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I find these discussion quite funny, because every time ethics and morality are discussed many people always bring up the Bible to justify their morality. If you need the bible to behave ethically, go ahead, the better for you, as long as the end result is a more ethical stance. There is one thing thought that never ceases to surprise me. Do not always use the Bible to support your argument. Almost every possible postion can be argued from the Bible. The Bible has been used to justify civil wars, persecutions, torture, slavery and war - and it has equally been used to justify the exact opposite positions. Now back on topic. Concerning divorce, just as in all ethical dilemma's, you need to weigh the good against the bad. If you're in an abusive marriage where your partner neglects you, beats you up or is unfaithfull to you, then you better take the route that causes least grief to all parties involved. In this case that will usually be a divorce. If you are too immature to compromise in your marriage, then seek help and try to salvage your marriage, especially if there are children involved. But above all, get some life experience before you jump into a marriage. To put it bluntly: there should be a law forbidding people under 25 to marry. The risk that they do not have the maturity and/or life experience to make such a commitment is just too great. The truth of the matter is that there are hardly any cases where divorce is 100% negative or 100% positive. It always causes grief in one way or another, but you should take a choice that causes least people least grief. There are no absolute truths, no absolute rights. these are always relative to the situation and your relation to others. I consider these indignated moral majority positions immature posturing, in a lot of cases carried out by hypocrites |
WesleyanA:This part makes me think again about why many Christians have such a self-centered view on their religion's role in history and especially about the infallibility of the contemporary interpretation of the Christian faith. There are no records of the life of Jesus by any historian of that time, none whatsoever. The only writings we have are the apostolic writings that later became part of the Bible. Writings that had only a propagandatory role within the early Christian communities, for which the scientific discipline of historical criticism has found that those writings were copies of each other and for which no text could possibly have been written by a[b] contemporary of Jesus. [/b] Actually one of the few non-christian historical references to Jesus, the account by the famous Roman historian Flavius Josephus, is a later addition to the original text by Christian copyists. Other sources do not even entertain the possibility of a historical Jesus, but only make references to the many Christian sects that sprung up after the destruction of the temple and the banning of the Jewish people. There is actually no conclusive evidence that Jesus actually was a real person. In view of the religious traditions of that time, it is even more likely that the gnostic interpretation of a transcendental Jesus, a mediator between the sphere of the divine (Heaven / God) and the mortal world. Through Jesus could the people of the world reach a very limited understanding of God, as the divine sphere is beyond human comprehension. In this Christian tradition, there is no and has never been a historical Jesus. These Christian sects were harshly persecuted by the established Roman church up 'till a point where hardly anybody even knows about them today. To learn more about this, you can always have a look at the following address: http://pages.ca.inter.net/~oblio/home.htm |
Dorcas:There is no correlation between whether or not you follow the bible and what befals you. Why else would ther be so many faithfull dying the most horrible deaths? |
allonym:It's not only fighting it, but also the money spent paying witchdoctors for their spells, etc |
[quote author=Hnd-holder link=topic=2412.msg85727#msg85727 date=1130225346]nferyn you are an Authority in this field explain the human motivational aspect of it.[/quote]No I'm no authority. I know some church history, but that's about it. I dont fully understand your question about the human motivational aspect. |
Seun, In the mid to long term, this is a losing battle for the US anyway. * they are running into gigantic debts * their trade balance is horrible * they're going to have to pay the piper once those countries investing in US bonds are going to sell off their US investments * they're military overstretched, entangled in wars that only deepen the hatred for the US. true, only the US is military capable of waging offensive wars, but they are not capable of invading or challenging either the EU, China or Russia without creating a nuclear wasteland, something they'll never do * by using the Dollar in a loose fiscal policy to the US advantage, they're undermining confidence in the dollar, the strict anti-inflatory policies of the EU central bank (stability pact) maker the Euro a much safer bet * the reliance on services in the US is much higher than in the EU. The strict laissez-faire capitalist attitude is undermining their production capacity (less production and manufacturing is shipped from the EU than from the US). This only lasts as long as the economy is growing steadily. Once the real-estate bubble bursts in the US a lot of people are going to get hurt * Infrastructure is less diversified and less well maintained in the US than in the EU. Urban sprawl in the US is making them very dependent on cheap oil. The EU is more capable of adapting to permanently high oil prices * there's some more arguments I can come up with, but I'm too tired. Going to hit the sack Anyway, point of comparison: late British Empire, late Roman empire - Imperial overstretch is the name. Not that the US would become a nation of beggars, far from it, but the dominance of world affairs will soon be over |
