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Remove pride nd kneel down,what is there nau?me,I wldnt have waiting for him to even remind me to kneel down nd talk abt divoce again before he get used nd tired of hearing it nd then insist on giving it to u.always keep calm when he is angry nd even when u are on ur rit nd hav something to say nd then call him when he is calm.

Yes,I can

frederal: Can anyone see the fire?

Signed,not in suport of this evil act.

Yes,some truth are better left unsaid

REALITY101: Lying to his family?

May God 4give u for calling ur creator a gay.

0monnakoda: Shut up! What does God have to do with this.We don't accept homosexuality because it is alien to our culture full stop.We are not "Godless" but we are a nation full of raping and kidnapping,419,child marriage,drug dealers,fathers impregnating daughters and using humans for rituals and cheating in exams etc. Are we more godly than any other country?
It is always the brainless that invoke God's name in debates
There are so many good arguments against homosexuality in our country and none of them has anything to do with God.Why is it when it come to this we remember God.Do you need gods to tell you not to eat s,hit
When it comes to evil Nigeria is probably the most godless place on earth so spare us the "God" crap !
There are so many forces that pervert the minds of men everywhere and plenty of that in Nigeria too so stop the brainless generalizations. Homosexuality has been around long before America or the West. So it is NOT a western thing .At least America gave the world the Internet.What has the "godly" Nigeria contributed to mankind. Please mention one thing of value that has come out of Nigeria.
Your Jesus probably was a gay anyway!

And what GEJ has been doing to him is lawful?

slimming: It is unlawful for the Governor to do that.

What if u buy a RR today nd it gets stolen 2morro,what happens?u spend the next 1 to 2yrs more looking for another 5million?nd even if its not stolen,u will still keep spending on the car on a daily basis.u get married now that u don't sound really readynd divorce 2morro,(which I don't pray for)the whole money will still be gone.what I can tell u is invest ur money nd when u hav enough to throw arnd,u can then buy ur RR.all the best.ote author=snthesis]dear NL members,
i need your advice.
i am in my late 20's got a good payin Job, unfortuntely/fortunately met a beautiful angel 5months ago ( twasnt planned). a few hours ago was almost tempted to ask her to marry me, but sum1 interrupted our blues.
so I'm back home, and contemplating my decision to settle down,
economically, it would involve
1. moving out of my rent free abode- accommodation (2yrs+ Agency) =1.9million naira
2. furnishing = 1million naira
3. wedding hall = 1million naira
4. entertainment of guest (traditional + white wedding) = 1million naira
5. Honeymoon tinz = 1million naira
grand total for settling down = 5.9million naira

alternatively
i cud just buy a tokunmbo Range Rover = 3.5million naira and use the change to be a "Bigs Boy"

i have the said money, so i aint sourcing, so pls by fellow NL members what should i Do, PROPOSE, marry, and settle down or buy a RANGE rOVER AND BE A bIGZ bOY. [/quote]

lar82: We started the relationship close to two years now and she confessed that she slept with her brother before she became born again. Indeed she is a very fervent and a gift to every worthy man but her confession is now hurting me as every thought of it struck my heart and my back always pains me. What should i do because i truly love her because she was sincere from the beginning by telling me all that happened between her and her immediate brother.I need my emotion to be stabilized.HELP!!! Thanks

I think is the english that is messing me up here,u mean she slept with her biological brother how did it feel doing it with ur brother?nd people are callin the poster names.if u can't live with this,just leave.some secret are better left unsaid.

Neither did she say she goes to work too mtcheeew.if can't do all those,what then is her duty as a wife?(Mrs I know my right)so if someone comes to their house nd as why their toilet is not washed,she will be bold enough to say,her husband doesn't want to wash it?u better give ur advice nd leave.uote author=esmeralda1]From where I come from,its the woman's duty to take care of her husband nd home.does ur husband not take care of ur needs nd that of ur baby?I'm not saying its good to be dirty but this is were u come in as the wife.how can u even say he didn't wash his toilet nd bithroom for 3months?while he is out there struggling for money to take care of the home,u shld be taking care of the ones he can't do.nd as for the boxers,anytime u see him repeating his boxers,tell him(baby,ok ok its time to take the boxers off)nd make sure there are clean ones for him to wear,wash the dirty ones nd u will see him changing boxers every day.if u keep nagging him abt those things,he will be forced to get someone who will be doing those things without having to complian.what is there is u comb ur husbands hair if u feel he is unkept.call him(baby,dirty man)any time he messes up the toilet or the house but still clean it cos its ur duty,yes it is cos if u force him out of the marriage,u will be the one to cry later.goodluck.

