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RomanceRe: How Does It Make You Feel When Your Babe Receives Attention From Others? by NegroNtns(m): 5:57am On Aug 29, 2008
I love it when she is admired, in a respectful manner. "You are beautiful lady"; "I like your hair style, sits well on you"; "I would love to see my baby in that dress, fits well on you", etc, That gives me pride knowing her beauty is appreciated.

I hate it if she is disrespected. "Hey, wassup, can I talk to you"; "yo, can I give you my number"; "I like your ass"; "I like your boobs" etc, Comments like that will arouse my anger. You are telling me to my face that you want to get down with my girl. You need to step!
RomanceRe: Sarcasm by NegroNtns(m): 3:44am On Aug 29, 2008
Slowly going my Knees

Sensei, Mojuba!
Jeje ni mo wa si yaju yin la oni
Ewu Ogbon ti ewo koni fa ya oh.
Okunrin to ju gbo awon Okun Nairaland lo.
Oruko omo lo n ro omo
Omo ajanaku kii yara
Omo ti eya ba bi
Eya lo maa jo
Omo Ologbon nko?
Ah Ologbon lo maa jo.

Moju baaaa oh!


Falls face to the ground.
Sensei walks to Sisi with his arm extended out to her,
she reaches up with her hand into his,
he pulls her up from her position


Aiye a ye o,
Oju o' ni ti e,
Ire a to e wa,
Bi o sen lo, to n' bo
Alafia, emi gigun ati Idunu ko ma yi e ka,

Sensei, pulls Sisi close in his embrace and presses a kiss to her forehead.

You are a reincarnate and from today forward I shall call you "Moremi" cool
RomanceRe: Wat Do Y'all Think About Da Idea Of Marrying A Guy 4rm Nigeria & Bring Him 2 Us? by NegroNtns(m): 2:10am On Aug 29, 2008
lmao, u never fail to amaze me,
RomanceRe: Wat Do Y'all Think About Da Idea Of Marrying A Guy 4rm Nigeria & Bring Him 2 Us? by NegroNtns(m): 2:08am On Aug 29, 2008
Can someone show me where its written about specific USA culture or even language.

In regards to the post of bringing naija man here for marriege, change they say is a constant thing in life except for God who doesn't for With God all thing are possible, and I'm writing from experience. If that is your choice take it to God in prayer.
Hello Bokodike,

What was the experience?
RomanceRe: Sarcasm by NegroNtns(m): 1:56am On Aug 29, 2008
hmmm,  cool

Richy, come on click to another room, ; politics, religion, culture, , somewhere,   Abandon this and let it go,   mesmya is a woman.  Nna, let it go, it would be different if you were faced off with a man.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Welcome, New Nairalanders by NegroNtns(m): 11:45pm On Aug 28, 2008
Welcome Bokodike. You will find this place very heart warming and thought provoking. wink
Foreign AffairsRe: Sophistication In The First Lady by NegroNtns(op): 11:00pm On Aug 28, 2008
Toshmann, stop that nonsense angry Next time I hear you put HRC down you and I no go see eye to eye o

BigB1, you sound like a strategist in the Obama camp yourself. I like your response. That countenance of a pissed off black woman run in their family. Have you seen the brother? Anyway, my thread is in no way meant to dismiss her intelligence and inner warmth and beauty.

Sly, Early on in the campaign when they were on camera together, you would think she was Barack's mother; he was very youthful and she was so aged. She is about 3 years younger than him in age. BigB is right, she is work-in-progress!
Foreign AffairsSophistication In The First Lady by NegroNtns(op): 10:53am On Aug 28, 2008
A First Lady is a trend setter. When she steps out her style and taste is observed and reported. She is a model of what young women want to be. Therefore, her appearance, image, ;hair style, facial expression and countenance, carriage, demeanour, etc, These are all veri important and endearing factors for the position.

Do you all agree with me?

In my opinion, Michelle Obama needs a special staff to help her with style- change that hair design for God's sake, remove all those blemishes and scars on her face and polish her teeth, after grinding it to uniformity, and her wardrobe, ;omg, she has a bad taste for fabric, color and cut!

Am I lying? What do you think? Tell,
RomanceRe: Guys Beware Of This Scammer! by NegroNtns(m): 2:10am On Aug 28, 2008
Lets say 123456@XYZ.com is the private public one
RomanceRe: Guys Beware Of This Scammer! by NegroNtns(m): 2:08am On Aug 28, 2008
Me too! The email address he sent the mail to is not in my nairaland profile.How he got it will remain a mystery.I just hope it's not a kind of virus!They could be monitoring ones email without one's knowledge.Anything is possible with technology
Let's assume that you have four different email addresses, only one of them is public, the rest three are private. If I want to know what the private ones are I can, its not too difficult. Lets say 123456@XYZ.com is the private one.

