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Life is somehow..

Something really left him.

iammee:
You just dey find wetin no lost up and down rest. I'm 28 I don't know my dad too. I have not met him. I tried reaching him too, got his contact, called him, he acknowledged I'm his daughter but we are like strangers to each other. We don't talk on phone, he's not eager to see me. His family over there he's everything to him so me slf lock up. I moved on. So baba you maybe disappointed after knowing who ur father is.

At least you know your Dad and where you came from.

Prechgold1180:
Good evening house

Sorry to bore you with my issues


My mum and dad separated 24 years ago

Reason for separation
My only biological bro died from malaria
My dad was unable to come up with money for treatment

My mum moved out took me with her
She remarried 2 years after
Gave birth to 4 leaving me with 4 step sibling
Some years back I heard my mum saying my dad has other children ( I don’t even know them ) I don’t even know my dad

I am a graduate now

So comfortable in life
Got lands houses and cars to my name

My problem now is I feel empty whenever I think of my dad
More like I don’t know my root

I plan on visiting mums home for Christmas
The problem is she hates my dad so much
any thing about that topic gets her angry

I don’t know how to convince to go show me my dads house

I don’t know possible ways to get her to show me my dad hus

Don’t even know if my dad is good
Don’t even know his family
Don’t even know my village
Everything I call family is just from my mother side

Zero from my dad side
I wish I can know them

Mount pressure, your mom must tell you who your father is..
If not she is being Wicked..And now you've become a man, that act of hers must stop.

Go and find your root..That man will celebrate you when you return.

When men keep allow a troublesome wife go with their kids, they know one day, those kids will return home.

Go and find him..And hear his own side of the story.

mariahAngel:
It is unfortunate how relationships last longer than marriages these days.

Relationship comes with little or no responsibility and thorough checks..Unlike marriage where you are no longer I, but we.

Some people rush into marriage to enjoy the fanfar and the together pics littered here and there...

People who really are into eachother in marriage, don't e even remember Social media exists most times..

Onwe ha juru ha afo..

I have a friend that is married since 2012..Those two dont even know if something like WhatsApp exist..

Ma ya fokwa Facebook na ndi ozo..

They are on SM o, but not to show off..

They did house warming of their new smart house, he only posted the invitation..That's all..

And later an appreciation for people that came.

If na some people, Infact you go mute your notifications as they keep updating every details..

SM is good o, but avoid living your relationship/marital life on SM.

In the old days, parents run to God or Village to settle a misunderstanding beyond them. But now, couples run to social media.

mariahAngel:
OK.


I've seen it naa.
I have no business with akpu.

Yea ..I know..Nwa afor kporo akpu ashi

mariahAngel:
O wuhu ihe I kwesiri i de?



OK! Gbando gbuo'm! Hahahaha

Locally aha ya wu nsisa..

Then when it is prepared with ngu and others, it is called Abacha.


Hahahahahah o si gbuo ya..I hu tu la ebe a yor ga akpu(fermented one) before?

Just one year

mariahAngel:
OK. Let me just go with the flow.

Gini wu nsisa?

Lol..

Nsisa wu the slim ji akpu mmiri that is like spaghetti..Otherwise called Abacha

These are real African, if you really want to do African o

Imagination of you going to market to buy raw cassavà, peel and ferment, bia yoor yà the cook foofoo.. chineke nna!

Things like that are going extinct.

mariahAngel:
You're already veering off from the original concept.

- African food only.
- One food at a time (otherwise, the page becomes messy)

Normally you start from somewhere and spread the catchment area..

Smh you are still making excuses for yourself o

As long as it is food, it cannever get messy.

I si African food only, Ngwa i ga zuta cassava, ferment and make utara .. do you even know how to?

Or make Ji apu mmiri, Nsisa etc..

Some women no jusr get shame again

Another lady go still born for am before Buhari hand over.

mariahAngel:
Time will come for that one.



Come to think of it, I have not posted any rice dish yet.
I'll start with a Nigerian rice dish, then others.

you are still shifting the time..


Not just rice alone, any thing nri

Beans, yam, just any thing good for consumption..

