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EgunMogaji:


Ex Wife #1: US Citizen / White

Ex Wife #2: UK Citizen / White (4 children).

Current Wife: Nigerian Citizen / Black (I have to put this because I have an Indian co worker who was born and raised in Nigeria until the age of 25).

Have been in long term relationships (not just after club romp) with Chinese, Mexican, Swiss, Argentinian citizens.

All women are beautiful in their own right. There are ugly and beautiful people from all races. I suggest that you expand your dating circle.

So na so u take get green card

Most of these bullets come from irresponsible officers with guns who shoot into the air indiscriminately and either forgetting or not realizing that what goes up must come down, so the bullet goes up and after some time travels down in any direction with enough speed to penetrate a body or any object.

Koolking:
Sweet couples.

By the way, is the hubby's attire Nigerian or Ghanaian? Is he not supposed to dress in Edo attire to complement the wife's culture in a traditional wedding?

Ex-teledom big boy ,how body long time

The rules of love by Richard templer. Straight forward , easy to understand and you can see the practicality of his advice.

BIAFRONIGERIAN:
We going global cheeeeee

It is ok with you with okey bakassi lol

eyeview:
Did anyone notice item 3 on the order of the day?
That is Rochas seeking to transfer the ownership of state owned revenue generating assets to a private company.
Tinubu is his role model in looting and diversion of state owned assets .
Criminal party with criminal members.

And nairalanders are only interested in item 2

Sterope:
It could have been an omission on his part. No one is perfect. If he didn't bother, he clearly didn't think twice of HER CONTRIBUTION when he asked her to pack out.

You may be older than me but I know that men have asked their wives to pack out for something less than a word or two. They use as an instrument of control and blackmail. Besides, it is very condescending, arrogant and selfish to ask your wedded partner to pack up and leave like a fhucking guest. I really don't want to know what happened. I don't care! Do you know how fhucking long it took her to move in? No wonder men are scared to live in their wive's house. You can't bear to go through what you put women through because you own a fhucking house, do you? Hypocrite much? :-Disrespect or not, what should a woman do when her husband disrespect her? poison him or ask him to leave if she happens to own the house? Because I really don't understand what could justify asking your partner to pack out like a guest.

This is the same man that is now insisting on being the sole bearer. It sounds to me like a man who likes to control by fire or by force.

You think it is great to chase out a partner. I don't think it is. I don't care what could have happened. If you have a problem, you sort it out or you could make arrangements. You just don't ask your partner to pack out or throw their properties out!

Am so loving ur perspective on this matter and and answers to followup questions.

Are you married that curious

Sterope:
HEseesall

You and your husband had an agreement but somthing came up. His dad was sick and he could not go ahead with what you have agreed on. Your husband did not spend the money on parties, he spent it on father's sickness. Your story and action make it seem like you are more concerned about him not keeping to the agreement than the reason he broke it off.

Lucky for him, he didn't spend all the money on his father's sickness. He added the remainder to the building of the house which means he should have a share of the property. However you chose not to amend the title documents even though he also contributed.Why? Well, you were wrong to do that.You would have hated him if it were you.

It is sad your husband has appeared to be very selfish, arrogant, illogical and immature. His subsequent reactions have trumped yours. A husband who is comfortable to ask his family to pack put because he can do so or because his name is on the title document is wicked. You are fortunate that your name was on the title document. That action appears to justify and nullify your bad behaviour. With a man like that, you are very lucky.

You have done well to want to amend the title document to reflect his contribution. Don't let him use seperation and divorce to blackmail you into using his sole name. It is a wicked and selfish idea. His actions have proved that you will regret it if it is in his name only. I wish you the best. I hope it works out between you two.

A well balanced reply ma, apportioning blames rightly to both parties. Like u said "I hope it works out between you two". Trust has already been broken.

KhadyM:
Of course! Why not? Theyre not xenophobic. I just warned you about how expensive it is though

thanks a lot for ur time,u r far too kind.just out of curiosity,where are from?

KhadyM:
Neither! Resided in Zambia a while back though

ok, but is it a country that one can settle down in and wrk or engage in personal/private business. Cos am network engineer here in Nigeria and almost every thing I do revolves around ict.