The op neva said she wasnt working or makin money in any way, so in ur place the women sit at home 24/7 doing nothin but house chores n wait for dear hubby to com put another baby as them be the factory,mtcheeeeew. @op i can just advise u pray about it n talk to him lovingly let him see reason as to y u need him to be neat for the children's sake if he cant do it for himself, but first put it in God's hands as there's nothing God cannot do.[/quote]

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Siena: @ Nicky: Much as I agree the OP should look after her man, there's a limit. Cleaning up after someone who refuses to change is one thing, it's quite another to lift him into the bath, and scrub him. And prevent him from wiping nasty stuff off himself with clothes he puts back on!

And how does she prevent him from spitting, unless she buys him a muzzle? He's a grown man, they have a child, and another on the way. The wife should be teaching the little one how to be clean and decent, and not have to do the same with an adult! C'mon!

he might be a grown man but still her baby.shld they break the vow they made or she shld kill or keep nagging his life out just b'cos he is dirty?if really she loves her man nd wants the marraige to work,those things are nothing.

From where I come from,its the woman's duty to take care of her husband nd home.does ur husband not take care of ur needs nd that of ur baby?I'm not saying its good to be dirty but this is were u come in as the wife.how can u even say he didn't wash his toilet nd bithroom for 3months?while he is out there struggling for money to take care of the home,u shld be taking care of the ones he can't do.nd as for the boxers,anytime u see him repeating his boxers,tell him(baby,ok ok its time to take the boxers off)nd make sure there are clean ones for him to wear,wash the dirty ones nd u will see him changing boxers every day.if u keep nagging him abt those things,he will be forced to get someone who will be doing those things without having to complian.what is there is u comb ur husbands hair if u feel he is unkept.call him(baby,dirty man)any time he messes up the toilet or the house but still clean it cos its ur duty,yes it is cos if u force him out of the marriage,u will be the one to cry later.goodluck.

It depends on the kind of girls u are talkin abt.is that not ur pix on ur profile or u still remain for house nd to even say u are choosy makes it more funny.u dunp them cos u don't hav the money to keep living the kind of life told them abt u.u lie to them nd after sex,u dump(girls of ur type)them cos u think they might dump u first when the find out the truth.

fubbyy: I keep wondering this, when I read ,share stories with friends I keep hearing how it feels to get dumped or how it feels for a girl to say its over

I want to get the experience but why can't any girl dump me nor say its over, why am I always the one saying its over and doing the dumping

Am this kind of guy that have one purpose of having a gf which is 5ex, and when I get it plenty from a particular person then I feel its time to leave but out of pity I can't just be that blunt and callous to say its over when she never did anything wrong

The more worse I get to make her break it the more she loves me, I even went to an extend of flaunting other chicks yet they stays,despite I have no money(jobless graduate)

What can I do to make a girl dump me so I won't be blamed because I have one on my neck now, I have gotten my share from her Womanliness then its time to leave so I want her to leave by her self

When u don't understand something,u don't talk.quote author=Harbosede02]wat d hell!do u eva fink u can buy a lady?[/quote]

Buy her nd everything will belong to u.u hav been staelin for so long nd who knows u might run at the end of the day.

sleekysol: Need ur inputs Nlanders if a gal you have been dating for 2yrs suddenly tells u she can't visit u anymore cuz her pastor told her not to ave sex with anyone again. To crown it all this gal is 27yrs... Graduate and working

I'm just sorry for u.u just think u can say anything u like nd get away with it.if someone does same thing to ur sister or duaghter,what wll u do?next u will say is what took her there in the first place.u can say what ever u like,I hav told u my mind.nigerian girls this,nigerian girls that.I'm sorry for who ever will be ur wife.

