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Una still dey here

Sallam Alaykum brothers. May Allah Wa Ta alla increase your knowledge and wisdom.

Miders, got it, thanks. Expect my response before weekend. I like it.

4HIM, your girl packed up and left.  Amber!  You did a very impressive job with your coaching and Im sure her horizon has expanded as a result of the encounter.  I was looking forward to taking over when you were done but I was robbed of the opportunity.  

@topic, the tradition of marriage for most part is lacking nowadays in most of the support resources that once sustained it.  In addition, access to women is more open and interaction is multi faceted, human relations is improved, competition for material success has heated up making it more likely that seclusion at home with a wife will be sacrificed for a flashy and transient swing through the night streets.

yaya dai Diva? Ba kowa a garin na. Mutane n' gari sun yi tafiya

Yaya ki ke, yaya ph?

ah, Jenny, bawo ni oo.  Se dada ni?  Oti pe ti mo de ti ri e gbehin, se alafia?  Mase jeje oo.  

Darfur, ase o gbo yoruba   Mo ti gbe sakabula sile.  Lady T n 'pada bo si ibi.  T'o bari ko ba soro, ada e lohun.  

Odabo ooo

I am asking so I can take you back into the pages of history and allow you to see what nobody has ever, ever shared with you about Africa but which you need to understand, especially that you are married (if that's true) to an African.

No, don't leave Amber come back.

You have round holes and you are expecting to fit square pegs into them. It won't work. I have read everything you said so far and coupled with other things in other areas on NL where you opined on race matters, I am confused as to your true identity is. Can you pleace clarify who you are, it's not so simple to say to an African " I am white". From within the continent, our knowledge of the white race is a broad paint and it looks like this:

White = straight hair falling around face; skin is pale; lips are thin and pink; face is not negroid in its countours.

So if a Mexican comes to native Africa he/she will be categorized as a white person, so would a Argentinian. Exposure and contact with humanity is the best teacher. When the native African leaves home and goes to America, Canada, Europe. He/she meets a different definition of white race. This is where we begin to distinguish between a Caucasian, a Mexican, a Jew, a Turk, and so on and so forth.

I have heard you denounced the white race in some of your responses and claimed that you are Jew and a victim of white oppression. I have also heard you claimed steadfastly that you are white. I am confused Amber.

Are you Jew or are you Caucasian? If you are Caucasian, where in Europe is your root? I am asking this so I

I have always said that story is the fabric of life. SILENCE is more effective. Read the tale of mother fox and mother duck, there is wisdom in it.

Y'all listen to what Folly said. He put it in the best perspective than any of us had the words to express it.

< @married men still patronizi0ng hos then i think your wify aint pro enough for you >

Ezin, I hear you.  You are correct, the morality should be questioned.  However as you go through the responses there are far more condemnations on the girl's age and maturity than there is on the guy's sense of morality.  

For a long time, a very long time in Africa we have taken on dogmas that were counter to our own way of life, which for most part is also aligned with natural order of doing things, we abandoned what was ours in favor of what is foreign. What we are going through today on this continent are the resulting impacts of those abandonements.  

Is it not true that girls maturity are well advanced to that of boys?  So in maturity, what age bracket is ideal for a 16yr old girl?

There are many issues to tackle in the post.  

1. Age
2. Motive
3. Direction

On age, are you all saying that a 16yr old girl is too young to have sex?  Is this coming from biological facts or are you reflecting upon western society's dogma on attainment of maturity?

When this guy turns 51 yrs old, the girl would be 40 yrs.  As they progress in age, that 11 yr gap will never change. In that future time are you going to condemn him for having ses with a woman 11 yrs his junior?

All I have seen so far is emotional responses.  What are the biological contentions for why that 16yr old girl is not ready for sex.  I don't want fairy tales about 16yr olds are prone to have std.  Any age is prone to have std.

Omoovie,

How is that pedophilia?

, and can we please leave Jesus out of this