₦airaland Forum

sisisioge:
Hmmmmm....you sounded like the controlling lack of ambition type. That is why I dey always fear overzealous rightoues churchy people. Too much holes in your story.

Anyways, regardless of who was at fact, it's been 3 years now which is time enough for you to move on. She wont be coming back. As for the kids, you cant entirely take them from her,the best you can do is sue for equal parental rights. It is well. When a man marries a woman thinking he could subservient her in the ways of the old preached by the bible, he always gets shocked out if his sockets! Time has changed. If you want good, emit good. No right thinking woman will saddle herself with an irrational man and bear the ills associated with it when she can help herself. Good luck.

scrolldown88:
If you're life was so enjoyable and perfect, why then do you speak of implementing those measures to change it. Your entire post is a bit contradictory.

I find that most introverts are not being entirely honest with their introversion and desire to socialize. For the most part, a lot know that there's a void of social interaction that they yearn to be filled. But they talk as if they're living in paradise, yet talk within the same epistle, talk of implementing measures to switch up their supposedly perfect life. It's contradictory.
It's also an introvert delimma. I say this cuz I'm one

Amya:
Except you didn't watch the Diary section. It was Khosi Khosi Khoisi. I didn't kniw guyman was this smitten. He even asked Biggie for a cookie to give Khosi and Biggie told him to collect the cookie from Blue.

thejourney200:
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Kobonaire4:
SAUCE; Reflections on fuel subsidy. The Nigerian Guardian, 14 August 2022

ruggedtimi:
I am a neighbor to the family of one the victim. His parents/siblings ever since that incident they have been living quietly and isolated. They don't mingle with people around the estate especially the father of the boy. I havnt seen that man walk on foot for the past three years. You can't even park around their fence , surrounded with "Police order for no parking". So sad!

thejourney200:
Thank you very much for your kind response.

thejourney200:
Anyways, better late than never. He's been in the news with so many corruption allegations.

CallmeTrinity:
Dem no dey comment in romance section again because red pillers ti take over...
Na to dey open cooking threads na him dem dey do now

Burdenbearer:
Virgin over 40 dey but dem dey rare.

MMotimo:
I load and unload my online cart multiple times.
Takes longer to actually “checkout” my favourite items

pocohantas:
Tbh, I wanted to ignore it. You know I don’t like to quote them. But when I remembered how much he has denigrated marriage and black women in America. I say nooo, someone has to bell the cat. What is the worst that will happen? His followers will call me evening newspaper, but my point would be made. I never envisaged him deactivating though.

MALIGNANTGuest:
Never knew ISHILOVE and the Likes of others are still single and searching.
Honestly, we would have supported community wise. This thread is really revealing.
So, most of these LADIES are hellbent interested in marriage yet they address Men as scum, scumbags and dogs
Please between myself and them who is the worst hypocrite?

NaBanga:
I pray that I would be healed of this sickness. It came in January of this year and has not left. I ask God to cover me with the blood of Jesus and I that would be delivered and made whole.

mastermaestro:
Using the word some would have at least revealed that you have some commonsense left. Your education is a huge waste. The evil you wish on Nigerians will hit you ten times more wherever you are. Honestly, some of you foreign-based Nigerians think and talk brainlessly about everything and everyone in Nigeria.

You were too dead mentally to read the numerous comments condemning the act, the op's wife and her family.

Quote foolishly me and let me invoke your deportation. Bastard!

somehow:
How's this relevant?

qtguru:
Home wrecker

iykofias:
FIFA arranged for France to miss their PK

dominique:
Regardless what happens in this penalties, I'm extremely proud of Les Blues. They earned this finals with their hardwork, commitment and determination. No unfair penalties, no favoritism, no GOAT every referee wants to be in his good book. They are my champions regardless the outcome of tonight

FreedomArmy:
Keep shouting apc and you will soon buy it 5000 per plate. You foools think winning election is winning football match. I'm gently gathering my money to Japa

smile11s:
For each goal France scores, I will pick any random person who quotes me and send that person an urgent 5k.

Good luck

Maurindo:
It's alarming how most people don't see anything wrong with a man finding out from outsiders that his 2years old princess who he trusted his wife with was raped by his wife's 14years old brother and his wife didn't deem it fit to tell him about it.

Y'all should know the importance of transparency and trust in a relationship talk more marriage.

If she'd agree with her family to keep the daughter's rape a secret from her husband, she might as well agree to kill him tomorrow to keep same or other secrets.

tctrills:
That she is feeling bad is no excuse. She is an evil woman. A demon. She must have forced the poor child not to talk to her father about the rape.
If you really think it is safe to continue living with a woman that can hide your daughter's rape from you then you need prayers.

asapeola:
Oh Lord!!! I cringed reading majority of the comments on here.
1. A 2yr old girl was SERIALLY raped by a 14yr old boy and no one is seeing the criminal angle first!
2. It is a case of criminal negligence on the part of the mother first cos it wasnt as if she was in the village to work but to care for her sick father. So she left her child to the hyena and focused only on her papa. Excellent!
3. The deed(s) were done and she still had d mind to abet the crime by not reporting to the police nor informing the father of the child. Criminal!!!
4. The man still asked her why she's looking so disfigured and she cooked a big fat lie to cover up instead of confessing and humbly seeking for forgiveness. Perhaps the husband might have not seen her as an enemy. They would've agreed on the next line of action.
5. By covering up a crime, she's vicariously liable for the rape and incest committed. She consciously threw her own family under the bus to save her incestuous brother.
6. Her arrest is legally proper, however it's either the man proceeds with case to court so that the police can arrest other culprits including the rapist and his mother.
7. Police detention is not a punishment and u should not abuse it. Its either u prosecute her in the Court or u withdraw the case so that she can be released.
8. There's no more friendship after police case, so have it in ur mind, that ur marriage is scarred for life and ur relationship with ur in-laws is as well. However, if u feel u need time to heal, goodluck but I would advise that for your mental health, happiness and the safety of ur child and Future children, you need to dissociate from your wife and her family.

God be with u.

GoldSantana:
OP you wife did wrong keeping what happened away from you, but I don't think it's worth divorcing her for, unless you guys have other issues that is affecting the peace of the home.
Release your wife, and get the rapist arrested.

ibechris:
If u marry a good woman or man,u won't come here and be saying all this.

Marriage is the best thing that can happen to people,society and even a community generally.

Parenting
When a marriage produces a child or receives a child through adoption, it is one of life’s greatest blessings. Roughly 40% of children being raised today are in a home without a father. The effects of that fact are staggering. Father absence causes increases in mental and behavioral disorders as well as criminal activity and substance abuse. But when children are raised in a healthy marriage, they get a front row seat to see and experience the lasting benefits of a strong family.

So,with this, tell ur friend the consequences of having his children and wife not directly involved in their children's lives.

I call it old age consequences.

Marriage is good only if every party in it discovered that,it is not a resting place.

bestdudes:
The only thing I am grateful for is having a digital skill lol... i never collect 1 naira from Nigeria economy.. na Nigeria economy dey collect from me since January till now.

Juoflife1:
A lot of people are on this table . A friend once told me to learn how to be alone and enjoy myself without feeling lonely.
It worked.

Fabulouslouie:
Sorry man but investments is a game of patience.

Instead you could have invested in an ETF. Abeg no pray make Naira fall na