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RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 2:01pm On Jan 08, 2021
Men should safe within feminism to critic it , unless what good is a Male feminist?

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:58pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
then when feminists accept help they need from a guy, they are not hypocrites.

feminists do not ask for help because they are women.

and feminists have spoken against such gendered-help motivated by reasons that are not genuine.

every single thing you've posted on the thread will likely, very HIGHLY follow this pattern when examined. but i won't hold my breath waiting for y'all to do that.

a person really interested in changing and modifying their views will do so when presented with facts they've previously gotten wrong...

sharlum.
Please no generalization on this trend. You are free to counter any post I make here, it's open for all but until you do you have made no point.

Even this we spoke about you still made no point. I just ended up explaining what was clear and obvious to everyone. Shalom
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:55pm On Jan 08, 2021
JESHAL:
Feminism now =Socially acceptable Sexism
You came up with that?
That's really genius!
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:47pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]ehennn, abi? no wahala. my point is valid as well. and even stands MORE than yours could ever...

anecdotal evidences are not enough for you drag FEMINISTS of hypocrisy. i mentioned chimamanda. tomorrow, you pipu will want to cast her as the spokesperson for feminism. when i said jessica valenti's opinions are only about her now, you were baring teeth and yarning okoto for me.[/color]
Definitely you wont be referring to so called "feminist" in Nigeria. Even abroad it is still a problem, the double standards.
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:42pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]there are no ladies around. only the guy came to offer me help because i needed it. i accepted because i needed it, not because i'm a woman. is that acceptance hypocrisy on my part?[/color]
As long as you didn't ask him for help and he volunteered willingly then it wont count as hypocrisy.
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:41pm On Jan 08, 2021
Feminism seeks and currently controls mainstream media. Any constructive criticism is shut down and met with dismissive disdain.

How are we going to enjoy "equality" if are voices are being viciously drowned? Feminism claims is about men and women's rights, so let us both speak freely on our rights.

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:32pm On Jan 08, 2021
JESHAL:
Tampon (sanitary pad) we made for them
Yet they call us oppressors
Hi, I sight you smiley. New profile? Welcome
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]if i insult you now, you will start sulking. undecided but your picture said opening doors and pulling chairs for women is UNEQUAL. and you called feminists out on that "hypocrisy."

feminists have spoken against what you intended to drag them for. they have done exactly what you expected. now, you're turning around and shalayeing what chivalry means to me?

you were just dragging feminists for "expecting" chivalry. when feminists speak against it, you say, "oh, it's not really that bad."

okay. going along with you, as i am a feminist (or picture just any other feminist), if i have my hands full, and i told a guy friend next to me to help me carry an extra item- am i guilty of hypocrisy?

remember you said it is good manners of the part of the guy ohhh. so if a feminist is, for a material reason or another, unable to open a door, pull a chair or carry loads and asked a friendly guy neighbor to help her - is that double standards or a genuine need for help? [/color]
If she asks or if you ask a man for help when ladies are around then that's benevolent sexism, but if the guy on his OWN sees how you are struggling and steps in to help that's been decent on his part. He didn't do it because you asked him for help, he did it because he saw you needed help and nobody was willing to help.

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:16pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]stories. you dragged feminists for demanding to be treated like queens. i told you feminists have rubbished that notion, whatever we term it is none of your business.

why are you dragging feminists for something they have spoken against and do not practice?
why?

you just wan run mouth?[/color]
Maybe the feminist you know, but not the feminist I know.
So my point is valid.
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:13pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]incapable because you think they are women and soft. you said because they think they are girls. is that not what i'm saying?

do you carry things for your male friends because they are a guy? are INCAPABLE, as in, they completely do not have the ability to do basic things for themselves?

if you see a guy driving badly, do you presume men aren't wired for driving?[/color]
Did you read where I said men should be decent with all humans if a genuine need arises, that includes with men. So if a man has a flat tire and he is struggling as a man i should help if I aren't pressed for time, same applies if it's a woman. And not she has a flat tire and wont bother changing it but she waits along the road for a prince charming she can trick into changing it for her.
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 1:02pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]YOU alluded here that pulling of chairs is to feminists unequal. feminists have spoken against it, and you are now coming back to say it is decent behaviour.[/color]
Now look at the picture again and answer the following if you can. Who is demanding to be treated like a queen? It is the woman.

The man should always be a decent human to all humans provided a genuine need arises for that. But opening doors and other kind acts like that should not be demanded by women from men unless the men see she actually needs assistance and volunteer to help on their terms. Helping out in this context isn't benevolent sexism.

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:54pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Chimamanda has spoken against opening doors for women; you say it is being decent.

Ki ni problem e gan gan bayi - what are you complaining against?[/color]
You missed opening doors for humans (Male and female and not females only) if a GENUINE NEED ARISES, like their hands are full and not because you are a girl and think it's your "privilege"
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:45pm On Jan 08, 2021
Dapcity007:
God bless you
Thank you and God bless you too.
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:42pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]chimamanda and other feminists have spoken against bride price; paying for women; opening of doors for women and pulling chairs for them, and carrying them BECAUSE you think they incapable of doing such for themselves - do you agree with them?

secondly, i don't know about others or anywhere, these acts are certainly disappearing, compared to the previous eras, especially in this individualistic period where everybody only watches out for themselves. you only have to visit a Nigerian lecture hall to see guys and girls pushing each other for seats.[/color]
Being decent as a human- which you call benevolent sexism is totally different from fighting for equality for men and women in burning issues.

