Abuja1: I am a Nigerian living abroad with my wife,we are blessed with kids,I have a good job here, take care of my family, but my wife want us to be sending money every month to her mother,which I tell her is not possible if not we can't take care of our self anymore,she will start complaining that in Nigeria men open shop for there wife take care of there Inlaw and so on, now she is saying many men take there wife like slave here in Europe, i was forse to tell her if she feel she is been treated like a slave that i can afford her flight tickets to 9ja,have i said anything wrong,coz i do help her mother in many ways

Is iT tHiS SaMe gIrL U GoT mArRiEd To? HoPe u aRe nOt jUsT lIeInG?
https://www.nairaland.com/1065994/should-marry

I lIkE hIs sWaG. ReMiNdS mE oF bIrDmAn oF CaShMoNeY fAmE.

I aM EvEn sUrE ThAt tHeY HaVe DeClAReD a PeRiOd oF MoUrNiNg fOr tHe aLlU 4. SmDh

ReMiNdS Me oF ThE ChRiSt eMbAsSy MaN ThAT PaId aN OuTrAgEOuS aMoUnT Of mOnEy aS TiThE WiThOuT ThE ChUrCh InVeStIgAtInG HiS SoUrCe oF InCoMe. He wAs a mErE jAnItOR At shERatoN.

lucabraski: I bought a brand new laptop and brought it home. I came back from work and found most of the letters on the keyboard on top the table.

I couldn't understand what or how it happened. On questioning my 7yrs old daughter, she said the househelp used knife to uproot the letters on the keyboard, as according to her, the letters were not arranged alphabetically. In the process of her uprooting the keys, many of the sitting were broken.

The laptop cost me 160k, which I am yet to payoff.

I had to leave the house for some hours to calm my temper down before I know what to do.

I am yet to come up with a befitting punishment.

Is tHiS TrUe? WeLl iF iT iS I WoUlD BlAmE YOu fIrSt FOr cArElEsSLy lEaViNg A 160k lAptOp oN THe TaBlE. It cOuLd hAvE bEeN YoUr dAuGhTeR tHaT CouLd HaVe tAmPeReD WItH ThE LaPtOp. YoU HaVen't eVeN PaId fOr thE lApToP FuLlY AnD iT Is eXpEcTeD Of yOu To gUaRd iT SeLfLeSsLy.
AlL YoU CaN Do nOw iS To rEpRiMaNd hEr AnD GiVe hEr A StErN WaRnInG oN WhAt tO AnD WhAT NoT To hAnDlE.
ExCuSe My sTeReOtYpIcAl pOsTuLaTiOn,bUtI Am AmAzED tHaT A TyPiCaL hOuSeMaID, wHo ArE PrEdOmInAnTlY "sOuRcEd' frOm vIlLaGeS WiTh lItTle oR No fOrMaL EdUcAtIoN, cAn uNdErStAnD aLpHaBeTIc aRrAnGeMeNt tEcHnIqUe.

AkOn aT THe oWnEr'S CoRnEr wHiLe wHiZkId iS LiKe hIs pErSoNaL AsSiStAnT!!!!!!

[size=16pt]dUdE, sHe GoT tHe mInD tO TeLl YoU aBoUt ThE AfFaIr EvEn BeFoRe YoU fOuNd OuT. aNd i dOuBt If It WaS BaSeD On THe mErE FaCt tHaT ThE "iNfIdElItY"/ChEaTiNg ReLaTiOnShiP tUrNeD sOuR aNd THaT waS wHy sHe oPeNeD uP To yOu. YoU wOuLd HaVe To fOrGiVe hEr CoS ShE HaS ReAlIsEd HeR MiStAkE AnD ReTrAcEd HeR sTePs.[/size]

aN Ex mInIsTeR? ExCuSe My PrEjUdIcE, bUt tHiS Is ShAmE Of A NaTiON

WhY mUsT I cLiCK yOuR lInK tO vIeW tHe fUlL sToRy. CaN'T yOu eXtRaCt iT hErE?. WhAT mAnNeR oF oPpoRtUnIsT iS tHiS?

DeSmOnD eLlIoT kIlLeD aNd iT wOn'T tReNd oN aLl sOcIaL nEtWoRkS?. I'm sUrPrIsE tHaT sOmE pEoPlE,bAsEd oN tHeIr cOmMeNtS,fElL fOr tHiS tRaShY nEwS wItH nO lInK. SmH!!!!!

