₦airaland Forum

czarina:
Ok, glad this is coming from a man.

he claims his wife lives abroad...the man is actually guilty but problem I think is that he's married..

but again , like acidosis pointed out, how can a man with a low sperm count reject a baby? its unnatural

rapo7000:
I Just called the man now to confirm the story. Infact he is not even aware of it, was surprised and does not even know the said lady. Its not right when you come to social media to defame someone knowing very well you have scared his image for life. If for any reason you have issues with him why not settle it amicably since you know where he lives and you know his pastor, again there are over 1000 lawyers scattered out there you could walk to anyone of them's office and lodge ur complaints. If not you have an evil motive of defaming his person why come to social media to post his personal details and pics? If i were the man and i found out this, i will sue you for it.

I called the man too, he sounds guilty

ladies make una try relax more and apply wisdom in your dealings...not all guys saying hi to you wants u, some actually want to help u ,even if he wants to ask you out you will still bill him so what's the point acting all serious

not nice

Cherrybae:
Very ugly, broke, dirty and shameless igbo girl. Always disgracing the igbos everywhere she goes.

Fake pastor with Agege bread yash

bad

bad people

missimelda01:
That's why I said 'appropriate person'.. the right man won't abuse a woman

nice

they've been setting for long.. lmao..

Tajbol4splend:
The major reason why most women are single in their late 30s is their search for perfection, perfection for the right place to meet, perfection for the right time to meet, perfection for the right personality, you should also try make these things right yourself, they don't have to come perfectly right because even to some people, you are also not the perfectly right person, you can't be 30 and not have had suitors, but you are not open to them, which makes them go, they all go, including the perfect ones that seem horrible, my being open means trying getting to know someone but most of them follow their first impressions which are mostly wrong, how about you watch and assess someone, how about giving him a chance, you don't have to get stuck, you can say your goodbye if you don't like what you see, it's better than staying afar trying to know someone using instinct, it's a mirage situation that's not achievable.

well written

missimelda01:
Marriage will come at the appointed time with the appropriate person. Don't force it, it's better to be single than being in an abusive marriage. As a woman, let your happiness be your major priority (and it should come from within you).

what assurance do you have that getting married later won't still land the woman in an abusive marriage

has it gotten to this level??

Rossikk:
Mumu. Trump is a racist. He hates people who look like YOU.

In the 70s and 80s he refused to rent his apartments to black people, and was sued for it, and he paid millions in fines.

A black man supporting Trump is the height of foolishness, stupidity, and self-hatred.

In the USA his support among blacks is under 4%. They know him for what he is.

I can see you're in sifia pains

their problem

if they arrest you Feb 23 will become the new democracy day

throwback pictures of Lagos has always looked so beautiful...the problem of congestion is Depending on Lagos solely for imported goods

BMC crew are earning 30k monthly while the big boys cart in millions of dollars...talk about slavery

when the governor rich pass the billionaire...one thing most people don't understand is that many governors are richer than Sanford..of course from stolen funds

Kylekent59:
I am beginning to suspect this Milaye's ordeal with EFCC is a stunt.

They are just using him to scare politicians and prominent celebrities.


Nigeria is a country where pople can easily be deceived.

It is always good to reason well and avoid multitudes reasoning in the same direction.

you think is that easy to meet up with bail condition?.. Naira Marley flopped

ladyF:
Na wa!!! We have completely lost it.

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It’s LadyF again.

where have you been??.. welcome back home

Funkyswagzz:
Lol u remind me one wey tell me say she wan carry egusi soup I cook go house no shame. Omo in my mind I was like see this hungry girl she even carry malt join am..lmao laugh wan kill me

lol

egbarison:
Pls don't take it personal considering the way our society treat people nowadays... op may even grab her point and fix whatever necessary to overcome his challenge.

hahahahaha..I'm not taking it personal..I was just trying for people not to deviate from the main issue

Funkyswagzz:
My man the stuff is too much oo. The worse part is when they come to ur place they will be looking for stuff to steal my target now is to find smone who is educated and working. Girls are not smiling oo

lol

egbarison:
She hasn't said anything wrong brother. That's her view and looking critically at it, you would notice that she's or a potential 21st century relationship counselor.

nonsense councillor...op didn't state he was broke, so brining in financial status here is senseless or maybe she should also assume Op is blind, deaf or dumb to witness all that...

CanineOfJackal:
wtf is wrong with most of you here? Did he complain about his income? Do you know he earns better than most guys in posh offices you drool over on the Island? Stop making girls look cheap and stupid because you are not in sync with the topic of discussion

lol

Funkyswagzz:
My bizness is owerri buh I wan relocate go enugu and see if I can find someone to settle down with. Imo girls will eat ur money and run buh enugu will eat and stay.

nawa o

Funkyswagzz:
Na so my man.. when u see them doing shakara u think they smfin to offer.

ok oo

pocohantas:
Oga check yourself.

