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One of my wealthy relatives(politician and businessman) posted about this on his WhatsApp.
I don't even know anything about these sort of things, but it seems him and his circle of contacts knows about the person and things like this.

Just thinking...🤔

Vijuchoco:
Funny you.. Even if I truly have an excuse, I don't bother saying it because they feel it's a normal thing for me to come late. Pathetic

Plan your time and activities of the day daily.

Then stick to it as much as possible.

Nemesis0147:
water for what na?

That was in reasons to the person dat said he should use the money to buy purewater to sell, and make more money before spending

Vijuchoco:
Going late to work..

Unhealthy eating..

I should bathe and go out...but I am here on nairaland...sitting in the house...making up a convincing excuse in my head.

I'm not answerable to my colleagues, but I want to make up a justifiable excuse to convince myself that I'm right to be at home by this time.

SonofGod231:
I can't stop carrying women and I want to. It's an addiction. Davido dey learn.
I can't stay without woman so tey I carry winch go house one time. God will help me.

You see that witch own...bro you no lie o.

Na ogbanje wey dey find rship I meet, before I broke it off and stop sex entirely.
6months gone...till I'm ready for marriage...no more illicit sex.

tetralogyfallot:
e fit dey more expensive o. As in ehn, reason am, no urgent 2k, no recharge card, no data buying, no fixing of hair, no fixing of nails, no emotional trauma, just enjoy your 5k Waka dey go your house.

Oga, na smallie for area I say make you find.

Depends on your age and your environment, find one 20yr old nice gurl.
She go dey cook, clean, visit regularly....not the hot broke fashionista ooo

That type, if you give her 5k, three times in a month, she go happy wella.
Most of these sales gurls around my area earn 20k monthly.
Imagine man wey dey give you your salary equivalent without stress.

Beyond the sex, we want the companionship too. Na there the joy dey.
We just don't want drama attached.

Besides, why you go pay 5k for short time...e cost na.
The tètè na gold?!

Ebubu2:
Eating the inner flesh of my mouth but by this post i have stopped doing it

I do find myself doing this too.

When it stresses my mouth, I become conscious and stop it.

Dunno how it starts, but I'm now stopping it, whenever I become alert.

ugodson:
I pray so. One day gone without it. Pray for me

I understand.
One day gan no dey easy.

Just pick a close date to be done with it...gets your environment suitable, plan how you'll alternatively spend that time...and live.

When the thoughts and urges come, tell it that you're done with that life...and switch your mind and body to something else planned for the time.

I don't know the place of prayer in all these o...I prayed for over 15yrs, yet masturbation no stop.
Buh when I mentally let go, told myself I have outgrown that lifestyle...I saw the mental image of me masturbating, and it disgusted me for the first time.
I stopped instantly.
When the urge comes, I remind myself of how shameful and disgusting I look, masturbating at that age.

Na me give myself sense and dropped it.
It became easier everyday to choose pride than shame.

Nemesis0147:
motivational speaker
Na so easy?

If you dey Abuja, I go give you correct water on credit

Illegal1:
omoh........to stop going to ashawo quarter,bt no way..

5k in a week, once a week...20-30k monthly.

It's a small money...but run one month without that expenses, and see how rich you'll feel.

Besides, instead of illicit sex, get one smallie for area wey you go dey treat well for the mean time.
Una two go dey take care of each other.
Cap the rship expenses at 20k monthly.
You'd see how she'll be loyal to you

ugodson:
Smoking cigarettes. I dont do weed

It's doable...I know two guys who have come out successfully.

ugodson:
Smoking cigarettes. I dont do weed

Switch to weed if it's accessible...it's healthier than cigarette.

However, stop smoking entirely....at a point, man gats stop to dey indulge..and face life squarely.

If only talking bout it here would help me to sail above it.

Rayban25:
some people are funny.

so because some has a benz he cant sell bread? how do nigerians think?

Nigerians think about the profitability of the business.

That benz would pay him more, in Uber, than in Bread delivery.
How many Bread the car wan carry...?
How many locations to cover....
Each retailer buys at least 10 loaves on a daily basis.

Using that small vehicle is just not worth it...except he's going for marketing.

I used to go fetch water in the community with my uncle's Range Rover Sports. (FHA Egbu)
That's when water no dey community.
They are regularly served by state waterboard.

I go just load like 5 gallons, dey cruise go.


This is only one scene...maybe he went to assist in a delivery...I doubt Selling Bread is his present hustle.
It's probably a one-time thing.

