₦airaland Forum

tayo60:
What goes out of your salary every month is too much, how are you able to feed or run d home?

I engaged in extra lesson that fetch me up to my basic salary monthly....only that it won't come once....3k per child....one may pay today and another next week....e no dey balance.

emmanuelbrown26:
I for drop my own advice but since u mentioned a particular name their, no need for my own advice, one of d names wey u mention na nuisance she sabi cause

Lol

I'm sorry on her behalf....I mentioned them cos they knew my story from scratch....I can't mention the whole nairalanders names kindly drop your piece of advice..it might go a long way in helping me.

Thanks

VeryWickedMan:
OP I can help you but you will allow me to suck your breasts

Na poison you dey write letter so.

I'm not interested.

anthonyuncle:
reduce the amount you are saving with the school welfare.

you shouldn't be saving so much because you hope to have access to loans

The savings is actually broken into 2

10k for rent and Xmas
2k for December foodstuff to be bought by the school so that amount is the least I can go

Good day family landers.
I'm here again with my epistle but I'm confused as the session is wrapping up I need advice towards the upcoming session.


Last year I posted my story here on how I shoulder responsibility with my 35k teaching job yet facing abuse from my spouse.

I was advised bymatured NLanders to start saving from my little salary to inculcate the saving habit and for future purposes....so far, since June last year I've been doing that and the results are both positive and negative.

Breakdown of the 35k monthly
2k compulsory savings (welfare1)deducted by the school to be given when you're resigning.

1500 tax ...I no sabi how dem calculate am

12k savings into school welfare2 where I can have access to loan of the double amount of my savings ..eg, if I save 100k I fit borrow 200k

10k thrift done amidst staff where we pick numbers to pack in 50k's (5months)


10k deductions for my 2kids tuition fees to be deducted 4times per term...they pay #21,500 each I only add money when we buy new uniforms or books and parties like Carol, career day etc



The positive part.


I was able to do a business in Feb-March this year from my savings... though it wasn't much but I gained close to 200k which enable me to pay my rent of 70k, buy a big generator of 95k(I bought this to as an asset,I can't keep it in my account I'd spend it without any good account for it basically on foodstuff)...pay my kids tuition fees of 61k and settled many debts I was owing.



The negative part
I discovered that since that last year's June I no longer receive salary.

Salary is just audio to me...when other teaching staff are buying new things monthly...I just remain the same no new wears... can't make good hair just #200 weaving and sometimes I borrow to buy foodstuff which I do pay with my extra lesson fees.



Since that last year...once the salary is paid my boss would always call me to pay her my minus i.e the excess after all the deductions, so I always have something to pay her at the end of the month ranging 2-5k monthly.


My question is

Am I doing the right thing?
Or am I taking the advice in the wrong way?

What can I do to enable me balance myself? The savings are helping but I no longer receive salary.


Please advise me on what to do...


Cc lalasticlala
Dominique
Royalty

Kindly push to frontpage for a wider view.
Thanks

It's not an addiction....coming here is never a waste of time depending on how you use it.


I learn here everyday and it's my only social media....no WhatsApp, facebook, twitter, instagram for me.

Seun really did a great job in creating this site ..you can never go bored on Nairaland as there are divers sections and sub-sections.


Above all....I no dey subscribe....I surf for free...it's cheap but develops my IQ.

Health360:
God touch d woman heart to repent.


Touch the woman's heart for what exactly?

she should face the full wrath of the law... imagine the victim being a family of yours and the breadwinner....



I dey like slim ladies ehh. they can fineeee!!

Na wetin dey kill majority of una b dat.

Na dat #slim, #fine enter her head thinking she was above the world...the said side chick that got pregnant might not be even 20% beautiful as she is.

Looks can be deceptive....marry a responsible lady not cos of the #slim and #fine.


My 2cent

GboyegaD:
Is this another name for black soup?

Yes..... it's called gbanunu in Ondo, eweta in Ikale, marugbo in Ilaje..... same soup divers names.

Joclebs:
Hi birth mate.

Happy birthday to us in arrears..
Llnp

GboyegaD:
Thank you.

#smiles

cococandy:
Thank you

#smiles

ILoveDemMANNA:
I have fixed it for u.
Only few supporters of terrorists, cannibals and murderers no like dem MANNA.
All of us sane and sensible Nairalanders love her dieee. I joined Nairaland because of her

Lol

Falseprophet1- for his prophecies

Cococandy- the way she dey carry her self....#classy

Nwamaikpe- he's a genius

Lalasticlala - the most popular mod on Nairaland and snake lover


GboyegaD - for his sumptuous meals

Jovialjune - for her foul-mouthedness

Pocochantas - for her matured and caring heart....I wonder why she tagged herself evening newspaper..... Sis you're wonderful


Above all.....the most hated monicker by nairalanders - his quote"never respond to swines" is really working....hate or abuse him/her he'll still confidently and proudly move to the next thread.