LmAo!!!. I dOn'T tHiNk pHcN pUbLiShInG nAmEs oF dEbToRs rEfErs tO eVeRy aDaMu,OkOrO aNd bOlA. It wOuLd bE tHe lIsT oF mOsTly cOyS aNd gOvT aGeNcIeS tHaT uSeS pOwEr oN a lArGe sCaLe.I mEaN hIgH pRoFiLeD dEbToRs!!.

If yOu wAnT tO vIsIt hEr, nOtHiNg sHoUlD sToP yOu fRoM dOiNg tHaT. JuSt tElL hEr tHaT yOu tOlD GrAcE aNd sHe iNsIsTeD oN tAgGiNg aLoNg aNd lOoK oUt fOr hEr rEaCtIoN. ThAt iS aLl. StOp mAkInG a mOuNtAiN oUt oF a MoLeHiLl.

A-ZeD:

Would it kill you to write normally?

LiKe hOw iS tHiS a mAjOr cOnCeRn tO yOu?

I wAs aLsO mIsTaKeNlY BaNnEd tHiS mOrNiNg By pYgUrU(i NoW kNoW ThAt hE Is aN AnTi-BoT SpAm ReMoVeR) fOr CoMmEnTiNg oN a PoSt ThAt iNvOlVeD aN oEdIpUs cOmPlEx iSsUe. WaS BaNnEd fOr aN HoUr:

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JuSt lIsTeNeD tO ThE MuSiC, He OnLy Ad-LibbEd. MuTtErInG sOmE tOtAlLy MeAnInGLeSs WoRdS. A bIg KnOcK fOr hIm

Aizebioje: Way 2 much muscles.he's gat packs at every corner...well he seems happy though...trust me,HIS KIDS WILL NEVER BE BULLIED

#nOhOmO, dOeS He lOok lIkE hE HaS A jOyStIcK? He'S pRoBaBlY aN eUnUcH!!!!

maclatunji:

Wrong! It is actually Electra Complex.

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electra_complex

http://www.webref.org/psychology/e/electra_complex.htm

dEpEnDs oN ThE PeRsPeCtIvE OnE vIeWs It FrOm.............

GoInG bY tHiS sPeCuLaTiOnS,I wOnDeR hOw tHeSe mInIsTeRs wOuLd Be aBlE tO fOcUs oN tHe tAsKs aT hAnD!!.
ThIs iS nOt aBoUt mUlTi-tAsKiNg, tHiS iS aBoUt bEeN aBlE tO hOpEfUlLy cOmpLeTe oNe'S tAsK fOr tHe bEnEfiT oF aLl(nIgErIa) tHaN tHeIr rUmOuReD pArOcHiAl iNtErEsTs!!!.

eyenCalabar: Sources said these, sources said that ...idleness in journalism!

HoW dOeS tHe aBoVe cOrRelLaTe wItH iDlEnEsS iN jOuRnAlIsM? MaY I iNfEr tHaT yOu eXpEcT jOuRnAlIsT tO rEvEaL tHeIr sOuRcEs oF iNfO mOrE oFtEn? YoU mAy bE dEaD wRoNg cOs iF sUcH jOuRnAlIsT sHoUlD cAsT sUcH sOuRcEs, hE/sHe wOuLdN't gEt mUcH mOrE iNfO bAsEd oN hIs "wHiStLeBlOwInG" sKiLl.

Elueme: 1.Maybe you help govt raise a team of structural and civil engineers to help assess the quality of materials since you got no confidence on what the system can offer.
2. Who are those who have been saddled with the responsibilities of managing these agencies before now? Ok, you intend creating yours for the FG? Ok nau
3 if you ask meee, na who i go ask!!!
4.pls come and help govt account for oil production as well as manage her foreign debt.. Where where you when the ministerial list was drawn...
[b]STOP ASKING DUMB QUESTIONS...

PlEaSe wE nEeD tO sTop bEiNg sEnTiMeNtAl eSpEcIaLlY wHeN gErMaNe iSsUeS HaVe bEeN rAiSeD. CoNsTrUcTiVe cRiTiCiSm iS nEeDeD hErE cOs tHoSe pOiNtS rAiSeD wHeRe sUcCiNt.
ThE pRoBlEm oF pErIoDiC mAiNtEnAnCe iS sTiLl a MaJoR iSsuE tHaT gOvT sEeMs uNaBlE tO fInD a wHoLiStIc sOlUtIoN tO. We sTiLl rEmEmBeR oUr NaTiOnAl cArRiEr,oUr rOaDs tHaT biLliOnS oF nAiRa wErE aWaRdeD fOr rEpAiRs aNd tHe lIkEs.........