190-the-clown:
^ For PHUCK SAKE man JUMP ON that ABUNNA and HIT IT HARD


Have u bought condom!

shes waiting for you man- Damn- these kind scenerios 190 nor dey slack

My dear,if he keeps reminding u of his sisters needs when ever u ask him for something,then dump him nd get someone else.don't mind some these girls telling u to ask ur father or u are giving women bad name,they are just acting perfect only online.I'm sure the even demand more than u from their boy frnds,even those that has it all still sometimes ask or some guys asking u to locate ur father,some are even maga to that specail girl that gives them sleepless nite.dump him nd let him Bleep his siesters

MizEmerald: When i asked my boyfriend to help me financially,he simply reminded me that he had two sisters that also needed the same thing i asked for,i think he'll start being intimate with those his sisters.

I see nothing wrong looking for a wife here.it doesn't matter where u met ur wife,what matters is the connection.I'm sure some of the people calling u name,will go at the back to e-mail u.some people came here cryin that they needed husbands,a husband came calling nd u started calling him names"why?if u can get good advice from this site,why can't u get a good husband too?the way some people label people bad nd evil,I just don't get it,that is to say me,u nd every one here are evil.but ur demands are too high.with all those things u mentioned up there,u are indirectly looking for a perfect woman.all the best though.

My dear,don't rent ur own place,stay with ursiblings,settle what ever problem that comes nd let them know u are nolonger a baby.go out decent people nd go to decent places.I don't believe u can get a husband in the club but even if u must go,go with male frnds that u hav nothing with nd behave urself.don't date guys that are not sure when they want to get married nd make ur close know u are ready to mingle.

Happyness_Chima: Good day nairaland. I'm 31 years old female, single and unmarried. I want to get married by the end of this year by Gods grace. All the men that approach me either are unsettled yet or one problem or the other. At first I wasn't desperate, but I don't know what im doing wrong. I have a good job and travel to the UK often but still haven't met any man that's prepared for marriage. When I go out to have fun, my siblings start complaining that im attending parties and staying out late too much. Is it in our parlour a man will marry me? I'm trying to enjoy life by looking on to the bright side but still feel empty inside of me. What else can I do to get married at least by the end of the year? Any others I my shoes can input as well.

Yes tell him its positive nd find out if he really means well for u nd then tell him u just wanted to know his reaction after u must have heard what he has to say.quote author=Peach45]After I broke up wit my guy late last year,some of U̶̲̥̅̊ may ve read d story here on nairaland.started goin wit a guy february dis year.so d guy told me dat if I shud get pregnant dat he want me 2 kip d baby dat he is old enuf 2 ve a child cos he is 32yrs.so recently I told him ve nt seen my menses which is a lie,n he ask me 2 a pregnant test 1st 2 knw if its true n am plannin 2 lie dat its positive.wat wil b his reaction if he found out dat am liein.wil he eva 4give n trust me again.pls ur candid advice[/quote]

Well my dear,u hav started nd u can never stop even if everyone ask u to.how can u pay for a guy to keep u?hope u will also pay before he marrys when u finally ask u to nd then pay to keep him married with u?he is not only using u but also sees u as a fool.he can never marry u so is better u keep ur money now so u wldnt hav to lose all to that greedy fellow.he feels u can't do without him so he is just making use of ur emotion.

Eye opener,open it for us nau.uthor=Amb.charles]I jus pray God opens the eye's of imolite to see that this man is the biggest thief ever#hw can he forgive a man when he was at fault driving himself off the convoy line....he gave the man 200k to fix a 230E mercedes that collided with a sequi bullet prove jeep#will he aver repair he's own car and continue using it.....i pity the poor masses of imo state who are yet to open their eye[/quote]

What I feel is(not sure though)his mum is the one pushing him to marry u,so he might be doing it just to pls his mum.maybe he has someone he trully loves over there nd his mum doesn't want him to marry outside ur tribe or nigeria.when u show a guy that u are all for him nd can do anything for him or make the relationship work,he will start acting up.so what I think u shld do is,start doing does things he does that gets u mad.leave him to do the talking when he calls nd contribute when u feel u need to nd when he starts to complaining just say(I'm sorry)nd continue with what u are doing untill he is ready to talk abt both of u.never compain abt any thing he does that u don't like.don't show him that u want marriage cos such person will be so pissed with u when he feels u are after that nd u will start irritatining him.so act like u don't really care nd let's see how it goes.goodluck.