KhadyM:
Me! It's very expensive!

are you Zambian or a Nigerian residing in Zambia.have friend who has been asking me to move over there, but am not to sure abt the country

JixNation:
I dey tell you baba


May he be strong even in another world.

Hahahah strong indeed, the world where him suppose get power him die like chicken. Na for world where heavenly father dey nd demons nd angels him wan get power to fight who exactly

Ubanagum:
RIP LION HEART! Someday we shall meet to part no more

leave story guy "A LIVING DOG IS BETTER THAN A DEAD LION"

Koolking:
Mourinho is not a good coach. He was seemingly successful because he was leveraging on financial and manpower prowess of topflight clubs in the world. Interestingly, he's finding it difficult to win games now because football has changed. There are a lot talents in every football clubs now.
He doesn't have the managerial skills to harness talents. He doesn't develop potential talents, he builds himself around big names, already made players.

If he goes back to club like Porto, he won't exceed first round in Champions League. He has nothing to offer. He will wreck ManUtd and leave feeling like a superman.

I disagree with you. He was a good coach who took European football by storm with his tactical knowledge of the game nd his ability to get the best out of his players.
but now he doesn't want to admit that that style of football is dead and buried.that's his albatross.

Two movies got me really really interested in suits
John wick- keanu Reeves looked smashing

Kingsman-- never knew one cld look so tight in double in breasted suit.

Acidosis:
If you can give your man sex because he spent N700k on aso ebi, groundnuts, palm oil, goats, etc., then should as well give him sex when he buys you an iPhone.
Religious factors are the major reasons women deny men of sex. So a woman can decide to wait until she meets her religious obligations. It is her choice.

However, what I'm saying to ignorant minds like yours is this: that thing you call traditional marriage is a total waste of time, because it is not recognized. If I spend 700k on your bride price today, I can wake up tomorrow denying ever meeting you. You don't have any proof apart from the unrecognized photoshop pictures and empty bottles of ogogoro and goats.

Guy calm down, ur blood too dey hot,

Traditional marriage is recognized in Nigeria, I do agree that if u stop at only the Traditional marriage rites ,then you are subject to the laws governing it. But to outrightly
throw it away is a no no. No church in Nigeria even the firebrand ones will perform church marriage until you have done ur trad,dat in itself speaks volumes.
the question is can one have sex after trad marriage, I believe is yes if u decide to wait till u finish all other ceremonies, agree with your partner.

lexy2014:
u have just corroborated my point. What "presence" does a "Man of God" carry that u don't carry? U are trying 2 say without d "Man of Gods" presence ti bless u, then u aren't blessed. I don't no were that is in d bible. Am not saying u shouldn't want certain things but u are making ur blessing 4 ur life&marriage a function of what a pastor does or doesn't do 4u. That's y I said u need 2 read ur Bible to no ur authority

Bros ,abeg free the sheeple na pple like her dey make daddy freeze get right to mock xtians. She has been been a Christian bt does not know the power or authority she carries as a child a God.

Yuneek:
A Nigerian victim of human trafficking has narrated the harrowing ordeal they suffered in the hands of their principals.

The victim, whose name was not revealed, shared her story in Bein City, Edo State during a Roundtable on Migration and Human Trafficking organised by the Nigerian Senate.

The victim who is now married and expecting a baby with her husband stated that she was 19 when she was trafficked from Edo State to Russia and forced into prostitution for two years.

She said: “They told me I was going into prostitution for six months.

“I was going there to make money to further my education.

“We had to sleep with different kinds of men. It was on the street. We were standing on the road.

“She (my madam) would say no (we can’t stop work), there is a tissue she used to give to us to block it (the menstruation). She does not allow us to stay at home.

“We paid our madam for food, clothes, and also contributed money for the house rent. We bought the condoms ourselves.”

On the number of clients and money she made in a day, the victim said: “It depends…. Sometimes, six, seven or eight clients.
“1,000 rubles per client (about 6,120 naira). For an entire day, you could make 10,000 rubles, if you are lucky you could make 15, 000.”

