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 Family › Re: Is Flirting Classed As Cheating? by needful: 2:13am On Sep 11, 2017 |
Instead of contacting HIV and finally die of heart attack or depression because of a cheating husband, better quietly work out or stay and zip up. Let the man flirt and cheat as he wants. See this days, there is what is called married but single. You are together because if the kids but doesn't have anything in common. A lot of couple that I know live like that. My sister died of AIDS which the husband who first died gave her. I rather stay single than live with a cheating husband. The trauma of watching my own sister died because of trust over the hubby, still affects me till today. So all this people talking trash, na you sabi. Is my life and decide how to run it. Marriage or no marriage, what matters to me is the moment of happiness, peace of mind and sound spirit. Finish 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by needful: 1:37am On Sep 11, 2017 |
I need to hear from the other party too before commenting. |
| Family › Re: Sharing Responsibilities In A Marriage. by needful: 1:24am On Sep 11, 2017 |
Nigerian Men have lost it. I pity the next generation because the way things are going now, it maybe a woman's world in the next generation in nigeria. What I do not understand is the big deal in a man washing clothings, cooking, infact house chores. Love or no love, let's digest it. We both left house around 5am to work and came back by 6pm. Common sense as a man should told you that as you are tired, so is with the other party. What I see in Nigerian marriage is selfishness, Ego, blames, materiality, pretence to mention but few. May God help us. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
| Family › Re: Why Your Husband Is Crazy About His Mistress And Is Not Ready To Let Her Go... by needful: 4:42pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
[quote author=thorpido post=60247607]This is not what feminism is about.[/quote Am sure you are one of those useless men 1 Like |
| Family › Re: How Can He Forgive His Wife And Forget? by needful: 4:36pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
The fact Is, men doesnt no that cheating hurts, just because stupid African culture placed polygamy on them, they felt they are polygamous. All Animals are polygamous including humans cos we are senior animals. Have you taken your time to observe female animals, they have sex with any male animal that came across them. When a man cheats on women, they expect you to forgive them easily, some will even open they mouth and tell you that " I will provide you with whatewhatever thing you want" just to give them space to cheat. I live abroad, alot allot of naija men visits here wit their girl friends day in day out whereas they wife hasn't for one day enjoyed that international flight to even Ghana not to talk of America or Canada. It's a thing of naija. The man should forgive because if he has been the one who cheated, the woman must have forgiven him. Stupid tradition. The way things are going now, the next generation won't tolerate those polygamous altitude. |
| Family › Re: Why Your Husband Is Crazy About His Mistress And Is Not Ready To Let Her Go... by needful: 5:10am On Sep 08, 2017 |
Women has really suffered from this part of the world Calle Nigeria. Let me make a note. A woman who married without a child, na wahala, because our men will cheat on that basis. A woman who married and had a female without a male child, our men will cheat on that basis. A woman who married and had a boys without a girl, problem because our men will cheat on that basis. A woman who married and had boys and girls, our men will cheat because your breast must have fallen. Chai, women don suffer. This are the reasons why I am a feminist. If you cheat on me I cheat on you and worst case scenario, we end it in court. If only women will rise and realize this facts, be independent, work harder for yourself. Stop depending on this men. Work hard and build an empire for yourself, no man will bully you. Women, get this point. 99% of men marrried you to give them children, simple. It's only men who married for companionship understood what marriage is all about and such men are rare to see. Unfortunately, I do not have time to pray for any man to change. It is only in nigeria that reasons are attached to immoral behaviours. You defy your bed and marriage vows and you still have the effrontery to lay blames on the other party. May God help us. Do me I do you, man no go vex. 4 Likes |
| Family › Re: Why marriages are failing and solutions by needful: 9:27am On Sep 06, 2017 |
One major problem in our marriages this days is infidelity. Cheating is the order of the day in marriages. I am a feminist but am happily married. But if for any reason I discovered that am being cheated, I see it as " breaking of marriage vows" there is no sanctity in that marriage anymore. Once a woman noticed she is being cheated, if she decided to keep her marriage because of her kids, note that, the hubby will and can never get that humility again from her. Talking about olden days marriages that lasted, it lasted because our mothers then endured because they had no choice and many of them died out of depression from their husbands. I will train my female children very well so that in situations where the useless men of nowadays tried to enslave them in the name of marriage, they wouldn't hesitate to kick their ass out of their hearts. THERe is no reason to cheat or treat someone like a slave, be it, wife, hubby, house help, kids etc. We all are equal befor God the creator. |
| Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by needful: 4:02am On Jul 04, 2017 |
presiade:Send a mail here and they will reply you immediately. They gave me a very juicy rate. diasporabanking@firstbanknigeria.com 1 Like |
| Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by needful: 2:13am On Jul 02, 2017 |
claremont:Open a diaspora account with first bank. I did it few weeks ago from Canada |
| Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by needful: 4:46pm On May 18, 2017 |
Has anyone been debited for today TB? |
| Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by needful: 10:11am On May 05, 2017 |
ukay2:Thanks, I have sent her a mail |
| Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by needful: 10:10am On May 05, 2017 |
[quote author=zamirikpo post=56221652]UBA from frying pan to FIRE......u just need a reliable person to follow things up. Even those of us in Nigeria get frustrated most times. I could connect u with my TB officer with sterling at there HQ, she is very reliable [/quote Connect me pls. Here is my email . nneka2011@yahoo.com |
| Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by needful: 11:59pm On May 04, 2017 |
Pls I need help. I live in canada and rely solely on my account officer for TB. The last auction before the one of today. She gave me 16.9 for 182days. Before she buys for, I will email and get tired of mailing. She doesn't pick calls. I missed today's auction because she didn't reply my mail. I have account with diamond bank but that one seem worse, my account offer there doesnt know what is TB. Pls I want to move to UBA where I have account to see if things will get better. Has any one used them before?. Am tired, these banks are really messing me up. |
| Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by needful: 4:29pm On Apr 05, 2017 |
Pls can someone give me a good account officer for in stanbic for an account opening. I don't understand Gtb with their rate. |
| Romance › Re: Married Lady Exposes A Sexually Starved Man On Facebook Asking Her For Sex(pics) by needful: 2:58am On Mar 15, 2017 |
women have really suffered in this part of the world. so chatting the man is an adultery abi? , if it was the other way round now, you will see all the men in this forum telling you, he has right to marry 100 wives. nonsense 2 Likes |
| Investment › Re: Bitcoin Available For Sale At A Give Away Price by needful: 4:26pm On Mar 12, 2017 |
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| Family › Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by needful: 9:46pm On Mar 04, 2017 |
hammerF: 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Can A Man love and Be sexually Faithful To One Woman? by needful: 8:14am On Feb 25, 2017 |
Let us call a spade, a spade. Naija women are in a very big mess when it comes to marriage because our men sees a woman as a slave. This is the reason why many of them are always afraid of moving abroad finally with their wives, it's also the reason why the ones that moved abroad and brought naija men mentality eventually got divorced by their wives abroad. I have many of them around me here, boxing a woman up and down, simply because u are married to her. The economy of Naija made it so, because if women are generally independent to carter for themselves, cheating in Nigeria will reduce drastically. Men who cheat on their wives and get away with it are those who felt their women can't do anything because at the end, the woman will still come and ask for money for Maggi and pepper from him. I encourage women in our society to be up and doing, learn to care for ur selves, buy properties with your names, be independent. When a man tries shit, over look him and let him realize that with or without him, you are already made and nothing can stop that. When he notice that he worth nothing in your dictionary, his head will come down. 1 Like |
| Investment › Bitcoin For Sale (510) by needful(op): 4:09am On Jan 02, 2017 |
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| Business › Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by needful: 5:52pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
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| Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by needful: 2:08pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
pls somebody tell me what to bid. i want to bid 14% for 91days. |
| Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by needful: 2:22am On Sep 05, 2016 |
Hello everyone, pls I have 5m that is lying idle in diamond bank and will like to play around with treasury bill. Pls what can I make in 6months in treasury bill with my 5m. Also I need to know how it works. Someone should pls teach me. |
| Business › Re: Duty Hike: "We Are Finished" - Importers, Agents by needful: 3:08am On Aug 04, 2016 |
Sacluxpaint:You red your Economics very well. Leave all this giraffes to talk nonsense. Some of them red either hausa, fulanni or Arabian subject. |
| Business › Re: Duty Hike: "We Are Finished" - Importers, Agents by needful: 3:04am On Aug 04, 2016 |
charlsecy:Good question. Ask them, fools in an empty glass |
| Business › Re: Duty Hike: "We Are Finished" - Importers, Agents by needful: 3:01am On Aug 04, 2016 |
[quote author=eyeview post=48152290]Children everywhere. Don't you know that the made in Nigeria goods makers need to import their equipment and resources to even produce locally[/quot You are really an EYE VIEW. Leave them to talk nonsense and die in poverty. Since they do not no that naija depend on importation to even produce the so called naija made food. How many naija made stuff do we even have. Nonsense. Cooling my head in CANADA my blessed new country. 1 Like |