I will send you email at 123456@XYZ.com and pray that you will reply to me. If you do I have won! Your reply will come back to my inbox with identification tags that include IP address and hostname or SMTP address. I can use those two tags alone to harvest information on the www and per chance, I will hit on one or more emails sharing the same tags as 123456. It is just an information, nothing more than that! It is my job to piece the analysis together and come to conclusion that 123456, ABCDEF, PQRSTU and 123UVW are all collocators on the IP. Now I can send you email using any of your address that I want, public or private.

There are few exceptions to the IP rule, if it looks like:

169.254.X.X , ; This is a bad address and ususally is reserved for Microsoft
10.0.X.X , ; private networks like closed circuit network for designated ports within a large LAN
172.16.X.X to 172.31.255.255, ; Private Corporation and big companies usually with a IT unit
192.168.X.X , ; Individual internal connection like home network or router configuration.
Forum GamesRe: When I Meet A Nairalander by NegroNtns(m): 10:29pm On Aug 27, 2008
Take her on an adventure trip - road trip across the country, fishing, mountain climbing, camping, sight seeing, photo shots capturing memorable moments along the trip,
Forum GamesRe: When I Meet A Nairalander by NegroNtns(m): 9:27am On Aug 27, 2008
Come on Sima, grab your bag, lets go, laser show first, then movies, dont forget your shades.,, cool
Forum GamesRe: When I Meet A Nairalander by NegroNtns(m): 9:19am On Aug 27, 2008
give him a warm hug
Lysa, thats what I need wink
RomanceRe: I Like A Girl Someone Else Likes, But I Don't Know What Her Feelings Are by NegroNtns(m): 4:32am On Aug 27, 2008
z0mg Teenage angst! So I like this girl (Let's call her Jane.) I've been pretty bloody subtle, and no one knows I like her. There's this other guy in one of my classes (Bill), who I've known for a couple of years, who also likes her. I'm not exactly friends with him, but we pal around and talk and such. He's as blunt as a hammer about it, though. The guy actually brought his lunch to school, stood in line with her for half the lunch period, didn't buy a thing, and then walked with her to her table and sat down with her. Now, I know this kid, and if he acted like he usually does, he probably came off as a complete stalker. One girl, who's friends with Jane, was at the table, too, and said that he didn't seem like a stalker. Bill actually admitted to me that he liked her, and I gave him a friendly tip not to be so blatant about it (Stupid move, I know. He was just so damn helpless, though.) To my knowledge, Jane doesn't know that either of us likes her, but she may have inferred by now that Bill does. I've talked to her, made her laugh a few times, but I MIGHT have come off as a wee bit of a self-servicer. She seems fine with me, though. I have two classes with her, and Bill only has one (I think.) Also, we're both rather introspective, and it's hard to generate conversation, unless I can somehow show her my deep and intelligent side without coming off as weird. Thoughts?
The highlight is your keyword! Ask yourself, what steps did Bill take to score that inferrence? Unless you act, you could loose her to inferrence. Pay attention also to Hannibal's first response, she cant read your mind! Stephen's 4 points are nice ways for a girl that love outdoors.
CultureRe: A Stranger Buys You Food While You're Out On A Date With Another Man by NegroNtns(m): 12:14am On Aug 27, 2008
No ma'am, not at all. I am not inferring that not fighting is weakness. It has to be acknowledged that the other man had encroached. Sense of decency should have told him not to send anything over or show interest in a woman thats in the company of another man. If he does not have that sense, somebody need to knock it into him and I happen to have the kind of temperament thats designed for that. Some other men may not but still aknowledge the insult in their own way that they see fit. If I challenge a man's ego and he acts timid, trust me Im running over him, no questions asked!

Fighting in that manner is not necessarily "niggardly". If you could listen to UN diplomats take anger out on each other verbally you will understand that emotions have nothing to do with academic achievements or background. From time to time we hear soundbites from US congress of senators cursing each other out. You don't think Bill Clinton will punch someone in their nose if they mess with his ego? Cheney double barrelled someone for crossing him, Bush was overheard calling someone a motherfakker. Jesse Jackson, Bill Cosby, all these men have been overheard to curse at another man for insultive misstep towards them. I don't think you will ever hear Obama curse but MLK cursed. Malcom X not only cursed, he was temperamental and combative. So we are different and our emotions come out in different ways. The issue we should be focusing on is WHO the emotion is directed at.