Face is just So matured.I pity blackface though,dude is going through a lot rit now.business not doing well,ur wife left u landlord effects u nd finally,friends deserted u.2face is just blessed nd too blessed to fall again.don't worry black face,u will still make,infact I'm one of ur fans now.can't talk abt u nd 2face cos one,2face my personal person.all the best black face.

Sweetie,every guy cheats.for the fact that he told u the truth means he loves u.that girl is trying to take ur place so don't let her.didn't she know she wld get pregnant when she was doing it?didn't she know she was prengant at the early stage?or is this her first time of getting pregnant in her whole life?y did she even call u,cos she felt ur guy was scared of telling u,so she decided to tell u herself so u will 4give both of them nd allow ur guy get married to her?my dear don't let her ooo,let her go nd give birth in her father's house nd suffer for her wickedness.u hav no business with her,its u nd ur guy.

buklan4real@yah:
pls i nid help. i need advise.

my 4yrs fiance impregnated anoda gurl..
d gurl called me yesterday nd told me that he has bin denying it i shud pls forvgv her
she knws we truly love eachoda.

i called my guy to hear frm him, i beg him to tell me d truth
he said truly he Were Intimate with d gurl buh he is not d responsible for d baby

my question is why did he SEX d gurl.

am in serious dilema nd depression help me pls.

Hahahahahahahahaha,protection indeed.can an armed robber rob his own house?

stjudas: Allahu akbar...... Allah may u guide ur own as they fight against those who fight against Islam. Thanks for protecting ur mosque.

I hate men who are solomon akiyesi in nature

I don't seem to understand u any more.don't let us make mistakes here.u never loved her nd she was playing games,still u married her(cos of pity)pity her for what?when u said she had other suitors.u don't love her,u are not romantic,u don't give her attention nd she is misbehaving.I think u shld start from urself first,work on those things she is complaining abt nd see if she changes too.how can u both be living in a lovless marriage?settle ur home.

If her people are siding her,then let her stay with her people.her father is not a good father,if not,what he wld have done as an elder,was to call u aside nd advice u as a son(wld he have said such thing to his son)even If he felt it was too early or not a good reason to bring his duagther back.u say what happens in ur house not her people.u were just her best option not her choice.don't go to her people for any advice,if they need u,they shld send for u nd ur words shld be the final not her father's.

Well the only advice i will give u is to threaten to send her back to her parents nd if she doesn't change,than u send out of ur house nd by the time she comes back,u will see how good she will be come nd don't even bother calling her while she is away.its very clear she never loved u.u were the only one who truly loved her while she was still single.she went home to check her suitors out so y didn't she marry those ones cos they didn't find her good enough to be then she came back to the one nd only man who will any shit. She does.she was just tied of moving from one place to the other,she needed a place to call her own that's y she married u in the first place.are u really sure the kids are ur?(Just asking)once a woman starts climbin that tree nd u don't care to bring her down,once she gets to the top,it will be very hard to bring her down cos u gave her the chance to go that far.tell ur wife,is either she respects ur orders or she goes nd get her own place,that what makes u the man.

And if I may ask,what is the offence of the christains killed in the north.if u can answer this,then I will answer urs,cheers.

luluosas: You just ask me: What has the Mosque and Islamic institution got to do with the jailing of Okah in South Africa? Is this how Nigeria my dear country finally will end? God help us.

Well at this point in time,I don't thing any country will accept any nigerian,even the ones in other countries wiLl soon be sent back home before boko boys or mend goes after them in those countries nd u know what that means?nobody can allow what is happening in nigeria 2day to happen in their country.I pray this people will not get so mad at us someday,lock us up nd start killing all of us.I just dey fear for my life.

Mzsolex: uh? say what?... wow it's obvious this shyt is going down before 2015, mehn i think i've got a relative in cotonou.

My dear,if u see the pix of their wedding,u will know that the first wife is so pretty.she is 8month pregnant that's y she is looking that fat nd ugly,u know pregnancy has a way of changing people nd making some people look ugly.it happens to my sister,unlike that desperate big bread.wicked man nd woman.to think I used to have a lot of respect for the man.I pray this doesnt take him to his early grave.where will he start to beg,his wife or wife's parents?fool.

cheddarking: If that is his original wife in Pink.....I can see why he ran away