₦airaland Forum

chatinent:
Abia is now a laughing stock where tired politicians pick interest, tap its corpse and make sure it's dead again.

The worst governed state in SE is Abia...IMO state is a case of 419ers holding it back...

But Abia smh....godfathers no want let Abia breathe at all.

Romanoff:
Mercy wants to settle down.

Big problem for the man that will settle for it...

A big attention seeker..

One who always need validation from public..

Problem unresolved...

She better remain single and cruise her life jeje..Than going into a union to frustrate somebody's son.

Danjikanbauchi:
oga the guy riskky has apologized what is the meaning of Edo people intolerant ?

The Oba is very stupid , I pray Italy will send back all those useless Edo girls prostituting all over European.

Okoto yarns...

By the way who told She is Oga @ the lady you quoted?

mastertek:
Nna dey craze, stupid' people

You people still think we still live in 17th century,

Who the hell is your oba?

I never like bobrisky, but don't even see what he did wrong that these morons from Edo are shouting he insult their Oba,

Watching the video, he was only catchy cruise and he doesn't even mean to disrespect your useless Oba,

That's why I hate anything traditional in this country, it's all about barbaric, oppression and so on.

If I have opportunity to be president of this country, I will abolished all these useless tradition & custom, all the Oba will be dethroned, they are just Pro-politician & no even single advantages to their position, rather than opression of innocent people.

No single good thing or development these useless traditional worshiper & useless custom followers, rather than oppressing the country community.

Can you imagine this one, talking of beheading someone just because he mentioned your one useless Oba.

Easy to talk anyhow online..You really don't understand the Benin people sha.

I had a chat with an edo friend last night regarding this issue, a well travelled and learned man at that, you really need to see how angry he was as regards to this same issue.

He even told me Ehi will pay seriously for being the one who brought stupid Bob to Benin first before appeasing the Insult.

OBA is a god in Benin land....

HacheNoire:
Same Ekerewemandu than IPOB wanted to lynch?

Man has a heart of gold.

If someone try that with me, I would have offered a prison warden 50 million Naira to help poison him.

So easy to say rubbish online..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Thanks for agreeing with me..

Smh...

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Is that not wannabe redpillers do on nairaland huh?
Bashing women all the time for nothing..

If he gave that money to a random gf, the insult will be on another level...maybe next level.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Wannabe redpillers ain't gonna like this...
Come and call him a simp na..the guy values and understand the importance of women ...

Somebody gave his wife who has given him an offspring his money, and your sense told you that he will get bashed.

If all married men will start behaving well, single babes will start acting normal.

MsFaith:
That's 570 million naira cash

Naira analyst..

Bluntguy:
It's better to give to wives and not to oloshos. Know this and know peace.

Abii na...

Kaiser20:
Congratulations Ma!
There is a special love , peace and understanding that flows in the family of believers,(not church goers).

No lies at all...Special love, respect and mutual agreements...

I like the last part, not church goers...

Mariangeles:
Okwa ya?








Yeah.

Ha na e nyekari ndi ebe 'ke ha nsopuru karikwa ndi ebe k'ozo.
But still...



Reminds me of my uncle's wife.




Gi e lefuru the red flags anya.
O wu that "carried away" m gwaga gi nu.




Watch how she changes when he starts to earn big.



O rikwahu mma otu ahu o.
It is better for a lady to start earning money before getting married.




Ndi mma ha chokwaranu I ma?
Right ha wu right ha. Akuko ndi ozo a gbasahu ha!



Nga I nyaga speed okwa ya? Werekwa wayo.
I fe a gaje olee?



Yeah. O foro m I de ule n'elu ya.

Exactly.

I overlooked the flags o... Till ya adi obvious..


Abii, very necessary o...No mata how huge and comfortable the husband is..Nwaanyi kwesiri inwe income nke aka ya..O ji amuba respect ya.

O wu hu kwa nke nwaanyi bia di ya nso with romantic moves obi amafuo nwoke...Unto onye ma kwa nke nwaanyi ga e demandi..