Flamemignon1:
Yea....the Abrahamaic religions that have roots in Zoroastrianism,that would've been great but not everyone follows those religions and it's not right to make laws fashioned from them from everyone

Yea, it's obviously a system that works with a miniscule anomaly that's not even up to 5% of the world so I still don't know why it's still a problem

You literally don't need to be gay or straight for the continuation of life, before same sex adoption and even surrogacy rights were adopted by both same sex and opposite sex couples alike,lavander marriages were a thing for same sex couples,a gay man will bring a child into world with a lesbian as the mother due to societal pressure, it still goes on today. so the theory of race continuity holds no water especially in today's climate where having a child is no longer seen as a responsibility but as a choice instead regardless of your sexuality

Sex is subjective for everyone moreover I know gay people who don't like anal sex,just because someone is gay doesn't mean they love anal sex when their is mutual mast,frottage etc not to talk about gay transmen who still have their vagina intact,my
boyfriend is a transman and he still have his vagina so yes,gay men also screw vagina in gay transmen and just because someone is straight doesn't mean they love penile-vaginal sex, there's a whole reddit forum for straight couples who only do anal sex, it's literally a lifestyle for them now and if the man who's dominant knows what he's doing,anal sex can be the most pleasurable sex for both gay men and women,women mostly get full body orgasms from anal sex while gay get prostate orgasms from it and prostate orgasms are 8 times more intense than the penile orgasm and guess what? A prostate orgasm is just like a female orgasm without a resting or olfactory period like the penile orgasm is,you can go on and on and be cumming on the beat, it's a leg shaking life changing orgasm

Hahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahaha

Baba wan finish me with description!

WTefff.....

Baba leave me ooo
😆 🤣 😂

You do make a strong point tho.
Essentially it's too minuscule to matter...yet you know how these things should be curbed at their root and infancy.

Well, society is ever changing...and we make up the society.
Hopefully, a time will come when the world will coexist peacefully with all her complexities.
There's no perfect system...and as long as no harm is done to others, through open promotion of the culture, then like every other thing the society frowns at, y'all can shag in peace.
Just don't promote the culture...instead promote openness to the differences in life.
We shouldn't let the culture grow.
We'll manage the existing fallout of humanity;
Since there's usually no casualty, the govt and society will not demonise you lot, but we will not celebrate an "inferior" either; especially when we still have heterosexual s3x available to us (leave all those your picturesque orgasm you painted there)

I don't want to experience both to now compare which is more pleasurable.
Just know that when it comes to sex, sexuality, mannerism...masculinity and heterosexuality trumps on all board.

If you choose to walk the "lesser" path...enjoy your journey.
I'm indifferent to y'all.
...coz it could have been me also.

Flamemignon1:
In that case heterosexuality can also be unlearnt if we are going by your logic, it's the demonization of homosexuality that people are fighting against and an anomaly is a defect in nature,just because something doesn't follow the norm doesn't deem it unnatural, notice I used the word "unnatural" not "abnormal"

Moreover,you are telling queer seeking for the same rights you enjoy as a straight person special rights

We would have unlearnt heterosexuality, if the Bible, Qu'ran and other historical and religious books have taught otherwise.

We were groomed into heterosexuality because it is a system that works.
We even support adoption for heterosexual couples.

Beyond the unique sexual/emotional pleasure gays get, which is their prerogative, there is the problem of biological continuity.
Nature itself has taught us that heterosexual intercourse is a part of her properties.

Homosexuality is not a sustainable way of life.
Even in heterosexual s3x, anal is not prevalent, how much more in men- with stronger muscles. It is a painful pleasure for some men involved in it, if not most.


I'm totally against abuse of human rights for all humans.
Closet or open gay, should not be discriminated against except on personal basis, which everyone is entitled to.

Corrupt politicians, prostitutes, ex-cons, smokers, drunkards et al, still get booed and discriminated on personal space, but they still get their due public rights.

In summation, what is logical should be done.
Humanity is intelligent enough to know what works.
You know the better choice.
Heterosexuality.
Promote it.

Faber:
Obi won in Edo hands down...talk what you know

Owkei...learnt.

easzypeaszy:
Benin ppl just wan do demsef fr dis Naija..dey hlp Igbo wey no send dem carry fight fr head

How is it an Igbo fight?

Don't you want a better Nigeria?

A country that works....financially, economically...education, health, judiciary...accountable governance...?

If the judiciary takes a bias stand, they are setting the tone for corrupt legislations in this country.

