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madlady:
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6M5C-oKw9k&hl=en_GB&fs=1&"><

bcuz she talks like a boss, acts like a boss, got her own thing, that makes her independent? I think not! but if i am going to answer according to that video, then i will say no! no woman is coming to boss me in any r/s period! she might be a boss but once it's between her and me, she gotta drop that boss behavior at work

follypimpi:
Men wld u date/Marry an independent lady e.g richer than u,better job and so on,would u feel threatened( For example condoleezza rice)

relationships are not meant for independent ppl, and that goes for both sexes, so for me she will have to define what she means by she is an "independent woman"

madlady:
^^^If he or she cannot say it, then it simple means they are not in love.

wrong! keep ur western ideas to urself

madlady:
Do you think a guy would like one?

y me:
if he is romantic ,then a yes will do it
just make sure its not yellow

romantic ko, romantic ni. rubbish! we are guys, we dont live in a fairly tale world like u ladies do, sheez!

Ayoshinex:
Flowers play a significant part in our lives, especially during special occasions. Throughout the years of our tradition of sending flowers, some have become synonymous with certain meanings or expressions. When you want to convey true love, there's no doubt what you mean when you send red roses. With this in mind, we've come up with a fun way to send your message using the language of flowers. To let your love know you're filled with desire or everlasting love, send one of these quick eCards!

flowers are a waste of precious money, plain and simple. apart from planting them aroudn the house i see no use for them

bk/babe97:
T who? Who the hell is that?

***googles the name, finds out he's a musician, checks Youtube, finds a Tpain imitator, is fucxxcking disappointed, breaks computer****


Abekeade, dont u eva ask me out for ish like this eva again!!!

plz stop, dont kill me with laughter ooo

Odunnu:
@Na2day,Dnt tel me u went viewin her profile 2catch a glimpz of d backside. O ma sie o!
Wht happnd 2ur fat pix.Dnt tel me wht i thnk made u change it.

ok nau, i wont tell u and yes, i check her profile constantly to see if she has that backside up there

Busy_body:
@ OP

I have been trying to give my life to Christ and because of people like you who are always spouting Bible verses in the Romance section, I have never had any need to visit the Religion section. May God bless you for this and continue to enlarge your territory.


^{Coughing and spluttering} I have an innocent question,  ^{I feel shy when saying this}, but I am a virgin like you too, so you are one of my honourary role model on Nairaland I have noticed though that you think/talk about se.x a lot, meaning it is always on your mind, infact 99.99% of all your posts seems to contain a reference to it (preaching about abstinence, berating and slatting those who are doing it, talking about how you can't wait to do it with your own husband who would God-willing be a virgin too, etc . . .)


Now my query is that is this a pre-requisite of the Christian faith?

Do I have to talk/think about "it" everyday? ^{Keep what mind pure?}


People perish for lack of knowledge so what "educational" books do I need to be reading to prepare and arm myself for my wedding night ?


The devil is a liar so me and my husband must conquer and not be defeated that night, we are overcomers afterall so what spicy por.n racy films do I need to be watching to help me learn the techniques I would need for that night?


I really need to know cos I am scared I would not be able to keep up with you the way you namedrop this "act" and I don't want anything to hinder my relationship and walk with God

abeg free the girl, what she said is true, ppl make all kinds of excuses to engage in what they already had their minds set to do, s3x included

Busy_body:
As a matter of fact, I am a virgin and Girl846 is my role model. See me in awe of her and almost licking her feet here; https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-430779.0.html#msg5897890


Any irony you see in that post of mine was done in error, i still haven't perfected the act of using figures of speech well enough, yeah thats it

kai, i give up! ur case can only be handled by God himself. chai!

Busy_body:
https://emoticons4u.com/mad/1106.gif LITOTES ~ The "IRONY" of it https://emoticons4u.com/crazy/134.gif

what are u doing here? are u a virgin? abeg allow us see the virgins jor

jennykadry:
Why do i have the feeling that girl846 is trying to get the poster's attention cos she claims to be a virgin, cos shes been screaming "im a virgin" indirectly since, why not go meet him and tell him, you r interested, finito

abeg leave the girl jor, she has always stated clearly her position in all virginity threads

Abekeade08:
Yea I understand. I love Timaya's songs, so I am definitely going to be there. I am going to rest before my outing so that i can dance my backside off. lol

abeg no finish that backside ooo, u know i like that backside

@ OP

the woman don chop finish now wan complain. shey she talk she know say hin bi married man, now wetin she want? abeg carry the money go and die in peace or pieces. shior!