You can as well do pastries, ma o wu sharp sharp like shawarma, pizza na burger..

Just nye anyi something every 2days.

And make videos o

mariahAngel:
OK.

What would you suggest I post next?
(O wuhukwa nri utara na ofe o)

You already blocked where I was heading to..

Just jinx it and do nri utara..

Or Rice in an unusual style...Senegal way or Ghana way

Or you can post any meal you made out time to cook 2/3 times a week.

mariahAngel:
I do.

The thing is, I easily lose interest when I'm compelled to do something.

Good

Smh, not this one..You will have to keep the page alive and engaging to reach the targets.

Insta is demanding, I realized it isn't my stuff, I jejely allowed my page fallow..Until mgbe luru Nwaanyi..May be she will handle it better to promote the Business.

Women are good in that aspect.

A colleague even forced me to join Insta the time I did..at a time o ji abia m ya ka ugwo....

But, don't make excuses for yours o just keep posting and tagging.

JasonScoolari:
Lol, them torment me nor be small.

It was annoying then..

mariahAngel:
It might seem like I'm making excuses, o kwa ya?

Lol..you know yourself very well..

LEXYNIL:
Morocco are very fast and aggressive in attacking line because they have so much ability in times counter attack which they can push France with that. And they are very rough and I dont see them winning the game because the Atlas lion of Morocco are well clinical with their front line.

Well, if na fast and speed, France will submit mbappe to them..that one will be doing them merry go round while Giroud and others will be trying the on target and off targets..

JasonScoolari:
Nice one....

I remember when U-Report almost made me ran mad with their unsolicited messages. That period, SAPA hook the son of man for neck like bowtie, and any message alert like, this I quickly rush to check my inbox if it's a Credit Alert, only to be disappointed by their nonsense survey questions.

U-report corpers night mare

Soo annoying..When expecting alert.

mariahAngel:
I might get it later.
Another thing is, it's quite small.



I'll look into it.
You know sometimes, good things just happen/come to you almost effortlessly, when you're not desperately chasing after them.

Okay.


Surely, but you must work for it, maybe with or without pressure

Anything food sell quick and wide.

SLAP44:
Some people are scared that Peter Obi will win, so they are destabilising the electoral systems in the south east.

But know ye all men, Peter Obi and Yusuf Datti Baba Ahmed will be inaugurated as president and vice president of Nigeria in May 2023 to save Nigeria from the hands of the killers, looters and criminals.

God bless Nigeria.

This is the real undiluted truth..

The morning gun shots were something else.

A man goes on to search for peace..

By all means find peace of mind.

Don't frustrate anyone with feelings of being too important. We are all replaceable if need be.

ednut1:
https://instagram.com/ivy_zenny?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Her instagram. D babe fine but be like panla fish. Bones

Nigerians and CID... una don go run background check on her sharply.

mariahAngel:
Yeah.

The type I'm eyeing is beautiful.
Check out the picture below.



To be honest, I haven't learned how to use Instagram that much. Just the basics.
I don't spend much time there.


A ma'm gi?

Hehehe air fryer di attractive..If it appears in your scale of preference, you can still go for it..Uwa wu ofu mbia o.

You have to na..The engagements will attracts more people and make it a potential more money. Making niche.

Hehehehehe you don outsmart me here na
O nwere a lady that is almost on all your post..O dika o wu a die hard fan..I ga wu celebrity

One of the greatest in the game...100yrs to come, generations will still talk about him and his healthy rivalry with another legend in messi.

I hope we will have another sweet rivalry like the two..

Going forward.

SKIDDOLEE:
Why ?? Food nowadays is more expensive than eyeball . everybody eye-socket don enter cause of lack of good food.

If you want to eat to your satisfaction now you will be spending nothing less than 2k or even more what is actually wrong?

This question is Rhetoric.

The eye socket explanation got me..

Government should prioritize agriculture now before it is too late..

mariahAngel:
That single act of border closure disrupted the flow of so many things.
It was the major cause of the downfall of the naira.

Border closure and That endsars was the game changer for the middle men.

