₦airaland Forum

Mood11:
Congratulations.

True love is not defined by tribe, color or race.

STAY where you find love and peace.

Agreed!..

Iyaebe:
Yes,let's see if Paul and Jude will wish them well so that we will know if their fight have truly finish.We're waiting.

Bad belle..

PrinceOfLagos:
Should anything go wrong with Soludo's mandate , then PDP Ezigbo, will be next governor of Anambra state because he came second .

Abii na..

Anambra people too wise, they carried the two along in case the first encounter tanko and his supreme people..

Them do APC shege.

descarado:
From what I have read so far, it seems people have come to the conclusion richer wives don't help their husbands as much as richer husbands do.
The real fact is that a richer wife helps the husband a lot without emasculating him than richer husbands do to their wives.
A richer husband showering you with money and goods is all about power control. Subdue her with money. Then treat her as you want and get away with it.

2 married ladies who live close to my house in abj single handedly built their houses. See their husbands rides. I noticed that even though these lady have very expensive rides, their husbands ended up driving them. My immediate nebo trained the husbands nieces and nephews in higher institutions, helped secure work for some.
At a point, me that's still new in this game had to tell her to save for her child( she adopted a child at older age). The thing is that you will never hear women come out to say they were behind their husbands financial success, taking care of the house cos it takes away the man's pride and ladies love to protect their men's blokos. Because, the standard is man helping woman, it's assumed women don't. That they love their money too much.

People will be shocked at the number of women who house and feed their family yet the walk while their husbands drive cars bought by these women.

I'm so tired of people coming on here to bash women when we all know that these women can stoop so low, go extra miles to make things happen in their homes yet their men take all the glory.

Smh...

A lady was investing in human capital development, you advised her to stop.....Common sense supposed tell you say if people around her have a comfortable life, her son's future is better secured...

Some women are good anytime, anyday...In fact let me say some women are special, Until a bad friend step in with bad advise...It takes a woman to influence another very fast..

No wonder a married woman told me, her hubby said he won't entertain her bringing friends around, and she on her part told him no drinking in beer parlour...I guess they both figured out where partners can go astray due to bad influence.

Very few women carry their families without third party getting to know the A-Z...God continue to bless them...rare gems.

Men that found these few women, are Living Kings..Huge favour obtained from the Lord.

I read a comment you made reference to market women struggling to meet up, Hehehe I know you will be shocked to know that most have responsible husbands who provides more than 95% of the family needs...

At least I know a handfull of high ranking uniformed personnels on comfortable salary, who set up those petty trades for their wives so they don't stay at home to become a problem to the country via Cheap gossips and mama Ngozi and her yard people mischievous yarns...

Men who made money on time, and spend well on their better half is now emasculation...smh..and at the double standard..

Irony of what we see when a woman becomes financial independent, man becomes thrash...Which birthed the statement "I don't need a man".

But a man makes money, he needs a woman to feel fulfilled..

It's high time my African brothers start getting the clearer picture....

Self centered and entitled humans should be a no no in marriage.

LyfeJennings:
Thanks fam but it's not that bad
It's just life
A man's worth is tied to his pocket

A typical example of experience is the best teacher...

I bet next time you won't open your mouth to try such again..

A married friend told me how his wife finished his ego just because he asked for a little assistance since his salary is yet to drop...It's been long now, but he confessed he cannever forget but may forgive it one day..

Till date he swore never to try such again, the wife don beg tire for forgiveness, for peace he said he accepted her begging...But, deep down it is that deep for him..

There are ways around these things, nomata what, as a man always provide for your personal needs as well...Before babe go change am for you..love no reach for were some or even most women money dey o..

The only woman that can do any money transaction with you with a sweet heart na your mom...

If na gf, you wil pay with interest..

If na your wife, Hehehehehe na with compound interest..You won't stop paying back sef..

This life no balance..But I enjoy being a man...it's more fun.

