Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:30am On Mar 02, 2021 |
Lucrativress: Look here You can't "find someone like your Ex" not even yourself Really? You too. So you are saying my ex is an exception, a one in a million? |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:29am On Mar 02, 2021 |
Lucrativress: This doesn't show intelligence You couldn't even decode the Parent question.. That's a guy I quoted right? If it is, he wasn't been helpful to me. He asked a question, I responded and then he gave be a phrase or whatever that is. Am I supposed to beg him for the explanation? |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:28am On Mar 02, 2021 |
begoniaa: It doesn't mean anything; don't think too much about it. 
I guess my jokes tend to go over (most) peoples' heads. Yeah, you deliberately do it. It's well thought out  . I like intellectual discussions to just random arguments. |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:25am On Mar 02, 2021 |
Lucrativress: It's in this your same thread I'll try and know Detective fash junior, please go ahead  |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:24am On Mar 02, 2021 |
Lucrativress: You are you lively? Maybe you're the boring one,cause it seems like the Lady you liked was the one initiating the liveliness I am not boring but many things can bore me. |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:21am On Mar 02, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:20am On Mar 02, 2021 |
pozehnani: Then you're definitely not into her if you're already bored.
Just be good and do whatever makes you happy. Exactly I am not into her. I am good and I'll keep trying to make myself happy |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:16am On Mar 02, 2021 |
begoniaa: [color=dodgerblue]Tor. I read and understood your post oh. Was only tryna be an half-baked counselor...
Anyway, ... since/seems you have a ******************************************** head and you wouldn't even get anything I say, I guess I should clear for road for the rest of your gender to contribute.[/color] So you finally read it, you just wanted to be your mischievous self  Whatever the asterisks mean...its okay. And I get along with ladies here, no fight, no quarrel except you and the other lady. I dont want her mention so I am not quoting her  |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:10am On Mar 02, 2021 |
WoundedLamb: Hhmm... Choosing a life partner is a very serious business and it's not really easier for any gender. We all have our shortcomings. We don't see them cause our friends and family have normalized them. But the moment you let another party into your life, these limitations are revealed. It's up to us to search for a partner whose limitations we can condone. I don't subscribe to the idea that any gender is particularly shallow. But some people are definitely shallow. You just have to set your priorities. Many not-shallow-girls might not have the physical looks you want. And considering the fact that physical looks are the first thing that usually attracts one to another before other features are observed, it's possible that you aren't even looking at the girls with the personality you desire. Again, some of the girls you'd have liked to have (those with the attributes you desire) might have slipped through cause you aren't their spec. It's not like women sit down like goods in the market looking for anyone that wants their type to pick them. They're also actively searching for what they want. You friends found what they want. Don't use your spec to grade them. Just keep looking for yours and be ready to make compromises.
Good luck. I like your comment because you read through, then shared your thoughts. Although not all you said about me is true, the essence of your post is valuable not just to me but to anybody who reads it. Thank you. |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 12:06am On Mar 02, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 11:56pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
begoniaa: [color=dodgerblue]Can you see why ya unmarried? How do you expect to be picked by the woman you desire when you're not strategically and brilliantly marketing yourself?[/color]
[color=dodgerblue]Um. Hello. Where do we put, SMV, high-value, and "men hage like wine and can get the choicest of young virgins?" O.O You want to tell me girls are not flocking to you??
Omo. That's awa own script, na. *We* are the ones that get desperate and found wanting "for" a man as we grow older. Una don forget?[/color] You live to type but don't READ to TYPE magnoliaa. If you read my post, I stressed I was looking for such a woman and not PICKED by such a woman. there are only beautiful women around but they lack the substance to keep me from moving on in a relationship. I'll be bored to death  |
Romance › When You Go Redpilled Or Feminist You Can't Truly Love Or Fall In Love by needanswer(op): 11:54pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Its true, Redpill has men's right in it but is a mechanism to not just cope with female manipulation (which is not all bad in all cases, but will make you a "fool for love" in all cases), but to become a Male manipulator yourself. Once the doctrine sticks, it's hard to undo.
Feminism on the other has women's right in it but also a supremacy undertone for women to oppress men. Infact anywhere feminism goes, divorce rate goes up, every single damn place and moral value goes down equally. |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 11:44pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
begoniaa: [color=dodgerblue]Wrong answer. You don't tell who I should be. I love my winshy self the way I am - so why exactly should I change or for whom??
And it's once* .[/color] I know, I make typo errors -i dont even preview whatever I type, it's not an exam ok (wish I can eye you but that's on a lighter note). Like whatever I say is relevant to you before...I know it was never, and I am happy like that  |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 11:36pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 11:34pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
pozehnani: See how you're just going on about girls and how they should be just perfect, as if you are perfect yourself.
For you to still stir up the monster in the near-perfect lady you cited above shows you're your own problem of not being able to pick a girl to settle with and not the girls. So work on yourself.
You that is calling your friends girlfriends and wife's shallow, where is your own? At least they are married while you're still here seeking an imaginary smart and sophisticated girl.
