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maasoap:
I understand that people who have been convicted have more freedom than the ones under trials. This girl is still under trial, she's not even supposed to be qualified for the contest.

Why??
I understand the plight of the victim family but she has been taken to the prison.....her parts of her life cut off but people are still asking for more.
Even if she will die tomorrow..... she has the right to be happy today........God is not even that wicked......let her enjoy the little life she has now before she dies is not too much to ask.
And evidence is been gathered..... judgement hasn't been pronounced within a reasonable doubt...... Lawyers are still on the matter.......and she hasn't be found guilty....then let her be happy till her judgement day..Biko

She has the right to be happy until proven guilty.....


just Go and read about a notorious rubber called SHINA RAMBO who is a robber..........

and a murderer. He was given a lighter sentence because he surrendered himself, ...........
He gave his life to Christ in prison and now is a pastor. He is have been set free serving the Lord.

Those he has killed is gone and he has been corrected in the prison.

No body knows tomorrow...... let the judges serve her punishment.....till then

[quote author=Kingcalls post=110994577]I hope ud say same about the BRT bus driver and that school proprietor that killed that 5cyrcols and also that guy that raped and killed the girl that came for job interview in calabar ... I hope they also deserve to be happy when there is a video of them competing for Mr prison and smiling to the cameras while the wardens plays with them [/quote

Of course they have the right to be happy untill Justice is serve to them either Death sentence or life imprisonment but till then they have the right to be happy.

Kingcalls:
Alot of Nigerians are mentally ill and unfortunately, u are one of them

She's not ill..... she has the right to be happy untill found guilty.

Notryme80:
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JimmyDarmody:
Sequel to this thread;
https://www.nairaland.com/6765187/careers-women-turn-off-man#106048053

I think a married woman should not have to work. Your wife stands to be treated as a subordinate and even disrespected by her bosses. Some may try to make advances. A man should make enough money to a point that his wife does not have to work too.

What do you think ?

I wonder ooo, both of us burning the midnight candles in the
uni and is then is time for my enjoyment, he is now telling
me not to work... that's wickedness. My parents that sent me
to school made a mistake abi in order for me to work.
marry an illetrate if you want housewife.
I also have a vision and a dream, that should be respected.
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kurlz:
If you want a full house wife marry an illiterate or semi illiterate. I can't pass through the 4 walls of uni and a man will tell me not to work. Except he is ready to open a mall for me.

I wonder ooo, both of us burning the midnight candles in the uni and is then is time for my enjoyment, he is now telling me not to work... that's wickedness. My parents that sent me to school made a mistake abi in order for me to work.
marry an illetrate if you want housewife

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mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Including your sisters and relatives. All of them.

I am Akinsanmi omobonike (B.TECH in pure and applied chemistry) ( M.SC in Analytical chemistry ), please I need a job, I reside at Monatan, Ibadan..
Thanks

Interesting

What's More important is the fear of God, A lady with a fear Of God won't fornicate or commit adultery.

Nazgul:
My first relationship hmmm, I was still a simp. It happened a year after I finished secondary school.

I loved her from the bottom of my heart, I even took the phone my aunt bought for me and give her as a birthday present, spent so much on her, I just wanted her to be happy, I even brought her home to to meet my mum. in all the relationships I've been so far that was the one I invested the greatest.

She later left me for an apprentice learning electrical work under his oga, he impregnated her and ran away. Whereas the highest romance we shared were kisses and hugs, nothing more. I was a male virgin and she also claimed to be a virgin as well.

She came back to me with the pregnancy after some months telling me she still loves me, that I should accept it, it doesn't mean anything thing. Do you know I was still ready to accept her back. It was my mum that talked sense into my head. Poor naeiv me.

We're all good people till evil people teach us lessons we might never recover from.

What I gained? Never trust anyone until they give you a reason to trust them.

Assume everyone is bad

Assume everyone is cheating on you so that when they eventually do, you won't be disappointed cos you've already conditioned your mind for the worst

Everybody is your friend, Everybody is your enemy, live your life like that and nothing will surprise you.

1) Everybody is your friend, everybody is your enemy, live your life like that and nothing will surprise you.

2) Never make someone a priority when you are only an option.

3) You can't please everyone, just do what is Right.

4) Your happiness can only come from you, never depend on any one for your happiness.

5) God answer prayer, is just that we can't wait for God time.

Please, what time do they start at the Ibadan marking venue, is it by 12pm or 2pm

MrBrownJay1:
You see, the above is the main issue... If a woman can help to pay the restaurant bill or any other fun things you guys do together but decide NOT to (because in her mind it is not her duty), then how can a man value such failed mindset? Same when a woman expect a man to ALWAYS pay up for everything.thats the failed character that no man would desire in a wife, nor child.



Dating a woman who believes that "your" money is our money but "her" money is HER money...is a waste of life. Nobody wants such selfish woman as a future wife.



You see, the above is what I am fully against... Thinking that what you do as a couple (sex) in order for both of you to get closer, should now be something that you use as blackmail (aka sex/cooking and cleaning against paying for everything).

Sex shouldn't even be mentioned here, as this is something that you BOTH enjoy (unless you don't enjoy making love to your man).
If you want to cook and clean then do so regardless of whether your man takes care of your needs or not. That's not the point. So long as a man does not demand that you cook and clean as a requirement for dating him, then that's the main issue... It doesn't mean you shouldn't do it, it just means that whether you do it or not is irrelevant to the r/ship you guys have.....Same with sex.

