Romance › Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 9:53pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 9:47pm On Feb 10, 2021*. Modified: 10:05pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
addictiv: Very Easy.. After 2 kids, do a vasectomy.. God help her if she gets pregnant after ..  I can't live 50 more years of my life suffering from erectile dysfunction and low libido. Vasectomy can cause that. |
Romance › Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 9:45pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Nazgul: How old are you op?
Cos only teenage boys with no plans for marriage in the next 5-8 years make such childish arguments.  I come from a large family, so too many kids arent my deal, I know first hand the stress involved in it. Mind you, thanks for attacking me o  |
Romance › Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 9:42pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
helinues: If you guys are already having misunderstanding regarding how many kids and gender while dating, then the future problems could be disastrous Hmmmmm |
Romance › Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 9:42pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Masonkaycares: She feels like you have a child somewhere that you've not told her about and she also thinks it's a female child. She wants a male child so that he can inherit all your everything when you die(92years). You know African and their over importance for a male child. Lol...I find this funny. I dont have a child anywhere. My family have their wealth, mine is too small compared to theirs, so inheritance of my property by my kids isn't s problem |
Romance › Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 8:07pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Zzor: She's not smart and she's even wasting her time arguing with you.As long as your erection isn't failing you she supposed to know that she's indirectly the sole decider of how many kids she wants to have, it's just to touch your reckless prick at night and the did is done then she should report you to her parents if you dare ask her to do abortion Lmao. Terrible terrible thoughts. It's not that easy. She self know. |
Romance › Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 7:42pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
dejio42: Make the two of una get sense na,haaa. LET THE CHILDREN COME FIRST BEFORE ALL THIS CHILDISH FORMATION. ARE YOU GOD.
Bobrisky PAPA sef do plannings BuT GOD OVER EVERYTHING So in order words make we no plan for the future? I no be God but I know God supports advance planning. |
Romance › Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 7:36pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
dawnomike: You guys problem is that you do not have problems...  Una done turn my topic to cruise abi  |
Romance › Re: Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 7:10pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
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Romance › Will You Leave Your Partner If They Wanted This? by needanswer(op): 7:05pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
This is a conversation I had a while back.
This gist is this, I only want 2 KIDS, just 2 KIDS. I dont care about the gender, 2 girls, 2 boys, a boy and girl or a set of twins but it must be 2.
So I told my partner from the start when we started dating and we both agreed just 2 and she keyed into it. Some few weeks after she was like 'what if its 2 girls?'. I was like we agreed on 2 kids and that gender was not a problem.
She was like if its 2 girls can we try for a 3rd child? I told her we already agreed on this at the onset of the relationship. Personally I dont care about a child's gender, same as my nuclear and extended family, and if we dont have one 'it's my fault as a man cause I have the XY chromosomes and not hers'. Seems she wants a Male child if we dont have any after 2 trials, so we havent reached a new conclusion yet.
So just incase we cant agree, is this a good reason to leave a partner? Have you had a similar experience? |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Hate All This Mark Of The Beast Talk by needanswer: 10:30pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: I remember the bolded in one of the study articles!  Just a random statement though. But it's good it resonates with you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Hate All This Mark Of The Beast Talk by needanswer: 9:32pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: You misunderstood me big time! 
I was a Muslim before i became one of JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES, i don't believe in conduct because all humans are the same what i target is the truth whenever it's spoken. I've met Muslims, Buddhists, Traditionalists and many more whose approach are calm and humble but in most cases they only do that by the nature of who they happens to be on the inside, they are empty-headed! Whereas i've also met JWs who are tough with their response to questions yet it's just direct to the point no pretext. So if i ask you "where were you when JWs are coming to a tough and fierce Muslim like me to help me in my home, all you need to tell me is you also avail yourself just that you are still comparing the teachings" It took me just a month to realize that JWs have the truth but it took me over 22 years to become a bonafide member of the group. WHY? Because i don't hide my feelings i go straight to the point, it's little by little that i'm beginning to realize that there are some people who focus more on the manner of approach than what comes out from the one they're chatting with. Like my late uncle always say "don't take offense at how people make their presentations because warm greetings doesn't implies clean hearts" Thanks for reminding me where i still need to work on! It's fine. No body is perfect, we are all a work in progress. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Hate All This Mark Of The Beast Talk by needanswer: 7:24pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
DappaD: Yes we are trained as Jehovah’s Witnesses to apply tact and gentility when preaching and teaching others. 2Timothy 2:24 And like you stated from the onset, their fine conduct played a vital role in drawing you to the truth. Matthew 5:13-16, 1Peter 2:12 Also, like other humans, we stumble and make mistakes(James 3:2)but what’s most important is how we recover, which shows humility on our part too. James 4:6 Thanks, I guess it's just some that go overboard. Thanks again |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Hate All This Mark Of The Beast Talk by needanswer: 7:08pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
DappaD: The bolded caught my attention. Continue taking in accurate knowledge of the true God Jehovah, dear sir/ma. John 17:3 In time you’ll come to see the many benefits as you make the truth your own. John 8:32, Romans 12:2 I like to learn and I like their company so I will continue but I may have to adjust my life style if I choice to become serious with it. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Hate All This Mark Of The Beast Talk by needanswer: 7:05pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: You shouldn't be here saying this if you've been following heartily. For your information, forget about their speech and fine conduct just know that they have the truth, the conduct is simply what we must cultivate to win souls we are not angels. So instead of their conduct try to concentrate on the teachings that's what can help you because if you are carried away with the fine conduct and not the teachings then what will happen when you meet ones like me? I'm the type that goes straight to the point so if you love the truth you shouldn't be offended no matter how it is presented!  And here you go. If you were not a Jw and a Jw like you preached to you, I dont think you will appreciate or listen to this approach of yours. In marketing this your approach wont win you customers, and one thing I know is JW's are marketing jehovah and the future things he says. I dont even think you are marketing yourself but someone of higher authority, this is not the way to do it. In my locality if a king sends a messenger a message he will deliver it the way it will soothe the king and not the reverse. And you say if I love the truth I shouldn't be offended. Am I not a human? If you say things crudely or harshly even if you feel it's the truth, I may still feel offended by the way you presented it. You dont walk up to a Muslim and tell him Allah is false just like that even if you believe it is true, he most likely wont listen to you and even harm you. But there are others ways you can help him see you view as true. This your style of Jw is alarming. Sometimes I wonder if that elderly "brother and sister" are just pretending or they are secretly like you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Hate All This Mark Of The Beast Talk by needanswer: 6:03pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: Surely you're the type that's scared when people around you are saying something incessantly! 