Acidosis:
Sorry man

That sorry was deep...

Yankee101:
Why is it ok for a man to earn more, train the lady, upgrade her family, buy her a car, set up a business for her, but it's suddenly an issue if the woman earns more?

Some men started training their wives of today from secondary school...

Saw to her university education, even to PhD level..

Guess what, the moment she rise, that man becomes a poo...Probably he had only a degree and a cool job or business to sustain the family....smh man's world is something else..

To be a man is not a day Job sha.

2kurupt:
You'll be surprised in real life she's either a full-time house wife or aspiring to be one, but come online to talk crap

Very very possible...people act differently on social media especially here on Nairaland...

jornwhite:
Infact such man needs a mobile oxygen gas around cos the air wey go dey that house no go reach air wey dey preserve agege bread nylon .... it is a terrible experience no naija should go thru, God help us

I swear...

nwaimoroseyaho:
The worse thing you can do to yourself as a woman is to marry who you are more experienced and richer than and who is not educated in the name of love.
As a graduate (woman) don't ever marry a man that is not educated, his ego and inferiority complex will kill the relationship in the long run.

An educated man, must avoid a woman who isn't, her insecurities will ruin the marriage.. fixed!

litigator:
This story is an apt definition of the man's money is our money and the woman's money is her money adage.

My dad once told that as long as man can provide and meet 80% of the family want, not needs ooooo; he will remain a darling and sweet heart. Once he fall below that mark to 80% of the family needs not wants, he starts becoming a useless man.

He was teaching me that a woman will never and no woman ever loves the man for who he is. The love for him is tied to his ability to provide comfort, care, attention and affection. Even with all these, some women go still cheat.

Now, let's flip the coin and imagine the man was making more money, everyone will expect the man to shoulder the wife's family responsibility. Even the father-in-law that cannot pay a utility bill of 2k without his daughter asking for urgent 2k online will want a car from the man.

Truly, nobody likes the man. Even our mothers sometimes behave like strangers when their sons don't live up to their expectations.

Everyone will just be draining the man. Banker during the day and danfo driver at night just to put food on the table, but just like Chris, everybody hates the male specie.

An intelligent Dad you have there...He told you the truth...Same thing my Dad told me..

A man is a sweetest heart for long as he provides..if not it is a sorry case.

Ynix:
Once I noticed that someone is close to me because of what he or she stands to get alone I immediately cut them off

That is how it should..

unfortunately, as Man some people will come close to you for what they will gain alone.

Only an intelligent woman who really care about you will do the mutual kind gesture reciprocation..no matter what, we still have good ladies out there who actually understand life a bit.

Ynix:
There was a time Bishop Oyedepo's wife earned more than are husband who is in the full time ministry, she submits all she had to her husband every month, same with Pastor Enenche and Pastor Ibiyome.
There is a big difference between having wisdom and having money, it is one thing to be visionary it is another to have the provision for making the vision a reality.
I can never marry a self centered lady, even though I have money more than you, you must be willing to part with your money just I do for you.

Life itself is a case of give and take...

No mata how common, common sense sounds, it is never that common.....You see self centered/entitled people, whether man or woman, runnnnnnnnnnn... ...otherwise na early call to glory..

jornwhite:
In summary, her money is her money even when it 5-10times over naa im cause wahala two shall becum one no reach woman money yeye gender
aunty turn motivational speaker just to avert supporting the man financially love indeed

No surprises at all...Them say man wey woman the feed suppose they collect condolence visit every morning..

Seun:
The main problem was that she didn't give him money. Why would you marry a guy if you dont trust him with money?

What she called emotional and verbal abuse sounds like they were fighting but she wanted to make herself the sole victim. The husband should have handled it better. He is not entitled to her money. But I think the lady contributed more to the failure of her marriage than she realizes.

She speaks of trying to get him to aspire higher which means she was not satisfied with his professional and financial status. So why marry him if his level was not high enough for you? She could have just given him money from time to time like most men who are richer than their wives tend to do.

