Zxcvbnmghtr:


That's a natural trait and it's normal.

it's a secretive natural trait. They hide that trait as much as possible.

They love money more than they love you. And So shall it be till death of both of you.

I keep telling people this "marriage is serious business".


The moment responsible people get married, the more serious they should become with life and their family.


It's was because of tooooo much fun within the house that Davido lost Ifeanyi, let that sink in.



If fun wants to even come up, let it come up in an organised way, which finally still makes the fun become serious.

Absuchat:

Says a nairamaniac

Fiscus105:
In the post, I didn't read where OP said phone bible not good but only trying to listed advantage of paper bible to phone bible.

........ trust them, every comment up thr are attacking, attacking, EVEN WHEN THEY KNOW HE IS SAYING NOTHING BUT TRUTH.

Meanwhile, many of them going for phone bible, asked them wen last them open bible in their phone, they would start scratch head before they answer.


How easy for people to read bible with full concentration with different social media a acounts on phone?

. People in this forum are really frustrated in their real lives, outside nairaland.

Absuchat:
This one is one of the many that subconsciously resists technically advancement.

So if I need like 5 different translations, I should carry the 5 heavy paper Bibles, whereas a simple app has more than 10 of them?

So now that I want to sleep small and wake up in 2 hrs to read my Bible, I hope I can use the paper Bible as alarm to wake me up?

Can I chat with people reading the same page as me to clearify any misunderstanding?

The op discussed the disadvantages of electronic bible to paper bible. Then you insult him of impeding technological advancement.


You should have simply just created your own fresh brand-new thread an lay forth your advantages of phone bible.

modernWays:
He backed down probably because of intervention of president. Do Wike look like someone you can intimidate with EFCC?

This guy know how to buy his way more than anyone else from South South Region. The fact that he worked against PDP, and they could not remove him should tell a smart person how powerful he is.

You re right with the EFCC thing. Cos Tinubu would not allow EFCC touch wike.

However prosecuting fubara after impeachment would have indicted Wike, naturally.

End of the day, would have been a wild goose chase by Wike.

modernWays:
He backed down probably because of intervention of president. Do Wike look like someone you can intimidate with EFCC?

This guy know how to buy his way more than anyone else from South South Region. The fact that he worked against PDP, and they could not remove him should tell a smart person how powerful he is.

It's not wike that is tooo strong for PDP. it's PDP that is tooooo weak for Wike.

adebayo987:
This is propaganda, also you're just beating around the bush. Wike himself is neither ashamed nor afraid of anything. He clearly stops the impeachment because Tinubu entered the case. Nothing else!

He knew he rigged the 2023 election. Guess what? He even said it on the TV that he said they agreed to give first position to APC and second position to LP, then 3rd position to PDP in Rivers State presidential election. So, that guy is a fearless man who doesn't shy away from his crime.

Don't ever be deceived. There is no man without fear. The more brave a man tries to appear, the more hidden-fears.

If he is soooo fearless he should be bragging openly with "how much of rivers state money be used go channel into his PDP presidential primaries election and rigging last election for both Tinubu and Fubara".

Or are you saying he used Sand Sand to rig the election?

Brunosamel:
Lately I have been seeing husband's killing there wives & boyfriends killing their girlfriends due anger or infidelity but the truth is Some certain situations is very much preventable it all comes down to mental strength and capacity to turn negative moments to your advantage. Some of the ways of build mental strength is through physical fitness, reading and suffering or rather doing difficult things. It help to control those emotions and keep it to check.

I remember when I confronted my girlfriend for cheating on me I was heart broken but I had to channel my negative thoughts with positive feelings
I walked away straight to the gym and lay the anger on the iron it was a terrible feeling that made me to injure myself came back from the gym channel all my anger in her kpekus aggressively she was shading tears and I didn't even give a Bleep eventually I broke up for cheating on me it felt really good afterwards.
Ever since then I have learn to channel my anger on iron it helps me to think and cool off and make the best decision.

Note: She has been begging me to accept her back that she has not been able to to forget what I did to her, she has not been able to get over it. It's a game over cuz I have moved on with another girl life goes on.

Oggaaa hope say you know say na rape you go rape that your girl sooo.