I'm sure JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES must have come to knock on your door several times but you turned them down or outrightly chase them away. Those are the people sent to come and assist you with this question so since you never listened to them back then just relax and forget about the whole noise. You only have to die once!  I know Jehovah's witnesses, a jw couple use to come to my house to study with me and they were always gracious and gentle with their speech, even when we dont agree sometimes. We still study on zoom despite the lockdown and I must say its not their preaching that gets to me, it's their speech and fine conduct. Always very helpful and considerate but this your type of JW, I have never seen it before, very confrontational when you can ignore or give a milder answer. |
Romance › Re: Alimony For Your EX-GIRLFRIEND, Is It RIGHT?[PICTURE] by needanswer(op): 4:51pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Alimony For Your EX-GIRLFRIEND, Is It RIGHT?[PICTURE] by needanswer(op): 4:33pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
dammyz101: This alimony law is total madness, if it is adopted will result to multipul murders. Women will start disappearing. Why I dont support murder but I get your stance. Men really should hold women to a certain standard in the legislative. |
Romance › Re: Alimony For Your EX-GIRLFRIEND, Is It RIGHT?[PICTURE] by needanswer(op): 4:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Alimony For Your EX-GIRLFRIEND, Is It RIGHT?[PICTURE] by needanswer(op): 4:29pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
JESHAL: Women are empowered over there in there education and career compared to men These privileges will spoil them It has spoilt many already. The root cause though is feminism. |
Romance › Re: Alimony For Your EX-GIRLFRIEND, Is It RIGHT?[PICTURE] by needanswer(op): 4:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
JESHAL: It's DAMN WRONG Damn it is. Wonder why only men see it? |
Romance › Re: Alimony For Your EX-GIRLFRIEND, Is It RIGHT?[PICTURE] by needanswer(op): 4:11pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Same here |
Romance › Re: Alimony For Your EX-GIRLFRIEND, Is It RIGHT?[PICTURE] by needanswer(op): 4:10pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I wish I had a clearer image
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Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 3:24pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
"No bad woman just bad laws" What about men? The double standards. As for the other poster  , I reserve my comments 
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Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 3:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Martinez39s: Nice thread bro. Feminists are never going to change. Females here are not interested in truth but what they feel and want to believe and what benefits them. They don't argue for the sake of truth but for the sake of pushing their twisted lies and derailing your thread. Have a nice say and keep bringing these memes.  Thanks. Will do  |
Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 3:16pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
EQUAL RIGHTS is the FIGHT, not WOMEN'S RIGHTS
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Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 2:44pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Men only deceive themselves if they think they can be FEMINIST.
Feminist LOGIC determines that all men are PIGS until they prove themselves otherwise.
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Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 2:41pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Martinez39s: @needanswer
Next time, avoid replying or arguing with any female. A female will end up wasting your time, taking too much space with argumental posts and sophistry, and end up derailing your thread. This is a wonderful thread. Too bad you derailed it. Thank you martinez39s. |
Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 2:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Male "feminists" need to learn.
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Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 2:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
This is what the conversation should be like in feminism, about TRUE EQUALITY and NOT FEMALE ONLY PRIVILEGES.
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Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 2:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
When men are unbiased but still choose to not identify with either feminism or MRA, this is what most feminists would think
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Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by needanswer(op): 2:09pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: [color=deeppink]shut up, bro. you only have 'anecdotal evidences'. so, on no grounds again can you claim to speak for all feminists in Nigeria. keep feeding and gorging your likes with your biases, swelling your heads with likes and purging in back-patting orgies.[/color]
[color=deeppink]awwwn. the face saving of an howl-fah, here comes it. na una hubris. i understand wella. [/color] Are you done magnoliaa? I'll gain nothing from insulting you.
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