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Good talk bro.

I weak for this one! You sound childish and your action reminds me of a gold digger . Can't you see that the other guy is worse off than your roommate ?. Just promise and you are carried away . where is the virtue of loyalty and love ? I pray you travel out as you anticipate then you will know that it is not all that glitter is gold.

Guy, sometimes it takes you walking away to getting away. why worry over a girl who will cheat and show no remorse. If you can give your girl a space and see what she is up to . You can quit the relationship if she doesn't want to change for the better. She might be playing her card because she has seen your weakness .

Emeka, there are pointers in this relationship. While you think you and your girl are compatible I disagree.. it is possible she reads your body language and do those things that pleases you.
Secondly , lying and cheating have correlation .She cheats once and denied it ,I promise you she is likely to cheat with a "cheat proof" It is possible she is telling same to the other guys.
If you still have a little measure of love for her you may continue the relationship but let it remain "friend with benefits" In spite of all the good things you have said about
her it wouldn't change who she is ,unless by a divine grace she embraces the character of self control.

The proper thing to do is for your brother in- law to knock before coming into your bedroom.

A perverse generation.. my guy run for your life. Why chasing another man's wife, when there are single girls everywhere? Remember, there is karma.

This girl is always in the News for the wrong reason(s).For those who have instrument for testing genuine Carmel toe, I hope your instrument is genuine?

Dear Married Man,
Kindly remind this lady that throws herself at you that you are married and keep distance from her. A little fire can become conflagration#BeGuided.

I weep for my country! For a man of God to pursue his legal right is now sinful? Kemi, wrote a libelous epistle that a lot of people took hook line and sinker. A tale bearer parading herself as an investigative journalist and we the readers refused to decern what is right or wrong. I refused to be cowed to join in this pity party of forgiving a cyber bully. I stand with David Ibeyeomiye - because a lot of rubbish Kemi writes and get away with ,seems to make it look right. I am sure if she is sued regularly for writing false stories she would have learnt her lessons. Nigeria isn't a lawless country.

Mr Man, why worry over a lady when there are millions of ladies out there waiting for you with open hands? I advise you to give your lady space, if she comes back to you without drama then she is yours.

A man that wants to cheat will cheat. I do not know of any recommended drug against a cheating spouse.

OP, May I remind you that a broken courtship is better than a bad marriage. From your analysis, there are pointers that you would not be happy if you go ahead with the weddings -my reasons are ;
1.Your wife will be a control freak.
2.She will be living a false life.
3.You might not be able to safe for the raining day because of her high luxurious life style.
4.Her father might be another torn in your flesh.
5.If you can't provide for her she might look elsewhere.
Finally, she might bring down your ego via her constant nagging.
Guy, stand up and be the man. Live within your budget, if she won't accept you for who you are then let her go and marry the "Joneses in Lekki"

OP, there is no need beating about the bush ,you can call the girl and state the obvious .I bet you it wouldn't be without a fight. Do not date a lady out of pity.

Be careful, you might be dealing with someone who is either married or who has other girl friends. If I were you ,I would do a thorough background check on him. Do not date blindly... There are a lot of people who are living a double life.

Dynast:
For the records no university sells gown to first degree graduands for keeps. Its often hired for convocation only.why trying to kill a fly with Monday hammer

For the record, I do not need your lecture whether convocation gown is hired or not. One obvious fact is that convocation gowns can be sewn by any good tailor. what Senator Dino Malaye did today is to redicule his detractors. His intention is to create a form of satire with a message across.

Jesusloveyou:
you see your life, when trying to defend a criminal,you shot your own foot.
This your saying really prove dino never pass his weac not to talk of b.sc
The outcome of his degree does not make dino, but dino make the degree useless.

I can't remember ever mentioning your name or inviting you to contradict what I said

oh Dean! it is the man wearing the gown that matters and not the gown wearing man. What is this talk about the gown being sacred and should not be worn with frivolity? Dino is a Senator who always give his foes and critics what to chew. All doubting Thomases have their mouth shut, Dino is a graduate of ABU. The clan of Degree is not what makes a man,what makes a man is the outcome of the Degree.

Mr Man, I want you to know that sacrifice is a core value of love. Am sure you are only concern about the reduction in your bank account, what happens to reduction in trust, respect and values you share with your girl? what if she refused to ask for the payment of her house rent but sought the money via unholy means?. Please think on the foregoing. Mind you, refusing to pick her calls and denying her communicating with you through other medium is wrong. Try and listen to her ...As for the Bible oath I suggest you keep to your own side of the bargain.

Sahara Reporters thinks Nigerians are fools, I am an alumni of ABU Zaria .It is wrong to think ABU will compromise standard to save the neck of an individual. Sahara Reporters should go back to school and study what true investigative journalism requires. From Dino Malaye not a graduate of ABU to conniving with HOD. If SR does not stops playing the fifth Colmunist ,sooner than later it will be rubbished in the dustbin of history

Sahara Reporters, your method of journalism is questionable. Not different from what Kemi Olunloyo does. He that alleges must prove beyond any reasonable doubt. Gossips isn't the same word as investigation.

Jabioro:
The VC, Ibrahim Garba had entered one chance.. watch the next SR moved and see that money has exchanged hand.. many questions would arrived his table.. ..poo.. you will see many of his course mate coming out with authentic certificate and why Dino own couldn't be confirmed, he is name missing...

what do you take ABU to be? No amount of money can make ABU lose her dignity.

OP, in other climes cousins do marry each other. why you might be feeling bad for the confession, I urge you to embrace the positive side of your relationship. Your girl has confessed the truth to you and you are feeling bad. if you keep feeling sad or confuse when past deed are spilled to you I bet you, you might marry a crook for a wife.

Young Man, stop the "pity party " and make amends with your girl and if she is obstinate about it move on. Life is for a reason don't let it slip away, why dying for one woman man? I guess she is playing a mind game with you, well! the out come of her mind game is what I don't know. I advise you to give her space if she comes back to you then she is yours.

If you like her make your intention known to her parents . Your age difference is wide but not like you are her ancestor.

Girl, don't fall Mugu for social media love.. As a student I do not expect you to be using your money for adventures. The fact that the said guy is asking you to pay him visitwithout any assurance to pay your transport is obvious that you are dealing with someone who will take you for a ride#BeWise

My guy you have just lost your babe, it's only a matter of time the hand writing will be everywhere. I suggest you request your girl to allow you to pursue other babes. If she agrees then you can excuse her to go out with the intruder.

Good moves. We appreciate your kind gestures Oba Goal.

Henryyy:
Her english na disaster Something i noticed about yoruba women is many are arrogant and despite how beautiful God made them some will still use the beauty to do olosho when they can easily find a single man to settle with and stop all this rubbish. I think the girl is lying.

I implore you to investigate an issue before making assertion. The accused did not provide the necessary variables to show the readers that Bidemi committed the act she was accused of and you believed?

tunderay:
By the time Sahara reporter finished with him, we will see how he will be introducing himself.

Sorry! You have forgotten that Sahara Reporters is now for the highest bidder. Believe Sahara at your own peril.

No matter the advancement in technology, it can never substitute human intelligence. The real thing is the real deal.

wow ,my guy just be wise the girl has a good phone. she uses her beauty to get phones from men. I bet you she will do same to other guys that comes her way. Don't be the mugu money spender!

Guy be wise, have both of you done HIV test? Secondly, I see a pregnancy trap ahead of you.