You vindicated her for cheating on you. Cos you have shown your inferiority in character to the man that she cheated on you with.


He used style or swag or money to fvck you girl under your watch.

While you used rape/force to fvck her Under his watch.

walai! You totally deserve to be cheated on. She did the right thing to you.

peter0071:
Nations and other countries are running for Nigerian men... and you are saying these about the Nigerian men?? anyway, this is your opinion which i will respect....
enjoy your opinion... Cotonou men dey available sha. Make i link you?

Most Nigerian men are more caring to foreign women, than they are to Nigerian women.

They behave better when with white chicks than they do to our local babes them.

yrhuhfy113:


wow, awesome... you are right and have a strong point
A very compeling piece of idea about Nigerian men... sadly its true but wholistically its myopic.


I am not here to make a CASE for men... i acknowledge your expressed thoughts as reality but as INCOMPLETE.

SEE, MEN ARE NOT LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY... We are only LOVED BY MERIT, RAISED AS HUNTERS TO COMPETE AND PROVIDE else we are not competent.

THE THINGS YOU MENTION WE LACK ARE ACTUALLY NOT LACKING BUT SURPRESSED BY THE HARSH REALITIES OF LIFE WE HAVE LIVED THROUGH....


Let me explain... EVEN on the case of wooing or getting a LADY for sex or marriage... LADIES GENERALLY FEEL SAFER WITH A RICH DUDE, THAN A CARING, EMPATHETIC S.O.B. Whyyy because the COUNTRY IS HARD.... and Ladies think of the FUTURE ALOT.
So after being drilled by our parents to always COME FIRST IN CLASS, and being punished for not coming first or not outdoing others.... we now enter a tetiary institution where only the BEST GRADUANDS are assured of jobs or connections... so we have to compete, hustle for money and do everything possible to be among those who thrive or survive.. AFTER YEARS OF LIVING AS A SURVIVOR.... we now marry, with HOOOOOGEE responsibilities, wife and kids... most likely WIFE HAS NOTHING DOING OR EARNS LITTLE YET FEELS ENTITLED TO BE TREATED LIKE A QUEEN.... Then we should let down our GUARD and still be as caring, as emotionally sensitive, as all that you women want us to be??
C'mon sis... YOU CAN'T HAVE IT ALL.

Marry unambitious men from other countries who are not living in the same terrible conditions we have had in NIGERIA... they have emotions to spare, because THEIR FINANCIAL SYSTEM WORKS and is DEPENDABLE... not here. So you can't come here and GENERALIZE, when majority of your GENDER.... WILL CHOOSE SIX CARS OVER SIX PACKS. Pls... have some balance.

Little wonder why MEN are no longer interested in MARRIAGE... because it has become like an orphanage, so baby mama is now what many opt for, so as to retain their freedom. Ladies wanting EVERYTHING yet offering so little JUST BECAUSE THEY EXIST, is the highest form of lowkey witchcraft ever.

ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME..... MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE..... BUT MONEY IS IMPORTANT TO ALL.

You are a genius. I totally agree and understand. However, we should still try not to transfer the aggressions of experiences on our wives. Especially the once that have passed some fundermental tests.

Persephone1,
To be honest and matured, you are almost 100% right in all you said here.



I wonder why .my fellow mein here are taking your post personal and attacking you.

After all, you delivered your message in the most polite and respectful way possible.

You didn't insult or degrade men in your post.
Your post showed you are sincerely not happy about women's experiences in the setting of marriage.

Summarizing your post, what you mean is that "husbands in this part of the country deliberately put all energy into being in-charge, in-lead of their wives and family.

Tha men see marriage as an institution of PROVIDING for their wives, rather than showing emotions and giving room for their wife's emotions.

You added that the men don't give room for wife's choice of what is good for her.
And men end up seeing her as his property.


To be honest, you are 100% right with this.

And I'm also almost 100% guilty of all you said here.

There are reasons why we end up these way as husbands.

First know that it's not really our faults.

1. Due to several relationships we had with girls during our dating-periods, we men were totally in control of direction the relationship swings to. Especially financial parts of it.
This kept us(men in position to be superior in thinking and decisions.