I only mention sex for unmarried couple........An average woman wants a man to spend on them although it does not apply to me while an average man too love a woman to cook and do house chores... so is vice versa

MrBrownJay1:
Sista....A stingy man is a man that is CAREFUL WITH HIS MONEY, and certainly not the wasteful type. Such traits are qualities in marriage. The same stinginess that some women will use to keep their own money and expect their boyfriend to take care of their needs.

I have answered your question.
I don't support men taking the whole responsibility on your girl friend, but is not a big deal if I am in need of money and you can help......I will do otherwise if you're in need too.

That's why I said, if men think they are wasting money...... everyone should maintain their level of their responsibility........ Women should work for their money, because there's no money that you have that we can't make if we work hard.....is only a lazy woman that look up to men for money.

And you men too should stop looking for house help in a girlfriend if you can't waste money........... you hold your money, we close our laps, stupid cooking and washing of cloth all in the name of girlfriend.

Zzor:
Please how do you want your chicken,fried or roasted? God bless you for this

Roasted......Laugh

Escabado:
Why does this Nigerian girls think that when a man says I love you or can we date means he want to be giving you money . Where on earth have you seen any body begging to have or Loving expenses. True Love doesn't cost a thing . This same thing apply to marriage ceremony. You said you love me and I love you too but when a man goes to meet the girls parents they will start asking him for money for this or that . Then my question remains where is the Love if I'm paying you to be in relationship with you or if I'm paying your parents to have you as a wife thats means this is pure business transaction because there is nothing wey concern Love in it. So when your husband or boyfriend cheats on you , he is 100% right because he paid to have you or paying to be sleeping with you indirectly.

Guys add yours . These things Tire person

Well on this topic.
Men like to shift responsibilities and want a total submission from the woman....... Men are commanded to be responsible by providing for the family so is not a big deal if you spend money on your wife.

As for the marriage items, it is biblical so is not a big deal and if you think you can not marry from a tribe that demand a high price, there are many tribes that you can marry from that doesn't demand a huge price.

As for relationship , women brought this on themselves by looking up to the men to give them money.....ladies abeg work for your money........ although I hate a stingy person not because of the money he will give me but I believe most of them are irresponsible in marriage. A guy that can't be caring and helpful is not useful.
They will be looking for a wife material by cooking , washing their clothes and mopping their floor in a girl friend and if he ask for money na gold digger..........so what is your usefulness when we are not married and you expect me to do house.

Well what I believe , Ladies close your laps, no nonsense cooking, washing of stupid clothes before marriage and pleased work for your money.....we all went to the wall of school so you deserve better.

Well on this topic.
Men like to shift responsibilities and want a total submission from the woman....... Men are commanded to be responsible by providing for the family so is not a big deal if you spend money on your wife.

As for the marriage items, it is biblical so is not a big deal and if you think you can not marry from a tribe that demand a high price, there are many tribes that you can marry from that doesn't demand a huge price.

As for relationship , women brought this on themselves by looking up to the men to give them money.....ladies abeg work for your money........ although I hate a stingy person not because of the money he will give me but I believe most of them are irresponsible in marriage. A guy that can't be caring and helpful is not useful.
They will be looking for a wife material by cooking , washing their clothes and mopping their floor in a girl friend and if she ask for money na gold digger..........so what is your usefulness when we are not married and you expect me to do house.

Well what I believe , Ladies close your laps, no nonsense cooking, washing of stupid clothes before marriage and pleased work for your money.....we all went to the wall of school so you deserve better.

Don't compare yourself to others, our time are different so Wait for Your time.

Pelxmiye:
I don't fully get you , but I understand some points

That is it, The situation is in two sides........ a guy that is not
spending should not expect that ladies must be cooking and
washing his clothes as a sign of wife materials.......... it goes hand in hand jare

Pelxmiye:
There are two sides to this though

That is it, The situation is in two sides........ a guy that is not spending is expecting able to cook different meal and washing of clothes as a wife materials.......... it goes hand in hand jare

MrBrownJay1:
just like ladies can date who they desire, men also should stay away from goldigging good for nothing women.

there is nothing wrong with a stingy man, and people should stop trying to make them look like there is something wrong with them. if a man earns money, he has all the right to decide how to spend his money. NOBODY (especially broke women) has any right to demand that he spends HIS money the way some deluded stranger deems fit.

as the proud chairman of the NL "money dont grow on trees" club, i can assure you, if a woman has the audacity to call anybody stingy, then simply reply to her:" biitch, since you think that money grows on trees, then why dont you spend YOUR money... and shut your dirty mouth, instead of thinking that MY money is "your" money"

the best way for a man to be broke is by wasting his money trying to impress good for nothing women that havent worked a day in their lives and dont know the VALUE of money.

As a woman does not deserve a money from a guy...... Yes
very true....then a woman should not turn herself to
housemaid by dating a guy just by cooking for him, washing
his clothes.... you are not his house maid dear.
Ladies work for your money and dont look up to them for
money when you can work for your money and please don't
turn to housemaid for a man jor

As a woman does not deserve a money from a guy...... Yes very true....then a woman should not turn herself to housemaid by dating a guy just by cooking for him, washing his clothes.... you are not his house maid dear.

Ladies work for your money and dont look up to them for money when you can work for your money and please don't turn to housemaid for a man jor

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