Abekeade08:
ooh really?? Did you go see him? Was it a good show?

nah i didnt go, my friends wanted to kill me for not wanting to go. i made up my mind never to attend another nigerian show after the stupid performance by 2face in 2006, since then i never attended another nigerian show or even the nigerian reunion too

Abekeade08:
BK, i am going to see timaya tonite. You coming?

the guy came to dallas too

ilosiwaju:
^ ^ ^ this una jewish god sha. ok ooo.

He said hi

Theblessed:
Maybe, from your perspective I have no idea but if you look deeper enough, you'd realise I know what I'm talking about - things men do that are destroying our society.  It has been demonstrated in many ways in our society, both in real life and in films and even as I write this where a Sugar Daddy is messing with young women only to find his own daughters being messed up too, by his own best mates or other men. 

Now tell me, where are the 'Virgins' you are searching for They've all gone, haven't they? So, stop looking.  For all I know, men can't eat their cakes and have it. Something has to give, and that's exactly what you are searching for - a Virgin. You can't have that now because, some bad guys have stolen it from you.  Maybe, there are pockets of them somewhere but I say, keep searching you might be lucky!!!

BS as always, why cant the girls say no?

Sia Fuller:
I am an Avid reader of Nairaland and i have never bothered to comment but to enjoy the comments and advices of others i relationship matters but i think i now need your assistance before i lose the plot.

I have been dating this guy for a while now and honestly speaking without exaggerating too much, he is the most perfect man to me. He is tall, dark, handsome, hardworking and very kind to a fault. He helps people at will and takes no offence whatso ever at my excesses except i over do it to a fault and instead of getting mad at me to hit me or abuse me, he just walks away for an hour or 2 and comes back as if nothing happens. The only snag i have with him is that he is an atheist and doesnt believe in God whatso ever. I am a very strong Christian and i didnt take it as anything at first when he was trying to date me. I saw it as a juvenile boy's thing and maybe misguided and my purpose was to date him to make him change his ways and believe in God, but instead he has kept steadfast to his belief of not believing in God and hating anything about religion but apart from that, he is everything a girl could want in a man or more.

Since i have known him, he doesnt smoke or drink or party, move around with unserious or bad friends. He has never cheated on me and promised to never do so because its not his nature. He hasn't hit me before and also swore the day that he hits me mistakenly i should stab him and dump him there and then because he doesnt appreciate Men who beat women. He takes care of me and sometimes even cook for me when ever i come to his place. He even paid close to N300,000 for my hospital bills when i had a surgery and he stayed with me most of the time. I know he truely and genuinely loves me but this issue of his religion and atheism is my only problem with him. He has even driven me to church on so many occassions when it rains or when am going for Night Virgil but he never comes down or attends it and he sometimes comes back to pick me up when i am done.

He blatantly refuses to change. My pastor dislikes him so much and sees him as a bad influence to me because he says anybody that is not of the spirit and with the spirit of God is a temptation to be cut loose. My Mom doesnt even want to hear anything about him until he renounces his atheism but she hasnt complained about him concerning anything else. My Dad has warned me not to bring a devil to his house hold and sees him as a Devil's incarnate and spritually unclean. He even promised to disown me if i ever call him my financee talkless of bringing home as a potential husband. Most of my female friends drool over him and tell me how lucky i am to meet such a good man while others warn me that he is demonic and i should stay away from him because he doesnt believe in God.