layi:No, you were not. If I feel strongly about a subject, I can appear to be a Mr know-it-all. Comes with the passion layi:I'm far from brilliant, I just matured a little ![]() If only I had 10% of the insight I have now when I was studying, life would have been different My personal motivations in the matter come from the history of what my parents had to go through because of a fundamentalist catholic upbringing. I do respect people that feel strongly and emotionally about their faith. Religion - for those that subscribe to it - should be a beacon of communalism and moral values - something that is sometimes lacking in the more fundamentalist churches. When religious people get literalist and close their minds for opposing views, especially when they hold political power or have a big influence on politics, it can become quite dangerous. If I think about the way in which embryonic stem cell research has been opposed in the US, i get quite sad. Closing so much promising avenues for medical progress, possibly even cures for Alzheimer disease, other neurological disorders and paralysis brings down my spirits. That's why I feel so strongly about the matter. It's not religion, it's the fundamentalist, literalist tradition that gets to me. |
@ layi I just re-read your reply to mine again in which you capitalised the way I put my arguments one after the other. You are indeed right, these can come out as insulting. It was certainly not my intention to do so. I hereby humbly appologise for the way i verbally mistreated you. Won't happen again. ![]() |
goodguy:There are a lot of reasons that cause the economic depression of Nigeria, most of them external to Nigeria. Technological developmet is usually a seeding event where people from different locations build on the development from others. There are no inherent characteristics that prevent any people from helping : participating in that development. The application, use and spread of technology is another matter entirely, that is rooted in economical development. My point is that all resources (time, money, other material resources) that are spent on fighting/doing witchcraft, prevent them from being used for society's good, which isn't helping development. I do not like the term backward, because it implies a hierarchy of values. |
layi:No, I have nothing against Christians per se, I actually like quite a lot of them. I do have something against ignorance and - point taken - I was using a too confrontational style. My appologies. I was fired up because I thought you unjustly brushed aside the arguments from WesleynA, using her age as an argument to dismiss what she wrote. If indeed it was just joking and teasing, I leave you to it and again my appologies for the tone. I do humbly ask you to reconsider your position and enter the debate nonetheless, I will soften my tone and rest assured, there's nothing personal about it. Could you point out the remarks born out of ignorance, because I don't find them layi:OK, My bad, I was just trying to defend the poor girl from a frontal verbal assault. ![]() layi:Now here I think you misunderstood my position. I never questioned your intelligence, nor your sincerity. It was a harsh tackle, but not a faul. Anyway, I got a bit carried away by the perceived attack on WesleynA and writing always seems harsher than real life. Sorry My point is that I like debating strong Christians. It sharpens my ideas and teaches me a lot about the Christian point of view - even if I disagree |
layi:Layi, I will excuse myself beforehand if I misread you here, but your tone is very inappropriate when debating someone. On the one hand you're applauding WesleyanA, but on the other hand you're using her age as an argument to lessen the value of her reasoning and to declare victory by forfait (U tried). Who's the 15 yr old here? Especially since your argumentation is partially based on changing the meaning of certain concepts and then expanding or limiting the scope where appropriate for your argument. A common debating technique among Christian Apologetics. (Feel free to start a thread on this, we'll have fun Do not consider yourself a superior debater to WesleyanA if you write things like this: layi:Care to explain? Please read some Pinker (e.g. The Language Instinct - http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/0140175296/qid=1130190732/sr=8-1/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl/026-6153652-6379612 ) or Chomsky (all of his linguistic works, not his political ones) before you make statements on subjects you know nothing about. |
