₦airaland Forum

Sagamite:
Even the Babangida's horses live a better life than the average Nigerian.

Depilot:
Rejoicing over anyone's death is the lowest level anyone could go.
Even animals do not behave like this.

2tait:
Is she really dead?
To me Maryam Babangida was a great woman!
She touched a lot of lives in many positive ways.

snokky:
Eyin temi, i want reach out for yankee this december,
any link here? really, i dont wanna use the student stuff,
so many procedures and waits
am thinking of using a business means but how well do u think they
will issue buisness visa for conference and events etc
wot about if i register for about a month professional course will they grant on this?
thanks.

platinumnk:
Sigh-- I can see why they denied. . . lol Did you check the visa website about Denials?

And why were you denied?

Gonga aso- Contact me Asap

bibiking1:
I guess if the analogy works then we should be blaming Wole Soyinka for the woes in Ogun state as well

stillwater:
All these men shouting 50-50, would likely hesitate to take part in house chores, bath the kids or cook for you. Their friends would likely say 'where is the madam of the house'? Is it not the same naija scenario again? I don't see how you want to be dragging who pays the bills in the house, when in a typical Nigerian family most women work and at the same time shoulders all the housework. Working mothers still come back home to cater for the family. You think those market women stash their earnings for themselves? But you would hardly see the husbands lift a pin in the house? According to then, it is not their culture to cook when they have a wife. It's beyond him to cook, if at all he does, it's once in a blue moon.

All these talk about if the man loses his job does not hold water with me because the women I know will help their husbands in need, would rather go hungry than let their kids go without food.

If it must be a 50-50 thing, it should also translate into all aspects of the family.

P.S I'm not in support of the girl.

Hatitude:
I take it that all of you that have responded so far are cronies of the govt. Ribadu is a legend and there's nothing any of you can say or do about it.

shawn123:
hiss, Naija people self, after everything Ribadu did? He was close to rebranding Nigeria without any rebranding project and advertisement. Farida herself said he lodged 15 million dollars with the central bank, the money the so called Ibori tried to use to bribe him. That alone is an act only very few people all over the world can do even the richest Americans might not be able to reject that huge sum . I Wonder what it is exactly you all want, sighs and say a little prayrer for Nigerians,

chaircover:
Interesting how we all interpret the bible differently

I come from a family of hardworking professional women and my husband is still the head whether I put down £1 or £1 million.

In reality a lot of woman will be waiting a hell of a long time to find a man who can afford to 100% keep them to a decent level of comfort.

Most rich men are middle aged and they themselves started from somewhere with their wives chipping in where necessary and very few bachelors earn the kind of money you are looking for him to comfortably keep you 100%. . . . . and for the few young men who can afford to offer the lifestyle you are looking for have lots of women chasing them anyway and competition is fierce.

I’d rather marry an upwardly mobile, young man of integrity with prospects than a ready made Yahoozee boy or old baba.

femilangy:
Y wont u get SCAMMED?you have been over exposing urself on NL lately . . . . . . . . . anyway pele

donjon:
So you will buy a car while living in a rented house?

!amebo no1:
words like this are coming from losers, no offence, and i ask you again,is the man paralysed? cant he get something better

A man shouldnt even wait for a woman to pay the kids school fees, i know of men that are ready to starve just fr their kids to go to school

What happened to those men that do anything possible on earth to meet up to that name[b] "MAN"[/b] ; WHY DO WE HAVE SHAMELESS LAZY ASSED BONES AS MEN

!amebo no1:
the last time i checked i am not a feminist, i cant compete with a man or do what a man does

the husband should get his ass up and go look for a job, stop relying on a woman to feed you, a woman knows her responsibilities without being told, just dont sit down there and expect her to spend on you

pappilo:
Me and my missus share responsibilities. Although I may just edge her a bit in what I contribute. We split the mortgage 50-50 but assign other bills individually so I pay say council tax and she pays water rates. Women want to be equal with men in all other areas but do not want to share responsibility. My missus used to earn more than me for a longtime and there was a perriod I wasnt earning at all. I took out a loan so I could still meet my own commitments and i,lld expect her to do the same if she found herserlf in that situation. Unless you earn over £100,000 a year that old skool naija style of men doing everything cannot work.

Though he recently said during his musical album lunch in Abuja that he was only a bad boy in the movie roles he has had to perform and not same in real life, cross-over Nollywood actor, Jim Iyke will at this point need to more to disabuse the minds of his fans and antagonists alike on a certain rumour currently dogging his personality.

The latest scandal connecting the Nollywood act, Jim Iyke has to do with the wife of a pastor. The said pastor’s wife, who also doubles as a minister of God in her deceased husband’s church, reportedly has a great admiration for Jim Iyke, which led to her eventual descent from the pulpit to the sexual comfort of popular dude of the make-believe world.

The lover woman, whose late husband was regarded as the father of Pentecostalism in Nigeria, was said to have made manifest her affection for the actor when he visited her residence in one of the south-south states. While the duo excitedly hit off their sexual odyssey, little did the older woman knew that trouble hug in the air for her.

The trouble was however instigated by her son, who unsuspectingly stormed her father’s house in the morning of the next day only to find the “Nollywood bad boy” dressed in a pyjamas and being treated to a scrumptious meal supposedly prepared by her mother for him. The son, who couldn’t stand the sight of his new step father (Jim) was reported to have blew hot and warned his mother from desecrating his father’s house.

0sisi:
Yes he must.
That is his responsibility

!amebo no1:
that is why i said i give what i want and not what the guy wants, some men are so pathetic, i mean you dont expect or wait for a woman to pay the bills, or put pressure on her, she will do it if she wants . for goodness sake no man should wait on a woman for financial help, the woman can help, but dont see it as a responsibility or she must do it
A man marries a woman to take care of her and not to share the bills with her

frankkky:
@nettracker good question,i wouldnt advise my enemy to come to europe illegally,but some of us legals are doing well i beg

TheSeeker:
Yes, I know the feeling. My best friend is dating like - let me see - thirteen girls as I speak, and I know the hell he puts up with trying to cover his tracks. Most of them want him anyway

suxes2005:
Every1 is busy lookin for xmas food as i got scammed some weeks ago.

shalom

lola19:
as long as u trust in god!!! he can make things all things possible,

lovemoi2:
i am just realistic, if you call that big mouth, you are just living in denial

religious fanatics refuse to see the truth

small mouth

jingoma:
Am I missing something? or does "Double Dating" have adifferent meaning in Nigeria. Anyway in the U.S. a double date is when 2 guys and 2 girls go out to either the movies or dinner together (2 couples) hence the term "Double Date", So whats wrong with that?