The thing is that he is very brilliant and intelligent and when you hear him speak sometimes he could be so mesmerizing when denouncing religion and the bible or Koran as mere propagandas and fictional works. There was even a day some people in my fellowship came to meet him to pray and convert him and it turned into a debate and he ended up winning the argument and making us question or faith back in a total reversal of roles. He is very unsparing and merciless when it comes to things of God, Bible or religion and makes no apologises for it. Apart from that, he is a total kitty cat. Calm, collected, mature, responsible and humble. 2 days ago he jokingly made a feeble attempt to propose to me but added a clause that we would only do a registry marriage and not church wedding because he cant stand the site of the hypocrisy of christianity and the church but he would go out of his way to make sure i have a memorable wedding @ the registry and reception. He tells me that prayers dont work and only daft and lazy people believe in prayers. He says you don't have to be a christian to be kind, compassionate and honest and to help people. He says its human nature and the society that dictates how we think and act and he chooses to be someone that is kind and honest to people and not attribute it to one God or Church. Anytime i come back from Church and talk about my pastor or what i was taught, he gets very angry. He doesnt like hearing anything about pastors, churches, tithes and sermons but when you get into a biblical argument with him, its as if he knows the bible inside out and the right quotes without even reading it. He is that articulate.

For the past 2 days i have been in a dilema now. He wants to marry me i believe and i love him seriously to bits. I have dated other so called born again or spiritually filled guys in my past that messed me up so badly and i know alot of men use this as a bait to catch women and end up showing their true colors later on. My boyfriend is not disguising who he is in terms of his spirituality but he is offering me this unconditional love which i have seen and no man has given me despite their promises. My only fear is that my parents will see me as an out cast, my friends dont like him for it, my pastor and church members loathe him for being an athiest and dislike more everyday i am with him. If i go ahead with my choice to stick with him, i lose my soul and my community but gain happiness because he has truely being a wonderful man so far but if i leave him for my friends, family and community i might lose my prince charming that every woman dreams of that loves me dearly.

I am really confused and i have to make a decision quickly. Please help advise me. Please no nasty comments too i beg you. Hope we can be civil with this.

P:S: I will be 30 in September.

which kin long tori bi this one? u are lucky i am in a good mood ehen, wetin u say happen? for me i think u have a couple of options to take but b4 then, i want to ask u something, are u sure u are a christian or u just go to church? this is not an insulting question but the answer answers your question. if u truly are a christian, then your first duty will be to forget abt your parents, your bf and every other person and spend time with God in the secret, pray and seek God's face concerning the issue and drop all your idols, including your desire to marry that guy. the truth is when u drop your selfishness and let God be God he will let u know why he brought that guy into your life, it may be for u to be a positive influence to him or him to u, remember God used a donkey to correct a wayward prophet and God might just use that guy to correct u or your parents. moreover, God also told his prophet to marry a harlot to teach a lesson to the children of Israel. now remember, all these examples where God doing his thing not man acting God, so dont say i will marry him and convert him or he might change us for the better, u can never change nobody, only God can use ppl or circumstances to change the hearts of men(women inclusive). remember God's express command, be not unequally yoked with unbelievers 2nd cor 6:14 downwards. also the devil does appear as an angel of light, be careful 2nd cor 11:14. so what am i saying, find out what the will of God is for u knowing this young man, not for u marrying him, once u know why God brought him into your life, things will be clearer. now if u decide u cant live without him, u got other options too, denounce your faith and go be with him, u guys might turn out great who knows or keep your faith and hope for the best but surely even u will know u r deceiving urself as your faith is meant to be the foundation of your life and if your man hates your foundation, well. . . . . i will just stop there.

bawomolo:
the future is so bright i gotta wear shades

laugh now yall, una go cry later

u mean the future of fishing is bright? in chicago it better be bcuz u guys will need it badly

007malaika:
A testimony
i just want to bless the name of d Lord for keeping me thru dis year n averting dangers off my part. bless the name of the Lord

praise God!

bk/babe97:
Oh no luv, I still luv u, and Abekeade08 and, . . . . nah u still my luv. So tell Michelin to stop calling my phone off the hook begging me to be her man. And The Amaka too!!!

death!

Gamine:
Oh then i probably misunderstood and wondered about that.lol
The firemen sef, i could only laugh.

