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pansophist:
What makes heartbreak painful is when you felt used all along. You gave your all, and in spite of your genuine goodness, your beloved press the red button. It is not a happenstance why after heartbreak, you hear things like "after all I've done for you". That's a statement of debt, unrequited reciprocity, and feeling used.

Deep!.

In every break up, the one who Invested more, gets the larger share of pains and sorrow.

Phiniter:
Only women and children are loved unconditionally, a man is loved for what he's worth.

- Chiwetalu Agụ 1921

Let me rephrase it...."Only women and children and pets loved unconditionally, A man is loved for the fact he can provide something.

Any dispute to that comment is deceit.

MJBOLT:

There's no way a person will love genuinely and not expect the same back

Oga,stop giving relationship advice,you are bad at it

Nazgul:
To prevent a heart break, go into a relationship with all your senses active.

Keep your eyes open for obvious red flags, breakups don't happen overnight, it's a gradual process, if she stops reciprocating your gestures, like missed calls, messages, missing dates with no reasonable explanation, unnecessary quarrells and nagging over nothing, being so clingy to her phone and acting funny whenever it rings, hardly appreciative of your effors...etc, then prepare your heart for the worse cos someone is obviously taking a larger chunk of her attention.

This comment need lamination...

@the bolded is 100% truth...It starts with funny attitude.

chatinent:
Relationship: Hi.


Me:

If you like collect ben Johnson...You go still love up one day.

Heart break is something everyone need to experience one or more in a life time...It comes with an eye opener and a little bit of understanding of life in a different perspective.

Men need it more to sharpen a bit...If not na so person like fly.

MHBNeiman:
You can't love your partner and don't expect to be loved back. We're all selfish.

QeD....

Toks is just saying for saying sake...

If love is not being reciprocated, then one person is taking advantage of the other...Very simple as ABC....

mariahAngel:

Chiwa ochi..

Iyaebe:
Won't you help me fight if they want to beat me?

Until that time..

Iyaebe:
Truly men are really facing a lot to meet their financial needs,but you didn't state the cut for olosho,why did you hide that aspect? You see most of these present day young men ehn,even if they receive 10naira monthly they will still cut olosho own aside like 3naira from the 10naira and tell their parents they are receiving 7naira as salary.

This your mouth and unfiltered words...only if they can catch you in reality sha.

Did he said he is doing ashawo?

Nice one for Ihedioha...As he returns as the governorship candidate for 2023....

If sam daddy emerges PDP national sec.

mariahAngel:
I'll look into it.

Ewooo!!!

You just sounded like our governor when he visited during campaign..

Political.

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Na today? O tee la!

I likiri ya?

Ngwanu nye anyi plantain palliative na..

mariahAngel:
Amen. Thank you.

I za ga zi ezenwaanyi unere?..

zeezaa:
Achicha Ede and fio fio garnished with ukpaka

Quality..Kudos!

Enoch07:
Just tell us which position this one dey eye.

Governor of course...

They like positioning their stooge as COS or similar appointments...Then ones tenure expire, the stooge will sart dancing to replace pay master.

Lenny22:
I am a final year student of a popular Federal University. I'm not rich, neither am I broke. Of course, my present financial strength is average. I have a nice physical appearance and I consider myself as good looking.
I don't have the courage to approach girls that look exotic or sophisticated. By this, I'm talking about ladies with nice outfits, dope nails, expensive phones and wear expensive Perfumes. I wouldn't like embarrass myself, I just admire from afar but deep down, I want to date one.

Chai reminds me of ss3...


Even Jss3 we do practice how to woo girls then...With fine boy fine boy...

While practicing some will be shouting in background "no cut liver o"..

Now, when I remember those days, I laugh...It was fun...Don't put yourself under pressure...Every woman is approachable with the right format...

Go and work on your self confidence first, boost your ego and move with a relaxed mind...With genuine intentions...Ladies are human and emotional....

Before you will go and use one to do practice, she come fall, you will start treating her like secretary of red pillers association of Nairaland..

It is enjoyable when you are physically and mentally attracted to each other.

Konor:
ahhh.. Uniben student

This guy....

Hanibbal:
Lols...once you see iphone you go now pick race with your iTel

Chai.... you people eeh...

Itel na still android now.