Chikebrain: Oga Seun why cant i post comments on the Computer section when i can see other people's comments. when i try to comment, it tells me "You cannot do that right now. Please try again in a few hours." for the past two days now. Try and do something about it

HeHeHeHe,,.... DuDe, yOu gOt bAnNeD!!. ClIcK oN uR nAmE aNd yOu mAy fInD oUt wHy!!. PrOlLy bY oNe pYgUrU? I aLsO eXpErIeNcEd tHe sAmE tHiNg,iN mY cAsE, tHe rOmAnCe sEcTiOn!!

It Is nOt aLwAyS tHe pReRoGaTiVe oF tHe GoVt tO aLwAYs tElL tHe tRuTh.
AlL GoVtS aRe sHrOuDeD iN mYsTeRiEs aNd nAtIoNaL sEcUrItY iSsUeS. It iS a wOrLd-wIdE pRaCtIce tHaT eVeN fOi lAwS cAn NoT cIrCuMvEnT!!!!.

D-Explorer:

Is this where to post complains? Why not check among the first 3 thread and save the welcome thread.

HeY dUdE, I aM aPpArEnTlY nEw hErE!!.
At lEaSt, yOu sHoUlD'vE lIvEd uP tO yOuR uSeRnAmE aNd "eXpLoReD"mY pRoFiLe bEfOrE yOuR vErBaL aTtAcK.
ThAnKs aLl tHe sAmE!!!!!

PlEaSe yOuR pRoMpT rEsPoNsE iS nEeDeD!.
I nEeD tO kNoW wHy I wAs BaNnEd!

sexkillz: Welcome!

I created this thread with newbies in mind. A newbie is a new member that does not know how things work around here. Pls do not be shy to ask questions, not matter how silly and inconsequential you think it may be. . .

There is also a separate thread for compliants if you feel you have been insulted or bullied by another member. www.nairaland.com/639119

There are two moderators on this section, (Jaybee and Sexkillz currently) and they'll be here to answer your questions along with the other friendly older members on this section.

This thread is basically for newbies to introduce themselves and get quickly integrated into one of the most interesting and popular section on Nairaland, the Romance Section. . .

I wAs bAnNeD tOdAY bY pYgUrU fOr tElLiNg tHe oP oF a PaRtIcUlAr tOpIc pErTaInInG tO aN OeDiPuS cOmPlEx sCeNaRiO tO " gO gEt a BoYfRiEnD".mAy I aDd tHaT I qUoTeD tHe pOsT bEfOrE I tYpEd mY oPiNiOn.
I wOuLd lIkE tO kNoW wHy!!

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ToYoTa bRaNds aRe tHe bEsT.
VoLvO tOo, bUiLt tO lAsT.
If yOu hAdN't mEnTiOn cArS, I wOuLd hAvE sUgGeStEd mOtOrCyClE!!!

NoW, pOoR mAn (dRiVeR) tAkEs tHe bLaMe!!.pErHaPs!!!!
HoPe hE wOuLd NoT bUdGe aNd cAsT hIs bReAdwInNeR wHeN tHe hEaT iS oN!!!!!!

EvEn iF tHeY wAnT tO kIlL,wHy cAn'T tHeY aTtAcK tHoSe iNvOlvEd iN tHe pRoDuCtIoN oF tHe fIlM?. WhY mUsT tHe iNnOcEnT sUfFer?

IN SoMe rElIgIoNs, iF tHeIr sUpReMe bEiNg iS mAlIgNeD/dIsPaRaGeD, He fIgHts fOr hImSeLf aNd nOt jUsT mOrTal mEn!!

Orikinla: The following are some of the Uncelebrated Achievements of President Goodluck Jonathan’s Government

• Nigerians spend N160 billion annually on university education in Ghana, more than Nigeria’s annual budget for education in 2011.
~ Prof. Ayo Olukotun, Lead City University, Ibadan, Nigeria.

• 800 companies shut down in Nigeria due to harsh and insecure operating environment.

~ Nigerian Association of Chambers of Commerce, Industry, Mines and Agriculture (NACCIMA) .

• 33 million Nigerians are jobless.
~ Dr. Yemi Kale, Statistician General of the Federation of the National Bureau of Statistics (NBS).

@oP: I'm VeRy sUrE tHaT iS wHeRe u FiT iN........

vErY SuRe ThAt Is ThE Op.