Ndi mma shiri ike o..lol

Ihe nke ahu, I just tire o...Nke a wu first temptation of the year....I thank God na mmadu di ndu.

Hahahahahahaha... ma bia kpoo result na.

Chike
Runtown
Ag

In that order...

Others are just there..

Mariangeles:
Mba anyi wu ni mba ndi okomoko!
O wu ihe mere ndi ozo ji a kpo ha asi.



In their culture, they are raised to know that once a daughter marries, her husband's family becomes her family. In other words, she puts her husband's family first.
For example, when a wife gives birth, it is her mother in-law's duty/right to go for omugwo, instead of her mother, thereby strengthening the ties/relationship.
So, they're not as possessive and territorial as an Igbo wife would be.
Even in their core culture, the wives don't call their husband's brothers by name.
They add brother to their names.
They also see their husband's uncles as baba oko mi which means my husband's fathers.
They're very humble and respectful too.



As in!
O wu ihe m ji a gwa gi si gi mehekwa anya ma na a lubata nwaanyi o. Onye a e jikota gi na umunne gi. O di mkpa.
Once you get it right, the rest are likely to get it right.
O wuhu onye ga a hu umunne di ya, ahu na a fugbu ya ka ose.




The worst thing about this kind of mother is that they'll always want you around for some sick reasons.
So that they can continue to control the person's life.
The best thing would be for him to leave, and start his own life somewhere else.

As in!

Hehehehe okomoko awuhu ihe ntakiri o...Eji kwanu a ga ebe ole...Nwanyi daara di ya na umunne ya, ya erite ihe oma di iche iche na aka ha..

Eziokwu ka ikwuru o..Then my friend wu last born..madu asaa tooro ya...Onye toro ya direct jiri 8yrs tor ya...Okpara nne ya aguchaala skul tupu amuo ya, mana gi ihu nga okpo ga ha by their name eeh Ihe na afu kwanu ndi nwunye ha.. especially nke yoruba wu nwunye third son.

Ya wuru otu a, culture ha mara nma o..
Very respectful yes...O nwere a woman shi ebe ahu wu kwa my friend and business associate...O tor ka shiri m ahu o, mana gi hu nga okpo ga m sir sir...Very humbe though crazy Eji m azu ya ahia sef.
O si m bia luru ofu Nwaanyi ebe ke ha..lmao...


I gwa gi eziokwu ihe ahu wu first thing m na lee na Nwaanyi ma m huta wa ya ka onye m choro i lu...How she will relate with my people matters..As the first, m nweta ya correctly, others will follow up...
Ihe wu ihe mere mma m ji dika owu nwunye first, even while my Dad is second..Even my grandma si o di ya ka mma mu owu nwunye opara ya...

Even mgbe anyi m di ntakiri, my uncles can't come around and go on empty stomach...Kama mma mu agawa emergency ahia immediately...

Nwunye opara ma nani onwe ya...Even di ya sef ochakwaranu acha n'ihu ya....Luck ha nwere wu mma m na nwunye last born enwehu nsogbu/greed and territorial stuffs associated with most selfish types like nwunye opara...Okwa ya wu na udo di na family..If not nsogbu...

Nwunye opara agahu school, I feel it affected her ways of reasoning....Nwunye opara kwesiri i di sound and intelligent...Maka o wu the second mummy general after otu a mma m di for the entire family....I pray I don't make that terrible mistake of getting it wrong.

M gwa gi ihe ndi red flags my last ex mechara eeh, ya wuru my friend ya si m ga were ofu ewu awusa ga tuo mma mma na church otu chukwu shiri ji aka ya gbasaa the relationship...


OP is passing through a phase...Almost all guys do pass through after NYSC...The difference wu na onwehu ezigbo nne ga eme ya encourage rather nke ya gbuga his spirit.

