₦airaland Forum

ChiefSosa:
I'm actually willing to go such length.
I'm not encouraging violence but if anybody, SARS, Police, Soldier, Hoodlum, etc kills a member of my family, I'm DEFINITELY going on a killing spree and I'll go to jail for that WITHOUT AN OUNCE OF CARE IN THE WORLD. I'll make them also feel how hot bullets are. Anyone that causes violence deserves to also feel some violence.

Ma niggah! Only difference is that I won't go to jail.

Nobody will take any member of my family and go scot-free. Even if it takes years, revenge will be served.
Its an oath not just a promise

Thattallgirl:
Chicken, turkey, yea understandable...not birds

@op you no dey shame. Na bird you wan chop.
Poverty don reset many nigerians brain.

Goodluck on your bed hunting

okefranci:
It won't happen

Because you sabi dia mind abi?
Paid trumpeter

Chudivictor:
they don't need to be fine with it, what most of these elders are after is just the food and drinks, nothing else! if you can send theirs across to them, I see no reason why they won't be fine with the location

I am sure you are not igbo or you have stayed in lagos for too long.
Come and try that with my elders and see wahala.

Elders wey dey made up of retired chief judges, medical doctors, professors and biz tycoons.
You wan take food take insult dem? You go by double wahala be that.
I almost had a clash with them last year during my late Dad burial preparation. I first dey blow grammar everywhere until I give myself sense and use wisdom.

IkpuMmadu:
Then let her have it ... In igbo land you are not properly married if you haven't done your traditional wedding

You mind that girl joyandfaith. Dem no sabi wetin dey. Mske dem dey form modern babe until e go dawn on them

sunnitus:
Brother this topic should have been better and properly asked in Igbo group, most people here especially the yorubas will tell u is normal because it is normal and legalized in their tradition. Totally different from our (Igbo) tradition, pls I will advice you to take it to any Igbo group you belong to, at least there you will get the answer you seek. Ndalu

Beautiful response. There are some on Facebook. Igboville and a host of them. Join these groups and ask and you will get your answers op@sebastian1994

Mynd44:
It is her wedding and her choice. I know you might feel a bit skirmish about it but it is still her choice.

And how is this an "Igbo tradition" to marry at home? I think the tradition is the marriage itself, the travelling home for it is the culture (I stand corrected). Anywhere you live and you are welcome is where your home lies.

If your worry is about who attends, invite those people over.

But still talk to her and try to find a middle point, make compromise which might include, an introduction in the village before the wedding while it might not be the actual event but she and her husband visits to meet everyone. This can also be agreed on after the wedding.

I have Igbo friends whose traditional marriage was done in Lagos because they felt the logistics was off. Some felt their friends, bosses, mentors, colleagues who they feel are more impactful in their lives than some of the family members they have not seen or even met might not be able to share in their special day especially if the "elders" who will attend even in the village are few and can be convince to travel to the city if they insist.

Anyways, let us know how this goes and remember, it is her wedding and while you want what is best overall, she is an adult and able to make her decisions. Make compromise and listen too her arguments well.

I am not sure you are igbo so you might not really understand what you are saying.
In igbo land, traditional marriage is done in your ancestral land. Pls underline that word ancestral.

He can actually do it in the city but he will be fined heavily for it and he may lose goodwill in his hometown by doing it in the city.
This is why people of igbo extraction should try and retain a link wirh homeland. I know its not always easy.
He can scale things down to avoid cost. Just few persons should go to the village.

Temptee101:


Before your arrival in kastina, their children and wards weren't kidnapped.

You arrived kastina, within 24hours, school children were kidnapped at your backyard.

You sent delegates from Abuja to the governor of the same state you're currently in without moving an inch.

You said no word to the grieving parents of these children not even reading out your usual prepared and edited speech, you only condemned the act through Garba Shehu.

You refused meeting their parents, they came to you, you ordered your dogs to teargas them.

And these people happen to come from your state. No show of empathy whatsoever.

This still proves the fact, the man in ask rock might not be buhari.

If not how can one be this cold and callous to his fellow brothers and sisters; parents whose children got kidnapped.

This version of buhari must have migrated from another country.

Well, I'm learning to stop complaining and channel that energy into ensuring I leave this country soonest.

Trouble and sorrow follows that man where ever he goes. Only man that has succeeded in throwing Nigeria into double recession.

Fahdiga1:
Imagine the kind of billions being looted on a daily basis. Oh God when will it be my turn to loot. I promise to be a good looter and help people with my loot. please answer my prayers

A foreign forensic body once said over 400 billion dollars have been looted from Nigeria since inception

The Rock.

BaddieFreak:
My step dad is maltreating my mom. What should I do?

He comes back home very late and drunk and beats my mom almost everyday. I have told my mom to leave him but she is adamant, I even rented a house for her at a point so that she can leave him but my mom only spent about a week in the house before going back to my step father's house after my step dad called her and was crying on the phone that he will change.

Yesterday I went to meet her and I saw her face swollen. When I asked her what happened she dismissed it saying it's nothing, I knew my step dad has done it again. I have reported the case to the police several times but all to no avail. I don't know if my mom and my step father made a covenant reason why they can't leave themselves.

Why are men like this? I am confused and heart broken

Point of correction! not all men are like that. My father never raised his hands on my mom and I have already towed same line.

Well, if you be boy I for say make you corner the fo0l for one corner and deck his lip with better blow.

