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Men do not act this way for nothing. Either a strong force is 'acting' on him, or the wife has turned a nag/monster!

The truth is that even a devil does not believe he is bad. Examine yourself closely.

Emekamex:
Who does this man think he is fooling?

It is sad the way our reason reason. The moment this man crosses over to the other party, he no longer would be seen as deceiving anybody!

#Leadership by propaganda!

What is wrong about it? As an undergraduate, I read in buses, in church and even at wedding ceremonies with all the noise, and I am proud, I did very well afterwards.

Meanwhile, this is why I think there is nothing wrong with that...

1 He is an specialist (permit me to use that word) in the subject he is marking and is therefore grounded;
2 A WAEC examiner has a marking scheme that is at the tip of his fingers; he can close his eyes and mark;
3 His marking is also vetted afterwards by random sampling;
4. My dad marks WAEC, and I have marked before--So, I see nothing wrong with that!

How would they when they head has refused to lead by example?
And who are we to crucify the governors?

HungerBAD:
All in their 20's, all uneducated,all came from outside Lagos,all believed in their illiterate minds that a cab driver is rich. I give up on our Youths, who raised this Demons?

Thank you so much.

These are all Christians. I have said it clearly that our families and especially the church have failed.

The man says nothing each time he speaks. Not even a white man would be foolish in communicating to no one with such a ridiculous level of usage of highfalutin languages. Communication is about meaning, and when the receiver cannot decode what is said, communication means nothing!

The Bible forbids a Christian working on Sundays. I hope it would not be made compulsory. If it is, then,MIT is pure witch-hunting.

purpledandelion:
I was so happy because people could feel I am the opposite of an introvert. It means, you too can learn, and amend. You are not an introvert, you're just shy and waiting to burst out of your shell. Introverts love who they are and wouldn't compromise a tiny bit of their personality to "fit in" even though we are excusably misunderstood.

One thing you should know is that introverts are very intelligent, very artistic, musical and calculating. This is true tho

Read my last response to wisellet. You would see the clarifications to my initial comment.

Saying "Introverts... wouldn't compromise a tiny bit of their personality..." isn not wholly true. If you study biographies, you would notice a lot born introverts than turned the opposite over time. It is only a parochial person and one who doesn't read that would forever remain the way he is.

I read a lot and understand clearly what supposed "flaws" accompany an introvert. Books shaped my life. And my job too as a sales person/marketer in the most challenging industry left me with no choice than shaping up and blending accordingly. I am still largely introverted, though people see me differently. I am also involved in many social activities. Thanks to reading and acquisition of knowledge.

wisellette:
I have a problem with the 'you too can learn and amend'. Are you insinuating extroverts are the normal people? Or are you suggesting an introvert should strive to become an extrovert?

Not at all. I am still largely an introvert! I meant blend (I just edited my writing before I saw your comment).

Everybody has good and bad qualities and attributes. There is nothing wrong with amending and blending where it is necessary, to meet the challenges of the day. The world is an open system, where you must interact with people. We should be able to learn, unlearn and relearn (referencing Alvin Toffler now) at all points.

However, introverts are very useful to society. They are the thinkers. Most inventors are introverts because they have the patience to think and think and question. I am a blended introvert!

MissSlimbody:
you are certainly not possess.

I don't fall too.
And I know other people that don't fall too.

Or that "possession" level pass the pastor level?

Don't mind them. Nothing is wrong with you. You have great talents and disposition they cannot match.

I was born a typical INTROVERT, almost a recluse! I know I also felt the same way you do at some point. I tried to read and study. I discovered my temperament Was PERFECT MELANCHOLIC (I know you may also be the same; read Florence Litteur's book, PERSONALITY PLUS). They have powerful attributes that I equally possess.

However, after reading and being involved in students politics, speaking and oratory, I started coming out of my shell. I interacted, I spoke, I played and joked. At a time, afteer teaching my subordinates about the four Temperaments, I asked them where I fall, they answered, YOU ARE A POPULAR SANGUINE! What? Popular Sanguine is an extreme extrovert in all ramifications. I was so happy because people could feel I am the opposite of an introvert, which I used to be. It means, you too can learn, amend and blend.

One thing you should know is that introverts are very intelligent, very artistic, musical and calculating.

abokikhalifa:
how, what wrong with my english fill free to point out my errors.. You ar still beating round the bush.. You ar asking of buhari as if you knw jonathan's were about

It means you don't even know the meaning of SIC.
Find out the meaning of sic, and correct yourself.

mikemodel24:
thunder go fire u.is this lagos or owo.do u see the pics of people been killed.did u see hw young they re.look at the guy already gone .life wasted and u talking rubish.i just had early today that soldier were been deploy to akure.why cant the distribution go on immediately.if our government were ok will these happen in the first place.guy mind u writing

My God bless you! I do not curse people. I know where your likes come from. I bless even my enemies, because Christ taught me to do so.

Demdem:
shut ur tarp if u have nothing to say.
Did u see where i requested that Wike should shout up his putrid mouth and start Amaechis prosecution? where did u see defense here? Nonsense.