Most young ladies na adi kariri lucky, after or before nysc ofu nwoke gbaliga ofuma a bia luru ha...Lubaha na uwa oma ma ya wuru mma m ..

Mana anyi wu umu nwoke, o ji adi tough...Na when the struggle to succeed increases.
Until you start bringing something home, footing bills for parents even when they have their resources, ndi mma ga ele gi anya ka imere ha one or two

I wuru a good hustler with grace as a guy, you will be the pride of your parents...Ihe mee gi obi eme ha voom!.

Had a little accident few days ago, O foro ihe ntakiri obi ama fuo mpa m.

Ihe mere mgbe o jiri rie nri abali wuzi 11pm..Afor machiri ya..Ya emechaa bia juo okwa onwe ehu oke ihe mere m

Na text book I write like this...

Imagine AfCON starting on Sunday and the news is not making the air waves....Things have changed for 3real.

Way back it used to be a fanfare...

This life sef

First and second weeks of January any year, are usually somehow and a time of desperation for men and ladies who put their hands where e no reach just to make statement on social media.

Visit major eateries , try spend some days in a happening hotel now, you will understand where I am coming from.

Things like this will be rampant now we are in era of get rich quick, snap and show off on social media.

dre11:
The woman is more confused than Buhari


If he can do..... You complain
If he can't do.... You will still complain


Mtcheww

Some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food...

Our nursery school stuffs towards break time

Some that want to, Oga no dey waste time, some that are tired minutes after starting, Oga want to run them usain bolt..

Sergio101:


That shoe fit be holy shoe ohh .

Ụda egbe ndị nsọ.........ụda shoe ndị nsọ

Lmao...

Ųda shoe ndį nsó

Mariangeles:
Many mothers do it, but they always come around when you stand your ground.

One of my mum's friend, her son wanted to marry a Yoruba lady, ya si kama ya nwuo.
Ha e megide, the guy a luo onye o bu n'obi.
Now, the mother is enjoying her.
She says of all her daughters in-law, the Yoruba one makes her feel the most welcomed when she goes visiting.



Ajo nne apughi onwunwe!

You see...Ndi ebe anyi na di kariri somehow towards mba ndi ozo...

My friend, one of his elder brothers luru onye yoruba kwa...Mana o gwara na obi adighi his parents nma maka ya...But, that yoruba lady wu the best of their DILs...O like chara mmadu ibe ya eeh..

Even mgbe anyi no skul, mgbe ufodu enyi m nwoke ji aga na ulo nwanne ya ga noro...Buru kwa ugbo ala aha na a chughari umu nwa ma nwanne ya na nwunye ya gawa ala bekee for holidays.

And she won't complain ma ya lota o..

You know some ladies will pull that the roof in such case...especially umu nwaanyi Igbo anyi.

Ajo nwaanyi, ga ekewa ezi na ulo...Mebie otutu ihe maka iwe na selfish interest...veryy terrible

O wu mgbe OP gburu onwe ya ka mma ya ga ezuruike

Things are tough for ndi nwere bigger things doing, ya fodukwa onye ka na a manage onwe ya a manage..

She is even pressuring him to go and carry someone's daughter on top his struggling life...Okwa ka bia frustrate yia the babe..

Ogunleti01:
I have passed through this before! it was never a pleasant experience! despite d fact that my mum was earning considerably well as a level 15 officer with the state government yet am a wicked for not bringing returns from my #13000 salary and later Npower allowance. Now that she has retired and am gainfully employed she is now the one looking after the investment i made with my npower allowance(almost 4 acres of plantain farm with cocoa). There was a day the person i shared boundary with on my farm approached her and said "iya okunrin meje ati abo ni omo yin oo) What i observed from her action was that she listened too much to misleading advise from her fellow woman and she would want to act based on that

Women influence eachother a lot...

A good woman can turn bad, A bad one can improve...All a case of influence.

Most are Impatient, they want things to happen with speed of light...But forget life is a process...

