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Softboy001:
i got something from someone i didnt know yesterday,if it was you, thanks alot. it came at a point when i needed it the most. i was broke to the last kobo, the money i was expecting was supposed to come the next day, sapa (hunger) was holding me, the money i got was what really helped me, if its you, just know you save a soul, thanks. its was the timing for me

Softboy001:
Some people are so wicked and inconsiderate, about 2 months ago in July I packed into a smaller apartment. A room self con. I was broke and going through hard times. I decided to cut my cloth according to my size.

My neighbor that was beside me, was a single lady too just like me a single. But it was obvious she got everything cut out for herself well, giving the way her room was and the way she was putting on Gen.

Now like I said, things was hard for me, I could bearly eat. And it was still 10 days before they pay salary. I was hooked. Nothing on my hand. Where I was working, I won a bag of rice, as one of the best staff. But I didn't have gas or anything in room. Alot of things happened to me. Story for another day. I just rented the room. It was empty and sleeping on the floor.
Hunger wan finish man. I was just there with the bag of rice. So I decided to sell it. It was 25kg rice. So many people came to buy it. Some were saying 12k, some 13k.

When this my unfortunate neighbor heard that I want to selling, she came to beg me to sell it for her. 2 of my neighbors actually came.
1 said 12. But this my neighbor said 11k.
But because a room was closer to mine I decided to sell it for her for 11k. Just because of neighbors. I gave her the rice.
Give money turn to problem. She first gave me 5k. She said she will send the remaining in my account. And then that was it. Since then if I call her she will not pick, if text her she will not reply. She has been avoiding me.

It's been 2 months now, money I no see, am a very gentle person why I remained calm. Hoping she will pay.
How do I handle this situation without it turning to quarrel

ModestGal:
Lucky you. I'm also looking for an employee, I wouldn't mind training the individual

meobizy:
A Nairaland mod is trying his/her best to promote his/her aunt. I don’t give a Bleep who she is.

PresidObi:
Decency in action

We don't want party thugs or jobless party agents that will take money and compromise their positions.

ObiDatti will raise the bar in government administration, by the end of 4 years, many Nigerians who ran away from Nigeria because of hardship will be rushing back to take positions in the new emerging Nigerian economy which will be fair and present everyone with a level playing ground.

You don't need to know a senator to get a job, or to know an army officer to access foreign currency at government rates.

tonididdy:
Na funds and opportunities make u feel say japa na death s3ntence.

When you go to the whiteman land, then you will know that Nigeria is a hell hole and there is heaven on this earth!

GloriousGbola:
Counselor Walters - we need you to pop that booty

thats my secret cap - I always pop that booty

Romanoff:
You are a rapist. Even if you buy her the world and she turns down your advances, it's rape if you force her against your wish.

I pray the law catches up with you and I pray all the females in your lineage suffers the same fate as the women you sexually abused.

Amen.

Coldie:
Guy are u a troll, how would u remember such a thing.

U see y I said am scared, for u to remember this then imagine people who have direct experience with me, that’s y am scared

DaddyGideon:
Good day Nairalanders
I've been a regular member in here but I'd decided to open a fresh account for the sake of privacy, and please pardon my typographical errors or probably correct them for me cause I like learning.

So here's the thing, I've been working for someone as a labourer for the past five years in a small private company. A very stressful work and very time consuming that I see no future in it and its affecting my health at the same time causeI always look stressed up, however I've been able to save a little over 3 million within this period of time. But your man is getting old, am 27 and by now I'm supposed to have a sable business of my own I should be doing.

Now am planning to leave the work cause to me it seems like I've wasted all this years cause I don't have any single skill to start with, I have no knowledge of any business to venture into and if I decide to go and start learning handwork it will take me more time, hence my confusion.. So many thought have been going through my mind. if I should relocate, buy a small car and start uber business or if I should look for a way and leave the country, or if I should just venture into business.

Please guys what do you advise me to do

goodamerican:
Are you sure this happened? Because the way you lie on Nairaland...

Blessedmercy8:
I wonder at the people that go about engaging someone in a relationship when they know theyre not interested in that person. Isn't that madness?

I never see that person that will try it with me.