A typical case of my money is mine, his money is ours..

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

A man requesting for money from a woman is only trying to trade his pride as the head of the home.

The only time a man should be given money by a woman is when it is needed for a personal and mental development which will bring a fortune to the man and home

The audacity of the hypocrisy in this comment though...give him money for what?...smh.

But a man who earn way higher than the lady, provides for without questioning...

No wonder some men are avoiding marriage like a plaque....

The hypocrisy is on the high side abeg..Some ladies are dangerous...With rebellious mindset.

Man will provide for the family for years, but a day a woman does, serious kasala go burst..

Get armed...

Even if na well sharpened cutlass front and back...

Acid..

Or pepper spray for the ladies...


For them guys wey sabi, get your licensed cappa sha..

Lastly, resist the urge to show off in public...You start creating enemies immediately.

EmptyGarden:
Give yourself Award by yourself.

Lmaooo...this dragging go reach 2023.

Righteousness2:
Hmmm

Food don land for you na...

femi4:
Supervise the cutting of the meat it the kitchen to your desirable size. Instruct her on quantity per meal

Have a meat timetable and paste it on kitchen's wall like

Rice= 2meats

Swallow: 4meats etc

Una go kill me with laughter here o..

Pasting it on kitchen wall..lmaoo..

He should draw size of Eba he needs, and paste there too..

Mariangeles:




I hope she listens and adjusts.

Not to all o. Some no send you o.

Nwunye ya di ka owu oku...


You nko, so ajuru gi nri you won't send?

Mariangeles:
Gi ehn...

o wunu ashi?

farmboyy:
Why is food so important to some people?


I am very ashamed of what I saw here.

No go there o, some can kill for food o..

Anything can happen in UAR...trust buhari era on this one

Mariangeles:
Op di ka o wu onye oke nri and the wife probably doesn’t want him to put on too much weight, or she wants him to shed some.
It could also be that the wife was raised in a home where they ration food and it’s difficult for her to adjust.
There must be a reason.

Definitely

O ga awu ndi daddy a eji tray ekuputara nri..

But then, wife should listen to hubby na, ya wuru kwam, ngwa nwaanyi several times ya ju, Mu ajuru ya nri.

And you know how painful it can be..

Mariangeles:
A hughi'm mention gi.

These people are just crowding me with mentions.

I wunu celeb ebe a , ma ya fokwa mgbe i biara tinye kwuo star girl gi a mention ga na ezo ka mmiri.

Mariangeles:
She's probably too stubborn and places so much importance on food.

I bet she won't like it one bit when you go to her pot. Kukuma manage her like that.
You will adjust laslas. The lord is your straingth

Lmao..

Mariangeles:
Your wife is acting based on the way she was raised.
When it comes to food, men adjust in the ways of their wives.
Besides, too much meat is not good for you and your wife is protecting from being overfed.

Onye mummy...A mam na i ga erute ebe a

The woman suppose feed her hubby well, ume ka eji afu oku n'abali o

Barrister026:
Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

Lmao...

If she is economizing things I believe their must be a reason...try to find out what the reason is, And see where you can come in as man of the house.

Or does it warrant you shopping with her.

PlayMaker14:
I believe she's not restraining you from serving your desired portion.... Kindly go and serve yourself if you are not satisfied with her portion.


Na small issue wey you fit coordinate as a MAN.

Hehehe sarcasm...

Married man no suppose near pot when wife is there na..

ManirBK:
Good move good bless BABA Buhari good bless Nigeria

Sai buharists..

Small brain people, na small talk them the take deceive your likes.

They will reduce food price tanker...

Let him continue locking southern borders, and leave that of the north open for easy purchase of arms by terrorists, soon almajiris will start feeding on raw elite flesh over there....

Incompetent people leading 200million plus people.

Sarki, helinues, madridguy....

BadRadio:
Sonnobax

Lmao...