FvckAllMods:
I guess the 3rd goat na im dey snap

SmellySperm:
I'm proud of you son. "New fmt alert"

Lmao...chai urgent 2k person in the mud...

If God want bless you eeh, na 2seconds...Life go turn around...

Even if you no wear jersey, you go still play.

Antoeni:
Honestly Men are enjoying marriage oh.You come back from work,eat food and later eat the person that cooked the food
��‍♂️

Sometimes you eat the person before eating the food..

If you marry your own wife on earth, you will know their is difference between married man and bachelor...

mariahAngel:
You probably also don't feel the need to give explanations most times okwaya?

At all...Except to a lover...Because I want her to understand me better than outsiders.

mariahAngel:


I think the confidence is mistaken for arrogance.

Exactly....It happened to me growing up...even till now.

Many mistake my confidence/ blunt comments for pride and arrogance.


Some say na onu ojor.

But, I am unbothered..

kingthreat:
This is my special appeal to those who are employers of labour, and human resource officers in charge of recruiting staff in companies.
Please give more employment priority to men of 28 years and older especially the married men.

After that, you can now give preference to single mothers, married females, the younger men and women.

I am saying this because as we speak, families are breaking up. Many men that are dependent on salary income have lost their roles in families.

They cannot foot the bills of providing food, paying rent, fees, etc and their families are being shattered.
I got a call last night from a relative who has been unemployed since the covid19 but his lucky wife whose job was not affected is presently keeping late nights, starving him of sex and he cannot say nada because she is the one taking care of 80% of the bills.

Or is it my senior in secondary school presently in his 40s whose wife left him with their 2 daughters and is flirting with big boys in Abuja who gave her apartment and takes care of her bills?

Mind you, these men are not lazy. If given work, they are ready to put in 120% of time to feed their families but the employment system is frustrating them. They cannot keep submitting CVs to companies giving more priorities to women and the younger folk.

Save a family today.

This stands if they are best qualified for Job.

No sentiments.

simple250:
U will not understand what this guy is saying until you experience it.

Hmmmmmmmm...tell us more bro...

If you marry your own wife, no mata how situation be, she is there for you.

See beautiful women living with these great guys...Money is good biko.

It will even determine the type of wife u go marry.

mariahAngel:
I would say he's the most misunderstood player in his generation.
Thank God for God and his talent, otherwise, the media and some big gods would've sunk his career prematurely.

Aqua people are highly misunderstood....But we don't allow it define us..It is a motivation.

The huge confidence in themselves is worth the envy sha.

I connected with ronaldo from his younger days..just like his personality and self determination.

I don't hate messi too...But will choose the former over the later.

mariahAngel:
Don't exaggerate.
He loves Messi, but definitely not more than his dad.

Also, it says a lot about the kind of person Ronaldo truly is, contrary to what the media portrays him.

The media has a different interpretations of Him..The most funny is the arrogant tag.


I don't blame them, who will even give a 100% account of an Aquarius.. very difficult to do.

Godada:





I still don't get it why guys would decide to demean themselves over a girl.

The cadet should have stayed on his lane if the lady in question isn't interested. Besides, it's a bad taste to attempt collecting a ladies number while she is with her guy.

Oh well, the cadets got more than they bargained for.


These uniformed persons actually go beyond their boundaries. This mentality is so wrong

As in eeh...One girl caused wahala for the whole matric...These cadet guys and women matters sef.

Mybrotheralso:
We've done that severally. When we were growing up our dad nearly flogged him to his death and decided not to touch him anymore. We're just unfortunate to have him. Funny enough he's very smart and intelligent and makes money but character and behaviour is just zero.

Their is nothing you, your parents or anyone can do...You can't change a 35yr old man undergoing his PhD studies over night...


This is his life...Just face your own...The thing binding you guys is your parents...Ones they complete their time on earth...It is on your own.

He is the first, and definitely going to take over your Dad's house and probably a mummy's boy...You cannever win this batyle you want to start.

Back off...Before it becomes brutal.

Don't be surprised he will become a sweet guy in his 40s with family sef..Then you will regret fighting him now.

Iamvetlander:
I don't have money to hire a lawyer.Yeah I will contact the police tomorrow. Thank you. And that's why I am using nairaland as a platform Sir

Human rights commission will help you..Move on time as long as it's still fresh.