2. During those dating periods, most of our women were more concerned with material things and financial securities.
While we men were more keen on all other facets of how well the woman can assist to hold the family together.
Now you wdnt expect the man to have full confidence iin such woman when they get married when it comes to delicate matters.
He would rather discuss them with his P.A, and business partners.

3. Most men don't want to distract theie wives with other duties besides being occupied with domestic matters and taking care of the children.
A man feels he wdnt want to add any extra-stress to her mental thought of children care.
Once a woman starts giving birth here, the husband(even the ones that form hard-men) get sooo nervouse about things going wrong with their kids. Hence they psychologically channel all her emotions, her love from them(the husband) to their kids. The truth is that most of us do this because we really do want her to pay more attention to the kids. But their is an undertone of us having avenues to cheat outside the marriage.


The truth is that the more men(even women) cheat, the Less-emotionally attached they are to their partners. They now start seeing their wives as a colleague that is handling a project rather than a partner they love with indept emotions.


Lastly, the kind responses you have gotten here in this thread have indirectly given you yot answers about the Nigerian men mentality.


See the way they are bashing you here.

From the replies here you should know that "men see admittance as WEAKNESS".

A man here in Nigeria sees admitting to a woman's worry is a sign of weakness.

The mem here don want to seem like betrayers to their fellow men, hence their lack of admittance to what you said.


Some here feel they would be called SIMPS, if they admit all you said here.

Well please do try to bear with us, cause we are also this way due to our
1. experiences.
2. level of exposure,
3. Our played roles during courtship.
4. Mental Masculine superioty over women.
5. Dedication of more financial-investments into the marriage.
6. Emotional-deviation due to having more avenues to cheating outside the marriage.
7. Wanting to degrade our wives to the level of the children once she starts giving birth, perhaps to get her more focused on them, rather than being focused on us.

8. Inferiority complex of not wanting to seem like A Soft-husbane, a Weak-husband. Trust me, some stupid men in this country use their wives to uphold their Street-credibility.

9. Avoidance of see-finish by their wives. Hope you do know that some of us men have later been rewarded with see-finish after showing Soo much care and emotions.
This is a fact. When a man goes out of his way to perform duties assigned to the woman, the day he doesn't do it, the woman would change it to quarrel. So do u expect such men to go out of their ways to do the nicest things next time.
Well I'm different, i would do those things for my woman and be screaming "naaaa your work I dey do sooo o". "No come disturb be tomorrow make I do am oOoOO".
We would laff over this while I perform those task and scream those words. However I have sent my message across, and the next door neighbours would bear me witness whenever the woman wants to make an issue.

10. Lastly, men are naturally Less-emotionally wired than woman.
It takes conscious efforts for men to be more emotionally attached. As long as we are providing andakimg our women happy, we feel we have contributed our share of Care and Love.


Solution to this is for you to Make your husband trust that "you wouldn't take him for granted even if he shows you a more emotional side". And see you more as a partner, rather than a subordinate".

However please do accept that men are naturally more mentally stronger than women.
Take care....

This Asake Amapiono songs was one of the worst songs in Nigeria for past one year.


Even Asake had better songs than this one.


What happened to LONELY AT THE TOP by the same ASAKE?

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


Anything wey you like make you take swear if I want bang your wife I go bang am and nothing go happen

Hahaahahha. Abeg no bang my wife ooo

obaidan:

the magun is not visible. It's spiritual.

But for real, there are less chances of someone fvckin your wife if she's not attractive

uuzba:

If you have to be swearing with your wife at this time, long after your wedding day, then your marriage is already over.
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All the swearing was done ON the wedding day.
In good times, in bad times, for better, for worse....
That's your marriage vow.
You swore that swear before God and man.

You have to re-swear at points of crucial times.

Also make the verbiage of the swear more specific.


Which one is "in good times, in bad times, for better, for worse...."??


Can you compare that to "Make thunder strike my p*ssy, if another man rod enter inside". ?

chaloskyx:
there is little you can do for most people that are depressed if one is not careful they would pull you down with them as its a reoccuring mental issue im sure the man tried on his part as far as im concerned a woman selfish enough to take her own life not thinking of the kids she would leave behind talkless of her husband. thats not someone that would be happy even if the husband does all he can to help her cause she is SELFISH and all about herself

Yeahhh. It's selfish of her to have committed suicide.

