Teeneyo:
I also m in d same shoe
Unless ur parents ar supportive and bearable u can stay
Mine ar not
Moving oo fr peace of mind

shege45:
My bro people would always talk ooo. If you move out tomorrow and you ask dem to borrow you money, na dem go still yab you. My guy you don’t just move out like that ooo, you should move out with the hope of never returning. So I’d advice you stay in ur peeps house, atleast them no they chase you. So long you are not depending on them and you also contribute to the upkeep of the house. Baba dey where you dey. Its not even fat from ur work place. But always keep in mind that you would move out soon. Just keep saving bro

phelonrays:
....chai..... the husband no get joy atall ......
com look like a repented-agbero .......

specie103:
EFCC sef na learner.
We have several means to transfer money this days.

Martinez39:
We really have to careful in issues like this. It could be that:
1) Mr. Ned Nwoko abandoned them, or
2) The woman fell out with him, went her separate ways and took her son with her. Then like most women, she started poisoning the mind of the son against the father and prevented the father from seeing the son even though she could have been at fault.
3) The son isn't his but the mom didn't tell the son.

Which is likely the case? Given that Ned is a family person and he is a billionaire, I see no reason why he cannot comfortably take care of his son and have his son live with him. Remember that if he can comfortably take a new wife after all this years, he could have taken care of his son. (2) or (3) are likely to be the case. I would pick (2).

Samakus:
Hi guys. I have never been more confused in my life than today.
I lost my contract job on the 28th of March 2018. Since then, I have been networking and applying for jobs online too.

Fast forward to today, I got offer letter from a private firm I did interview with 2 weeks ago and I was asked to resume tomorrow, May 7th. Now today again, a federal university I submitted my CV with (man know man thing) contacted me that my name is on the latest employment list released. Both jobs have almost the same salary. I'm confused like kilode! I don't know what to do. My mind is tilting towards the federal job but it will require me to relocate while the private firm's own is located in my state of residence.

I have never been this confused in my life. The private firm's employment offer demands two weeks notice before I resign or they will hold my guarantors. Please advise dispassionately. I have been looking for work for nearly two months. Now, it's coming as a confusion to me.

Mods please move this to front page. I need to think properly. Opportunities like this don't come twice

PSTEMMA1960:
I understand ur point now ma, but what I am looking for now is a way forward..... I am depressed...... Last week I was sick serious typhoid.... I had to enter bush to gather leaves because no money to buy drugs...

All my clothes have worn out I even stopped going to church, but had to start again last month and since then its just one clothe that I have been wearing...

No mother, no father, no uncle, my mum's people refused to even pick our calls, I don't even have their contacts again.....

Ekinematics:



Well no device is 100% without faulty ones out of the factory.
The downside I can really tell about the note 5 is the crappy speaker. Someone mentioned the autobrightness getting too bright or too dark, which is true. Not forgetting the crappy earphones that comes with it.
Besides these the phone is very good for a midrange/low budget device.

unimagin:

It's either factory fault or village people fault. No be the same Note5 I hold for hand here? I repeat, my Note5 have no complain at all. It may not be a Galaxy Note or iPhone but for the price it's an excellent phone.
@op since most people here have recommended Xiaomi Redmi Note7 though I don't know the phone but I advise u consider buying it

Ekinematics:




Sorry you bought a faulty device.
Bought 2 infinix note 5 for my siblings and they've been happy with it for more than 4 months now no issue.
For me the most important aspect I like about the phone is the battery life. That phone can go without charge plus intensive use for at least 2 days.
I'm thinking of getting the infinix note 6 whenever it comes out as a backup for my galaxy note 9.

Nigg3369:

Infinix note 5 battery is 4000mah same as s4 and you seem to not have read my comment s4 is 6gb ram higher processor and higher mega pixels and and a higher screen resolution and it has the current Android version 9.0 while note 5 uses 8.0 even the body of the phone is better

Makschinchin:


I appreciate your honest reply sir. To be sincere with you, you don't look at other people when running this race. When you look at others, you begin to compare yourself with them. You may be right by saying that the unjust keeps excelling but have you tried comparing yourself with those who are dead, those struggling with their lives in the hospital, those in prison, and many others facing worse challenges?

Please hold on to your faith in God, and I pray He takes away every doubt you are having; remember James 1:7-8, "Let not that man think that he shall receive anything of the Lord. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways". Again James 4:3 adds, "And even when you ask, you don’t get it because your motives are all wrong—you want only what will give you pleasure."

But without faith it is impossible to please Him: for he that cometh to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of them that diligently seek Him. Hebrews 11:6

Thank you for sir.

Makschinchin:
Why are people fond of asking Christians this question every Sunday, especially Christians asking fellow Christians who didn't go to church. I know it's important to attend church services (not just Sundays alone), but don't we think there's more to Christianity than just going to church on Sundays (and other days)?

Some Christians hardly ask others about their personal relationship with Jesus, but are quick to remind them of their absence in church each Sunday. These things ought not to be so. People may have their reasons for not going to church. When next you are asking a brother or sister why he or she didn't go to church, please do well to take a step further to discuss his or her personal relationship with Jesus, in so doing, you can share your faith with such person ( especially if the person is not born again) and win a soul. Remember, the Bible says in Proverbs 11:30, "...he that wins a soul is wise"

A soul that has been won for Christ is worth more than thousands who regularly go to church but are not born again. Note that Jesus said in John 3:3, ".. except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God". Going to church is good at being born again and led by the Holy Spirit is better.


