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stano2:
She depended heavily on me.
A time came things were down a bit for me, and i also used this opportunity to test her.

She was expecting a sum of money from me, so during a phone call, i told her i would be sending a lesser amount for now. She flared up, saying rubbish on the phone.
I broke up with her immediately, feelings died instantly. This is someone that has never given me 1,000 naira gift. After some weeks she came begging, I no send am.

Mehnn, i have no business with broke and self centered ladies again.

Oops! You will always encounter her type in Nigeria.

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

I was having feeling for one girl lately but I am about to quit because it is not reciprocal, I can't just call you and you busy my call but didn't call back and expect me to call you again! No way,


I can't send you a msg and you read it but didn't reply and you expect me to be sending you love messages like Sec. Sch Student.


If I feel you and shown it but you said you are feeling me and can't show it, I will just take a walk..... No time for BS.

Did you approach her physically to woo her or you are doing the phone thing?

Solutiontipsb5:
Chai what a pity.

I feel for the lady/girl.

She is a victim of the circumstance...And funnily enough she would have been dating this guy or even married sef.. Na so another guy man soil show for her.

SmartPolician:
It happened during my NYSC days many years ago. I met a girl in our place of primary assignment and told my friend (who later became my corper roomie) about it. Surprisingly, he started threatening me, saying he saw her first.

I told him that I couldn't fight over a girl and asked him to have her to himself.
After series of attempts, the babe showed no interest in dating him because he's not her kind of guy.

When she asked me why I stopped getting close to her, I told her it was personal. Ever since, I cannot explain how I don't even feel anything for her and she is still single.

Matured way of handling things...

Last thing I will do in this life...drag woman with my fellow guy...No na..Beautiful one are not yet born..

Too many fishes in the ocean.

Dliquidmetal:
The feelings weren't reciprocal,so I gradually detached myself. I don't care how strong the feeling is, once I figure she doesn't feel the same way I move the Bleep on.

Exactly how it should be...

Michelle70:
She told me, "I see u as my younger brother"

Eweeeee!!!

Brother zone

Why won't they, when we promote what ever rubbish they throw at us and discard our originality..

Bigger nation will always milk small/lower ones..

Grasshopper wey no dey chop others, no grow bigger...

andysmith123:
where is the loss of weight now?

Try dey wear glasses make you dey see well well...She is forming into a very presentable package...

Moderation is key to almost everything in life.

Kriss216:
Same line they used to deceive the gullibles.

There exists a leader and a follower.

Nawa o...

Kriss216:
Mtcheeew

It's getting clearer now.
One of the reasons I don't take all these activists seriously. It's all for their personal ambition. No one cares about anybody in this country.

Reminds me of Sowore. After contesting and failed, he wants to come lead #EndSars protest.

You can't change the system from sideline...you must be part of it to make the needed change.

Twoclans:
In my crib

Are you coming ?

Where is your crib? Where in ABJ precisely...Abii you don enter canada

I never knew you are Aquarius.

Na why you sabi watsup.

Mstchwwwwww..You only see what your eyes want to see...

Our ladies won't learn.

Twoclans:
I have never heard of jack fruit . Maybe I am just a village girl.

I kuku tell OP what I think it looks like

Today is your day...Where you go host the party?

1Sharon:
What does it taste like for those who have tasted it?

A combo of banana and pineapple flavour...

The fleshy yellow part is the most edible, as well as the seed..

Twoclans:
It's either a sycamore or breadfruit (Ukwa In igbo language).

You follow for people that call this sycamore kwa?

It's Jack fruit...Probably the largest fruit species on earth.

Nigerians are not used to the fruit..And it is highly prolific.

Happy birthday! Wishing you your heart desires...

Beremx:
Sacrificing your organ for someone who’s not your husband.

She’s a SIMPESS

QED....

Some sacrifice are meant for married people with exception of ones family member.

Kriss216:
But, you dey donate your sperm give daughters of Eve

That kiss is cute!

dominzy:
See The Pictures Of A Simple Wedding That Got Everyone Talking.

Only if our Nigerian parents will allow us do simple and peaceful weddings like this.

This wedding happened like this because the couple agreed to make it so...

If your mom talk about her women group, give her money to host them and collect het right...Na mothers dey kick for fanfare.

My very good friend had a similar wedding last year...A very private babe..Nobody in our group knew except me...I commend her for that maturity.

osuofia2:

Everything must enter social media, we don't need to know about this

Honestly I don't see the need for that to be on SM...Except for reference purposes...

This Social media sha.

PrinceOfLagos:
I hope they won't kill themselves when it's time to share inheritance

Such happens in south...

North is used to polygamy..

Stenewiser:
dis one na senior SIMP, SIMP where no get bank account. want to impress a girl, GOD pls Don't let me come across a simpson, cus they are so weak, Amen.

It depends on the said lady...

My relative that married a Canada based doctor, was the one coordinating the commercial houses the guy was building prior to them meeting...In fact they were yet to meet physically, but the trust was on another level..My relative completed the projects, and kept his balance till he returned..Paid her dowry, did the necessary stuffs..Married her, processed her paper and changed her location..