If I'm courting you and you blank me more than three hours a day, even if it's for genuine reason, I'll send you a painful and unbelievable text and end it. No time to waste.

Gr8mike:
Yeah, you do.

Gr8mike:
CCNA, CCNP, COMPTIA, , MSCP, ITIL, PRINCE2, and I learnt from online videos, IT groups aand forums and on the job, I had wonderful mentors coming up over the years right from secondary school.

Gr8mike:
Hospitality industry,

I am mainly into Computer Networks, Cyber security, CCTV installation, Windows Server management, Hospitality Solution, and many more.

MALIGNANTGuest:
See what NIGERIA is pushing our youths into

Karleb:
It's tradition.

The whites killed black for sport. Them no fit suppose dey teach us morality if we get sense

CaveAdullam:
1. It is an evolutionary instinct. The egg is expensive and sperm is cheap. Recent data still have it that men engage in dangerous affairs just to secure mates. Muscular strength and risky adventures are peculiar to the male gender because they want to secure territories that correlate with having more mates.

2. Men have a slightly lower life expectancy than women. Sperm is produced in millions for a reason. This is the reason why men go extreme in attaining status so that they can take advantage of an expensive ovum because it doesn't wait for any man and will soon expire - menopause.

3. Remember: what every species cares for is survival and reproduction in the genetic pool. If you can't survive today, you will not be around in the next 100 years via your pedigree. Men are simps for a reason.

4. Evolutionary instinct which took millions of years to be ingrained inside the feminine psyche cannot be obliterated within a short window period. It will take millions of years again to undergo another rewiring. Take note: evolution by natural selection is slow, gradual, and only takes place when a species is threatened. If women are comfortable in this contemporary age, that instinct remains.

5. There are a lot of changes in our society today, and we do expect humans to accustom to those changes while neglecting our biological makeup. If we don't study the effects of genes on behaviors we will continue to murmur and push blames. It is not all about genetic code and make up, but it is the king at the top of the ladder. Environmental influences cannot be left behind. Both are allies.

6. What we see in our contemporary age makes the feminine nature expresses itself unrelenting.

A. Woke culture has emasculated men. And women are not after these men but masculine men.

B. Marriage laws and customs cater the feminine propaganda. Women always get what they want from the government/family law.

C. In the global south, Africa to be precise, where poverty reigns and rules, women don't go for men lower than them or even at the same level as them. She doesn't because of her maternal instinct: the egg is expensive. Selling it at a cheap price will be a pain on her nerves when she discovers along the way that there are other higher bidders. This is the economics of sex. And it is while women always filter men in search of the highest bidder, however, her fertility and eggs are at risk.

D. Based on this economics of sex, men don't mind going to the extreme to secure eggs because they know that they too are at a disadvantage if they don't spread their million sperms.

E. Here lies the concept of feminine entitlement mentality, feminine hubris, and belligerence. Since both the highest and lowest bidder of eggs wants children and sex, they don't care for self-development. Same behavior of marketers when they discover that their products are in high demand in the market. Women are good business men.

7. Social media is another tool in the hands of these beautiful creatures called women. They now have leeway to scout for higher bidders on different geographical terrain within the comfort of their bedrooms.

There are 80% men at the bottom, and women will never consider them but gravitate towards the 20% of men at the top of the hierarchy. This sexual market deregulation is a result of the inequality in the economy.

If you find women around this 80% men, it is because they haven't found any higher bidder opportunity despite the economic instability. A woman always wants something higher and better than her.

8. What about the withdrawal of marriage right from traditional laws and religion to the state. These which have acted as a benchmark to checkmate women have been vitiated.

Feminine nature is amoral, but if the bulwark of morality and tradition is stripped away from her in addition to the porous economic and political, and social terrain, they cannot be expected to play calm and reasonable.

9. Women who choose to stay and build with a man from the bottom have already projected into the future and know that their man is prospective. However, at risk of her fertility which will culminate in a successful adventure if her man succeeds.

These women are outliers, they stake their odds on the national kerfuffles that prevail. These are the women who have strong patriarchy surrounding them and have developed themselves in feminity, character, modesty, kindness, humility, and respect.

These women may lose in the reproductive game (nobody can predict the future) but they will win based on personality and character - these are the kind of women men want to deal with. Unlike her inconsiderate counterpart that couldn't place a hold on her hypergamous instinct, she will lose both ends.