Layi, layi, layi... I just don't know where to start in replying to this post. I am not going to start a point by point refutation, because there are mountains of evidence contradicting everything you put here. I'll just take a few as example and lead you to the sources. This way you can expand your knowledge as well. layi:Who did? Sources please layi:Have you ever heard about plate tectonics? It explains how land masses are formed, and how rock formations that were once oceanic end up on mountain tops. A perfect example are the Himalayas, where the Indian subcontinent collided with Eurasia to form the Himalaya mountain range. And just look at a world map, look at the shape of Africa and the shape of South-America. They fit nicely together, don't they. Look up how continents were formed, how that supports evidence of speciation differences in different continents (both on a morphological and a molecular clock level - e.g. molecular clock evidence in the DNA of old world and new world monkeys show that they have a common ancestor at the time Africa and South-America were still attached. Evidence from genetics, evolutionary biology and geology nicely supporting each other. Not one instance has been found that contradicts the findings of these scientific disciplines. And fossils can be dated by radio-carbon dating, again, bad luck, modern physics is in full support of evolutionary Biology. Doesn't quite fit the great flood timeline though. And just think about the logistical nightmare Noach must have had fitting all these millions of species in his ark, even symbionts like Koala Bears and Eucalyptus trees. Noach must have had a nice orchard of Eucalyptus trees on his ark to support his Koala's. Poor Noach. And what an accomplishment of wonders indeed. Building an Ark using bronze age tools in wood, he would have needed more wood than available in from all trees on this planet to make his ark sort of structurally sound and even than it would have collapsed under its own weight, let alone letting it take up the high seas. He must have had some impressive pumps preventing the ark from making too much water and that without combustion engines? What a giant Noach must have been. Go here for a more thorough refutation of your idiotic flood fairy tale: http://members.aol.com/darrwin/flood.htm http://www.atheists.org/evolution/morrisdebate.html (this is actually a debate, you can even find some arguments to use to convince the gullible) layi:Take a look at this, you may not like it, but it could bring some perspective to your beliefs. http://www.skepticsannotatedbible.com/ And, what doesn't kill you[i](r belief)[/i] only makes you[i](r belief)[/i] stronger, so take a chance, dive in and tell the world about your experience. |
allonym:The funny thing is that there are quite some Indians that want to expose all these guru's withdoctors, etc. as these people prey on the poor gullible underclass and extract the little money they have left from them. I once saw a programme on National Geographic channel about the supernatural in India and the skeptics struggle to expose these frauds. This is an interesting link: http://www.indian-skeptic.org/html/rules.htm |
@goodguy Can you come back on my chinese lesson. I'm intrigued by it, I do want to learn the ancient arts ![]() |
goodguy:That's a gross misrepresentation of my position (if you're addressing me, of course ). I do believe though that the focus on witchcraft and other supernatural nonsense is using up precious resources that could be put to positive use.Your statement about India doesn't mean anything as it stands. Try to substantiate your position by being precise instead of throwing around generalizations. What do you mean by technologically most advanced? How does that relate to witchcraft? Where is the causal relationship? And even if you could establish that relationship, how does that have anything to do with Nigeria? If you can elaborate on that , than you have a position to start arguing from. If not, the statement is free of content, redundant to the highest degree. |
I think Seun summed it up quite nicely. If you want to have a positive impact both for yourself and for Nigerian society, his suggestion is probably the best route to take. I do feel a little uneasy with his choice of words though, as they may lead to an unwarranted antagonism: * Take the white man's money and send it to Nigeria * Stay over there, earn a lot of white man's money, It is not the white man's money - whatever that may mean - it is [b]your [/b]money. [b]You [/b]have the qualifications, [b]you [/b]earned it |
Now, to get back on topic: What makes you personaly take the position that the Bible is the unquestionable word of God and how do you relate that to the obvious contradictions we see with the knowledge we gained through science and history? I would very much like to focus this discussion on how you handle to contradictions |
If I remember correctly, during the Council of Nicea, held under the authority of Constantine, the established church decided which texts were to be part of the Bible and which texts wouldn't. The bishops would decide what were divinely inspired writings and what weren't. The result was that a lot of books that went against the established order and state church were scrapped from the canon and thus wouldn't make it into the Bible. Among those texts that were rejected were the gnostic gospels and the gospel by Thomas. It is important to note that only a very specific interpretation of the life and the teachings of Christ were witheld: those that did not reject the state authority, the hierarchy of the church and the spread of Christianity in the Roman world. Therefore: * the more apocalyptic texts speaking of the coming resurrection and rapture were rejected (later to be re-added to the protestant Bible) as they threatened worldly (Roman) authority * the role of the Roman administration in the sentencing and execution of Christ was downplayed, putting the blame almost entirely with