Unintelligent people are quick to start a curse, a fight and confrontation.

erimmy:
My guy,pls try and not always take matters personally especially an issue that you are not well versed in.Did the fact that I spent 7 months in Maiduguri make any sense to you? I assume,you have not been to borno state since the boko haram started,so I can say that you are arguing blindly. Go to the state and see that this young man is trying even in the midst of challenges. I bet you he has improved on the infrastructural development of the state,better than what is obtained in some states without such insurgency, yet he is not owing anybody. Need I remind you that the state does not collect its total allocation from FG.that is Because the FG uses part of it to fight terrorism. I served in the JTF in Borno state last year and I know that Governor Shetima pays 1million naira to the family of every fallen soldier there.He helped in other arrears too. like I said am a cross riverian,so am nof sentimental.Pls learn to appreciate one who is trying.

You only succeeded in buttressing my point! Or don't you think so?
He doesn't get all his allocations; he is not owing; he has enough money to rebuild the state/cities, he pays money to families like he is from an oil-producing state.

And how do all these preclude him from having a vested interest in BH?

Stunts, stunts and stunts!!!
2am?

elochukwud9:
Please my fellow nairalanders please tell me the best way or sample to answer these popular job interview question TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF

What type of graduates are we churning out in Nigeria?
Must everything be communal effort?
Don't we have brain to put to task?

Almost one month gone!
Nothing to show!!!

When will this man be extradited to the US?
This life not fair at all!

erimmy:
But Governor Kashim Shetima is not among those that are owing workers' salaries na.Rather he is one of those trying to make Borno state a habitable place for its citizens.Before you guys crucify me for supporting him,am a Cross Riverian and I know this because I spent 7 months in Borno state last year.

Yes, he may not be owing because he was well compensated by sponsors/financiers for pulling a successful stunt on Chibok Girls. Besides, all the monies stolen from CBN by "Emea" were packaged for him and his brothers as a reward. So, why would he owe?

Anyway, welcome change in a new level!






^{If you de vex, go hug transformer!}

dounleedee:
Ngozi Okonjo Nweala did not have any moral justification to make such comments or draw myopic conclusions when the excesses and wastages within the presidency her immediate constituency remained untrimmed throughout her tenure.

@Dundee,

Are you sure you understand what person is writing? Please, read again, or consult Buhari to explain to you!

Please, Shettima, we also need...

SA on Boko Haram

SA on Security

SA on Fulani cattle readers' mayhem!!

Nigerians, embrace change!

CHANGE to Saraki means...

Reducing Wardrobe Allawance "from N150billion and it’s coming down to N120billion."

Everybody knows full well that before the elections/handover, the BBOG group led by OByEze kept vigil, slept in the open,mmade noises, blasted all the media and airwaves with hypes, and made a showmanship of the whole process. Sadly, everything petered out after the elections. Surely, #ThereisGodoo!#

kromoto:
Hard work pays while laziness kills.

Height or no height man na man!

True talk!

But... You must be a veeeeeery shot man!

7footre:
Heartless ba§tards!!!!! The only time polithiefcians unite is when they share d national cake

Or...
When they want to crucify an innocent man, like they did Jonathan!

We can see the CHANGE in Ngeria football!
BBOG/luck

I recently stumbled over an article with the following caption, and somehow, item numbers 6, 7 and 10 provide answers to "research question" on hand:


"30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN"


6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility. (Eph 5v33)

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter if time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)


https://www./every-woman-should-read-30-rules-godly-women-daniel-nwodi

uplawal:
Abeg carry your own go,i have three years old baby too,,they dnt have such knowledge.as no case of sexual molestation or abuse. What is happening to baby is pure developmental stage in human life. All our lives are shaped by sexuality and those are atom from which our personality is built upon. Please read, Sigmund Freud psycho sexual stages of human development. We passed through five different stages in life and are all embedded in sexuality. All children pass through that stage including you! Please kindly Google oedipus complex for little boys and Electra complex for young girl girls of maybe 2 to 3 years.

Oedipus complex :denotes the emotions and ideas that the mind keeps in the unconscious, via dynamic repression, that concentrates upon a child's desire to have sexual relations with the parent of the opposite sex

Electra complex:girl compete with her mother for possession of her father which she normally displayed erotically.

In the absence of the parents. It is possible to display this behavior to any adult available. The kids will soon pass this stage and stop this behavior and come to another.

Caveat : parents should be with their kids to give them love and care and understand some of their strange behavior as it will come to pass. It is all natural

I like your kind of person, especially your ability to study wide--unlike the average Nigerian.

However, Oedipus Complex, coined from the Greek drama, Oedipus Rex (where the man unknowingly kills his father and marries his mother--from where Ola Rotimi, I think, adopted his "The Gods are not to Blame" is about the love of a child for the opposite-sex parent, and not necessarily touching pen.ises and handling them, or manifesting erotically like you said.

I have children. Non of them has shown signs of playing that kind of "expensive" joke.

I will check out the book you talked about!

olamydey:
See Gobe!

I have a 2yr old daughter and cannot bear the thought of her being molested. Please inform her mum. I pray she will handle it sensibly. Chai, people are mean o

Most likely, she learnt that from her mother/parents while they play "husband-and-wife" kind of play! It is also very likely that her mother keeps her by the side while doing a similar thing elsewhere.
Some people (especially those living in one room apartments) do not know how to protect their children before having ssex.

Meanwhile, a three-year old is old enough to understand intimate issues, and therefore should be protected jealously.