10. If men don't value their commitment these narcissistic women will never self-develop. These women will always win anytime or day.

11. If the economic inequality doesn't reduce to a minimum, creating a chance for men to utilize their potential, be creative, powerful, and become successful, women will be contemptuous of 80% of men. Men will simp. And women will never self-develop and still win.

Thanks.

salbis:
Good one from the Judge. Morals must be restored on our African continent.

omenka:
That's the irony. They can't steal same in their country but had to come all the way down to to because we have security and government officials that aid and abet these acts of sabotage.

It is very saddening indeed.

CaveAdullam:
1. The way he's a fugitive to his fraud victims is the same way his girlfriend is a fugitive to him. Now, he understands the feelings that come with being a victim of a scam and other fraudulent activities. Thief catch thief. Lol.

Ok, that's for that.

2. Say no to crime in whatever shape, style, and color. But be ruthless in the attainment of genuine goals and ambitions.

3. Women have men they love. No matter what you do for them they will remain loyal to that man. Rich or poor, it doesn't matter.

4. You cannot buy a woman's love with money. Showing her money from the onset is like exposing your wounds to dogs. They will lick and parasitize on you till they fill their stomach.

5. If you are a rich man, weigh every word of your sexual partner twice, thrice, several times. Same with other people.

They don't love you. What they love is your money.

6. Don't be blinded by love. Romance is an adventure for men, but many men have fallen there without being able to rise because they were not wise and proactive in their dealings with women.

7. Your woman should not know the secret of your business. Don't allow romance to make you become an open book and easily predictable. Refer to 6 above.

8. Once a woman starts pressurizing you, you must take time to know the underlying factor responsible for it. Most times, it is a way of manipulation.

9. When people hasten you to do something, they probably have something to gain. And they will abandon you if the results backfire. Thread with caution.

9. Avoid every form of a long-distance sexual relationship. The cost always outweighs the reason or benefit behind it.

10. You don't monitor or spy on women. That's a fool's job.

Once you suspect any ulterior motive caution her. If it persists, disown her. Time spent acting as an undercover should be channeled into other productive areas of life. With women, guts and intuitions take the lead. Then, follow with reason.

11. If she allows other men in her DM and space when in a relationship, it means you are still an option. This should make you never take her seriously. Just fun and cruise.

Women can only be loyal to one man. If she's not, she's for the street. Refer to the 3 above.

12. Don't take women at face value. Before you commit to her, you must examine her thoroughly.

You will know a woman's true color when you are poor than when you are rich. In the presence of abundance, manipulators are attentive and pretentious.

Who stands by you when you are poor? Who wants to exchange value for value with you? This is a litmus test to determine the quality of people you should take as acquaintances.

13. If she's not consistent with her behavior dump her. Except she's ascending.

14. Don't spend on women that have not submitted to you. (Marriage is the seal).

15. Men and women can't be friends. But if she insists, never spend. Only reciprocate kind gestures.

16. Don't believe every word women say. Judge their character and words. Refer to 5 above.

17. Better to help men than women. Ungrateful people abound, but in the scenario that anyone will help you when you're in a tough challenge, the probability that it will be a man is higher. Women don't associate with losers. (Even the poor man she's loyal to provides her emotional feelings and things other men can't).

18. If you want to help a woman, help her father, brother, nephew, boyfriend, fiance, husband, or son. These people will help her. But you have helped them to better their lives and they can now help their women.

19. Don't fall for romance because it will ruin you as a man. Guard your edges in your dealings with women. Refer to 6 above.

20. Say no to fraud. Say no to crime. Truth, logic, wisdom, and integrity no matter how ignored or bastardized are the only savior that can help us as individuals and as a society. Money is material and can never erase their importance.

Thanks.

GoooodHardDick:
Prepare your mind for a New Nigeria. Peter Obi has come. Nigeria’s turn has come.

From a Twitter president, he was promoted to a Tribal president.

From a Tribal president, they promoted him to a Christian president.

From a Christian president to president of Nigerian youths.

From president of Nigerian youths, he will be promoted to President of Nigeria in 2023. It’s a process and we are happy with his presidential journey.