A better life for people, like jobs, e.tc i dont know anyone who would wake up one day
and decide that he would like to be a scavenger.

oh baby, u r back! glad 2 c ya! miss u much

bawomolo:
hopes the NBA has a mercy rule

una go cry tire

daduke2k:
Bros una don hear am?

nothing dey happen, all she yarn na initial gra gra

Sia Fuller:
I am an Avid reader of Nairaland and i have never bothered to comment but to enjoy the comments and advices of others i relationship matters but i think i now need your assistance before i lose the plot.

I have been dating this guy for a while now and honestly speaking without exaggerating too much, he is the most perfect man to me. He is tall, dark, handsome, hardworking and very kind to a fault. He helps people at will and takes no offence whatso ever at my excesses except i over do it to a fault and instead of getting mad at me to hit me or abuse me, he just walks away for an hour or 2 and comes back as if nothing happens. The only snag i have with him is that he is an atheist and doesnt believe in God whatso ever. I am a very strong Christian and i didnt take it as anything at first when he was trying to date me. I saw it as a juvenile boy's thing and maybe misguided and my purpose was to date him to make him change his ways and believe in God, but instead he has kept steadfast to his belief of not believing in God and hating anything about religion but apart from that, he is everything a girl could want in a man or more.

Since i have known him, he doesnt smoke or drink or party, move around with unserious or bad friends. He has never cheated on me  and promised to never do so because its not his nature. He hasn't hit me before and also swore the day that he hits me mistakenly i should stab him and dump him there and then because he doesnt appreciate Men who beat women. He takes care of me and sometimes even cook for me when ever i come to his place. He even paid close to N300,000 for my hospital bills when i had a surgery and he stayed with me most of the time. I know he truely and genuinely loves me but this issue of his religion and atheism is my only problem with him. He has even driven me to church on so many occassions when it rains or when am going for Night Virgil but he never comes down or attends it and he sometimes comes back to pick me up when i am done.

He blatantly refuses to change. My pastor dislikes him so much and sees him as a bad influence to me because he says anybody that is not of the spirit and with the spirit of God is a temptation to be cut loose. My Mom doesnt even want to hear anything about him until he renounces his  atheism but she hasnt complained about him concerning anything else. My Dad has warned me not to bring a devil to his house hold and sees him as a Devil's incarnate and spritually unclean. He even promised to disown me if i ever call him my financee talkless of bringing home as a potential husband. Most of my female friends drool over him and tell me how lucky i am to meet such a good man while others warn me that he is demonic and i should stay away from him because he doesnt believe in God.

The thing is that he is very brilliant and intelligent and when you hear him speak sometimes he could be so mesmerizing when denouncing religion and the bible or Koran as mere propagandas and fictional works. There was even a day some people in my fellowship came to meet him to pray and convert him and it turned into a debate and he ended up winning the argument and making us question or faith back in a total reversal of roles. He is very unsparing and merciless when it comes to things of God, Bible or religion and makes no apologises for it. Apart from that, he is a total kitty cat. Calm, collected, mature, responsible and humble. 2 days ago he jokingly made a feeble attempt to propose to me  but added a clause that we would only do a registry marriage and not church wedding because he cant stand the site of the hypocrisy of christianity and the church but he would go out of his way to make sure i have a memorable wedding @ the registry and reception. He tells me that prayers dont work and only daft and lazy people believe in prayers. He says you don't have to be a christian to be kind, compassionate and honest and to help people. He says its human nature and the society that dictates how we think and act and he chooses to be someone that is kind and honest to people and not attribute it to one God or Church. Anytime i come back from Church and talk about my pastor or what i was taught, he gets very angry. He doesnt like hearing anything about pastors, churches, tithes and sermons but when you get into a biblical argument with him, its as if he knows the bible inside out and the right quotes without even reading it. He is that articulate.

For the past 2 days i have been in a dilema now. He wants to marry me i believe and i love him seriously to bits. I have dated other so called born again or spiritually filled guys in my past that messed me up so badly and i know alot of men use this as a bait to catch women and end up showing their true colors later on. My boyfriend is not disguising who he is in terms of his spirituality but he is offering me this unconditional love which i have seen and no man has given me despite their promises. My only fear is that my parents will see me as an out cast, my friends dont like him for it, my pastor and church members loathe him for being an athiest and dislike more everyday i am with him. If i go ahead with my choice to stick with him, i lose my soul and my community but gain happiness because he has truely being a wonderful man so far but if i leave him for my friends, family and community i might lose my prince charming that every woman dreams of that loves me dearly.