They made huge money hoarding goods to create artificial scarcity.

Again, Insecurity in the North is indirectly affecting people in other regions..Farmers pay tax to bandits before they can farm and harvest.

Government also milk farmers instead of the necessary subventions they are meant to give..

Lack of government being able to mop up excess produce of perishable goods and sell at a fair price thereby making good available while the farmer gets back his capital and fair profit to motivate for another production cycle.

Again, it is high time we stop depending on weather/season..Developed countries farm all year round as long as their is irrigation and improved seeds/seedling...This APC failed government is not ready at all.

They blocked importation of rice, local production became far expensive.

They ban importation of Urea fertilizers, because Dangote is producing and enslaving Nigerians..Urea per bag moved from 9k to 25k as at last week.

By the time Dangote start his fuel business, a litre will sell for 600naira

He entered into cement, we moved from 1900 to 5k per bag.

You will think going local is curse to Nigeria.

Criminal elements in every corner siphoning national cake.

Chicken wey we dey use hold body by Christmas, sad reality is that, not every family will afford chicken now and this season..With this one I don dey see chicken 14k..smh

Greed! Will soon turn Nigerians to cannibals.

Again, Russia war in Ukraine will finish Africans..Because we don't know those two countries are amongst the largest producers of grains and fertilizers plus raw materials used in agro fertilizers production.

The world is facing a partial recession which is projected to start in the last quota of 2022 till most parts of 2023.

Lastly, we must get ready for post election hardship in Nigeria..It happens after every election ushering in new regime..

Nigerians knew hunger in 2016 when Buhari took over..By the time Tinubu wins if care is not taken, a plate of good meal might be 5k or more..

May God help us..

gloryhomemaker:
Efo Riro is a very delicious soup from the Yoruba tribe of Nigeria. This soup is so delicious that I wondered what took me so long to share the recipe. This video gives a detailed easy to follow steps on how to cook a mouth watering and finger licking Efo Riro.

Ingredients:

Shoko
Tatashe
Shombo
Peppers
Beef
Shaki (use any protein you prefer)
Chicken (optional)
Ponmo
Smoked Prawns
Smoked Panla fish
Dry fish
Palm oil
Blended crayfish
Onions
Iru (Locust bean)
Seasoning cubes
Salt


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jt0Oujd9CRk

The leaf used didn't appear on the list..

I will have enough of this soup this dry season with the abundance of the shoko..

Precooking the shoko before adding to the soup broth, won't it kind of reduce the nutritional value of the shoko leaf?

mariahAngel:
Yes. I was going to get it (not iphone), but then I changed my mind for now.

Mma'm je a si na oke sense je a ku ahia mgbe ufodu.

Instagram followers m e ruola 6k.6

Okwa i nwere abuo already? Nwanne gi nwaanyi ga asi o ga wu zi ihe ozo

O kwa asi ndi ulo anyi ji akpo sense Onye o wula neediri sense o.

Wow and you don't create special themed sticker to thank them..Try the add make videos..The numbers will skyrocket.
Plus the engagement in comment section will increase.

Umunne gi ha so ga gi ebe ahu? Especially ndi nke nwaanyi?

mariahAngel:
I hukwa gi ehn! Hahahaha
I've said it before; oke sense e gbudila gi!

Iphone does not give me the effect I want in food photography, that's why I'm not a fan.
A good android does that best, and I'm all for anything that does food right.

Seems I was getting it right with the phone thoughts? O wu eziokwu?

Oke sense o ji egbu mmadu?

Interesting

mariahAngel:
As in ehn! Hahahahahahahahaha

I was just laughing as I read comments.

Ha abuo nu na uwa oma..

mariahAngel:
It's something that has to do with food (but I have something that does what it does already).

Ooh..You already have an oven..

So curious me thinking... Was thinking newest model IPhone, then the food related knocked it.

mariahAngel:
You said it; some.
O wuhuzi nke i si men are better cooks than women. N'ebee kwanu?

O kwa Roaming chef?

Some men are better cook than some women..

Yes.

Checked his page today, e be o kuliri nwunye ya elu...Comment section is mad

Done done done!