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Greatn3ss:
I don't believe I'm shy, I speak in gatherings, I do presentations. But the Issue is I can't woo to a girl, not because I'm scared to talk to the them but because I see it as irrelevant, and when ever I see I girl I really like and I feel like talking to her, I won't cause I know she must surly say "no" because we are just meeting for the first time. How do I handle fear of rejection

At the bolded, rejection could mean or relate to a lot of things. I will stick to giving you advice on how to face rejection when dealing with ladies, it seems to me that your current biggest hurdle.

There are ladies that will always reject you, ladies you approached and will give you a demeaning look. A very hurtful look, you will see the meaning right through their eyes and you will never forget. They will give you an attitude that will make you start to question yourself. Am I ugly? Am I not confidence enough? Asking yourself questions enough to damage your existence.

Now, do you know the funniest thing? The same ladies that look at you like you are some sort of plague, a disease some other day the same ladies will give you this soft jelly, marshmallows, butter, happy attitude that the best most friendly lady you have ever come across in your life will never give you. Every single one of them are like this. Where am I going with this? It is simply this “Never take ladies seriously” Please never forget this words carve it into your heart. Meditate on it day and night until the words makes sense to you and you see it happening in life.

Men fail primarily with women because they take them too serious. You do not take them serious, don’t take their ignoring you serious, don’t take their begging you serious, don’t take their words serious, don’t take their anger serious, don’t take those deamining looks which you will start to receive soon serious, don’t take anything about them serious. A woman can be laughing with you now and the next minute angry, you are all she want to see and the next minute the last thing she want to see...Does such a creation sound serious to you? Why take them serious? You don’t take them serious, don’t let their action get to you, just catch Cruz and move on. Do not try to change anything, Do not force Anything!!!!

I am giving you this advise because you are just starting out to have a relationship with women, following this advice will save you from lots of meaningless sorrows, tribulations. Now back to your main question?

It totally normal to be afraid to approach ladies because of fear that they might turn you down, something some of them will definitely do. it a phase every guy pass through. It something you conquer little by little with practice. Yes! With practice, you will have to chase after the beast. If you are not going to practice little by little at all then I cannot help you. I just don’t know any other way. Starting from the day you get my message; Take a night stroll alone to a place very far from your home where you hardly pass through be it during the day or night but with lively activities, a little far from home. When you get to somewhere far and no one probably knows you here just keep strolling, do not stand still looking like a kidnapper, when you see a lady you like from behind make sure it one you find attractive, she ignite your imagination, now; walk up to her and say “hi” do not think of what to say, the only thing I want you to think of is “Hi” just hi then whatsoever pop up in your head after “hi” you can say it. No matter how silly embarrassing, shy it sounds to you “say it”. I am trying hard to pass two things across to you here.
1) Learning not to take Ladies serious.

2) Approaching ladies.

Your ability not to take women serious begins the moment when you approached them without thinking of anything to say. All you need to know is just “Hi” nothing more.

I know on your first day of trying this you probably will see a lots of ladies you find attractive but you definitely won’t say hi to anyone of them, fear is a powerful thing. Go again day 2 take your night stroll again and have the resolve of saying “hi” to at least a lady that night, I am sure you will chicken out again. Go again day 3, most people I know as I have worked this thing through with some people never make their first “Hi” on day 3 but if you are the rare one first kudos to you but I do really hope you do not get addicted to this thing and me coming back to regret that I have unleashed a monster. Someone who will become too callous with women more than I imagined and will one day impregnate every members of my family.

If you do fail to say “Hi” at day 3 great. Go again day 4. Keeping going every day, taking a stroll to somewhere far from home with the intention of saying “hi” to strange ladies you come across. Make sure you make at least 30 hi” before this year runs out, mark every “hi” on your calendar where you can see it every morning. Never worry about what to say, with time you will naturally know. Your first 20 hi’s will be a disaster which is good, don’t worry you won’t see the first 20 hi again in your life.


In conclusion, Enjoy the experience of getting scared to say “hi” to ladies, savor it. One day you will look back and you will no longer know what it feels like. Never take ladies serious. Never forget this words my friend. If you do; you are bound to regret it. Now go out there tonight and catch Cruz.

Angelfrost:
Matter of fact, this is the easiest UCL season for Pep Guardiola since he faced United in the final as Barcelona coach!

If they don't win it this season, they should just forget it under Pep!

It will be quite depressing for fans and coach! Especially if they lose again at the final to a lesser team!

Remembering the days of Barcelona at the peak of their glory. When Barca easily hides United at finals. I think that was the last time PeP lifted the trophy. It been way long, way too long for a coach of his caliber.

I really hope luck shines at him this time around. De bruyne and his teammates really deserves that trophy.

Angelfrost:
Not in my book...!

I'm sure they have already picked up EPL and FA!

UCL is the tricky and unclear one, because Madrid is highly experienced and unpredictable!

