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Having read your piece and the worries you shared. It is important to state the following; Do not resign on your high paying job unless you have figured out the type of business you want to engage in. Secondly seek the advice of financial expert, thirdly ensure that what ever decision you take will be better than your current condition. Finally seek the face of God before you kiss goodbye to your job.

Worriors do not run and leave their soldiers behind they stay and fight. Never trust a man who have divided loyalty. Kanu has both the British and the Nigerian passport. If wahala bust today in Nigeria, he has the option of residing in England for ever. What happens to the rest of us who have only Nigeria? Never die for another man's vision.

You did the right thing. When you see red flags in your relationship kindly address it immediately . A lady that is impervious to correction will cause you pains, if you tie the knot with her. You may sometimes miss her for ending the relationship, I believe you will get over it.

Make your wife to be your gossip partner and her sister won't have the guts to tempt you.

The truth is that you are not a priority to your man. 5 years is too long a time to waste in the name of waiting for marriage. How can you be dating a man that has a retinue of girlfriends at his beck and call? I dont think your man is taking you very seriously, you may just be one of those his side chick even though you think you are that close to him.

Mr man, sometimes it is better to seal your lips than to speak. Problems are sometimes sorted out in a way we can't fathom. While you may think you are doing good you might be adding fuel to an existing fire. Are you the cheating wife's sentry? If the answer is no, please mind your business.

This is a tough nut to crack. I will be honest with you if your sister's marriage scales through, you will be the other woman in the picture. There are a lot of red flags which you have acknowledged. First your sister's fiance is your first sex mate. He has also cheated with you. Believe me there is no happy ending to this story. My advice is for you to stay far away from him or see a marriage counselor, finally you need to seek God's face over this issue.

There might be no repercussion but there is a moral burden. It sounds ackward to think that the best consolation to dish to woman who recently lost her husband is to sleep with her. You must be nursing sleeping with her before Her husband passed on.

Mr man, lust looks exciting when it has not disgraced you. I will advice you to steer clear from your wife's friend. I see this as a temptation that you feed daily and it is gradually becoming a monster. A monster that if not curtailed will consume you and the rest of your family. Sleeping with your wife's friend will hurt your wife and break the trust in your marriage,things may never remain the same in your marriage. Please think twice before you take that ignoble path.

Girl don't be carried away this your man isn't going to change anytime soon. Can you take away the spots from the hyena ? A broken courtship is better than a broken marriage. You may think he is in love for being a control freak but I tell you he is a bad energy to your happiness.

calm down man, I am of the opinion that you need to console and comfort madam always. You need to reassure madam over and over again that you share her pains.

The chances of success in any relationship is 50/50 . It is not out of place to have some degree of fright. If you want want your relationship with your girl to be successful ,the yam and the knife is your hand. I think it would have been rational to study your girl from a distance before taking her as a co partner.

unemployed lady would have suffice .

The message is clear I am to add that love alone cannot pay the bills.

There are ladies who "dog slut" . Such ladies allow dogs to lick them. Investigate her.

only time will tell.

Anything for attention.

These three have some things in common : they all like to play "the domestic violence card and cheating" .Tonto may be preaching but she rarely practice what she preaches so is the other two.

And the guy's mother who hawk under rain and sun shine to train him through school should be told stories? Some guys sha!

Now that the table has turn... Daddy Freeze take a chill pill, Miss Stephanie does not owe you any explanation.

I guess it was a publicity stunt.

Great ABUSITES! ipso facto

why worrying over a lady who has no means of sustaining her self yet calls you a broke ass. Girls who call others broke rarely can afford things for themselves. Guy make the money and you will have a lot of ladies dying to have you.

I am in interested but where?

I won't advice you to continue the relationship knowing that your girl is loose. Move on perhaps in the future she will get the message.

Only few people will relate with this story. Sorry man only the married ones will understand, some women are just too difficult to please... Stay with who makes you happy and not the one that you always struggle to please. I will advise you to separate from your wife in order to discover yourself, if she comes to her senses you can take her back.

She came out to lie to the whole how she has suffered domestic violence in the hands of Mr Churchill. What was unknown to Tonto is that she didn't know there are evidence to counter her lies. I have often say it Tonto has an unforgiven spirit, though she profess being a Christian.

I sent a message to your whatsapp. Check, I will be waiting for your response.

This woman will not rest until she has caused Churchhill to fall. Such is the attitude of a wicked woman. Even if his father was a beggar he has changed the course of history. Tonto should grow up. I am convinced Tonto was the violent one.

you need to take a closer look at the class of girls you sleep with.

Allow your girlfriend and your friend to continue their illicit affair ... It would be foolish of you to continue to pay your girl friend school fees.