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Sorry to the family this perfectly what we have been saying so where would they now lay him to rest. The land his father fought for the children don't leave in it and they don't die in and would not be lay to rest in it. Who then did Ken die for.
Blacks, when realize how foolish we have being over time including me then, we would not say or do some certain things because we are............

Still the same medical infastructure that they keep allocating billions into every year and yet goes to abroad for medical check-up. Well, my mother would always say " someone that his or her thing isn't enough for him or her fighting over another would still not be enough" we accept Nigeria the way it is fighting for a better country would not be any better.

Bros I don't know why I dislike Davido this guy thing dey vex me sha.

If you feel like sharing your emotional issues with someone that can be of help then you should consider a counseling psychologist. You can indeed have a healthy sex life, quite any form of addiction, manage your finance, eliminate undesirable behaviors and have a happy marriage life or relationship. Call or chat up Mr. Anele on 09057016086 a professional counseling psychologist that have help hundreds of couples have a healthy marriage through counseling.

If you feel like sharing your emotional issues with someone that can be of help then you should consider a counseling psychologist. You can indeed have a healthy sex life, quite any form of addiction, manage your finance, eliminate undesirable behaviors and have a happy marriage life or relationship. Call or chat up Mr. Anele on 09057016086 a professional counseling psychologist that have help hundreds of couples have a healthy marriage through counseling.

Lol, I see people suggesting you should see a doctor.l, that is indeed funny. What can a doctor do, not all case are medical case it's just worrisome that we in this part of the world don't understand that most issues are psychological and not medical or spiritual. 09057016086 chat me up I can assist with practical means to help you. So many clients come to me for same issues am a counseling psychologist by profession. If only we know the aftermath of all this drug this drugs that cause to our systems we would sort for the right solution to our issues. Am a well exposed counseling psychologist and well exposed in sex therapy with a full knowledge of sexual education.

My wife was posted to North after the three weeks camp we went for a pregnancy test and she was pregnant weeks before entering camp. We are not married by law but by tradition. So am thinking what to do we both thought of suspending the whole nysc thing and come back and follow another batch. Is that possible? Though she has received two months alawee now. There is just no way only she can be far away with pregnancy and this is her first pregnancy please help me what do I do.

Mummyimbecile:
That is not a problem at all,you can stay back,then stream2 you go with them,...if you are not ready in stream2 yet....No problem still,you can wait till batch A 2020,and revalidate,and reprint your callup letter and green card,and you are good to go

Thanks, the issue here is that I don't want to serve in jigawa I don't even want to travel that far so I don't want to to go for the camp am thinking if it is possible I start from the beginning next year so the state can change.

Please help, will I be allowed to mobilize again? cus I don't think I can make it to camp now.

rexchazy:
You take a bus going to Kano, then from Kano to NYSC camp is about two hours. No direct flight from Port to Kano let alone Jigawa. The camp is one of the best in Nigeria it just the Islamic extremism that is paramount there.

thanks, I really wish you can help me with how much it will cost me to transport myself.

Please I need help I just checked now and I have been posted to jigawa.please how much will it cost me to get to jigawa from Port Harcourt please, both land and air.

I tap from the moment

What about Port Harcourt �����

Hahahah no carry us play na women dey pay us. I remember when I was in uniport na women me and my guys use see front ( fantastic 4). The otolos keep paying the bills while we keep giving them nice Bleep.

Welcome development

Nigeria sha..

Still on the #RevolutionNow spirit. What do you expect Nigeria when done die.

Oh what I hoped for Nigeria must fail I don't like Nigeria finish my opinion.

Mad man, no be u follow put that cow there? You are a practical enemy of Nigeria.

Make e go na

Lol, na dem, dem tomorrow someone would tell me south is not United like the north.

Abi they appoint themselves which Buhari. Are they not the ones ruling this country? I feel for my brother Rotimi

Dakolo rape matter has been taken over by this. Timi you see how the media works ? Now you have shown to the world that your wife was raped and you did not think of the effect it would have on your children because their peers would definitely make fun of that some day. Something you would have over looked just as you have done all these years or better still go to court instead of shamelessly dragging your family into this mess what justice have you gotten now. Next time use your head even if you are right try as much as you can not to do or say things that would brake another man down. In as much as am not supporting the coza pastor because no smoke without fire I still believe you wouldn't have made it public considering the fact that humans are unique in their reasoning. I

When parents fail to take parenting as their top priority then there eyes would not be on their children there by giving irresponsible adults room to abuse the right of children because parents rather chase after career than to protect the life of their children. The primary role of every child owner should be how to protect the right of your children career and family up keep should be secondary if you really understand what parenting truly is and what it takes to be a mother father uncle or aunty.

donbachi:
and u think they care about the kwensikwensis?

not even that

donbachi:
Most of you had sex,just to see or know d reason why your parents asked you to stay away from it...and you think these ones wouldn't want to.

sex education does not entail just telling your children to stay away from premarital sex. It involves explaining in details why they should not.

topcatking:
Yes.