U fit still arranged some goons make them treat him Bleep up privately

DenreleDave:
Good day guys, I am currently posted to akwa Ibom and I am at the capital city..... I am not planning of sitting down at home after return from my ppa... I need something to be doing coz I don't want premium tears after it ends.... My service year ends in Oct/ Nov and I want sumtin I can learn within those month and it will be beneficial to my career...

Option 1: Go learn fashion design.. I want to learn ladies own though, I have seen a place but I haven't approached the shop owner yet..

Option 2: Go for those course certification like Human resources management Hrm, HSE, Advanced project mgt, customer service mgt graphics. @ Aftermath consult here in uyo..

Thanks in anticipation.......

Please help me take to front page, I don't want to waste my service year.....

Take this from me, I repeat...take this from me.

Go for the fashion design.
Coming from a bro who has seen it all.
Don't say I didn't tell you.

Arysexy:
Abaribe is the only Senator in this assembly that knows the meaning of legislative duty.

Lawan is just a rubber stamp. The question needs an answer for posterity sake, why is Lawan tackling him if not that it favoured APC.

What a useless fat pig called Lawan. How did we arrive at these kind of principal officers? He has turned himself to Yakubu's spokesman. Shame!

I am very sure this Abaribe has no cockroach in his cupboard, if not this vindictive devilish regime would have used EFCC, DSS, Custom, Immigration. civil defence, Amotekun etc to shut him up.

Sense full ya head my brother.

They would have dug dirt on him since

TOPCRUISE:
As for me I just have to prepare on how to get out of this country. I can't Blame buratai who is only given Ak 47, truck, few armoured. That is not enough. We need drones and advanced technology, the kind used by the US to track and rescue their citizen in Nigerian soil 3 weeks ago. That attitude of saying you rescue a kidnap victim after millions of Naira have been paid for ransom is nonsense

But chad with their rag-tag army armed with just same AK 47 and 50 caliber guns mounted on hilux trucks were able to deal devastating blows on boko haram until they cried out? Chad army even chased boko haram into Nigeria and killed them on our turf!
My friend listen, we are not fooled. Some of us understand the technicalities and intricacies involved in warfare.
If the FG is serious, they can root out boko haram in six months. I know what I am saying.
Their are things going on underground that FG and NA are not telling you guys.
Pls give yourself some sense and know that these guys have sinister motive

stacyadams:
. I always pay for school children whenever am in kekE..it's a hobby

That's me too. Let's keep it up.
I always Cherish their smile and the knowledge that they have extra change to buy something for themselves

meobizy:
Don’t try this. Safety boots are miles tougher and protective than NYSC boots. NYSC boots are cheaply-made hiking boots which if used exhaustively will not last more than a few months.

Come to think of it, where do NYSC boots disappear to after service? I tried to keep mine for posterity; wicked relatives threw them away because they felt one year was more than enough use for them. With as many people who dump them, I hardly see landfills consisting of them or street boys rocking hand-me-downs.

Research topic
I wonder too. After the one year mandatory service, the boot just disappears

BastardWike:
Despite all these, Nigeria still lost far more combatants than Biafra. Each time Biafrans hit them hard, they turn their frustrations on civilians by telling their Egyptian pilots to bomb civilians with their Russian Illusyion bomber aircrafts.

Twice, Muritala Mohammed tried to cross the River Niger and suffered heavy losses, he turned around and unleashed his frustrations on Asaba people.

In the Abagana ambush, Biafrans wiped out a battalion of Nigerian soldiers with hundreds of vehicles moving in columns. Armoured tanks and so many military vans and jeeps were totally obliterated until only their charred remains was left!!

Nigeria suffered heavy losses to the extent Britain got afraid they would lose the war if they didn't increase their logistics and material support to Nigeria.

This is the picture

adeola1097:
Where are the people who said jazz exists?

You didn't read where it said other of his friends tested theirs and it didn't penetrate.

Ordinarily, when a charm is done for protection, you avoid things having to do with ladies.

Seems the lady was menstruating

Charity85:
Good day all. Please kindly assist me in your suggestion about getting a good microwave oven with the following consideration.
1) Efficiency
2) Durability
3) Ruggedity
4)20-30L
5)Easy to operate
6)Easy to clean

Price range within 25-40k. Thanks

I would go with LG or scsnfrost if they have one

prmntfm:
Happy week end

Is there any way to make those cages snake proof?
Tnx

Hello

Smellymouth:
Rock abi Aso Rock!! Show yourself!!!!

Oun a wi f’ogbo L’ogbo n gbo!!
Omi kii sank'o b’oju w’eyin!!

Forget Rihanna ASAP!!!! Ayelala has spoken

Guy you cracked me up

What a country!
A bag of POP cement now 8k in Delta. Something I got for #4,500 in september/October.


We do exquisite furniture works.
Check us.

Sold a while ago. Didn't remember to update

Country's on autopilot.


We make aesthetically pleasing furnitures that will last the test of time.

Quirekoon:
Great work.

Thanks boss

This country don tire me. All this moni wey dem dey call they make eye turn me.

Kindly check us for your top quality furniture work.

This country needs help.

Tomorrow another hireling will come up and say it is not mandatory/constitutional for buhari to attend such summons.


Anyway check us for your quality furniture works

Check my siggy

johnnyn1:
I don sabi this one today ..
Thanks for the re-enlightenment

Spanking it is..

No P bro. One love

Ok

Just a call away

Just a phone call away