I have a question for you. I have heard you say he shouldn't beat his wife, he shouldnt fight another man. Well, how do you want him to let out steam when he is upset and bitter over another man trying to get his woman? Tell me.
CultureRe: A Stranger Buys You Food While You're Out On A Date With Another Man by NegroNtns(m): 9:51pm On Aug 26, 2008
The irony of osisi's/oyinye's stories is that despite the man sending food OBVIOUSLY to gain their attention, they enjoyed the food WITH their dates and went home
Is it really THEIR attention or HER attention? You see this is what Im saying, a woman does not see it as anything extra-ordinary. There are men that will agree with you and see it the way you see it. Majority of men will see it the way I see it.

Again, just as a man cannot understand the emotions that women go through and why they respond in certain ways to certain stimuli but different to others, a woman cannot understand this phenomenon of ego and pride in a man. Much as you may want to, its not a easy thing for you to understand unless you are a man, and when I say man, I am not talking about weak willed men.

Men have gone to war for nothing else other than on woman's issue. The only other reason a man will go to war is for territorial control. You can call it teenage truancy if you want or give it any other label to belittle that emotion, it is there and men have always clashed over it and we will continue to clash over it. That's our ego and our pride at play. If you don't like it step aside from the crosshairs.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Is Seun Osewa From Nigeria ? by NegroNtns(m): 9:29pm On Aug 26, 2008
Let us know in time cause the guy have received a lot of death threats recently.
Seun, is this true? You got a battallion of soldiers here if you need it, trained to fight field war, ideological war and cyber war; let us know if you need the resource.


, and seun osewa isnt it obvious that he is nigerian
Tope, now I know you are well aware that name identity has no georgraphical boundary. Not discounting Seun's nationality, if I tell you that my name is Dimtri Vashniski, does that obviously make me a Russian? C'mon mah sista wink
CultureRe: A Stranger Buys You Food While You're Out On A Date With Another Man by NegroNtns(m): 8:35pm On Aug 26, 2008
Karma,

It goes beyond the food. From a man's perspective its symbolic. A woman might miss the cue and think, "oh he is such a kind gentleman". But he is not! If he really wants to display kindness let him feed a hungry beggar, my babe is sitting there with me and we are getting ready to get fed, we are not seeking handout. He is a hunter and the woman is just another prey and the only reason he did not walk over to her is because she is sitting with another man. Everything in our world is ego and pride, a man does not make advances to your woman in your face and you don't respond. Its a test and you are a weak man if you fail that test. The mere move to send my girl a token of his admiration is enough to set me off. When you see Negro with his girl you back the hell off, I dont play like that around my woman and thats the lesson he will be learning that night. No, this is not about food, this is about poussy, he wants her; I do too and Im keeping her. So let him dispossess me of her if he believes he can.

Its true there are men that have emotions directed wrongfully at the woman, instead of on competitors and the outside. Its not only the woman that feel their anger and bitterness, their children do too. How do you explain a man that picks up his little baby took him outside holding him by his feet and then raised him high above shoulder level and brought him down with force smashing his skull on the concrete sidewalk, brain and blood splattered all over? His reason? She was seeing another dude. He need to go and face the dude and teach him a lesson. Not kill an innocent little baby and throw his mother into grief. There are men that have anger and emotions and direct it rightfully at the outside. So don't get the two mixed up under the umbrella of jealousy and anger and emotions. Jealousy is a good emotion to have if used properly.
CultureRe: A Stranger Buys You Food While You're Out On A Date With Another Man by NegroNtns(m): 11:31am On Aug 26, 2008
Quote from: Queenisha on Yesterday at 01:37:42 AM
If he starts limiting your friends,telling you who and who not to talk or associate with.
Goes into fits of rage when you don't answer his phone calls
demands you answer phone calls in his presence
Or picks up your phone to see who's calling you
Lose him immediately
He's a loser


Ok. I will take you advice and keep him on watch.
SeanT,

naaahhhhh. Dont do that, please, dont start second guessing and monitoring your man based on these generalizations you hear here. There are positive emotions and there are negative emotions. Both of them are reflected in love, whether it is parental love or spousal love. What you heard are the negative emotions and what it can produce. Rejoice in the positive emotions of the man you love.

Im like your man, very passionate with a cool and calm exterior, very loving and caring but I am hot tempered when it comes to another man parambulating around my woman, my patience is short. As her body guard, my job is to keep her safe and happy, but my 6'4' frame is directed for intimidation against others, not for hurting my woman.