There good ones regardless..

For this man, if na me she never go free o..My hard money is Importanter..Either she pay it back or with her life...You can't wake the demon in any human and be doing Bamba.

Kaleidoscopeman:
We are getting married in 4 months. I don't check her phone except for hotspot or she is showing me something. Just one message popped and I was supposed to click something else but the message.
What's your candid opinion on the screenshot?

This evident is as weak as Nigeria's currency...

But, this has further opened up your suspicion...Since you working on a life time stuff, in months time, Do a thorough check...

Assemble your evidence to make sense...And disengage.

People don't get it clearly, if he is for you, other ladies are like men to him..

If she is for you, she will treat others in the language they will understand..It is clean and clear..

It's like being on a date with your partner, and flirting right there..Forget woke stuff...It is all clear.

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OLAADEGBU:
Why didn't they lock the door?

Even in reality, I advise parents to always lock door..But the truth is some actions are impromptu in some cases...Before you say Jack! Una don off cloth...Na tatatataa...Voom!!! Someone walks in...problems.

Sonnobax15:

Oyinbo children too mumu abeg....Try this here in africa and see whether full family and community no go gather because of you......small matter wey happen for my maternal village whereby a boy slapped his dad,na so family fine the boy goat,the ingredients to take cook am,10k,crate of beer and soft drinks.... Mennnnnnnn,na once I weak

Africans we too dey react sha..

Like the caption goes, it's a surprise...Everything join....No big deal.

Parents and night stuffs though..

Reminds me of a series I watched during teenage days.."Kyle xy"..The character josh will always catch his parents doing one or two, he will simply say go get a room..

Last born and talk talk things..

Bluntdude:
Hello guys, good day. Kindly help me make the right decision.

I am an artisan in Abuja who works under a reputable company as a freelancer. My job entails me moving around much everytime. I've done this for years now and to be honest it's really affecting me. The stress of trekking, getting into vehicles and alighting incessantly is really wearing me out. I'm thinking of saving 3k per day for about 2 years to get a car to help ease my movement because in the past and even now, I've lost some customers due to my inability to meet up with some appointments. Most times I get home really exhausted not necessarily because of much work but because of the stress involved in getting to customers' houses and returning again daily.

Now here's the challenge... I planned on getting a land and start building soon before the idea of getting a car came up due to much stress of moving about. I'd really love to own my own house. So please I'd be needing advice from you guys... House or car? Which should I start with first? Really important. Thanks.

Your budget is 2.2million...If you have land already, You can get a nice car since it a necessity now and not a luxury.

But if no land yet, acquire a land, then get a car...When the money start flowing, you start building.

Please don't buy car to Bamba o

In buying a car, get one that is good and flows with naija economy in regards to easy maintenance...

Good luck!

oluseyiforjesus:
Major general

PERE..

Reminds me if Filed Marshal WiKE during the lockdown Times..

Funny people.

Mercychen:
Yeah but truth is they are never ever gonna come back and we need to tell ourselves that truth so we can move on easily otherwise, we'll keep living in fools paradise.
We just have to move on, somehow.

Truth...A problem with people undergoing heartbreak is, when they have not accepted reality..

This is why I think every man should pass through that...It will shape the person and broadening of his views about life in general.

Number one rule is, close your mind from the person, heal and open up to get another love...And most importantly, look inwards in your journey during that time, and improve on some actions and inactions to become a better version of yourself first, then for the next lover you will meet.

I swear with the next lover, Gist about your ex will be like ones in a while bed time stories with your new lover...And you will laugh over it like say na comedy.

It is not easy, but nothing a determined mindset will not do.

investorcj:
Ya a foooooooool.after all the abortions done for your sake u want to run.remember karma is a bitch

The karma that would have fight for her now, left her the day she opened leg for another man...It is called bridge of contract..Ladies do this alot...

I mean is it a crime to keep a commitment? She would have planing her wedding now...because the guy said he is ready..But, the lust for Peter while committing to paul has caused her everything.

She messed up...I cannever trust a partner who I have evidence of cheating...Is good he avoids the problem from onset..

You cannot eat your cake, and have it..

Some ladies think they can...Especially those in distant relationship stuffs..If you can't, let everything go...No need playing with Peter while thinking you have secured paul...

A man will leave regardless...If you cheat, and he stays, he is buying time to escape.

Mercychen:
This one can kill o. .

Life goes on. Biko bushit the ex and get a life. Try to enjoy yourself and love yourself more.

Move on is easy if you are playing him or he is playing you...But if the love is genuine, it is never easy..The person will have a place in your heart even if you are no longer together for years.

Sonnobax15:

I don tell my guys to always be careful when dating a girl...If you feel like it's high time you broke up with her,you better do it in a more matured way... Because some women out there won't take it lightly with you . Some wey I know reach house no go even mind to travel go Ijebu ode just to squeeze you inside of 35cl coca cola bottle

Nawa o...

A whole man inside bottle.

Advise to guys, in all you do, make sure you aren't the cause for the break up..In that way, you will surely find peace.

Just be genuine, let her do her double stuffs and come up with silly excuse, you simply ghost.

And life continue.