exactly...Aquarians are a good match for themselves...

Unpredictable people.

Kriss216:
When the sweetness of a man enters into a woman, foolishness is eminent.

Kris rest small na..

This is how love should be..she maintained professionals and career actions with him despite being deeply in love with him...To be honest she brought maturity to play..

Hapucha ihe foolishness a.

Ademola47:
That's for salary earners that earn 'salary' alone. But you see those civil servants in local government, ministries, tertiary institutions, their own rent is usually like 4-6 months salary.

How do you explain a police constable earning 48k monthly and paying 220k for 2-bedroom flat? Or the level 8 Civil servant earning 70k paying 300k for Room & parlour self contain I a rush area.

This purely a financial advise..But, in this case they family's net income could be way above the police man income individual...Maybe when you add that of his wife, his side hustles and family businesses...All together can take care of the rent as 30% of net income is concerned.

pretydiva:
52 and she look this young . Being petite have it's own advantage mehn . Happy birthday ma'am

Petite ladies no dey age at all...

Laggafin:
Just little Waka e don gas out de choke for air. Na like dis e wan come run naija God won't allow affliction arise a second time in ds country

Abeg o...

Iyaebe:
Not really shakara,modern men are not ready to act masculine.

Na so...Expatiate on this masculine stuff in your way.

Iyaebe:
Newton's law does not apply here,he should go learn how to respect people in general. He bullied me with his insults and I can decide to sue him as well.He should apologize to me for been an ungentle man

You are a big case.... ungentle man, gentle is next to boring though.

Iyaebe:
I've seen charming pastors and I wasn't carried away, I'm not easy thrilled either.My feelings do not come easily, so I full ground remain.

You are still doing shakara..

Iyaebe:
But he has no right to be rude to me,I hate men that are not gentle. Even if I was careless with my statement him been a man should behave and act gentlemanly but he decided to be uncouth,so I won't apologize because he was rude.

One of Newton's law said Action and reaction are equal and opposite...To Every action,there is equal reaction.

Iyaebe:
No human sef can hypnotize me into doing anything against my wiah.Nothing special about pastors

Never say never...One charming hot man of God can

If church things impress you that much.

You can be hypnotized using things that thrills you...It is not even a rocket science...

Iyaebe:
I won't apologize,what will you now do?

Rape is not word you throw any how o...Especially in this our generation..

Iyaebe:
I don't even like going too close to a pastor, they are just preaching and that's all.I can pray and make request directly from God.There's no barrier between God and anyone, you don't need any pastor to interceded for you.

Okay o...If you have this mindset, then it is good..

No pasitor will brainwash/hypnotize you...Into treating your man as thrash.

shalom4eva:
Hi guys, do you remember this thread I made in 2020 of how I met my wife in nairaland and how we later got married. Well for those who who haven't read about it you can check it here https://www.nairaland.com/6008754/met-2017-nairaland-july2020-got.

Well I am thanking God today because the marriage has been blessed with a wonderful baby boy whose 1st year birthday was on Sunday 16th and today happens to be my birthday too . On Friday will be my beautiful wife's birthday. Please guys help celebrate us oo

Wow...congrats..

Aquarian family..

Iyaebe:
lol, I'm a born again churchy person,don't be misled by my comments.

That's how they start...Before you know what is happening, your husband will become thrash, then you pastor will become the most important one.
Like the meme below..

Sekoni003:
Congratulations, op

Sapphire and Kriss 216, what are you guys waiting for??

for buhari to hand over to Tinubu.

Iyaebe:
Exactly I don't know why they loose their sense of reasoning on erection.Association of vein gathered together called penis have been the downfall of most men.The downfall that penis cannot cause does not exist.

You played bias in this one...You attack the cun man that called his god, and you forgot to apportion small to the woman with a fish brain who was brain washed by a 419er to leave the man who paid her dowry and join him with his two daughters..smh the mothers we have nowadays.

What my pastor said type of wives cannot do in a matrimonial home, does not exist.
Married woman wey allow pastor to the pound her And I am sure she knew he was chopping her daughters as well but won't speak up...Because it is holy chopping

A foolish woman is a downfall of a man who marries her.

Iyaebe you are one of the my pastor said kind of ladies...You and your daddy GO in CE.

Haakeem:
This world is nt my home i am just passing through.

Jim reeves ..

ewa20buredi100:
I mean the studying without being judgemental and cross checking behaviours with one's experiences

Thanks

This is simple na...Na the English the confuse you.

When you are with a lady, don't judge...But pay attention to her behavioural pattern, especially the non verbal communications..That is where most reveal their personality..

If na wetin babe talk for mouth, sometimes you go confuse.

pansophist:
Ah, she go chop from her house come nack na. I be bf, not her father. I don't do broke women. E shock you? Infact the 500 hundred for her transport no necessary sef, na just to fulfil righteousness.

Normally we fit forget the beer sef, enter street chop better bread and beans for 1k, then the other 1k na pocket money for me. But as a gentleman, you just gats drop somehow. But if you increase the allowance, we fit flex well. Oya ask for akamt number

You crack me up with your story..

Guys and babes matters...Na orgasm you want sha.

If you get rice your babe fit arrange stew for you...Una go flex for house..

Oya drop your details..

You can do it in a different thread.

Akinh:
Abeg a man can cheat on his wife and still love and protect her ..but once woman begin to cheat she can do anything .

Exactly...I noticed men who cheats, provide most care for their wives.

Well for me, cheating and stealing is deal breaker.

I won't even think twice.

Tmex:
Aunty stargirl, ideally i dont dabble into discussions as this but i want to advise you for the sake of your sanity choose one of these guys and free the others. There's almost no how you can play them safely without none of them knowing , this your idea is what kept many marriageable ladies single till forever thinking they are playing safe not knowing the guys have seen their game and only playing along. A word they say is enough for the wise.

Some Ladies don't know more about this.

Guys will see her game, and play along as long as she dey give...Until when the guy meet a decent lady and do the needful...

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

This statement though...smh

If this guy perform well, he will come up as the first Igbo man fully fit to rule Nigeria in this our time.

pansophist:
Two beer for me and my babe na like 1k. Condom no pass 500 naira, other 500 for her transport go house

Your babe dey take beer reach one bottle?

Na area o..

500 Condom, na one carton you want buy before? Aaah!!! Easy o..

So una no go chop?

Aidejay:
I just started my poultry business last week ooh!

make dem no come scatter person plans with their yeye diseases.

Them want put sand sand for your garri..

E no go work.

pansophist:
Why you no ask for my akant number directly? Even 2k gan sef, I go flex this weekend

Wetin you go use 2k flex for this country like this on a weekend?