If properly done, you save yourself a lot of anxiety & future problems

real talk

IS SEX A TOPIC TO DISCUSS WITH CHILDREN?

I was opportuned to ask over twenty parents this question and they said "yes" sex, is indeed a topic to discuss with children. But when asked if they had discussed sex with their five or six years old child? Ten among them said they were shy when their children ask them where do babies come from? and the only answer they gave is that babies come from God, Eight said their children never came up with any sex related question, the rest five said it is not yet time and educating them about sex when they're still six years old is too early and unmoral.

Would I be wrong if I say your answer to the topic question was yes? if you have had a conversation about sex with your children becomes a no? Knowing it's right does not make anything right if you don't apply it to solve problems.

Sex education is really lacking in this part of the world and this has led to abnormal behaviors like; rape, sexual impairment or dysfunction, homosexuality, premarital sex, unwanted pregnancy, STDs etc.

Lack of proper sex education makes children feel seems children can only come from God just as their parents told them having sex at an early age becomes no problem.

Because parents tell their female child that their own penis has been cut off when they confront them with issues like. "why do my brother or our neighbors son has penis and I do not have"? remember, failing to give your female children a proper explanation to sexual issues like this makes them feel worthless and leads to sexual impairment and see boys as the lucky ones and most time imitate boys there by becoming lesbians. For any parent who wish to become more involved in parenting issues like this must not be overlooked.

When your male child is not taught from small how to sexually respect a girl and be taught how he can make girls accept him sexually, he would believes forcing women is normal. Rape becomes a habit. It is important to educate your male child from small on how to respect and adorn women or else they would grow up becoming rapists and can not keep a woman or sexually satisfy a woman and this has led so many teens into suicide and most parents don't know.

So many homosexuality is as a result of chromosomal abnormalities. Early sex education makes your children love the sex they represent. If you are not involved in parenting your female child with more testosterone ( tomboy) would want to be sexually attracted to her fellow girls and when this behavior is stamp in. Going to church to pray out evil spirit would be a waste of time because there was no spirit in the first place. Same also goes to a male child with estrogen (effeminate).

So many young couples no nothing about contraceptive so who do you blame for all the unwanted pregnancy? So many young couples hate their children because they came when they did not plan for them. All the new born babies that are being dropped by the road side and all the failed abortion that has caused millions of death is as a result of lack of early sex education due to uninvolvement of parents and teachers in parenting.

So many adults today don't even know what sexual transmitted diseases are, they do not know the use of contraceptives because, no one taught them. Parents and teachers feel it is bad. So many youths have lost their lives as a result of parents and teachers improvident reasoning.

Your children can not abstain from premarital sex and unprotected sex if you fail to educate them sexually.

Just like breastfeeding is important so does sex education is. Do not deprive a child of information he or she needs to become a responsible adult.

Children needs to know the changes that occurs on their bodies. So many teenagers hate their bodies during the onset of adolescence ( puberty). At this stage parents and teachers should be able to explain to them this developments. Because, failure to do this results to depression. As little as not understanding the growth or changes in body size could lead to suicide.

According to Derek (1971) genital comparison is normal at age three at this age curiosity sets in the attitude of parents towards sexuality and their comfort in answering children questions honestly are crucial in preventing sexual impairment. According to Rob (1993). If parents see sex education as dirty and punish a child for getting information about sex from peers the child would develop a very wrong attitude towards sex that will mar his or her adult life.

Parents must be up and doing in educating their children about spermarch and menarch before they get to the stage.

It does not cost anything other than time to educate your children about sex how ever you view this article just know that it is of best interest to every child as RRCSAFRICA is geared towards ensuring that, parents and teachers become more involved in parenting so as to raise responsible adults.
#RRCSAFRICA

IS SEX A TOPIC TO DISCUSS WITH CHILDREN?

I was opportuned to ask over twenty parents this question and they said "yes" sex, is indeed a topic to discuss with children. But when asked if they had discussed sex with their five or six years old child? Ten among them said they were shy when their children ask them where do babies come from? and the only answer they gave is that babies come from God, Eight said their children never came up with any sex related question, the rest five said it is not yet time and educating them about sex when they're still six years old is too early and unmoral.

Would I be wrong if I say your answer to the topic question was yes? if you have had a conversation about sex with your children becomes a no? Knowing it's right does not make anything right if you don't apply it to solve problems.

Sex education is really lacking in this part of the world and this has led to abnormal behaviors like; rape, sexual impairment or dysfunction, homosexuality, premarital sex, unwanted pregnancy, STDs etc.

Lack of proper sex education makes children feel seems children can only come from God just as their parents told them having sex at an early age becomes no problem.

Because parents tell their female child that their own penis has been cut off when they confront them with issues like. "why do my brother or our neighbors son has penis and I do not have"? remember, failing to give your female children a proper explanation to sexual issues like this makes them feel worthless and leads to sexual impairment and see boys as the lucky ones and most time imitate boys there by becoming lesbians. For any parent who wish to become more involved in parenting issues like this must not be overlooked.