Kudos to the ones who understands life from a different perspective...And thumbs up to calm, bolf and confident men out there...Especially some of our Dads..They passed through a lot without complaint.

Mariangeles:
Na wah o!

Ufodu ndi nne shikwara ike o!

Ike gwuru o...Nwaanyi i bu nwa ya onu maka choice...Anyway o wu onye na amahu way udodu ndi nne a.

Akuko kariri...Ajo nne wu ihe ojoor.

Jamest162:
Are u sure she's ur biological mother.
Coz every mum want wat's best 4 their children.

Let me join my mouth here to ask..


Though I learnt recently that some mothers are from hell... They make life miserable for the kid they bonded with right inside their womb..smh.

OP' s case is intensifying my curiosity...

But then how come, some things here, I don't even experience it...Maybe I and my siblings are one of those who have angels as mothers...

Mine just want the best for her children, And doesn't stress anyone.....

BrickDevo:
Oh still selling at #675 per kg, before it was selling at #300, so i see no changes

Serious change at all...

Vinnie2000:
I have a Feeling that this Reno Omokri is an Hypocrite!

This kind of men, if they mistakenly meet those Destiny Etiko or Daniella Okeke kind of Big Yanch, classy Chics, they would spend Money Like mumu!

Doing Sh*ts secretly but deceiving Pple online, just like Feminists!

I agree with you on him being a hypocrite...People who live their life on SM, portrays a lot of fakeness to appear all nice.

Then, to the classy whatever...For someone like him who has been in the corridors of power, he must have seen it all when it comes to women..So apply brake that side..

usah4:
A Lady that loves you will always have airtime to call you.
I see all this request as childishness.
Date working class girls that love you and you'll know that Ladies do have airtime to call their guys.

Absolute truth....She will even be shy to make a request from you sef...And when she doesn't, you will want to do more for her sef.

NwaAmaikpe:




I've learnt to take such advise with a pinch of iodine.

That's how Azeez filtered out the young girls that beg him for airtime, data and new phones, today he is left with evening newspapers that only beg him for a ring or his sperm.

Lmao...this one don return from Christmas celebration.

Romanoff:
Are you sure this one is not also a member of Tinubu's trade union?

Cause he looks it o.

Your comments eeeh...

Not far from the truth

fluffybaby:
Don't men do it? Will you call a man who is in love with two women confused? In Delta men are marrying two women at once these days. Some marry two sisters or close friends. It's human nature. We just have to learn how to tame it. Especially women. If it was a man in this predicament now, people will say marry both of them'

If it was a man in the picture, I won't support him dating a lady and hitting on her friend as well...

Very disrespectful.

If you are with one, enjoy and explore life with her...All this chop chioma, chop funke , chop Amina...nothing dey there biko...

Temisia:
That's a good one. Food business is good business. Necessity is between food vs IT

Plus shelter...

thesicilian:
Your baby doesn't want to come out in Nigeria, that's why the cervical os is still closed at 41wks for a woman who has delivered before. Travel to Canada, US or UK now and you'll see the os opening up immediately

Nigerians and bringing humour even in critical situations.

Stereotypes:
Oga,I'm not your fiancée o!

E reach to shout

Before OP go mistake Identity...

Acidosis:
You've been reading too many tales from Nairaland feminists. They come online to lie about how they want to be equal heads or partners and decision makers in their home but deep down and in their respective homes, the husband makes 80% of critical and key decisions.

Your lady is real. She's spoken the mind of at least 90% of Nigerian ladies.

You might need to re-evaluate the essence of that relationship based on the other issue (financial). Personally, I don't accept pressure from anyone. If you feel you're under some form of pressure, you should do some evaluation. Make it financially at your own pace. You no come this world to come serve woman.

I keep saying this, A man is loved for the fact he can provide...Anything aside that is a big big deception.

Evem mothers don't play with the child that brings the fattest gift..

If OP has achieved financial stability, this kind pressure won't come up..Though some ladies are still outspoken with their views regardless of the guy's financial stability.