If I was sitting with a date and mr admirer send food or drinks over, I will ask my date if this was someone she knew. If not, the tray will be returned to sender. I hope he gets the message! If he gets smart and push the wrong button there will be plenty misunderstanding.
RomanceRe: 'Bad' Boys Wouldn't Exist If There Weren't Any Women To Fall For Them. by NegroNtns(m): 6:53am On Aug 26, 2008
Top,

its easy for you to saythat now because you are hurting. You will heal soon and guess what, you will dismiss advances from nice guys wanting you and you will fix your gaze and time on the bad boys . Am i wrong?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Hot Nairaland Matchmaking Technique! by NegroNtns(m): 4:21pm On Aug 25, 2008
@post,

What is the mindset of the poster, is that a consideration? With posts like the ones below I don't think its a good idea _

"is it wrong to slap a woman?";
"after 3yrs he left me and married another girl, he wants me as wife #2, what should I do?".
RomanceRe: Is Double Dating Wrong? by NegroNtns(m): 4:05pm On Aug 25, 2008
I'm learning new terms today. What is double-dating, is this when you take a girl out twice? Also, what is plato-romantic relationship? You ppl in here are corrupt, too loose. Oh God deliver them from the utterances of their tongues.
RomanceRe: Forgetting about your Ex is the best revenge you can serve him/her!! by NegroNtns(m): 7:34am On Aug 25, 2008
Top, I can't possibly walk in your shoe to feel where it hurts. In moments like this, time heals. You are going through withdrawal and as with anything else, the transformation is a curve. The more time you spend brooding and reliving the memories, the less strong you are to leave it behind. Keep yourself busy, occupy your time with tangibles, log into NL and read old threads, make new friends. In order for something new and better to begin, the old and stagnant must be buried.
Good luck girl :-)
CultureRe: Fulani Bar by NegroNtns(m): 7:17am On Aug 25, 2008
Lol, sanu yar'uwa. A Arewa na yi girma, Kano da Zaria. Na roka ki kwanekin baya ki yi mani rubutun wasika, ar yau ban ji komai ba a gare ki. Ina fatan ba laifi ko :-)
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Hope U Don't Mind Dating Me? by NegroNtns(m): 9:06pm On Aug 24, 2008
hmm, Ruby found a soulmate. Halleluyah!!
RomanceRe: Do You Tink Ladies Deserve 2 Be Luvd This Dayz by NegroNtns(m): 9:03pm On Aug 24, 2008
I know that was lil Kim, I was wondering what the pix gotta do with his post. You pointed out grammatical errors, so maybe from now on he will just communicate in pictures and images, cheesy
CultureRe: Homosexualism In Nigeria by NegroNtns(m): 8:54pm On Aug 24, 2008
To me its funny to think that Nigeria is such a homophobic country when a large percentage of her men are homosexuals or bisexuals. Even most of these anti-gay movers are actually involved but just front all this to cover up; how sad. If only they understood what it is like. Well, i'm kool, enjoying my life, u don't know me! What u got to say?
Ken,

In each human there is of course a polar opposite of that in which his/her identity is prevalent. So that I am of male gender but in my psyche there also exist a polar opposite of the male gender and is fed through me in an unconscious state. My ability to be a masculine is a conscious awareness of strengths and weaknesses in me. I supress my weakness and I uphold my strengths. The ability of a female to be soft and tender and caring and nurturing is due to the drive of the polar masculinity in her unconsious state. The wholeness of a human is composed of the duality within _conscious state and unconscious state.

When called forth by an external demand, independent of a voluntary response, the reflex will kick in and a chauvinistic, ego posessed male left alone with a wailing infant in his arms will suddenly become a caring, tender and nurturing human. Thats his unconscious power at play, aroused by nature; the helpless baby! Similarly, a female, left without the protection and cover of a man will let loose and become physically aggressive and combative when faced with a hardship circumstance; all her caring and tender and nurturing instincts are replaced with impulsive action and risk.

In everyone of us there is a thief, there is a killer, there is a liar, there is a sinner, there are all kind of bad things, but then we are also endowed with conscious values and purpose so that our propensity to behave and act as animals or worse is reoriented towards an evolution that bring about a spiritual upliftment and a sense of fulfillment to our senses, so that the things we encounter and relate with do not also be the things that disgust and turn us off. Esthetics or aesthetics, also called beautification, is a necessity for social order and progress, without it the society will become chaotic and decay. Nigeria is already in a state of decay and a turn off and thats why we departed to be in a place where the soul finds appeal in its sorroundings.

Homosexualism is a choice for those who have failed to self-understand, to self-identify the duality of energies within their being, and where a conflict exist, to self-diagnose the imbalance and seek a spiritual intervention for its fix. In their lack of discipline, they have chosen to embrace as turn-on, a sexual habit that animals regard as a turn-off. As I have always said, homosexualism should not be a matter for public policy, it is a individual problem and must be dealt with at individual level. It is not a disease, it is not a problem for humanity or the society. The people that practice it need to make it a private and discreet issue in their life, not irritate the public with their failure and insanity and expect to be pitied. You are not a victim, you have made a willful choice as you deem fit for your life, why should the rest of society make room for you if they do not feel your choice add aesthetic values to their sorroundings. Who wants to see a gay guy walking the street in high heels and mini skirts? Keep that shyit to the four walls of your home.

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