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I'l wash her wintos instead

Egoistic wimps, Mr. Am- a-man, Madame It's his funeral,

It wouldn't kill you if you help with domestic chores, as long as you are able. And if you don't, simply because you feel it's his/her funeral or because am bigger than that, I have no issues. But what do you gain ? Money, an Olympic medal or Fame, ?

For me I can do anything as long as it doesn't rob me of my health or make me an irresponsible person.

After all the essence of coexisting as in a relationship is to maintain stability through mutual understanding in enjoyment and suffering If you no fit. Jump into the deep blue sea. If you can't find one set yourself ablaze.

For me it's not a big deal I live in Europe the first day I visited my boss house, a man that employs 50 wokers in his company I got surprise to see him washing plates with plaesure, since that day I took it like anything normal doing my family thing. Please lets modernize our AFRICAN IGNORANT that we called culture and know we are made for each other. my ability to do domestic works increase my business capacity and professionality.
LET BE HELPFULL TO EACH OTHER WOMEN ARE NOT MADE TO BE SLAVE RATHER TO BE LOVED BY WHOEVER HAPPENS TO HAVE ONE.

No big deal. We ladies are not mean to be maachines.

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we are not slaves

yea, its no big deal

@Seun. Though we are in the 21st century but how many people have washing machines here in Africa. Even here in the west ,you will be suprised that minorities still don't have machines and yes I live here in the west and I do not have a washing machine.

@author. I do my lady's washing sometimes and she does mine most of the time. I do not see her as my slave but my helper.

Dont c no biggy dere! if i could i would

I don't have any problem with washing my partner's clothes as long as there's is a washing maching in the house. I can wash with hand if needs be, but machine gives you time to do other things and it washes better than hands anyway.

I do not wash my own clothes, so I handle his clothes the same way I handle mine.
Like someone rightly said, there are other things to do with one's time but if you are a man who still
feels this is one of the things a woman is made for,, no probnlem, simply marry a woman who feels the same way!

i think it could be cool to wash your partner's clothes (or even undies) esp whn u've got the energy. and i think it's cooler if your partner offers to do your laundry. that's why it's TWO, makes everything easy!!

@topic
oga sir t, he be like say u go ask your granma to find u g/f abi na wife direct for village. Dat one u fit tell am "duties". But sha pray make she no open eye for city wey u dey, otherwise
And there is even a bonus, she no go complain about your wakabout with other women as men who declare duties are prone to do.
For me, I have never been in a situation where I need to wash my partner's clothes but I always volunteer to iron them as often as possible/needed.

Why nt?I can do it 4 luv and wat r we friends 4?its nt only 4 enjoyment, its very un4tunate cos my guy dont lik keepin dirty clothes,luck me. [color=#550000][/color]

Yes i can wash my partners clothes . Just like you said my PARTNER we are a team.

Yes i can wash my partners clothes . Just like you said my PARTNER we are a team.

Yea, i can do it comfortably. It will even make her to have more regard for you. If you can wash your partners undies, clothes or ven bath him/her, you are building your emotional bank on each other. If you can cook for your wife (once a while), she will ever be tied to you.

it isnt a bad idea at all as long as its from a genuine heart,go ahead my landers.

No big deal, i can wash my partner's clothes using wash/dry machine.

@uspry
Y not the hand

i beg tell me the big deal in washing her clothes wen i know i love her. make i hear word jare!

[s] Imma wash up her G strings and get 'em ironed [/s] sorry, i mean dry clean up her cloths

with so much love

why not? if a she can do same for u. it doesn't matter what u do but what u have in mind while doing it.

Yes, I will as long as he'll do likewise when the need arises.

Yes, no big deal! I can wash my partner's underware.

most men feel arogant to luv in this area, forgetting that when you walk up to a her, what you say to her is I luv u and not "I partially luv u". So I believe when you say you luv, u shld show luv in everything.

@ All,

Thanks for various contributions. But don't start what you can not finish especially the guys in the house.

If the guy has money and gives it out at will, the lady will ever wash his clothes including his boxers (few guys wear real undies thesedays) and it all depends if she is a graduate-mum-at-home ( many of them thesedays) or just a house-wife-at-home type.

Washing machine: you got to get the machine first and generator to power it when you need it. Help:she or he may be going into the real undies, u know where I mean. This is a family problem aside resources being wasted. Because someone is getting fed and paid and gets 'screwing' when the coupledom isn't into sincerity and faithfulness.

Guys should get ready to pay back when their spouses or partners do the laundry and that is not only in bed oh!

why not, if you care and love her,
that should not be a problem.

i for one av never done it for any patner but i really dont see anything wrong wit it as far as my patner is ready to return the gesture.

@ poster

Personally, don't have a problem wiv it.

@pmdaboh

Very nice analysis.
Have you not noticed that the African society is quick to list what a wife's responsibilities are., but when it comes to the only responsibility an African man seem to have, sentiments begin to fly, you start to hear things like

'He cannot kill himself if he does not have' but no single excuse is acceptable from the woman.

why not, i can wash her clothes , the question u need to ask is if u can wash her gees or pants!! can u ?

i just begin to wonder what is wrong in washing ur wife's underwear, whatever name u like u can call me but me i can wash her gstring, bra and anything not even with a washing machine but with my hand o.
i see nothing crazy about this afterall she's my wife and completely mine and part of me
, y so many men are not real here