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Men should safe within feminism to critic it , unless what good is a Male feminist?
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Magnoliaa:Please no generalization on this trend. You are free to counter any post I make here, it's open for all but until you do you have made no point. Even this we spoke about you still made no point. I just ended up explaining what was clear and obvious to everyone. Shalom |
JESHAL:You came up with that? That's really genius! |
Magnoliaa:Definitely you wont be referring to so called "feminist" in Nigeria. Even abroad it is still a problem, the double standards. |
Magnoliaa:As long as you didn't ask him for help and he volunteered willingly then it wont count as hypocrisy. |
Feminism seeks and currently controls mainstream media. Any constructive criticism is shut down and met with dismissive disdain. How are we going to enjoy "equality" if are voices are being viciously drowned? Feminism claims is about men and women's rights, so let us both speak freely on our rights.
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JESHAL:Hi, I sight you . New profile? Welcome |
Magnoliaa:If she asks or if you ask a man for help when ladies are around then that's benevolent sexism, but if the guy on his OWN sees how you are struggling and steps in to help that's been decent on his part. He didn't do it because you asked him for help, he did it because he saw you needed help and nobody was willing to help.
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Magnoliaa:Maybe the feminist you know, but not the feminist I know. So my point is valid. |
Magnoliaa:Did you read where I said men should be decent with all humans if a genuine need arises, that includes with men. So if a man has a flat tire and he is struggling as a man i should help if I aren't pressed for time, same applies if it's a woman. And not she has a flat tire and wont bother changing it but she waits along the road for a prince charming she can trick into changing it for her. |
Magnoliaa:Now look at the picture again and answer the following if you can. Who is demanding to be treated like a queen? It is the woman. The man should always be a decent human to all humans provided a genuine need arises for that. But opening doors and other kind acts like that should not be demanded by women from men unless the men see she actually needs assistance and volunteer to help on their terms. Helping out in this context isn't benevolent sexism.
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Magnoliaa:You missed opening doors for humans (Male and female and not females only) if a GENUINE NEED ARISES, like their hands are full and not because you are a girl and think it's your "privilege" |
Dapcity007:Thank you and God bless you too. |
Magnoliaa:Being decent as a human- which you call benevolent sexism is totally different from fighting for equality for men and women in burning issues. If she is against being decent as a human and to all humans if a genuine need arise for it then I wont be surprised. Such are the ways of radical feminist. Hope radical feminist know brideprice and alimony are all forms of DOWRY?
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FEMINISM is actually a movement that means many things OTHER THAN WHAT IT IS SUPPOSED TO MEAN.
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Magnoliaa:Whatever you say |
Magnoliaa:So you have added more insults, claiming I somehow lack comprehension and "its starting the obvious". |
Magnoliaa:
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Magnoliaa:You say "Bleep you" to me? For what exactly, the double standards i pointed out? Chimamanda is a radical feminist to me, she doesnt know what true equality between men and women is even if it was staring her in the face. Truth still remains, FEMINISM IS ONLY A TOOL FOR THE ADVANCEMENT OF FEMALE ONLY PRIVILEGE. |
Magnoliaa:Why the name calling"obtuse"? I didn't call you names in my previous post |
At this rate feminism is taking this patriarchal thing too far
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Magnoliaa:Stick to the topic of the post and image, the complaint is about CATCALLING(hisses, whistles and stare)- not sexual harassment, groping etc. Those are added excuses to ban catcalling. Notice the excuse she gave as to why she misses it? |
Feminism is ONLY ABOUT FEMALE PRIVILEGE, only ignorant males and females think otherwise. Its all about MEN TEARS and THE FUTURE IS FEMALE. How about NO TEARS and THE FUTURE IS EQUAL?
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Feminist are all out to hijack STEM courses in universities. Males naturally choose those courses because they find them challenging why females prefer more social courses but with more scholarships groups for only women and more only female STEM classes in universities more women are been driven into STEM courses. The result is below, notice the goal isn't to create a balance class of men and women but to create superior numbers of women in STEM COURSES, hence the jubilation at news articles like these.
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So a Male feminist is supposed to treat a female feminist this way- as unequals? Or does this only apply to males who dont identify as feminist?
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odinson1:Old but gold. This a girl can hit a guy if he deserves it, says feminist who preach powerful women stereotype but at the same time claim a guy cant hit a girl back even if its self defense, forgetting feminist are the ones pushing for a "powerful woman" as a tool to physically assault men is double standard. So if a female feminist assaults a Male feminist, since feminism is for all gender ,why cant he defend himself at least? Face it FEMINISM is ONLY ABOUT FEMALE PRIVILEGE |
Old but gold. This a girl can hit a guy if he deserves it, says feminist who preach powerful women stereotype but at the same time claim a guy cant hit a girl back even if its self defense, forgetting feminist are the ones pushing for a "powerful woman" as a tool to physically assault men is double standard. So if a female feminist assaults a Male feminist, since feminism is for all gender ,why cant he defend himself at least? Face it FEMINISM is ONLY ABOUT FEMALE PRIVILEGE
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This is what feminist really mean when they CLAIM men can be feminist. ITS ALL ABOUT WOMEN, MEN LISTENING TO THEM, DEFENDING THEIR RIGHTS AGAINST OTHER MALES AND FORGETTING THEIR PRIVILEGES WHILE UPHOLDING HERS. its never a discussion of men and women's right equally in feminist forums.
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StacyO:The rest being men and women. So in that case "men and women" sounds better than "society" cause it clearly identifies the parties that make it up. No ambiguity, no misconceptions. |
On cat calling. How can you be against cat calling one year and the next year you suddenly miss it?
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Of the 400,000 people in the United States receiving post-divorce spousal maintenance, just 3 percent were men, according to Census figures. Yet 40 percent of households are headed by female breadwinners — suggesting that hundreds of thousands of men are eligible for alimony, yet don’t receive it. The reason? Die-hard gender roles, a bitter fight from breadwinning wives and macho pride, say family attorneys. And in some parts of the country, judges are flat-out sexist. |
Dreadlock69:Nigerian men should beware. Canada sef get craze. funny enough greater percentage of feminist in Canada and around the world are silent on this matter, yet the want MEN to believe FEMINISM is for all of us? |
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. New profile? Welcome
but your picture said opening doors and pulling chairs for women is UNEQUAL. and you called feminists out on that "hypocrisy."
but anytime feminists or chimamanda comments on chilvary or benevolent sexism, you claim they are eroding femininity and are being hard.