Please stop the tribal hate...we're all Nigerians, despite our different ethnical history.

Flamemignon1:
Like I said we are making two different debates here,one on gender,the other on sexuality but environment does have a way of shaping both, that's what they both have in common

The concept of "born this way" refers to how you birth yourself as you grow,as you grow,the environment shapes your well being and who you are as a human being sexual-attraction wise so upbringing do play a part but not in all cases

If sexuality can be learnt from the environment, then it can be unlearned.
If it was natural, then they'd have a case.

Since sexual orientation/affinity is learnt, and the larger society is calling it out, can't we all agree that it is an anomaly?
Should we continue in a wrong, coz most people are doing it?
Should we be corrupt, coz most politicians are corrupt?
Should prostitution be right coz most ladies learnt it as a survival means?

Same goes for homosexuality.
If it is a wrong influence at infancy, it shouldn't be tolerated in adulthood.

However, bad as it is deemed to be, its no one's business what two consenting adults choose to do in the bedroom, there are no bedroom rules for sexual pleasure...but if they bring it before the public eye, they better be ready to be put in their place.
What is wrong is wrong...there's no justification for it.
No special rights and privilege should be accorded them, and no discrimination should come to them too, except they publicly identify as one.

orohbiro:
Nigerians by the time Tinubu is done

Which kind akpòr picture be this....even one left bress, pesin no see...despite the zooming

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Benin is the headquarters of Obidients

Yet they couldn't deliver Edo state for Labour party

Flamemignon1:
Ok,sex isn't gender, masculinity is not being male and no masculinity isn't natural, it's a norm and that's ok,no one is born masculine or feminine from the womb,they are traits learned as a child develops with the child's environment being it's primary teacher of those traits

Also,human sexuality is innate and not learned, please read more on the born this way concept,no one is born gay or straight

Moreover,you lot should stop associating gender mannerisms with human sexuality,two different things.....As an avid tourist,I have traveled round the world and I have seen the most manly man who's gay and the most feminine man who's straight and @the bolded,I think you mean straight people

Your assertions on Gender mannerism and human sexuality being environment-based, could be true, but what are the numbers...and environment?

If environment is responsible for grooming feminity and masculinity, does that also mean that being straight or gay is a factor of one's upbringing.
So if we have more straight men, than gay (inclusive of LGBTQ+), does that not mean the society might be right by calling out that form of grooming that practices an abnormality?

Read https://ericmcdon..com/2015/09/homosexuality-in-3-d-nature-early.html
...on Nature, Nurture and Lack.

Flamemignon1:
Lol,gay men are spineless men whereas you are not half a man or man enough to endure what they go through,Are you man enough to receive the hate society throws at them? A real man does whatever the hell he wants as long as no one gets hurt whereas you are doing what society considers as normal and wants you to do,go answer your master puppeteer strings. Moreover,your hate stems from misogyny,you hate feminity so much because it's associated with weakness so anything that acts like a woman is less than to you,go work on that because no man out there is a 100% masculine.


Also what are the stupid codes of brotherhood? To ostracize any man who's different from you? Is that what being a man is tno you? Or for fighting and standing up against injustices for those who can't?

Masculinity is not a societal norm...it's a natural phenomenon.
Homosexuality is not natural, it is Learnt or influenced.
They need to stop giving room to such thought and ideologies from the early stage.

I've been in such space of indoctrination, I'm indifferent to them, but I'd rather they showed more control of their physical, mental and emotional agility.

Gays are too picky about their space and lifestyle.
Not open to other ideas (they don't even argue their point, they just dead the convo, with their sentiments about the person, not the point being discussed.)

There's skepticism, complex...and lack of EQ.

TheFreshVanilla:
LoL...If you're expecting God to kill Tinubu, you be mumu. Even God's favorite Israelites went to war but you Nigerians don't read that part of the bible. As long as you people don't have the mind to protest/fight for your rights, remain silent in suffering or continue your book of lamentations on social media.

They went to war with a leader.

Who will lead this one?

Abokiijebu:
[b][/b] Nigeria 1: Canada 4

They both lost in round of 16; as at 2019.

Latest record, April 2013...

Nigeria scored 3 goals against an average New Zealand, while Canada lost 2-1 to a strong France.
We are both in good form.

......................
0-0.
Final score.

Starting the tournament with a goalless draw and a red card..

Go SuperFalcons!

This one wey una mind no dey the tournament so, hope you gurls will go out there and do great.

No -ve energy.