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Family › Re: Way Forward by Newborn27(op): 5:32am On Apr 08, 2022
Hashabiah:
My dear teaching is a dead-end job and I'll advise you start looking for another gig other than teaching . Have you tried taking home lessons ?if you haven't start considering it ...and also try learning a skill like programming or copywriting. Or you could write articles . Your grammar is quite good and you'll fit in nicely if you consider the latter
Thanks for your contribution.
I've been doing home lesson which is helping to pay my bills.

I've been reading a lot on copywriting here on nairaraland but I don't know how it works and considering the time this teaching job is gulping away from me, do you think I can make it? By next week: schools will be going on vacation, I wouldn't mind to use the few weeks to learn one or two things about writing IF I can see a tutor.

My income need to be diversify cos of my responsibilities and I can't do illegal things.
Family › Re: Way Forward by Newborn27(op): 5:24am On Apr 08, 2022
HUSTLER001:
lol! See,I'm not laughing to mock you but I'm laughing because you are not seeing opportunity where it lyes.You mean your instinct haven't told you yet that you are a better entrepreneur than a teacher? You are afraid you're going to be sacked? See,I'm also working in a school where I'm paid over 70k but the insult here ehn? As I'm speaking to you I plan quitting the God damn job to face my business even though I don't have the resources yet.I believe my mental health is more important than a slavery job. You'd better put yourself together and link up with another dealer at idumota to get stuffs on credit with a promise you'd pay back after sales or get a loan and start that business again but this time,without making the mistake of trusting people at your own loss.Put yourself together sis.There's life beyond that your place of work.
Wow! So touching!
Thanks for the words of encouragement, but the business I did is seasonal, career day doesn't come every year and majority of the Schools around don't celebrate it due to the scarcity of the costume and it's cost.

Honestly, the business gave me an insight about life and money, we Teachers are really suffering, it's a kind of modern slavery with the way private schools are treating us....I came to realize that business is the best thing a person can do if God gives you directions on what to venture into ... Idumota is a very big market where different things can be buy and sell in future when the opportunity comes.

Thanks for your contribution.
Family › Re: Way Forward by Newborn27(op): 9:22pm On Apr 07, 2022
sisisioge:
Ok....so calm down. So sorry you had to go through all of that. Please return the goods to the supplier and hustle for your money back gradually.


I don't want to return the costume to that woman again "once beaten, twice shy".... I'm thinking I might see schools around to sell at clearance price for them.....the said woman was once threatening me over 21k balance which I narrated how she soiled my image at work she felt no remorse and I decided not to send the returned goods to her....I left her to karma

As for the school....you kukuma needed a new job, here is your opportunity.


Job ain't easy here in Ore dude, reason why I'm scared.

Lastly, you are a warrior mama, dont let them break you. Good luck.

Thanks for the compliment, I only appear warriorish facially, I'm dying inside.....you can't imagine things I've been and going through
Family › Re: Way Forward by Newborn27(op): 9:16pm On Apr 07, 2022
Beremx:
Your customer in Idumota really disappointed you. When it was the moment for you to shine, he/she messed up. You shouldn’t blame yourself. You did your best to deliver.
As for the school management, I expected they talk to the parents and calm the situation down but they seem not to be helpful. They have left you to your own fate. If they can’t stand for you, what’s the use still teaching in the school? I would advise you resign than for you to be sacked
Hmmmm
The rate at which they were washing their hands off my case made me look like a criminal.... sending parents straight to my class for refund.


Please what's the difference between been sacked and resignation?
Shed light on this please
Family › Re: Way Forward by Newborn27(op): 9:12pm On Apr 07, 2022
oldienavie:
NL is not an annonymous place, delete this thread and re-post hiding the detail of the school and your location.
WIth the information you have given, anybody can easily identify you.

I just saw that you are even calling admin to push to front page. What kind of adults are we raising in Nigeria, what is wrong with you lots ?
HOw old are you op ?
Bianeta!
Family › Re: Way Forward by Newborn27(op):
Francisanointed:
Sometimes things don't always go as planned. I can boldly tell you that everyone is going through something. Don't give up. Quit that job now. The reason is because a lot of people are going to make you depressed through their looks. But don't give up . don't ask were your next meal will come from. Just believe in God. All things works together for good
I live in a place where it's difficult to secure a better paying job and this my present school is the best paying school in town.

I'm afraid.

