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Karleb:
Happy birthday.

Next time just tell your friends days before your birthday. Also, try to impact other people's life.

On my last birthday, I expected nothing and the love I got lasted me for the next month.

The issue is... I'd love to have friends but my job and kids won't give me the grace....even colleagues at work we barely see each other aside from work hours and you dare not leave your class to the next class here, na query.... weekends are always lengthy to me cos I don't have any new thing doing aside household chores....I can't remember the last time I spoke to a new person aside from work.

Cutehector:
you should speak up rather than expecting humans to behave like superangels.

Dont you have friends who yoh talk to? And what is your location?


Happy birthday

There are many reasons why I don't have friends....one is the nature of my job... I'm working in a private school where we barely have time for ourselves and the second reason which I guess is because I'm a broke ass nigga.... nobody wants to roll with a broke...even if I try making one...it will eventually fold up....I no dey upgrade....I no dey sub....no new wears nothing to gist about... that's why I'm always glue to work, kids and nairaland.


I'm not entitled to any human's attention and care though,but I just feel I'm lonely in my world.


Thanks for the wishes.

I give God the glory for the grace given to me to be among the living today, I couldn't believe no one remembered me except my parents,I believe I'd overcome someday by the grace of God.

Maybe by then I'd have many friends to wish and celebrate me.

I felt being in the world alone today..no wonder Yorubas says"iya ni n je tan mo? Owo ni n je mo ba etan? Keledua o ma se ori wa Lori iya.

Anyways..... happy 28th birthday to me.

H

I'm June 14th ... my while baby girl Kiishi is June 25th

He should travel as much as he can...it's called sent forth.

GboyegaD:
No, I am not.

Ok Sir

I'm sorry for the wrong guess.

GboyegaD:
Brunch:

Coconut cake made by my wife.

Dinner:

Rice with black soup.

Are you from Ondo State?

I asked cos of the way you always eat black soup and white soup......you even ate rice with black soup which can be done by a typical Ondonian

Hurray!

It's May 27th!!

I'm using this medium to wish Diye&Kiishi and all the kids in Nigeria a HAPPY CHILDREN'S DAY!!

You guys had been a source of joy to your parents, I pray your parents will never be sorrowful over you all IJN.


To all the TTC moms in the house, I pray your testimonies shall follow next year's children's day IJN .



Please Celebrate all the kids around you..... they're worth celebrating.

Lalasticlala

Praise the Lord!!


I received a message followed by a phone call from my Boss telling me to resume on Monday that my suspension is over.


Although my salary is meager and I felt like giving up teaching but I found my call-back as exciting as someone who just received a multi-million contract....

I don't know where I'd have been If I wasn't called back....."a bird in hand....is worthy than million of it in the bush"

I'd keep working hard yet watching my back to make ends meet before God finally answer my prayers.


Shalom

(☉｡☉)!

To God be the glory...I went to Idumota on Monday and delivered the costume to the school yesterday.... I thank God for the mercy journey.


This morning I took a step back, I went to my Boss pleaded for any offense of mine and also tendered an apology letter to the management.

I'm not prepared for loss of job at this moment and I can't see any alternative coming my way soonest, hence, I can't watch my kids starving or lacking anything cos of my shortcomings.....I was told their response will be communicated to me later as the school is closing today.


"Bi a ko ba reni feyinti, bi ole laari"

adeoyekay:
Ikirun,Osun state.
Your discipline ma?

Thanks for the offer, but I can't work in Osun state as a Teacher.


I majored in primary education PES

qekng40:
Happy belated birthday to your son
❤

Please send his pictures so I could celebrate him when I release my April birth month video. Check my signature for my contacts on WhatsApp.

Cheers!

Thanks for the wishes......but no pics... thanks

Teaching has been a part of me as I've had up to 10yrs teaching experience.....but right now I don't think I can take teaching job from places aside from Lagos State or Abuja.

I can do other legal jobs in any part of the country .


Please help a mother....I can't just sit idly around watching my kids go hungry....I need to plan ahead.

adeoyekay:
Do you still have interest in the teaching job? If yes there is an offer for you ,

Location?

Good morning nairaralanders.

I'm a mother of 2 who just lost her 30k teaching job due to some complicated issues..... I need a job to cater for my kids and I....I have my NCE certificate in education but can fit in every field once trained...I am very hard-working and focused as I have kids to cater for.


If there's anyway you can be of help to me or refer me to people,I'd really appreciate....I can work anywhere within the south west of Nigeria.

Please help me with a job, I don't want to be a liability on others and my kids are looking up to me.

I promise never to disappoint you once given the opportunity.

Thanks

CsRockefeller:
Okay CinC.

It's been a while dude.... how's life at your end?


My opinion on the topic is....try enroll her in handwork and set her up later... school na scam this days and she is an innocent village girl whom might grow wild on getting to campus....there are lots of distraction on campus that can make a nun become a single mom.

To avoid stories that touches the heart in future, train her informally and help develop her communication skills.

Happy married life in advance buddy.