Lastly, if you have this "know it all" attitude, better you drop it otherwise no woman will be willing to stay with you. Firstly I cant act dumb just to fit in. It wont work in the long run, that is in years. I'll be miserable. And I dont stir up any anger, sure couples can disagree but when everytime she is turning violent it doesnt make sense. If I was violent on her on every issue we disagree on , you wont advice her to stay either. And yes I am seeing someone currently but she doesn't inspire me ,I am bored in the relationship already, barely a few months. |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 11:30pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
begoniaa: [color=dodgerblue]Chei.
My fingers are bitinggg me, but AirNeWays... lemme take my flight outta here and not be a winsh. [/color] Please be an angel instead  |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 11:29pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 11:17pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Cakhama: You don't need to find anyone. Try and be alone for a while until you're comfortable with being single. I have gone 2 years before without a date. And it was okay but going out long doesnt mean when you come back to dating things will change for the better, hope you get? Your advice isn't bad but I have tried it before and when I came back it was still the same, plus i am not hurting. I'm good emotional, I am just worried that there are gorgeous girls everywhere i can date but they like something extra to keep me from becoming bored once the relationship starts or i settle down with them. |
Family › What Do You Think Is Spoiling The Nuclear Family? by needanswer(op): 11:14pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Is it western culture? Religious beliefs? People's personal orientation? Extended family? Friends? Materialism? Adultery? Etc Which can you think of? |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 11:05pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Cakhama: @ OP, it's okay to stay single. So no hope for me yeah,? I cant find someone like my ex but without the violence |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 10:54pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
gfon: Niggar you ain't alone,my own worse pass.Have got like 5 babes at my beck and call...worst fear is that marriage doesn't even trips me at all. As long as you got money and you know how to tall to a lady they will always be at your disposal but I dont want to keep more than 1. But still I'm tired. |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 10:52pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Nbotee: U can afford to ignore and manage many things in ur regular relationships but marriage na lifetime contract oo I'm bored in this one already. We dont seem to talk too much minus the regular catching up and going out. |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 10:45pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Nbotee: Aswear ooo.. It is wen it gets to making marriage decisions dat U begin to notice how limited ur options are Guy you took the words off my mouth. The choices are limited |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 10:39pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
thatsleepboy1: I have no answer. The OP above me is back. Ndị ụwa dị égwu o This your picture eh  |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 10:39pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Zzor: Rant of an expired ashawo man mtcheww It takes one to know one. |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 10:38pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
MejiLoyon: You've answered your question by yourself. Go think deeply. Goodnight  |
Romance › Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 10:29pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
MejiLoyon: Quick question. You had both parents growing up? Yes I did and still do but my parents dont force their will on us adults, they trained us like that. |
Romance › It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer(op): 10:14pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Yeah, its hard o. All girls are the same to me (when I say all girls, I only mean gorgeous girls) But beauty aside, most girls are the same. They are just in different packages but once I look past the beauty and into the person I get discouraged...nothing makes her special than the last or the next even my current girl. Only one girl ever stood out, beautiful, emotional intelligent, charismatic, funny, homely, ****** and she was smart about alot of things, we both Learnt new stuffs talking with each other, things most girls normally dont like. She is a big GOT and Kdrama fan and because of her I looked into Korean movies and culture even wrote two novels based on kdrama that I published. But she could kill if she got angry, very violent. she spoilt my stuffs, na there matter spoil with her anger. If she had stayed maybe we would have killed each other, but if she wasn't violent she was a perfect fit. She has her own money (last born for that matter) and her family are well to do like mine, it would have been perfect. I see my friends get married almost monthly but truth is their babes seem shallow to me, yes they are beautiful like mine but shallow. Me I cant cope o, after 1 months I will be bored of the entire marriage, if not for boredom I for dey with my babe and not here o  Guys how did you select your partner? Me I am thinking this marriage is not for all o. |
Romance › Re: Nairalander Gay Trolling Me ( Screenshots) by needanswer: 9:42pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
hashtagged: Yes you are a guy a lady won't put her pic on a public forum like this, only attention seekers/ladies who are finding husbands and guys Erojepromise is a girl and guy she doesnt owe you an explanation. |
Romance › Re: Must A Guy Be A Virgin, If He Insists On Marrying A Virgin? by needanswer(op): 11:49am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Mikester: The both of you are damn wise. Wish other men were this informed. Low IQ men and deluded women won't accept these truths. One cold beer for this guy |
Romance › Re: Must A Guy Be A Virgin, If He Insists On Marrying A Virgin? by needanswer(op): 9:23am On Feb 27, 2021 |
angelfallz: You don't even need to go as far as Dangote. Any man can demand a virgin woman. I agree too |
Romance › Re: Must A Guy Be A Virgin, If He Insists On Marrying A Virgin? by needanswer(op): 6:38am On Feb 27, 2021*. Modified: 10:19am On Feb 27, 2021 |
JaneYave: I may not understand but eventually bad guys marry the best ladies. Most women just want to be treated right. There is something irresistible about bad guys. Ladies love a tempter just like Eve, they intentional go for those kinda of choices, it's not a mistake. |