Modified: cc oldienavie kindly modify my details from your quote sir.thanks
Family › Re: Way Forward by Newborn27(op): 6:56pm On Apr 07, 2022
Writerz:
It's not easy anywhere my sister but it can be easy if you push a little more. First, get away from that school. Don't resume with them,drop your resignation letter, dnt let them sack you. Don't be afriad to do this. Second, Do you write well, you might want to look into content writing as a side income.
This cam Fast track your finances. Not a get rich quick scheme but we can start from there. Reach out to me on 09091393836 (WhatsApp) if interested.
I really appreciate this ....what if I resign and my name was not on the list of the staff to be sacked?Moreso I have no other source of income...I don't want to take a rash decision which is why I came here for advise
Family › Re: Way Forward by Newborn27(op): 6:46pm On Apr 07, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
the above is called a LEARNING EXPERIENCE, which will ultimately help you become a better/wiser person. its all good!
I pray it does.....this is really huge on me....family and career not working well
Family › Way Forward by Newborn27(op):
Compliment of the season to all nairaralanders.

It's not as if I can't live without bringing my stories on nairaraland but I just know that this forum is safer and I can get the necessary information, advise, scolding, counseling and way out of my dilemma from matured minds here.

I guess I don't have to introduce myself,my predicament and job since I already spread my dirty linen on here.... I'll just go straight to the point.

I'm still stuck here in my dilemma, shouldering responsibilities, life has not been easy on me but I kept pushing....so I thought within myself, this 30k teaching job can't pay all my bills (rent, school fees, feeding, daily upkeep etc) I felt there is a need to diversify my income to make ends meet.

My school had scheduled a career day program ...I met with my Boss to please, permit me to sell the costume for the career day as people won't get easily here ...she enquire if I know where to get them from and made me to promise it won't affect my class as a Teacher....I promised to do my best and not disappoint her.she obliged .

I got a loan of #150,000 from the school cooperative society where I'm a member and embarked on the journey to Lagos State (Idumota) to get the costume.

I got around 15pcs of different careers and brought it to school to show the pupils to inform their parents.

Like play ,like play, parents started coming to order in my class, I started traveling to Lagos every Saturday for 4weeks before the deal day..... within the weeks of selling the costume in school...I started learning some hidden facts about life which some of them are:

*Nobody wants to see you making progress
*Your closest pals might be your worse enemy
*No human being is perfect

The problem started from co-staff discouraging parents from patronizing my product, to the headmaster sending parents away from ordering in my class that he even almost beat me up....then finally to my boss.... She stopped parents telling Them not to bother buying as they can as well put on school uniform.

All their thoughts were, I'm making millions as the parents kept coming, meanwhile the expenses I'm paying were more than my gain... transportation cost, POS, etc...

I became enemy of everyone, I regretted ever taking this bold step, the gain is not there and my time and energy are soiled into this sales, as our bus always leave the park in Ore 2am and get to Idumota around 6am.


The last straw that broke the Camel's back was the week that preceeds the program, I promised myself not to ever take any orders again but some parents begged saying their kids won't allow them to rest if they fail to buy from me.... after much plea I obliged and called my customer in Idumota to order some costumes on Monday which the program was Wednesday, the management can't give me a day off work so I pleaded with her not to disappoint me.

I sent her the orders and paid #402,700 for the Monday orders.....I was shown what "trust no one" means when I opened the box Tuesday around 3am at the park.....this trusted customer of mine ruined the glory of all my efforts in the past 4weeks....she packaged nonsense for me as goods....I wept bitterly that night then summon courage to go to school.....the day of the occasion came I got to school before 7am and parents and pupils had been waiting for me.


I received the insults of my life and some even called me fraud, criminal....I tried persuading some of them that it wasn't my fault, it was what I ordered.....many angrily collected their money back on the spot while others promised to come back the next day....in all my pleading and persuading moments I watched my back and couldn't see a staff on my side.

I wept bitterly....all my years of working here came crashing in my presence , I became perplexed and highly embarrassed.


All the gain I ought to have,I returned to parents and my image became spoilt.


After the day, I wrote an apology letter to the management on the chaos and appreciated the the opportunity given to me to sell in the school.


Since that day, March 9th ,I became the center of everything in the school, things others will do and they'd overlooked ,the management will take mine up.....someone hinted me this Monday that my name is among the Teachers to be sacked at the end of the term.....


I might appear strong facially but this is killing me inside.
I'm unable to sleep since that 9th of March.

Where do I go from here? What should I do?
This is the only source of income I'm having... please familylanders come to my aid.


