₦airaland Forum

Pweety4me:
@na2day have u considered divorcing your profile pic?

what is wrong with my pic?

daylae:
Heard michael jordan's ex wife took half of his total assets after divorce,and now the guy is probably covered by the eclipes of the mess he went through cus haven't here much about him after the divorce.

MJ recovered well, at least he just bought an nba team. not everyman is that lucky. Harrison Ford almost lost his mind after his divorce.

no1madman:
Generally African Men don't commit suicide. . .na white thing and few weak African Americans.

i pity u, i pray that God gives u a visa, make u wealth and allow one woman divorce u and when u are down to a penny then come back and call others weak, arrant nonsense!

daylae:
When the man has to pay huge settlement,why won't some feeble minds opt for suicide. Let's try turn the table around,and you'll see men smilling and going hiking after divorce,while the women go for evaluation.

amen brother!

Ebonyeyes:
Oh well, the reverse is the case in developing countries where the man kicks the woman and even his kids out of the house. The western countries have laws that protect the wife and kids.

but there is a trend, most developing countries pick their taste and life style off the developed ones, so if men in the developed countries shy away from marriage and the men in the developing countries pick the same pace, dont u think there will be more of a damaging effect on the developing countries? when i was in nigeria, even at a young age folks talk abt marriage all around us, since i came to the states, all we talk abt is work, hanging out, games and stuff like that very few like the topic of marriage; most are satisfied with just a gf as long as she dont move it toward marriage. after reading this piece dont u think these guys are justified?

This is from one of the Jack Cafferty's questions on CNN. this is why alot of guys living in the western nations, especially the USA stay away from marriage

"It's no secret divorces can be ugly, messy and uncomfortable in so many ways,  but now there's research that suggests divorce is also one of the top reasons for suicide among men.

AOL News reports that the stress and sadness associated with divorce take a much tougher toll on men than women.

Experts say suicide rates are higher among divorced men - and lowest among those who are still married. Single men fall in between.

One sociologist who studies family structure and suicide rates says divorced men are almost 40 percent more likely to commit suicide than those who are still married. That number jumps to 50 percent for a man who is widowed.

Yet for women there's a statistically insignificant difference when it comes to the risk for suicide among those who are married, divorced or widowed.

Some think it's because marriage provides a support system that men rely on much more than women. There are also studies that show married men take fewer risks and are healthier - less likely to smoke, drink or use drugs.

Another reason why women might be less suicidal is because of the children. Women often remain the primary caretakers for kids after divorce; and research shows that for every additional child in a home, the adult is less and less likely to commit suicide.

Overall - men in this country are four times more likely than women to take their own lives."


http://caffertyfile.blogs.cnn.com/2010/03/11/why-does-divorce-make-men-more-suicidal-than-women/

googles:
[size=13pt]of course am the best ot the best  

my friend liff my madlady alone before i mutallab your a$$   [/size]

what did i do?

Sisi_Kill:
@ Topic
She's bored with you.

then why cant she be honest about it and just break up with the guy?

Ujujoan:
At Poster,

I know you probably think you are the model boyfriend, but you are obviously not doing something right! Something she might have pointed out to you time and over and over and over again, but you still don’t want to listen. When a relationship comes down to marriage, people tend to readjust their priorities. Maybe she sees you as a good BF, but not a good husband.


But then again, maybe she’s not the one! Sometimes the relationships are all rosy and wonderful, but when the M word comes up, things starts messing themselves up.

My advise to you: Chill, relax, what will be will be. If she’s the one, things will sort themselves out, if she’s not, then better a broken relationship than a broken marriage!

very typical answer, it must always be the guy's fault. shior! to think i wanted to marry u

googles:


[size=13pt]i like wen big men beg me it makes my small head swell
k i will give you lurv portion to put inside googles' drink
make sure u put it inside ace of spade o not anyhow wine o
and the rest will be history [/size]

thank u thank u thank u, u r the best!

madlady:
I am fine how are you baby girl? I see you have been given your rightful postion on this land.


Well thank you @Doctor @googles mam, but your presciption would be a bitter pill for me to swallow, I hate clubs, I never go near the nasty weed stuff I only like girls for mates and boys are too young for me .