If she is against being decent as a human and to all humans if a genuine need arise for it then I wont be surprised. Such are the ways of radical feminist. Hope radical feminist know brideprice and alimony are all forms of DOWRY?

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:31pm On Jan 08, 2021
FEMINISM is actually a movement that means many things OTHER THAN WHAT IT IS SUPPOSED TO MEAN.

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:22pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]i know this is what you want to do lmao. but i'm not here because of you...


i'll only like to see your ignorance exposed...and you'll be doing so.[/color]
Whatever you say
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:18pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]and so what if you didn't call me names? i was only stating the obvious. it's not an insult. [/color]
So you have added more insults, claiming I somehow lack comprehension and "its starting the obvious".
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:17pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]patriarchy tells you to protect women, so, shut up, suck it up and do what you're meant to do as beasts of burden.[/color]

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:15pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]fück you. grin but anytime feminists or chimamanda comments on chilvary or benevolent sexism, you claim they are eroding femininity and are being hard.

you people are mad and have and no body to tell you.[/color]
You say "Bleep you" to me? For what exactly, the double standards i pointed out?

Chimamanda is a radical feminist to me, she doesnt know what true equality between men and women is even if it was staring her in the face. Truth still remains, FEMINISM IS ONLY A TOOL FOR THE ADVANCEMENT OF FEMALE ONLY PRIVILEGE.
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:12pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]if you deliberately want to be obtuse, go. ahead.[/color]
Why the name calling"obtuse"? I didn't call you names in my previous post
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 12:04pm On Jan 08, 2021
At this rate feminism is taking this patriarchal thing too far

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 11:56am On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Her personal responsibility and judgments? Doesn't make cat-calling, sexual harassment, groping and the likes desirable.[/color]
Stick to the topic of the post and image, the complaint is about CATCALLING(hisses, whistles and stare)- not sexual harassment, groping etc. Those are added excuses to ban catcalling.

Notice the excuse she gave as to why she misses it?
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 11:37am On Jan 08, 2021
Feminism is ONLY ABOUT FEMALE PRIVILEGE, only ignorant males and females think otherwise. Its all about MEN TEARS and THE FUTURE IS FEMALE.

How about NO TEARS and THE FUTURE IS EQUAL?

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 11:26am On Jan 08, 2021
Feminist are all out to hijack STEM courses in universities. Males naturally choose those courses because they find them challenging why females prefer more social courses but with more scholarships groups for only women and more only female STEM classes in universities more women are been driven into STEM courses.

The result is below, notice the goal isn't to create a balance class of men and women but to create superior numbers of women in STEM COURSES, hence the jubilation at news articles like these.

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 11:14am On Jan 08, 2021
So a Male feminist is supposed to treat a female feminist this way- as unequals? Or does this only apply to males who dont identify as feminist?

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 11:09am On Jan 08, 2021
odinson1:
G
Old but gold. This a girl can hit a guy if he deserves it, says feminist who preach powerful women stereotype but at the same time claim a guy cant hit a girl back even if its self defense, forgetting feminist are the ones pushing for a "powerful woman" as a tool to physically assault men is double standard. So if a female feminist assaults a Male feminist, since feminism is for all gender ,why cant he defend himself at least?

Face it FEMINISM is ONLY ABOUT FEMALE PRIVILEGE
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 11:08am On Jan 08, 2021
Old but gold. This a girl can hit a guy if he deserves it, says feminist who preach powerful women stereotype but at the same time claim a guy cant hit a girl back even if its self defense, forgetting feminist are the ones pushing for a "powerful woman" as a tool to physically assault men is double standard. So if a female feminist assaults a Male feminist, since feminism is for all gender ,why cant he defend himself at least?

Face it FEMINISM is ONLY ABOUT FEMALE PRIVILEGE

RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 10:54am On Jan 08, 2021
This is what feminist really mean when they CLAIM men can be feminist. ITS ALL ABOUT WOMEN, MEN LISTENING TO THEM, DEFENDING THEIR RIGHTS AGAINST OTHER MALES AND FORGETTING THEIR PRIVILEGES WHILE UPHOLDING HERS. its never a discussion of men and women's right equally in feminist forums.

FamilyRe: Male Virginity. by needanswer: 10:26am On Jan 08, 2021
StacyO:
Lol
What are you typing please?

Children out,the rest bears the cross.
The rest being men and women. So in that case "men and women" sounds better than "society" cause it clearly identifies the parties that make it up. No ambiguity, no misconceptions.
RomanceRe: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 9:23am On Jan 08, 2021
On cat calling.

How can you be against cat calling one year and the next year you suddenly miss it?

RomanceRe: Alimony For Your EX-GIRLFRIEND, Is It RIGHT?[PICTURE] by needanswer(op): 9:08am On Jan 08, 2021
Of the 400,000 people in the United States receiving post-divorce spousal maintenance, just 3 percent were men, according to Census figures. Yet 40 percent of households are headed by female breadwinners — suggesting that hundreds of thousands of men are eligible for alimony, yet don’t receive it.

The reason? Die-hard gender roles, a bitter fight from breadwinning wives and macho pride, say family attorneys. And in some parts of the country, judges are flat-out sexist.
RomanceRe: Alimony For Your EX-GIRLFRIEND, Is It RIGHT?[PICTURE] by needanswer(op): 9:07am On Jan 08, 2021
Dreadlock69:
When feminist is your president mtcheeew?
If the man salary is $500 monthly or wages $250 how him go cope there
Nigerian men should beware. Canada sef get craze. funny enough greater percentage of feminist in Canada and around the world are silent on this matter, yet the want MEN to believe FEMINISM is for all of us?

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