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Razur, get away from crime tv. . . pretty soon you will start getting ideas

Its been over 2 hrs since this post published. Much as women lament about the need for a trusting relationship it's a pity not one has responded to this post. Now if the topic was about cheating they would all be here giggling. . .

David, thats what they do when they get ready to do boobs job. They let you see the before. . . Be on the watchout the after is coming soon.

what I would like to see is the. . . Oh God forgive me for that transgression.

Agatha, . . .that's a nice name.

You have done the right thing by first identifying the problem and then seeking confirmation before you confront. I will be delighted that you continue to visit with us and interact. You have heard it from other members of the group, we are on your side if what your report is true. You are our sister now that you are married to one of our brothers. Which brings me to the next thing.

i want to make sure before figuring out how to handle the situation

In America, women have immense latitude of protection under the domestic law. If indeed he has been cheating on you then he deserves to be confronted and reprimanded. From your statement I don't know what "handle" may interprete to but I want to believe that you will use the best discretion and your judgement will ultimately be in the interest of reforming your husband and preserving your marriage. Good Luck to you and please come back.

Pinky, ba gaisuwa, ba sallama. . . kawai kin shigo da surutu.

Yaya yau?

Big applause to the effort, clap clap clap!!!

I am not Igbo but I hope better things blossom from this idea and my well wishes to your peaceful progress.

Razur, you are correct and I see your point. At what point do we say enough is enough? Do you know for how many years Britain has proposed help as an introduction to exert more control over our social life?

I have copies of documents drafted by the United Kingdom back in the 1800s offering to help and protect the Kings of Warri and Opobo against their enemies. What was the outcome? Between that century and now. . . there has been numerous proposals citing help and protection as an idealism. It is fraudulent and we ought to know that by now.

You are correct Beaf, nice catch!!!

Right head, wrong fingers. . . Tupac has stubby fingernails. Keep your head up!

'We are in negotiations with Nigeria to help them establish better prison conditions,' she said.

'It's about helping them generate a structure that can cope with the prisoners. It would be well worth the money to do so.'

You believe them?  Why are they always trying to help someone else, don't their own people need help?

The truth is these people are trying to further corrupt our society and commercialise our prison systems.  We dont need such help.  These criminals in their hold committed murder and rape in England, they should serve that term in England or wherever they are in the Queen's dominion.  If they have no clue what to do with them, then change the British law to accomodate that need for their disposition without dumping them in Nigeria.

Reggie,

It's ok for men to marry below their social status. I wouldnt recommend it for a woman. Having said that, only God knows what future holds for a girl like you. Your family is not on the rank of Dangote. . . that mechanic or that cashier could very well be the one to take you to that height. Let your heart lead knowing that whatever the outcome is, richer or poorer, you will not look back with regrets.

No bulgy stomach, I don't care if its before or after birth. . .no sign of obesity, now or in future. . .body is toned, no sign of sagginess in the arms, under arm, breast area, pubic area, thighs, or in the derriere. If all that is true, I don't care she's older I will marry her.

It's okay in moderation and personal esteem but I think celebrity worshipping has increased competition where celebs are viewed as models of perfection and "how to look". Well, sadly, these celebs insure their anatomical parts. . .at costs that a regular urbanite female cannot match.

So you end up with women trying to match Beyonce look by buying $120 fake eyelash or $90 jar of moisturiser at the expense of stocking up their pantry with groceries. Then she goes out and bats that expensive eyelash at some poor soul who is sucked up into feeding her.