As I'm typing this,a parent just came to dump the costume on my table saying she wasn't around before and needed refund.

I am dying slowly from all this....the burden is much on me,

What should I do?


Modified cc oldienavie
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Don't Call Us, We'll Call You. by Newborn27(f): 6:32am On Apr 02, 2022
[quote author=jabolo post=67442682]Bear with me, no insults thanks.

Alhamdulillah it's another Ramadan!
I wish you a prosperous season,may all your wishes and prayers be answered and may Allah accept it as an act of Ibada.


Aja!
Aja!!
Fighting!!!
Family › Re: Pregnancy Or Nursing Of Baby; Which Is More Challenging? by Newborn27(f): 11:44am On Mar 13, 2022
omostar:
With the baby at my back. I as well do as much as I can do of chores especially during those initial weeks following delivery. After my horrible sleep deprivation experience with my first, I made a policy of sleeping as soon as the baby sleeps and this helps tremendously with sleep deprivation and post partum depression, which to me, is more important than getting all the chores done.
Once the baby get used to sleeping on your back, you'd start all over again when you resume work and he/she is in creche.

Nursing is tasky.
Family › Re: Pregnancy Or Nursing Of Baby; Which Is More Challenging? by Newborn27(f): 11:40am On Mar 13, 2022
frozen70:
When the baby Wakes up you feed the baby by the time the baby is having after meal rest, you do the little you can do and sleep time you join the baby

I can't kill myself
Lol
Nursing is very challenging and tasky especially if you are a career mom without relatives around to help.

May God see all mothers through and make us eat the fruit of our labour over these kids in Jesus name.
Family › Re: Pregnancy Or Nursing Of Baby; Which Is More Challenging? by Newborn27(f): 11:21am On Mar 13, 2022
frozen70:
I prefer nursing baby immediately after birth because it comes with joy of having your child in your arms

No matter the stress of nursing a child after birth, once the child sleeps, you too start sleeping that's the only way you will recover

But being pregnant has some discomfort and unable to eat certain foods and do certain things
If you sleep immediately after the baby slept, how would the home chores be done?
Nairaland General › Re: Which Year Did You Discover Nairaland ? by Newborn27(f): 10:56am On Mar 13, 2022
2011 with nokia X2
Family › Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Newborn27(f): 1:31pm On Dec 28, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:
Explain Better.
Can't comprehend your write up?
If you don't get it..... forget about it.
#smiles
Family › Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Newborn27(f): 1:27pm On Dec 28, 2021
What if he/she possess all the listed attributes and you're in already with kids??
Family › Re: Hers Initiative To Assist 400 Pregnant Teenagers (the Bump On The Street) by Newborn27(f): 1:18pm On Dec 28, 2021
DoggoneDogg:
[s][/s]

I typed nonsense yet you couldn't correct the nonsense with your superior intelligence.

I asked you what harm will come to a pregnant woman's child if she isn't afforded preferential treatment and you can't answer till now.


You are brainless.
Failure to perform prenatal care has been associated with adverse outcomes during pregnancy and childbirth. Moreover, complications such as congenital syphilis, neonatal death, and preterm birth are strongly correlated with a lack of prenatal care.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Are Teachers Not Well Paid?? by Newborn27(f): 1:04pm On Dec 28, 2021
dingbang:
taught in a big school before?
Siñce 5yrs ago and till date
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Are Teachers Not Well Paid?? by Newborn27(f): 8:15am On Dec 28, 2021
dingbang:
Because you never meet teacher for big man school..


What do you know that would warrant you to be paid big money? You cant give what you dont have.. If you have quality stuff in your head then big schools will pay you big money
The said big schools are not also paying up to the expected salary based on the tuition fees.... the ill treatment from rich parents and their spoilt kids is making the profession sickening.

Teaching is not only ridiculed In Nigeria but all over the world.

The joy of a Teacher is seeing your students making it in life.some might come back to reward you.
Politics › Re: Amaechi: Some People Will Blame Buhari If They Can’t Get Pregnant by Newborn27(f): 3:38pm On Dec 26, 2021
AfonjaConehead:
you will be shocked at that person you are commiserating with o
There's something fishy about him.....come along.
I don't get?
Politics › Re: Amaechi: Some People Will Blame Buhari If They Can’t Get Pregnant by Newborn27(f): 3:24pm On Dec 26, 2021
money121:
Lobatan

Imagine

Na Buhari cause this one too  

Awon hungry vulture


SAMEWAY THIS NAIRALANDER BLAME BUHARI FOR HIS POVERTY AND SCAM LOYAL MEMBERS

ON THIs thread

https://www.nairaland.com/6906657/wife-just-gave-birth-bouncing

He lied that his wife gave birth
I just went through the post and it saddened my heart how desperate and cruel some people can be.....they are the major reasons why the sincerely needy ones no longer received help on nairaland again.

