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I don't want to be too forward but I must state it without apology that a relationship that lacks communication will die a natural death. Mr, I will advise you to give your fiance some space - don't remind her of her weakness, if she is your she will beg to hear from you.

Mr worried Man,
Sex in marriage is quite vital, it is one of the most important ingredient of marriage. Find out the reason why your wife isn't taking sex serious - it could be as result of domestic work: having three children to take care of is no mean fit. If you can,ensure you get your wife a house help or you make it early down home to assist her. Material things may not be all that is necessary at this point, perhaps if you can create a time where both of you can go for a honeymoon-this will allow both of you to rediscover yourselves. This getaway should be about you two: the children can be excluded from the equation. Spice your sex life with new techniques. Above all, pray about it.

Proeast, I have keenly followed your story, from all indication your ex is a gold digger. The question of whether you were right over what you did to her at shoprite is a decision you have wish to accomplish long ago. Well,the opportunity came and you were glad you achieved it. If I were you I won't pay her in her own coin, I would show her what it means to be generous without getting emotional. The fact that you sometimes check on her Facebook page shows you are still in love with her- At least you haven't said anything about a new babe other than your ex.
To err is human but to forgive is devine, I am of the opinion that your ex has learnt a bit of lessons after she left you
, I guess you have learnt yours too. The decision to accept her if she comes remorseful is totally yours but teach her to adapt to your principles. Another dimension will be, what do you actually want from her? - a fling, a wife in the future or a learning tool for future relationship. I wish you the best as you sought yourselves.

OP you have indeed shown great deal of maturity in handling your family affairs- well, for those who have been clamouring for a break up, I guess they have never been in this kind of situation,perhaps never been married. As for your wife she needs to limit the extent of her unalloyed loyalty with her siblings. Her loyalty should be to God first and secondly to her immediate family which you are the head. Finally, you need to pray without ceasing in order to avert a reoccurrence of all that has happened.

I do not condone ladies that bad mouth I also feel the guy shouldn't have slap his girlfriend. The least he should have done was ask his girlfriend to go out of his car. I say no to violence .

kenkenn:
God forbid,

Make God no allow me go blow babe come hang there o

Aru eme!

Babe you Say? Never try such with a married woman or somebody's babe#Goodluck

Am in interested but need to know the Millage and VIN. Quick response will be appreciated.

It's quite absurd how we pass judgement on people before they are investigated. The social media is now the new court of Justice. I could imagine the pains this man must have gone through-if someone hates your face he/she uses the social media to hunt you. Now that Mr Olaseni isnt found wanting the mass media is not displaying much vigour in the outcome of the investigation.

When glo is Android friendly, why won't I put my money on GLO.

Still waiting for the engine pix

More pix on the engine and the Millage.I've sent you a BBM request.

Am interested how much will fly this car and your location?

Cityhood am interested may, I know the millage and if there is any fault.?

Cityhood am interested may, I know the millage and if there is any fault.?

Mr Man tell your friend to call his wife to be to order. He should clearly tell her how her attitude is upsetting him. I guess her elder sister must have been giving her silly advise to prevent her from getting married.

Guy! Stop playing fool for love. Not all ladies like a soft guy. Your lady is taking your calmness for granted, Man up. The last time I check there are millions of ladies begging to be taken. Why are you giving your fiancee the impression that the universe revolves around her. If you don't take care of her silly behaviour I bet you, you might never enjoy her as a wife.

Hmm! What can I say? Sister don't let a small boy rob mud in your eyes when you can see. I advise you to take the next bus to the nearest station called "serious relationship" why wasting your time when you know it isn't leading you anywhere.

What is this world becoming? Man you are in Lust! For GOD SAKE it is your friend's wife you are talking about. May GOD open your eyes to understand the consequence of your action. Please avoid going too close to the woman in question and don't make the mistake of seducing her lest you regret your action and accuse the Devil of leading you.