She narrated how she was often assaulted by men and also arrested and detained for days by the police.



“I was beaten up and raped by four men. They even urinated on me when I asked them to pay me.

“I didn’t care to report to the Russian authorities that I was raped. Apart from the fact that I didn’t have a proof, I thought they won’t believe me since I was a prostitute.”

The victim said she eventually decided to quit prostitution, and was able to escape to Nigeria without her international passport through the help of a Nigerian she identified as “Mr. Ken”.

But before then she was able to pay her “madam” $15,000 out of the $50,000 she was expected to pay in order to buy back her freedom in Russia.

Reacting to the confession, the British Deputy High Commissioner in Nigeria, Laure Beaufils, said at the roundtable that “4000 to 6000 times, some Nigerian girls are forced to have sex with strangers for the rest of their lives.”

The Senate president, Bukola Saraki, thanked the victims for sharing their experiences which he said would help the government take steps towards tackling human trafficking.

Saraki said the Senate was ‘losing sleep’ over irregular migration and human trafficking in the country, and that as representatives of the people, “they are determined to tackle the problem.”

He said, “Nigeria currently ranks 23 on the Global Slavery Index of 167 countries with the highest number of slaves.



“Human trafficking is third in the ignoble hierarchy of the commonly occurring crimes in Nigeria, according to UNESCO.

“Nigeria accounts for the world’s highest number of irregular migrants going through the Agadez Route. Our citizens represent the fifth largest number of migrants crossing the Mediterranean Sea into Europe.

“The number of Nigerian females arriving in Italy alone increased 600-fold in just three years. 10,000 Nigerians are estimated to have lost their lives on the perilous journey in five months of last year alone.

“We have seen the bleak images of coffins of 26 Nigerian girls, who were laid to rest in Italy last November. This is what brings us today to ancient Benin.”

https://dailynaija.com/post/we-were-forced-to-have-sex-with-men-while-on-our-periods-trafficking-victim

na the bolded funny me pass, losing sleep indeed.

[quote author=MhizzAJ post=65622829]Awww

AFSS Ikeja
Class of 2012
Nice one [/quocte]

Heard Mr Akinte( hope I got the name right its been yrs)
the very slim economics teacher is late.
is mrs Idowu the maths teacher strict(na my church member)

HigherEd:
You attended a University in a country with 30% unemployment rate and you think we should be clapping for you. Mind you, it is *Covenant and not convenant. Radarada! Also tell your company that is the last installation they would ever have in CU or any affiliated private uni.

this is the problem with children, open mouth and talk any how. The buildings are the topic of discussion, u have jumped into employment rate, is the unemployment rate in Nigeria better than than of Italy.
As for telling my company that nonsense u wrote, sorry to tell you but we have gone beyond ur school nd have gotten a contract to install same for federal and state universities.via NUC .so u can put a noose around ur neck and do the needful.

Rebuke:
Chai! See talk. Whr hav yhu ever bin to in yhur life?

If yhu hav d guts, say the places yhu hav bin to in n out of this nation and Letz see hw much yhu knw for real.


I want to engage yhu a little...post yhur points with proofs nt jxt some fake talks here.

Letz see how much of edifice/building and beauty yhu have seen all yhur life dat gives yhu d guts to say nothing spectacular abt CU.

Oga, am not here to argue with u over building architectures, my company installed smart classrooms for the university, so we explored all the buildings on the campus,and like I said from outside u wld be impressed
but inside the corridors,rooms are just like any other schools offices/ rooms.
in fact in one of the lecture rooms where we installed our devices,on the ground floor, the decking and walls where leaking, so pls park well
Least I forget, I attend a university in Trieste Italy nd I recently visited my younger sis in Birmingham university where she is currently schooling, so sir I have seen buildings and not impressed by convenant university buildings.

Rebuke:
Chai! See talk. Whr hav yhu ever bin to in yhur life?

If yhu hav d guts, say the places yhu hav bin to in n out of this nation and Letz see hw much yhu knw for real.


I want to engage yhu a little...post yhur points with proofs nt jxt some fake talks here.