I am not paying your fee

[size=3pt]psst! come over here, i have a better presciption that will work wonders for u. u have to follow me to my bedroom clinic room[/size]

ElRazur:
Typical Nigerian. All talk, blows hot air but no action.

You stated "there is nothing special about that training, nigerian soldiers have been doing that a long time ago.[b] i have seen more intense training and close combat spars at the brigade of guards in abuja [/b]and some other units. sorry, not impressed; they just wasted our money on another white man again!"

Right, I have asked you to post this video. Surely, that won't be so hard as you have been dismissive? Trying to focus on what I said is laughable and deflecting attention away from what I am asking you.  In most army Urban warfare, Guerilla tactics etc forms part of their baisc training. For the record, I enlisted to train with the TA as a BMS, but pull out due to lack of vacancy in my field. My point, I know a thing or two about what I am saying.

Anyway, back to your claims. Do you mind posting this video or will you do the honourable thing and shut up?

first of all, u clearly never lived or been around the nigerian military, 2ndly, for u to claim the video currently posted is "basic" implies that the OP assumption of "advance" is wrong and which is what i was stating also. so if u know this is basic, clearly u naturally believe the nigeria army will have an advance training regiment for its elite troops. now do u have a video of such? if u believe that was the best training nigeria gives all her troops, rank and file, then u are a bigger fool than i thought and a total waste of my previous time.

mamaken:
humm, if u don't know, means u r younger than i guessed.
an explanation is unnecessary.
ones u enter puberty u'll like to explore your body and u'll find out urself what everybody knows and does,
i hope i have helped you, and always at your disposal for further questions,

how can i be able to reach u for these one on one questions, i really have alot to learn

googles:
^^^ c'mon gerrout u want spoil business for me shey?
no love portion for u again sef you wan use style steal my client
my friend scram jor and i will give that lawyer googles to someone else you will see

ejo aunti mi

chic2pimp:
Abeg no kill for hia 2day ooo
No be you write am abi nah your twin write am?

thank u, i knew u would understand. now that my name has be cleared up, celtics na wa ooo

ElRazur:
Are you going to post the video and put you mouth where your money is? Or shush! And I mean seriously, to shush.

post the video of what? of your "basic" training? mugu!

ElRazur:
Dude it is a basic training or a type of training common across army in the world.

It is easier to criticise etc. Perhaps you should post this video or shush?

maybe u shld first learn to read and comprehend b4 responding. the topic says "advance" and i say there is nothing special abt that training and u come back to tell me to hush while u call it basic training. --sighs--

mamaken:
no need to elaborate,
everybody knows and everybody does,

i dont ooo, plz explain nau

googles:

[size=13pt]av consulted "lawyer googles "o, she said you re seeing your pastor's daughter and you re always threatening her with the pastor's deliverance everynite so stick to your pastor's daughter and let googles be [/size]

but lawyer googles is a 21st century naija girl, they want experienced lovers so i was just using the pastor's daughter to gain experience ooo. ehmm, doctor googles, what can be done? do u have any love portion i can put in lawyer googles drink?

madlady:
Miss @Love Doctor, Please can you help me I have this problem I can't eat, I can't sleep and I all the time.

Please can you tell me what's wrong with me I am awaiting your diagnose at your earlist convenience.

i happened to be a medical love doctor too, and i am a specialist in this area, so come see me at my clinic for proper diagnosis

mamaken:
i'm saying it's not good to lie just to get her in bed. if u r Hot help urself by, u know what i mean, do you?

ehmmm, i dont know what u mean oo, can u elaborate? 

chic2pimp:
Lai Lai you no fit Backtrack.
Thank God I don quote am ooo.
Celts wussies abi shey nah agberos must see this

this na blackmail u wan blackmail me so, how u go talk say honorable member like me go write that kin thing

ehmmm, this grizzlies sef dem no get respect ooo! celtics fans, accept my sympathy

chic2pimp:
Chei Mo gbe see as you finish Chichi & Jesoul oooooo
Nah the Celts peeps dey toil and joke with like a$$wipe

na lie?

harakiri:
Alright NL people, this post of mine is gonna suck a lil bit but i had to post it anyways so i can get it off my chest and get a good nites sleep.