Eni ton se rere ko mura si

Eni ton seka ko mura si
Atire atika ko seyi ti ko lere....kaluku ni yoo kere oun to ba gbin.

@Americandad..... you were never fooled Sir.... your pure heart will continue to enlarge your coast and make the scammer's life more miserable..all the people problems he used in lying to scam others will surely be his portion in future.

Odunmi gan!
TV/Movies › Re: What’s Your Favorite Christmas Movie? by Newborn27(f): 5:05pm On Dec 25, 2021
A boy called Christmas
Food › Re: What Is The Cost Of A Chicken In Your Area? by Newborn27(f):
santakris:
Why is the bolded so cheap?
Reason is because majority don't buy embalmed chicken for Christmas..... everybody wants to kill fresh ones
Romance › Re: On The SPOT Pictures of an Overt Teenage Romance by Newborn27(f):
MALIGNANTGuest:
United States
..
Romance › Re: On The SPOT Pictures of an Overt Teenage Romance by Newborn27(f):
MALIGNANTGuest:
Hi,
My Lovely people.
The MEMORY VERSE:
Is we can't have it all in Life.
While I was driving to work, I saw these kids romancing and kissing passionately.
It's obvious they had this alluring fantasies of love all over them.

This is what we see everyday here.
Even worse during the winter.
You dare not touch nor scold them.

RAISING KIDS here to grow and keep up with the AFRICAN Traditional Tenets is not easy.
But it's also the responsibility of African Parents to try their Best that's if you detest such values.
Some send their kids home regularly, so as not to lose grasp of their heritage.

HUMANS are always products of dia environment.
It's Noteworthy to bear in mind that kids raised here will definitely fit into the context of this society faster than those who just came in, since the ones arriving will first be mesmerized with an entirely different reality about life.
Those coming over should brace up.
Thank you.
..
Food › Re: What Is The Cost Of A Chicken In Your Area? by Newborn27(f): 4:38am On Dec 25, 2021
Ore #8000 broiler
#10000 for noilers
#3500 old layers
#3000 for frozen full chicken
Family › Re: A Brief Recall of How My Wife Fed Me This Year, 2021. by Newborn27(f):
MALIGNANTGuest:
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin.
I'm suffering from FOOD ABUSE now!
Merry Christmas and congratulations for having a good cook as your wife.may your marriage continue to heed more good fruits in Jesus name.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please I Need Clarification With Kpmg 'o' Level Policy by Newborn27(f): 11:02pm On Dec 24, 2021
GboyegaD:
That was why I said he should just put my username in the description.

Can you please take his name off?
Abusi ni tolokun, abusi ni tolosa,......tojoterun, ile aladii kii gbe..... loruko Jesu,ina ko ni tan low yin....oun gbogbo ti en wo, to n munu yin dun koni dikoro....ise yin, ile yin, owo yin ati alafia yin aa maa tesiwaju sii.
Eti sodun yii, e oo se opolopo re tomotomo o.Amin
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please I Need Clarification With Kpmg 'o' Level Policy by Newborn27(f):
GboyegaD:
Hello house,
I was chatting with a younger friend and he told me he is having KPMG test this weekend however, in the text they sent to him, it was written that they do not accept combination of O Level results and you must have Maths and English at a sitting. Can someone please confirm if this is a mistake on their part or it is a new policy because when I graduated from school, all they wanted was 5 O Level credits to include English and Maths.
Thank you
.. thanks a lot sir
Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway By Twaci (2021 Edition) by Newborn27(f): 1:05pm On Dec 24, 2021
budaatum:
https://www.nairaland.com/budaatum
#i don't understand the link boss
Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway By Twaci (2021 Edition) by Newborn27(f):
Moonie911:
I dont really have much to give but I know Nairaland have helped me in one way or the other.
And instead of always saying "gimme gimme"
Let me give out something today.
It's not much but I hope favour locate me and I give more.

So 5h airtime to 4 people that quote me. If you are comfortable to drop your number and network

Givers never lack
Givers never lack
Autos › Re: Original Car Batteries Available. by Newborn27(f):
Springboot:
141samuel if you can afford this, there are 2 left.
!

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