I don't know why when men are finding it difficult to get a wife, they rule out their attitude. Whereas lots of them have serious problems, especially the broke ones.

My problem with this set is the emotional blackmail they employ. Trying to make it look like the problem is lack of money, whereas they are the problem.

If every woman, including those village girls that give to corps members on a platter are running from you. CHECK YOURSELF!

so you mean Corp members collect for free, wonderful

Funkyswagzz:
When u mentioned imo state I just knew instantly ur problem is money... Imo girls no dey smile. Bro make ur money and find someone who can support u as well. Pls deviation ur attention on these gurls on the streets they are no gud.

Na cultural issue

Acidosis:
When a man agrees to the equal submission nonsense in the home, sons and daughters from that home end up becoming "mama's boys and girls". To all those denying their husbands the "head-ship" authority, brace up for war with your daughter in-laws. You can't eat your cake and have it too.

Your father in-law is a weak man and the root cause of the problems you currently face. He's too weak to put his wife under authority. She's first a wife before becoming a MIL.She failed as a wife, of course, she's going to fail as a MIL too. She "conquered" her husband, of course, she'll always "conquer" her son too.

In so far as your husband remains the son to your MIL, there is absolutely nothing you can do. Your FIL is the ONLY solution to your problem.

wow...so much wisdom..baba u too reason ...respect sir

Biggermembersro:
Some people's sole aim in this world is to provoke people intentionally, I am a "slow to react to anger" kind of person and I always stay in my lane and mind my business, once I smell trouble coming from afar, I run to the opposite direction as fast as my leg can carry me, I come from a tribe where you have to respect elders no matter the situation same as what my Bible says so what gives abeg.......


My husband always praise his mum cos she trained him to med school here in U.S.A, of course who wouldn't just like I don't joke with my dad cos he did well for his six kids, so he adores his mum, praises her in every situation, always at her beck and call, I didn't see it as a big deal cos, well, it's his mum, we met here in NY, he and his family stay in Maryland while I was schooling in NY, the plan was when we get married I'll go back and forth till I finish school then move to Maryland, so I took in, you know first pregnancy how difficult it is, so one of those days i went to ML for the weekend one time, during that period, his mum had a get together so everyone is expected to be there, being in my first trimester, I was sick and told her I can't be there, she insisted and I told her I'll try, when the time came I was too ill to go anywhere so I didn't go, all for his mum to come later that night and was shouting saying and I quote "when I tell my son your husband to run he will run, even if I tell him to jump he will do just that so who are you to tell me you can't come, what silly sickness, if I blow that your belly, highest is you'll loose the pregnancy and then take in again,nothing is going to happen" that is exactly what she said, I was shocked, my husband was there looking he didn't say anything, his father was there, he shouted at her that why would she say something like that, his mum shut him down saying all manner of unsayable things because she was more like the breadwinner, his sister, that one cannot talk if not the mother will insult her very existence just because she got pregnant out of wedlock but she still married the father ooo, me, my mouth was open, I couldn't talk cos I dont even know what to say, when they left hubby didnt even try to ease my mind or anything, the next day I jejely left for NY, vowing that my leg will never step into ML anymore.

Sincerely I was tempted to abort and divorce my husband because I don't understand how someone can say evil like that, even if it was a joke, that was nonsense, since then I've been in NY, I gave birth here, Dre has been the one coming here, it's not like me and his mum don't talk, she calls and we talk, sometimes I call too, all for recently, infact last week Dre says he got an opening for a job here and he wants to take it, I blatantly told him NO, because his parents couldnt work anymore due to health and all so they are staying with him in ML, him moving here means his mum will do that too, I told him no that I like things the way they are, no issues, nothing, I cannot stay in the same house with his mum because we will have issues that one is certain, he started shouting, I reminded him of what his mother said two years ago, he now said it is the past, which past? Now that I'm working I am expected to leave my babies with her, call me delusional the instinct of a mother is to protect her children, even if she may not do anything, we will still have issues and I don't want that before someone say I'm disrespectful when I talk back.

If I decide to turn American now, I'll just tell him he can't bring anyone here without my permission, but no, I won't tell him that, some of their laws here is stupid to be honest and I'm a nice person and I was born and bred in the north in Nigeria also I don't want to escalate issue, I am the only one here, my family is in Nigeria and i never mentioned any of this to them so it won't turn to family issues, now he's not talking to me saying he will take drastic measures, it will not pass divorce and custody battle of which I know I will win but I don't want that for my kids, they need their parents in the same home not divorced, my own is he should stay where he is and take care of his parents and continue worshiping his mum, is it that hard?

I dey vex abeg, pls advice on other options fam.

you did well dear ...nothing do you... you're a good woman to be honest

omololaglo:
don't mind him , pm for details, I have bro there working as medical doctor, it's easy

I replied u