When your male child is not taught from small how to sexually respect a girl and be taught how he can make girls accept him sexually, he would believes forcing women is normal. Rape becomes a habit. It is important to educate your male child from small on how to respect and adorn women or else they would grow up becoming rapists and can not keep a woman or sexually satisfy a woman and this has led so many teens into suicide and most parents don't know.

So many homosexuality is as a result of chromosomal abnormalities. Early sex education makes your children love the sex they represent. If you are not involved in parenting your female child with more testosterone ( tomboy) would want to be sexually attracted to her fellow girls and when this behavior is stamp in. Going to church to pray out evil spirit would be a waste of time because there was no spirit in the first place. Same also goes to a male child with estrogen (effeminate).

So many young couples no nothing about contraceptive so who do you blame for all the unwanted pregnancy? So many young couples hate their children because they came when they did not plan for them. All the new born babies that are being dropped by the road side and all the failed abortion that has caused millions of death is as a result of lack of early sex education due to uninvolvement of parents and teachers in parenting.

So many adults today don't even know what sexual transmitted diseases are, they do not know the use of contraceptives because, no one taught them. Parents and teachers feel it is bad. So many youths have lost their lives as a result of parents and teachers improvident reasoning.

Your children can not abstain from premarital sex and unprotected sex if you fail to educate them sexually.

Just like breastfeeding is important so does sex education is. Do not deprive a child of information he or she needs to become a responsible adult.

Children needs to know the changes that occurs on their bodies. So many teenagers hate their bodies during the onset of adolescence ( puberty). At this stage parents and teachers should be able to explain to them this developments. Because, failure to do this results to depression. As little as not understanding the growth or changes in body size could lead to suicide.

According to Derek (1971) genital comparison is normal at age three at this age curiosity sets in the attitude of parents towards sexuality and their comfort in answering children questions honestly are crucial in preventing sexual impairment. According to Rob (1993). If parents see sex education as dirty and punish a child for getting information about sex from peers the child would develop a very wrong attitude towards sex that will mar his or her adult life.

Parents must be up and doing in educating their children about spermarch and menarch before they get to the stage.

It does not cost anything other than time to educate your children about sex how ever you view this article just know that it is of best interest to every child as RRCSAFRICA is geared towards ensuring that, parents and teachers become more involved in parenting so as to raise responsible adults.
#RRCSAFRICA

ellagabs:
what do u expect, when organizations, ministries and agencies don't accept "lower division" anymore.

what do they even accept. U get first class or 2.1 they say age you fall on the age page dey say experience .the issues is that humanity has failed.

DO YOU KNOW THAT MILLIONS OF NIGERIAN CHILDREN ARE EMOTIONALLY DEPRESSED ?

Dr. Andrew Slaby describe the severity of the condition of depression as the worst physical pain you've ever had - a broken born, a tooth-ache, or labor pain. Multiply in tenfold and take away the cause; then you can possibly approximate the pain of depression.

So many children go through such excruciating pain and their parents don't get to know about it. And by default it become fixated in them that results to abnormal behaviors or even suicide.

I laughed when government bound an insect killer (sniper). Or when they bound some drugs because youths abuse them, jail and kill youths for abnormal behaviors just for it to serve as a deterrent to others but yet crime keeps increasing.

The ignorance of government can be forgiven but yours can not be forgiven because, government can only know things when we make them know. And government need to know that children's emotional depression leeds to undesirable behaviors and the uninvolvement of parents and teachers in parenting is the key reason why teens fixate on depression there by developing unacceptable behaviors in the society.

Citizens of countries and nations we admire today once matched on the street to demand the life they want from their rulers. If you doubt, Google how citizens of advance nations are currently pressing forward for climate change and the abolishment of fossil fuel.It is the objective of RRCSAFRICA to call the attention of government on the need for more involved parenting of every child. That is the only way in which parents and teachers would identify a child that is depressed and proofer a solution or else government would keep trying to catch the wind while we keep geting blamed for it.

RRCSAFRICA has reached out to the Rivers State universal basic education board ( UBE).for all schools to organize their teachers in their various school's so RRCSAFRICA can educated them on how to become more involved in parenting, to remind them on how important they are to the society, to educate them on how to use psychological principles to modifiy undesirable behaviors and to effectively apply reinforcement and punishment so it can modify the targeted undesirable behaviors and also to make them understand that rasing responsible children is more fulfilling than a fat wage.

Lots of primary health centers in Rivers State has accepted to organize parents of new born babies coming for immunization so we can educated them on how to become more involved in parenting so that the children they just brought into this world would live a fulfilled life and become an added advantage to our society.

RRCSAFRICA is also intending to partner with UNICEF so as to reach out to other part of Nigeria and Africa.
Dose our work and vision interest you? If yes, then become part of us by sending us an email at rrcsafrica@gmail.com or call us on 08181048162.
Together we can save life's. Suicide among teens is on it speed in Nigeria due to parents and teachers negligence. But, with our support they can become more involved in parenting and they would help their children live a fulfilled life.