If they get past Madrid, the final will be a formality!

Honestly, that is the thing about Madrid, when it comes to champions league they suddenly become an animal. I always keep wondering how they win it cause they always look like an average team to me, never looking like the favorite nor near anything like the favorite but somehow they just prevail.

This year I just really wish my man city will finally lift that trophy 🏆 that as evaded them. The team is just too excellent not lift it. They not lifting It under that Genius manager will be a shame.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Oga he impregnated his babymama for the second time, this is not about the loss of his child. Chioma will eventually leave him because she's already tired of forgiving him

And is that wrong? He his A man with more than abundance resources. He has more than enough to take care of 4 chiomas and 4 more baby mamas.

Are you saying such a rare valuable man nature hardly produce should spend the rest of his life with just a single woman? Allocating the rare gift nature as bestowed upon him to one woman only. To what end?.... Is that what you are saying??

IyaebeTheGreat:
See what you wrote, so bold in saying nothing wrong with whyhe has done. Smh

Are you saying they should never move on and still be brooding over the lost of their child, which certainly no amount of brooding can bring him back to life. Is that what you are saying?

Terrible things happens and will always happen; that is life. Life goes on!!

IyaebeTheGreat:
He should shut up, I don't like him again. He still went ahead to impregnate his babymama for the second time not even putting Chioma's feelings into consideration. Oloko giveaway

He has the financial prowess to take care of chioma and his baby mama’s, there is nothing wrong with his action. We all should always learn to stand up and keep moving forward no matter the amount of blows life throws at us. Absolutely no point in standing still and brooding about what has past.

helinues:
I think it's a bit complicated... If we can build robots, simulation games, then we might have also been simulated. What if earth is just like BBA to some Aliens just to entertain themselves?

At the same time, simulating ordinary one person would required lots of things cos it means even our decisions making have already been simulated which I don't think it's possible not to talk of 7bn people.

What do you think?

When you are having a dream; you clearly know you have the power to influence the direction of your dream but somehow it felt as if the event taking place in your dream are happening on their own, without your intervention and you are just an observer.

Life is a dream; only that this time, we are inside someone else consciousness.

Jeweltz:
I have a little bump on my chin. 🥺

I wanted to refer you to something you could use but after seeing the pic on your profile I think you are a narcissist. You need cure for narcissism.

placeofallure:
I intended to use that name for my fashion outfit.

I use to think it is place-of-failure..placeofailure until today. Now I clearly see that it is “place of allure”. When using the name for your fashion outfits, do try to bold the “allure”. People could easily mistake it for failure.

Most times our brain works unconsciously; instantly and simultaneously processing information without looking too deep.

placeofallure:
Carrots? I'm gonna research about this.

I now use glasses. In fact I can't see anything without it. I use 2.5. I wish I didn't have to wear glasses cause I hate it. I'm a beautiful girl by all standards and I hate to hide my beautiful face behind some queer glasses. Now, I can't help it but I only use it for reading.

I miss those days when I could thread a needle in a dark room. Oops! 😭😭

Hmmm, beautiful girl by standard if I may ask what inspired your monicker?

AishaDant:
I recently gave in and started using glasses to read. It is something I have been fighting for a while but my eyes keep getting worse

They said I am far sighted. It truly became very difficult to read and frustrating for me especially because I read a lot. My job requires a lot of reading and writing too.

So, I have started reading with glasses. I try not to use it always though because I heard it can sink your eyes...

My both parents at some point had to completely rely on glasses to see so... It might also be inherited.

FYI, I am no where near 40!

What job is that?

DenreleDave:
I saw this picture of this young boy and some creative ideas sprang up from my brain... I have used 3 fitting biblical words that adequately suite this boy's pictures.

I need give people that will use another biblical word that is more fitting for this picture... The ones with most liked comment will give 5k...

Just 5 people. I hope any of you can beat mine


5 Best Word Caption get 5k each...

I don’t know if it is me but I can’t help but notice that you always seems to be very vibrant regarding things that seems sinister, evil, wicked. It seems as if you always find joy, laughter, jokes in nefarious events.

richmond500:
There is naivety in 100 level.
Let's be frank, we all look stupid in our 100 level

I think the word is “innocent”

dynamike:
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Lol..Your signals reminds me of that nefarious, Dubious monicker. “Deflover”

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Lol...After yeye forex brokers don chop their own, you too also wan chop whatever that is left of him. Haba! Have mercy.

BOOKWORMLUX:
Can't login to my sav.com as I'm not getting the code

Please someone should help me out with how to go about it

No option to create support ticket since I'm logged out

Please help if you have experience this before

Hope you checked your SPAM for the code?