This Nigerian political office holder don't care about the harsh economic reality. We have Innosson Motors who can deliver a good and affordable car yet this corrupt officials would rather see the Naira fall than give up their insatiable greed. I weep for my country.

Op you spoke my mind, how can the NFF who want success withhold resources to achieve the said success? If the coach fails we are often quick to criticise him while he is denied the tools to succeed. Oliseh did the right thing- let no one come and shout patroticism when those in government are squandering tax payers money for frivolities. It is in Nigeria we pay salaries and allowances and we assume it is a favour to do such. The labourer is worthy of his wages.

Wow! Quite a touching story, man you don't have to kill yourself to be in the good books of any lady. Keep the search for job going, never relent on your dreams and aspirations BUT very importantly do not die for anyone. Your lady has moved On, she is afraid of taking the risk of marriage with you because of your situation, why crying over spill milk? Sometimes some people have to move out of your life for something good to move in. Finally you need to constantly pray to GOD to bless the labour of your hands.

I don't know what is wrong with this generation. Sex does not connotes into love,-your boyfriend is running away from danger and you are pushing him to do the unimaginable. If a guy is demanding sex girls will complain,when he is not bordered by sex they also complain. Girl be guided, once you lose your virginity you will never regain it again.

Sometimes in life, we are concerned in life about other people's opinion, rather than take seriously what concerns us. Your husband is ugly? Brush him up, if has poor dress sense- teach him fashion. Stop comparing what u have to what others possess.

Mr Writer, it is quite sad giving the way your wife is cheating on you. One thing strikes clear- you have not taken a great deal of stand as the man of the house. Having seen what your wife is up to,I advise you to take the bull by the horn and barned her from having anything to do with her ex or a temporary separation until she comes to her senses. Let me tell you this, giving your wife the impression that without her you can't live will only make you a slave in her Sleeve. If you allow her to continue with this whoring attitude, you might be eliminated so that her ex takes over.

Hello Lady, there is no law(s) that prohibit a single lady from owning a car. It's only a wrong perception borne by some who feel if a single lady owns a car she must be doing the "unusual". For a working class lady like you,. there is something to show that you possess the means to acquire a car.

Mr worried man, your story is quite a lengthy one, but one thing is Certain, you gave your wife a long rope and she is using it to tie you. When you discover all her terrible habit at the initial stage of your marriage, you should have sent her packing. Reporting her to a third party is only a get away for her bad behaviour. I advise you to stand up as the man of the house and put this domineering wife of yours in her rightful place . I am sure if she has her way she will eliminate you #BeGuide

Your wife telling why she married you is not out of place. Love is nothing more than a coincidence of interest-you married her because of her beauty and other attributes and likes wise she married you because of the good sex you give her. No need to worry your head over the admiration she gets from men. I will advise you to improve yourself and stand tall in the league of well to do husbands.

Talk is cheap. It is not easy to put pen to paper let alone come out with a story.A lot of readers are preempting what Op should write or her likely steps. This is the writer's story; it is imposible to write another man/woman's tale because no two situations are thesame. For op to put pen to paper and dish out an event in her life it must be an issue that one has something to be learnt from. If u have a better tale to tell,please establish your own thread.

Op I have my eyes glued to your write-up, whether the story is real or fictitious, the truth is that there is something to learn. The suspense is killing, I can't wait to read the rest of the "tori"

When a man becomes awkward in his attitude, the only way to work with him is to give him bull shit. Girl be prepared for the worst:I will advise you to get a recording gadget in case he makes an attempt to molest you . Or always move away from his line of sight. Better of set him up.

Mr Writer, I cherish your courage to teach a girl without taking advantage of her... It is not an unusual thing for teenagers to have crush on their teacher, but, what will be abnormal is to take advantage of such weakness. I advice you to cease teaching her to avert the inevitable or link her to a mature lady teacher who will talk sense into her head.

Why flogging a dead horse? The truth is that both of you can't be together, your relationship can be akin to friend with benefit. Calling you back won't make any difference because you are likely to cheat again and again.