Nairaland had been a home to be.... I'm growing in every aspect of life here.. thanks to Seun Osewa.

Falseprophet1

And he always live to his monicker by seeing things.....I always smiled at every comment he made.lol

Dshocker:
Congratulations to people that have lost their senses?

At least they've been rescued alive alongside their captors .... things done to them can still be reversed.... only the dead has no hope.

Something is fishy.....why is MURIC earnestly concerned?...I hope this has nothing to do with politics?

Congratulations to the rescued kids.

Romanoff:
Sent

Happy New month ma'am.

I know my disturbance can be choking and annoying.... please pardon my shortcomings.


I have tried several username it didn't work.....I couldn't remember the exact username I used for this my newborn account....I only remembered that of my first lizzyangel account and it was because that account had been my only yahoo mail ID since 2010.


Can you please, send the username that appeared on the PM I sent to you so I can easily log in?
Please.

Romanoff:
I'll respond now.

Can you please, send me a PM on nairaland to enable me trace my email account....I can't remember my email address...I've tried logging in it ain't working.

Thanks

Romanoff:
Email will be better so I can always remember you. I don't give out my number on public forums.

Whenever you can, send me the PM, after you've done that, give me a mention.

I've sent a PM

Romanoff:
Email will be better so I can always remember you. I don't give out my number on public forums.

Whenever you can, send me the PM, after you've done that, give me a mention.

Make I try am if e go work.

Romanoff:
I don't have a link to these schools. But what I can do for you is to ask him to send me vacancies so I can forward to you.

I'd be glad and would be earnestly waiting for his response on this

What subject do you teach what's your qualification?

I majored in primary education.... I'm having NCE at hand

Send me a PM, I'll respond when I see it.

Hope you're okay with communication via emails?

I'm using Free basics to surf nairaland only....I can't guarantee my prompt response via email.

We can use mention since we've got nothing to hide....when our conversation is becoming confidential...we can use WhatsApp.


I'm really grateful for your response and would be happy if I can get a job and relocate through this....I'm not desperate....it can be next session or next year....they should just have me in mind.

..

Romanoff:
Guy, schools in Wuse 2, Maitama, Gwarimpa, Guzape dey pay well.

My friend that started as a guidance counselor started with 30k in one school in Lugbe, from there to Olumawu, then to Premier, then to one school in Gwarimpa. Now he works in a school in Maitama and lives in a 600k yearly two bedroom, e dey plan wed in less than 3 months. His salary is around the range I quoted there.

Teachers earn more than him.

My sister....I just weak.

I'm not a male....your status rejects PMs .... I'd have loved to ask more....can you please, help me or link me with any of the schools? I can travel down for the exams and interview ......I really need relocation out of here and the fear of the unknown kept ditching me.

I'm not lazy and I've got more than 10years teaching experience.....I can easily adapt anywhere in the world....above all...I've got two kids to cater for.

Kindly help me....this 30k don dey irritate me.

I can drop my number if you're willing to link me with a better school.

Laarokutu toriOlorun?!!!

You people should take it slowly on us Biko...... been craving for this meal for long but the price of yam and oil kept chasing me away.

Imagine one tuber of yam goes for#1800 and one bottle of groundnut oil is #1200.

God abeg pick up my calls.. I believe you're seeing my missed calls.... PLEASE!!!

Romanoff:
Depends on the location and other teaching certification you have.

I know teachers earning way above 300k monthly.

For this Nigeria?

Abeg link me to the school address.... I'm ready to relocate to wherever it is....I'm very sure I'd be employed once there is vacancy.... I'm sure of my skills and teaching experience.

Please, share the address of the school... I'm seriously serious!
Biko

I can feel the pain your family might be going through right now cos getting an abode in Nigeria is not an easy task for the masses ......I just pray your family get compensated soonest..... sorry for your loss bro.

You either get used to his ways or you quit.... don't endure hoping he'd change...you can never change such guy especially if he happened to be an introvert.


There might be some better attributes he possessed or have interest in other than chatting online...you may try liking what he likes if you're heading somewhere important with him.

ahnie:
Happy birthday sweetie,I wish you more wins.
Bother not,things would change for the better soonest.

Thanks so much ma'am

How are the kids doing and that your funny cousin?lol

Mindlog:
Happy birthday.

You have to make effort to build your social network. I also work with children but I have an active social life.

I'd be glad to learn one or two tips on ways to go about that ma'am... I'm stuck in my daily routine and it sucks.


Thanks for the wishes

UpInTheSky:
Happy birthday.

Thank you Sir

I rep June 14th.

Today is my birthday famz.

descarado:
Lovely. Heard that crayfish indomie is usually very sweet.
Na correct man abeg.

It's true
My kids won't take any other noodles aside from Indomie crayfish. The seasoning is richer than other products.