I've been dating this wonderful girl for 3+ years now.It's been great and we are engaged.Her peeps know me and my people know my intentions towards her (marriage).In the past couple of weeks, i've noticed a great change in her demeanor.She's uneccessarily rude to me, snaps over little issues,replies me with scorn and contempt, intercourse is highly irregular (amongst other things). I've tried to sit her down on several occasions to talk about it but each time i do, she's dodgy, dribbles the whole conversation, deflects every question back to me and nothing is achieved.She's also been recieving calls from strange men recently and each time i ask, it's either she says its one middle aged man down the street who is fooling himself or it's some dude from friendfinder and i wonder, if it's nothing serious, why take the calls in secret. . .why cut the calls the moment you see i'm around.Some of you (especially the NL ladies might call me "insecure" and all that), but this is a girl that practically went into a fit when an ex-gf of mine called to give me condolences when my mom died in 2008.She almost went insane when she realized i was talking to an ex and here she is today (madam chatterbox).

I am not rich but i am comfortable.She lacks nothing (except a car  ).If it's about love making, i can proudly say i am above average and i give it to her good.I do my best to be the "ideal man" and i wonder, where did i go wrong?This is a lady i intend getting married to anytime soon.Maybe it's all in my head.I don't know but my gut is telling me otherwise.The girl I've been seeing in the last six weeks is not the same girl I've been dating for more than 3 years.I haven't dated anyone else not to talk of cheating on her since we started so why all this?

NB : I expect the usual tirade of "insecure bla bla bla" from some NL peeps (especially the ladies) but any unbiased pointers would be welcome.

There, i said.Off my chest.

Make i sleep small.

Will be back later on.

i was going to yab the life out of u but i had already promised to help u on the other thread b4 reading this so i will try and be nice. i just have a simple solution for this among other solutions i could offer u. send her a text msg at around 10:30pm and the contents of that text msg should be short and straight to the point. the msg shld be something like this. . . . "ovularia, i need some time off our relationship, about a year. plz use this time to date other guys and i will date other girls also. i strongly advice you to delete my number as i will be changing it; if fate sees it fit for us to be together after one year so be it. dont call me or text back" . . . . well that wasn't exactly short but u get my point i hope. help urself too, delete her number after sending it to her or block it asap! delete all memories of her, photos, yim, email address etc, that will help u keep focus. if her head is correct she will take the right step if it is not, u have just saved urself from one loser! hope this will be helpful FYI: dont even try to explain why u are taking that decision to her.

harakiri:
There is a whole lot of info here and i'm on my other thread weeping.Good God. . .i feel like a biggest and most useless slowpoke alive!

take heart, we are here to help u out

frosbel:
Nigerian military training

[flash=425,344]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6hzveOq5Yo&hl=en_US&fs=1&[/flash]

there is nothing special about that training, nigerian soldiers have been doing that a long time ago. i have seen more intense training and close combat spars at the brigade of guards in abuja and some other units. sorry, not impressed; they just wasted our money on another white man again!

God just delivered the Mavs from a serious embarrassment, we almost had the celtics fate

Mhismole:
Its enough for this thread now, there are 489,854 members on nl, and there are more girls than guys. there are MANY beautiful chicas here, and pictures cud be deceiving too!! imagine somone comparing me (in my nightie biko) to someone all made up, abeg o. nyway point is, this is a foolish way to pass our time.
oh, and
na2day?, leave me alone!! haba! you already sent a divorce letter now. allow me to meander. InesQor you are just a darling. 

meet me on camera 3!

sagluva:
beauty is in the eye of the beholder, every girl is beautiful in some way but some guys, no comment lol

sexist!

michelin89:
E wan even off for me make I nor see again. You almost blind me!

your computer is sexist! 

make come help me ooo, i turned on the tv only to see Jets leading the Mavs by 14 points in 1st qtr  now it is 16 points lead and dirk is only 1 of 5 on the floor  this bad dream must stop ooo!

uniqued:
SHUT UP ND ABEG GO AND SLEEP ISNT LATE ENOUGH

excuse me! is this not the place ppl come with their love problems to seek solutions from?

H2O2:
yea let's get together and feel alright.
enough is enough.

i agree, enough is enough

H2O2:
sort of

but you don't have to ridicule me, okay?
gosh talk about jerks

i know right! let us fat folks stand up for each other jare

michelin89:
Abeg my computer dey vex for me as I open your profile!

haba, na so ur computer greedy reach? hin want 2 pics of me instead of one?