Robnectar:
Ahswear, don't know where all these niggahz dey pop up from once Dem see BTC pumping,
Nah Dem dey see when e go drop wit their shoemaker analysis 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

Dem go Dey talk, talk, talk till person go Dey confused, paralyzed come take the wrong actions listening to their Sïlly analysis. I doubt there is a single person on this group wey follow all this analysts and buy bittcöïn when it was at 17k or 20k below. I swear, person wey no dey any kryptö group go don perform better than those who Dey any form of kryptö group.

MatthiasChin:
walahi domaining na the closest thing to virtual bet9ja
But you, my friend, is a strong hand...agba

LOL. Bet9ja Virtual...I picked race completely from that thing. Hope I won’t pick race from domaining.

KullestKid101:
The rate at which girls are into this hook up something is very annoying o. Nobody should say anything against the prankster o. The girl is too loose abeg.

Toooooo loose. A place where you are working, how can she get an idea of sleeping with a customer for same place.

If the guy sleeps with her and no later pay her; shey she fit scream out? She no fit. At all! Na her type Guys go just fück and give them #200 recharge card. Well, this is a warning for her from the universe, she continues with this and she will exit this world soon.

lamdbull:
Dbull on this one!


As in come see people's serious babe in my dm because of that my new song omooo

Lol..D-Bull. I have to say this: You no get wahala, I swear. More hits to your songs.

Blupen969:
Then why do i feel so behind in reality bros am 25years still live with my parents and 4 other siblings in a two rooms apartment very small rooms ooh and right now my last card is #100 bros no be juju be this? abeg check am nah

So this is evidence that you are doing bad and your life is completely ruined. Is that it?

Kingdollar28:
No bank can fold again bro

Instead they will merge with other bank and change their name

E.g Diamond bank now Access

Yeah! They will all keep on merging until they become one, smaller banks getting swallowed by bigger ones. In the future, I doubt there will be more than 2 banks in the whole of Nigeria. The same for all over the world.

Introvert combo with Shyness is the worst thing that can ever happen to a man. A fate worst than Death.

No Courage (Can’t fuckïng say “NO” to others)

Lack of Trust ( Prefers to get drowned by his problems than sharing it with others)

Nonchalant ( Going through life with lack of concern or interest, not really bothered with failures or success)

Does this sounds familiar to you? If it is, then you are fuckëd!!

Robnectar:
U guys should wishr me happy birthday 🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🏧🏧🏧

Happy Birthday Mate!! You have just reached a New All Time High. Congratulations!🍺

Bridget95:
Its getting out of hand in these times with little boys in the early 20s. Why not bother about being successful other than f^cking in a rented apartment. Why not take your bitch to a hotel and when you are married take your wife to your house

It everywhere now. Sometimes, I feel like a stranger in this world; completely different from what I was birthed in. Kids of nowadays, I find them scary and fascinating at the same time.

Honestly, it is good to explore life and it is our own individual experiences that really matters.

richmond500:
He is nothing but a destiny helper,
if the first guy had use the money wisely and invested in himself, he may have met the second guy who would have taught him how to be successful.
The first guy does not think about the future, it's just to fvck and make babies.
Imagine the second guy even came for marriage.
This is how you know a responsible men from all those Chelsea fans

Sometimes in life great things appears right in front of us, something so great that could forever change the lives of those around us. The sad thing is that Emotions cause us from seeing this great things when they appear. Blessings always come in disguise, mostly in the form of loss. it will happen to every one of us. A time will come in our life when there will be something wicked we have to do to transform our live; only you will know when the time as come and what the wicked thing is, every human will experience this thing probably once in their lifetime. This wickedness will come in different form, I tell you doing it won’t appear as doing something noble at first but down the line years later you will look back and you will be filled with tears, glad that you did because if you had not, your life would be completely different from the one you are currently living. it takes wisdom to sail through this powerful moment. This moment can ruin your life or can profoundly make it beautiful.

The people insulting you have let their emotions over taken their logical reasons, they are talking from an angle of sympathy they have for the first guy, it could have happen to them to, they are angry and felt exploited. If only humans could get rid of their emotions, having no deep attachment towards anything and doing things just for the sake of doing it and not because they feel there is something waiting for them, they will avoid going through some needlessly suffering in life. @op The situation your sister as found herself could be, no no. Not “could be” but a blessing for her, the first lover and the new man. I hope she does not fall to the den of emotions and make a right decision.

fredsamuel1:
me too, unfortunately you will only see useless ones that will only waste your time and money without impacting anything good to you

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depressedlad:
i am not here to scam or said that i will share a secret to anyone for a token, instead i am here to get the secret from anybody that is ready to help, i need help because life has not been fair to me for so long, majority of the years i have spent on this earth are not so sweet to talk about, its suffering after suffering. i know there are lots of ways to make money online and offline people just dont want to share. i am here begging you in the name of god to share to me anyway of earning money either online or offline and i swear to god i will not tell anyone without the permission of who ever taught me. guys i need help i am morethan broke i am just existing i wanna start living.

Few clicks away from you, boys are making millions and becoming millionaires. ##DOMAINING#