Tekzyflex:
April 9th

Happy birthday to you.... wishing you many happy returns of the day . long life and prosperity.. .. yesterday was my son's birthday too.

Beremx:
shebi I told you when one door closes, another one opens? You see how God works? Wipe your tears my sister. Your journey into a new life has just begun. Congrats dear

Thanks Sis.... I'll get my WhatsApp installed and get ready for the tutoring ma.... please have me in mind.

I salute their good gesture and marketing strategy.

Ramadan kareem to all the muslims out there.
May Allah accept it as Ibadah .

In my sobbing and distress mood....I received a call from a school that they needed my help.... someone gave them my number that their school's career day program will be coming up on Wednesday 13th April...they never knew they could get the costume around until when they got the hint about me on Friday, they said once they announced the availability of the costume parents ordered for 18pcs just yesterday....I told the man It was wrong timing....that I wasn't in a good mood when he called and can't travel in my state...he started begging me he even came to my house with his wife to plead, so I obliged to try my best in going to Lagos for them. He gave me the list and made a transfer immediately.

This alone consoled me in a little way and distracted me from my depression...so, my people...I'd be coming to Lagos soon.

Writerz:
Newborn27. Kindly reach out to me via WhatsApp with the number I posted earlier. Or you can probably expect a text message from me detailing how you can start with content writing.

Just be still and know that God's with you. It's an opportunity for a greater blessing. Gracias

I've been trying to reach you...you were either busy or not hearing me clearly..... I'd appreciate every tutoring from you ma.

HUSTLER001:
Forget about career day. Go get your goods and come on nairaland or other platforms to advertise. You'd be amazed by the calls you'll receive. I once had two pairs of shoes I wanted to sell&then I posted it on nairaland(family section). I got a call In less than an hour and sold them for 10k and I am not even an entrepreneur.So my dear,you have a lot of audience to talk to. So just speak into the mike and let them hear you louder. I hope you understand what I mean. Take care!

I'd put this in mind, thanks for your words of encouragement.... I'm grateful.

oldienavie:
You can ask for advise and at the same time protect your identity and that of the school. With what you wrote, I can easily identify both you and the school.
I see you are not going to heed my advise, I hope you don't learn the hard way like those that have gone before you.

I'd take precautions next time Sir.... thanks for the words of advice....

Beremx:
it is well dear. When one door closes, another one opens. I have been in the same situation with you though not the same reason for being sacked. This is why am interested in your story. Stay strong and God will surprise you how he surprised me. It is well

Thanks Sis.

oldienavie:
Did it occur to y ou that your employers may have seen this NL thread ?
Why is it so difficult for people to take good advise.
I advised you yesterday to take down this thread and hide your identity.

I pray that you will get something better to do ,but in Nigeria with very few opportunities and millions waiting to pick up your job it is wise to avoid motivational speakers.
Especially those on this thread, they will just lead you astray.

Again, learn to keep your identity when looking for advise the internet especially NL is not so annonymous.

I wish you favour as you move on from this disappointment. You will be fine, but learn from this experience.

Thanks for your input Sir....I appreciate every word you wrote there....I never write the name of the school nor my real name only that I don't know how to lie and hide my feelings.

As far as I'm not committing illegal acts or spoiling the image of the school my conscience is cleared....even if this post is seen by the management all I've written is nothing but the truth.

It also happened during the storm between my spouse and I last year...I posted every detail on nairaraland knowing fully that he's a regular member....if I'm having anything to hide I won't be writing it all here.... nairaraland is where I pour out my heart...the insults and advices on here are my moving wheels.

Thanks

The deed has been done......I received a letter after closing hour today,on checking it, I reads *indefinite suspension*



I tried to be strong, cos I knew it would lead to this but I wasn't expecting it this early, examinations are finished and I'm through with all my work for this term.....I was told in the letter to submit every school materials within my care including the keys.....I wept bitterly..... this is painful! Life is cruel!

I'm adding this for the sake of the people asking me to resign......there had been a standing law that binds Teachers resignation without a full month notice....it reads.


Any staff that is resigning is expected to give the organization a due notice of one month in order for the school to get a replacement...hence: he/she will have to forfeit a month salary and the expected compulsory savings that was supposed to be doubled will also be forfeited.


It's an active law which many had been a victim of without knowing until the day the money is deducted.

Beremx:
when you are looking for another job, it is better to explain why you resigned voluntarily than explain why you were sacked. It is an honorable thing to resign but a shameful thing to be sacked. This is for your future reference when getting another job.
My worry now is if you resign, the school will think you’re doing it to avoid parents coming to ask you for refund of their money and the school will face the consequences

Now you're getting the clearer view of mine....I'm in a dilemma which was my reason for creating this thread.

Wetin make I do?

DontBullshitMe:
Make sure you don't procreate.

Ensure it ends with you.

"Dem no dey tell pikin make e no get leprosy, considering the fact that she can live in the jungle alone"


I already had two, a boy and a girl... which is my reason for trying hard not to make them go through things I've been through in life.....any positive ideas on things to do from here will be appreciated.