Thank you for the audience. Your contributions will be highly appreciated.

reyscrub:
Since your wife is hard working and is capable of taking care of the boy, nothing bad if her baby is with her ok. Blood is ticker than water so she can't let her product be far from her as you will never allow your child be taking away from you. Any body can fall prey to the love bait of boys and girls this day.

If you mistakenly have a child outside, you will think of bring him home and either appeal or force your wife to live with your boy abi.

I'm talking from experience because I married my wife with 6 years old boy and now I have a girl and a boy now they are three altogether and we live together. I ensure that all the three bear my surname and my wife agree and till this moment I claim him as my firstborn of my family and all the children see them self as the same father the same mother unknowingly.

So nothing is special or bad in married-after-one parent as a wife if she makes you happy and support you financially, spiritually, emotionally and prayerfully. My wife loves me like she can die for me nothing thinking twice on my cause because I ensure that all that consigns her is taking care off always.

Allow peace to rain in your home and don't allow people to confuse you with their local knowledge.

Take the boy home and make your wife happy ok.

coleB:
am not married yet.

transfer frm lagos to abuja is still close.
u shud ve transferred to adamawa or sokoto. since u want distance to barricade u frm them

sorepco:
Y should he run? He should discuss with his wife n get her opinion on things.
If the woman is siding with her family then he can now set limits and give ultimatums.
But in the other hand if its by the family's grace that he became successful...then he should cut them some slack.

Rushmore:

You can choose to ignore her,do any other thing but not divorce. And never you switch off your phone to avoid calls from family, it's childish. Be an alpha male! Make a decree and stand on it! You're a lion and not a chicken!

donstan18:
Mr man, you are the one troubling and driving yourself crazy for not being able to know where your problem is coming from.

First; Your wife didn't do anything to warrant a divorce, she didn't cheat, disrespect or commit any abomination. We should sometime view things from different angles before taking actions, you know how difficult it is for a woman to stop her family members from coming close to her husband, she MIGHT not be happy with what they are doing, but in a bid to stop them will have it look like she's pushing them away from you and might create problems. So I ask "HAVE YOU DISCUSSED THIS ISSUE WITH YOUR WIFE?"

The rate of entitlement mentality from wives and their families is something else in Nigeria. Reason why we should be wise and careful before getting married.

Stop running around, discuss this issue with your wife, if she's a good woman, she'll understand you and do whatever it'll take to keep you happy and relaxed by sketching a strategy with you, but if she tries to give attitude about your complaint, then you'll have to go rude and aggressive to let her know what is as stake(Divorce, for her to marry her family members so that you'll have peace).


Discuss with her first.

eyinjuege:
For you to transfer to Abuja becasue of the wahala of your wife and her people shows there is fire on the mountain.
I'm not sure such a thing will not continue even if you bring your family to Abuja.
My advice for you is to stand your ground and let them know enough is enough like you did when the brother came unannounced.
You shouldnt have even put off your phone, but rather told them to their faces not to disturb you with phone calls as your mind is made up not to entertain anybody.
Divorce should be an option only when you really mean it, not because you want to threaten anybody but rather if there's no hope for the union again

cruchenutii:


Its a lie, Apart from God's timing people are just making bad decisions. As a man or woman, everyone cannot reject you. There is always a woman or man somewhere that likes / fallen for you, but you're not giving them attention. I have seen very very ugly and short guys get married.

Ask a lady in her 30s how many men has approached her for marriage, you will be shocked. But No, she doesn't like those guys. She is waiting for Denzel Washington.

donstan18:
This is not just about celebrities, but to others ladies aswell.

I find it hard to believe that a lady with good attitude and manners will stay till 30 going to 40 without any man to call a husband. We sure know the rate in which an average Nigerian lady gets admirers and toasters by men, what then is stopping these men from marrying them.

The bitter truth is that unmarried ladies in their 30s are synonymous to bad attitude, they should work on themselves, you can only change your ways when you accept your flaws. It sounds funny when they claim career when 90% of the most successful ladies are married and living happily with their kids and husband.

If they don't work on their attitude and manners, if they don't face reality, they'll end up with regrets. That's the truth.

donstan18:
This is not just about celebrities, but to others ladies aswell.

I find it hard to believe that a lady with good attitude and manners will stay till 30 going to 40 without any man to call a husband. We sure know the rate in which an average Nigerian lady gets admirers and toasters by men, what then is stopping these men from marrying them.

The bitter truth is that unmarried ladies in their 30s are synonymous to bad attitude, they should work on themselves, you can only change your ways when you accept your flaws. It sounds funny when they claim career when 90% of the most successful ladies are married and living happily with their kids and husband.

If they don't work on their attitude and manners, if they don't face reality, they'll end up with regrets. That's the truth.

Jiang:


Not all, some just aren't able to get husband because it ain't their time yet, almost 20% of them are so kind & well mannered

donstan18:
This is not just about celebrities, but to others ladies aswell.

I find it hard to believe that a lady with good attitude and manners will stay till 30 going to 40 without any man to call a husband. We sure know the rate in which an average Nigerian lady gets admirers and toasters by men, what then is stopping these men from marrying them.

The bitter truth is that unmarried ladies in their 30s are synonymous to bad attitude, they should work on themselves, you can only change your ways when you accept your flaws. It sounds funny when they claim career when 90% of the most successful ladies are married and living happily with their kids and husband.

If they don't work on their attitude and manners, if they don't face reality, they'll end up with regrets. That's the truth.