I am really confused and i have to make a decision quickly. Please help advise me. Please no nasty comments too i beg you. Hope we can be civil with this.

P:S: I will be 30 in September.

which kin long tori bi this one? u are lucky i am in a good mood ehen, wetin u say happen? for me i think u have a couple of options to take but b4 then, i want to ask u something, are u sure u are a christian or u just go to church? this is not an insulting question but the answer answers ur question. if u truly are a christian, then ur first duty will be to forget abt ur parents, ur bf and every other person and spend time with God in the secret, pray and seek God's face concerning the issue and drop all ur idols, including ur desire to marry that guy. the truth is when u drop ur selfishness and let God be God he will let u know why he brought that guy into ur life, it may be for u to be a positive influence to him or him to u, remember God used a donkey to correct a wayward prophet and God might just use that guy to correct u or ur parents. moreover, God also told his prophet to marry a harlot to teach a lesson to the children of Israel. now remember, all these examples where God doing his thing not man acting God, so dont say i will marry him and convert him or he might change us for the better, u can never change nobody, only God can use ppl or circumstances to change the hearts of men(women inclusive). remember God's express command, be not unequally yoked with unbelievers 2nd cor 6:14 downwards. also the devil does appear as an angel of light, be careful 2nd cor 11:14. so what am i saying, find out what the will of God is for u knowing this young man, not for u marrying him, once u know why God brought him into ur life, things will be clearer. now if u decide u cant live without him, u got other options too, denounce ur faith and go be with him, u guys might turn out great who knows or keep ur faith and hope for the best but surely even u will know u r deceiving urself as ur faith is meant to be the foundation of ur life and if ur man hates ur foundation, well. . . . . i will just stop there.

Moyola:
Oga! limmee o! respekt yasef nau!

i dey respect myself that's why i said meet me for corner

bk/babe97:
Me, Me, Me. Itd be a big honor to slap the hell out that fat cow Ayetty mama. wait till I see her in NY. I hope Jaquan is there to save her!!! would luv to kick his steroid infested body all ova 42nd !!!

**dies**

#1-stunner:
thanks @londoner; u sabi something ,  y u no put your foto make we see your ugly face @na2day,stop the beefing iight,dose gals no fine reach me facially and dats a fact,

me i am not beefing u ooo, as far as i am concern, girl na girl, them get wetin man want but to start to dey classify beauty, that one na different tori. u con find trouble say u fine pass G.mother and rukky, which kin liver bi that? in ur own right u fine but sister chilax and tell the truth. like i said, u only lack one thing to make u fine pass them, [size=25pt]ME!!! [/size] u get me, ur problems are over  

michelin89:
I am petite, just 5"4. I love having a slim figure cuz it gives me the lift look especially on heels.

my wife of yesteryears, u still carry ur skinny behind put for ur profile? did i not advice u to add some flesh rather than using photoshop to enhance ur pic? e bi like say u ney dey hear word!

nellaluv:
really anything , i want u to divorce all your wives and come home to me, can u do that, baby boy , if u add more weight i kick u out,

i hereby divorce all my unknown wives capish!

Moyola:
hehe!. . .lyk really! itz dhat yu?!

yes ooo, that is me, the one and only, NA2DAY? [size=3pt]oya meet me for corner b4 u make madam vex[/size]

daduke2k:
Who goes first?

wont mind leading the charge

nellaluv:
hmmmn, without my permission how could you
don't call me and dont come home

baby i am sorry, plz forgive me, i will do anything for u, even adding more weight if u want

#1-stunner:
u r just beefing me NA2DAY, u knw say i fine, duhhhhh

i no talk say u no fine but u no reach godmother or rukky but if u want to reach their level or beat them, u just need one thing

nellaluv:
cheater

i meant house help/nanny. she has been looking for me to pay her the money for practicing how to take care of our future kids

Moyola:
hehe! Is it Manny n Chi now?

baby u found me