the Jews - and later leading to the anti-semitism of the church * the gnostic interpretation of Christ - where sometimes even the very existence of Christ as a living human was questioned - was complete ejected from the canon (except the Pauline letters that could also be interpreted according to the official doctrine), leading to a fierce persecution of all remaining gnostic communities The inception of the Bible as an official 'book' was a highly political game that led to the establishment of the church-state symbiosis, where the church gave credibility to the worldly rule of the Caesars. There was very little divine about the whole process. That's why it always surprises me that some people take the current incarnation of the Bible as the yardstick for all morality, knowledge and questions of life and death. If only those people would know more about the history of the church, they wouldn't have such a fundamentalist interpretation. |
allonym:That's very reasonable actually, you discuss the matter and try to reach to a common understanding. Please do forgive me if this whole thing led me to other conclusions regarding how you would settle the matter as you were talking about * government control on how you [b]discipline [/b]your child * it is the duty of the husband to [b]discipline [/b]the wife when she goes and spends all their money of course you also said (which escaped me, I must admit): * Correcting someone when they do something wrong is called disciplining them even if they are adults I did have a different take on what disciplining actually meant. The Oxford English Dictionary describes disciplining as (see: http://www.askoxford.com/concise_oed/discipline?view=uk ) 1. train in obedience or self-control by [i]punishment [/i]or [i]imposing [/i]rules 2. [i]punish [/i]or [i]rebuke [/i]formally for an offence Both definitions imply the use of coercion, something not belonging in a relationship between equal partners. That's why I acted so strongly |
layi:If you explain it that way, you're right. That's not what he wrote, though. I don't see any indication that describes witchcraft as only an act. Now back on topic. Suppose I perform some sort of witchcrafty ritual (an act) and you don't believe in joining me, you don't want to have anything to do with it, you don't believe in it because you know it's bullshit. If that's the position, then OK, I can definitely live with that., but that has not been the position that was defended here; The problem starts when people believe that those witches actually have supernatural powers, that they can cast spells and the like. |
whiteshark:And you probably need someone with a foreign account to store his funds safely - for which you will extract a meagre commision for the temple |
goodguy:No, I don't understand. You don't believe in something that you know to exist ![]() This statement is illogical |
allonym:I'm sorry, but I stil don't understand. What exactly would you do in such a case? Can you be specific? |
holyghost:I have absolutely no idea what you're trying to say here. Can you break it down in understandable chunks? This is chinese to me - and no, I don't speak chinese |
goodguy:There is video footage and lots of eyewitnesses. they can find out who was there if they want to. goodguy:Sorry goodguy [/b]if I have to cut in here, but this here is [b]making my blood boil. So if I'm understanding your position correctly, we should do nothing if terrible things happen to people, after all, God could prevent it and he didn't, so who are we to judge? Here you're using religion to justify inaction in the face of a terrible crime. You know, when the crusaders were sacking Montségur in the French Languedoc, they used exactly that kind of reasoning. When they were about to enter the fortress, a knight was asking the question to his superior: How can I recognise the heretics from the true catholics? There was a simple reply: Kill them all: men, women and children. God will recognise his own These are the ethics of a medieval ignorant barbarian, I hope they're not yours. |
allonym:Sorry here, I thought you meant using physical force. I really don't know how you would do that though, can you be more specific? One thing I wonder : why would she use [i]your [/i]money. Can she not provide for herself? allonym:Is it? Based on what are you concluding this? allonym:I don't think that makes much difference as far as transmission of the virus in concerned allonym:The government - at least in a democracy - represents the collective interests of the population and is not the big bully around the corner; The best solution would obviously be if the woman were to come to her senses herself. The government still has the duty to protect the community interests. |
Scorpio:Well, at least there's no burning at the stake involved. I only hope few people will act upon their beliefs. I'm interested though at the witchcraft taking place at the Oba's palace. What's that all about? My wife told me that you can only visit some area's there and if you go somewhere you're not supposed to go, you just disappear |
Scorpio: Still waiting for proof ![]() Honestly, I very much enjoyed our discussions here. Maybe we should start talking about the negative impact of a belief in witchcraft on Nigerian society? |
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I understand it easy to get things mixed up since all we all we can see his the writng (and not the motives). Its all good. Apologies accepted. I hope i wasnt insultive callin i Mr know-it-all. I'm sorry.