Letz see how much of edifice/building and beauty yhu have seen all yhur life dat gives yhu d guts to say nothing spectacular abt CU.

Oga, am not here to argue with u over building architectures, my company installed smart classrooms for the university, so we explored all the buildings on the campus,and like I said from outside u wld be impressed
but inside the corridors,rooms are just like any other schools offices/ rooms.
in fact in one of the lecture rooms where we installed our devices,on the ground floor, the decking and walls where leaking, so pls park well

There is nothing spectacular about the buildings pls. In fact Nigeria knows nothing about buildings ,by the time u see the rooms/ offices u will realise that it's all about outside appearance

She is fine but if u look closely u can tell that old age wen it comes would not be kind to her

Koolking:
When a system in place is not working, there is always a need to restructure and revamp. Lawma/PSP was not working at a point. Most of the private sector participants were in the habit of dumping trash from their trucks at unauthorised dumpsite thereby creating more environmental problems.

I guess, the recent wanton dirt in Lagos is as a result of transition from the former operators to the new waste managers (Visionscape to be exact). Complete transition will take a while. I believe the situation will be addressed. I believe the new system will be better however.

Meanwhile, you can call the new operators to clear pile up trashes around your area FREE of charge. I personally tried it, in less than 24hours the heap of trash was cleared in my area.

We should not complain and condemn every system put in place without profferring any solution. Sometimes, our creative input would help ameliorate situations. Patience is a virtue.


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Peace!

Teledom Big boy,

I graduated a long long time ago with a degree in statistics but had decided to go into IT.I started with Oracle database administration, cldnt get wrk with the certifications, so I switched to networking , I read and read, from basic to advanced books in networking including ccna but didn't write the exam ,but I knew the stuff so well that wen I went for an interview the hr guys were so impressed that I was employed ,and from there I really took off in my IT career. So I wld advice that
: u have passion and desire to read and learn
: wen reading pls make sure u have a good understanding of how the solution can be used in a production environment,else ur head wld only be filled with theories.
: have basic certifications,
:visit YouTube always

Just got back from imo yesterday, and to be honest ,imo pple enter one chance, dump sites right left and center, bad roads ( even the small roundabout in front of shoprite is bad), but if u see the Christmas decorations the govt put up at night u will think u r in yankee, but daytime reveals the truth abt imo.
Well make una no vex, just endure till he leaves ,just make sure his own person Will not replace him come 2019.

Now, Abeg make una help me ask the army ,police etc y they have decided to turn the roads into east to checkpoints,everywhere check point,extorting drivers nd causing gridlocks ,a visitor wld think the east is a war zone,

Lily4star:
To think I am one of his customers and know him in person hurts and drives me mad even more.



May their souls rest in peace

lovely smile nd dentition u have.

Rip to the dead,beautiful family.

sarrki:
Let anyone that have ears to listen

Stop using perfumes in rural and villages

They see you as a nectar

Bees didn't know the designers you wear

Absolutely true, na so dad wen he moved back to the village ,one day cleaned up sprayed perfume nd stepped out to go visiting , he got attacked by bees, nd mumsie we dey village that period rush to help him nd she also go sting,every other person fled.

nkemdi89:
Genesis, phone arena, studio 24, dstv office, open terrace and so many fun place don join, my own na only dstv and shop rite dey carry me go.

Nice ,mean say man go enter owerri this Xmas. Need to really tour that town.

nkemdi89:
Yes I be twin, but I no be atheist o.

No wonder with respect to one of ur dp, you said the two pple in it were you.Cool

How owerri mail ,hope it's better now,last time I was there na only Kilimanjaro nd shoprite dey make the place bubble

nkemdi89:
Me and my sisters were flogged by our dad because we accepted biscuits from bro gods power who used to be our neighbour, another one was an event taken out of context, as a kid me and twin accompanied our neighbour to the church, I started playing when prayer was going on, unfortunately I fell off the church bench, my neighbour got home and informed my parent that I was possessed. The beaten I received I don't if it was for falling or for going with her to the church without my parents approval, till today whenever I passed that four square gospel church, I still remember that incident and that in general dampened my spirit in going to church.

So you are a twin??
U don turn atheist abi lol