The husband may have been a responsible husband to her.

But inorder to know what drained her so emotionally to the extent of commiting suicide, the husband should have noticed this.


Woman can hardly hide their emotions. But men can hide it sooo easily.

The arrest is a good move to get out the truth.


If my wife commits suicide, I would forever feel like a failure. I would feel stigmatized within my peers.


The only men that should inspire suicide are Buhari and Tinubu.

Cos those 2 people have been extremely frustrating to us all.

chaloskyx:
😅😅😅 very funny

Funny, but I'm very serious tho

stacyadams:
na another man go dey salvage your wife toto when u no dey carry that one for mind first

Can't you use better choice of words on another man's wife?


This your words alone can cause instant breakup of their relationship.

First take your wife to shrine to swear and also place magun on her.

But if she's ugly and maybe Fat, you can rest your mind.

IbileIfe:

Stop telling lies.
Nigerians have always been lamenting every government administration.
Austerity Measure era, the government provided locations to purchase foodstuffs at affordable prices; low cost houses, etc.

We could not afford the white and brown beans and buying the variety of beans that took hours to be cooked.

ALI MUST GO protests and riots.

Several people committed suicide.

I voted APC in 2015. I can tell you for a fact that Suicide became more frequent as from 2015.

The looks of Buhari, alone inspires suicide.

chaloskyx:
lol what are you detaining the husband for if its been cinfirmed she committed sucide? do you even need evidence the small boy tried to tell us the wiman had mental issues when he said mummy be calm8ng down but as usual we over looked that issue and turned it to a meme. release that man abeg

The husband should be arrested.

A wife's happyness depends 100% on her husband.

The husband should have calmed her down. Either with money or sweet penis.

Jewessgratitud3:
Exactly my take. The man needs serious inerrogations. What will make a woman living with you commit suicide and you never suspected or noticed any strange moves and reported or taken action before it got to that stage.

When you're living with a man that doesn't care it can always result to this because a man that cares about your wellbeing will notice when you're down and try to talk you out of whatever it is that is bothering you. He'll offer to help and take you for therapy to get the needed medical attention but it seems there's no such relationship or bond between them and they are just living like flat mates. Smh..
So much for the so called marriage relationship.

Whether you're married or not just hold onto God cos only him can take care of you regardless, both in your prime and old age.
Marriage doesn't guarantee fulfilment. Only in God you can be fulfilled.

I totally agree with this arrest.

A husband should be 100% responsible for the happyness of his wife.


Howeverof the reverse was the case and the man committed suicide, no one would have arrested the wife.

Cos a man has several other links to decide his happyness&Sadness.

He may even have many other girlfriends outside that are frustrating him.


So kudos to the Nigeria police force.


This man is responsible for this calamity.

Christistruth03:


Embezzling N30 Million is not Kindness

I never meant the family was kind.
I said kind OF family.

I mean she should blame having that kind/sort/type/category of family. Not blaming herself for ever going to Europe.

This woman is getting it all wrong. She should regret having such kind of family. Not regretting going to Europe.

onez:
Please nobody voted for the election rigger. He imposed himself on Nigerians by bribing INEC officials and subsequently bribing judges. Don't blame the women. Nigerians are now living hand to mouth

This is exactly what I always say. Nobody voted for Tinubu.

She should have calmed down.

Racoon:
A prophet does not nit always have honour in his home town.

Are you saying that "some African country journalists should have at least voted for oshimen as their Number-1 player?


You do know that those names of voted players you see in that list are the number-1 players voted by those countries in the final round of votings, right?


Meaning that "oshimen should have been number-1 best player to some country journalists'.

Resetinc:
It’s not your general election where tribalism, religious & ethic bigotry determine who gets your vote … 😂

Thank you my brother.


You forgot to mention Agberoism, Certificate forgeries, Election Rigging and Supreme court incompetence.

CorrectionFLuid:


When Spanish football president kissed that female player, she kissed back. We still know how it ended. No dey support rubbish because of gender.

Wonderful

How did she kiss back?

Is that your idea of KISSING BACK?

BalogunIdowu:


The one whose wife said she had only fans account and the guy got angry over it. She was

. Yeahhh. The ex Golden state warriors player.