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IlekeHD:
It didn't work [even with the removed t] . Another link?

I love South Park

freshvine:
Coogar I don't know how old you are but certainly acting childish to appear super man over this issue.

Stop implicating your self owning to most of the allegations here your attorney could kill with lack of wanton evidence . Learn to keep quiet for whatever you type him can be used to put you away. Allowing your ex to run circus on your vulnerability is dangerous. Go mute and kill of the momentum and I can guarantee yyou that your silence will calm a roaring lion.

Don't call Babe, don't text or even appoint mediators. If you do she'll leverage on that to spit more venom and the whole peace process would entwine with no headway but in the process keep all your communication channels open to her. When eventually she reaches out, please stomach whatever vile she emits and use wisdom to bring her to negotiations. Always sound nice to her instead of being repulsive and with time she would hope this drama never happened.

Finally, if* you're a con artists, you'll have your day someday with justice.

queenzena23:


Oulala quoi?


C'est tout ce que tu peut dit en français ?

airmark:
Oga dont derail this thread ooo, cos coogar will come now and tell us stories how he was born in france and all that.

Vivalavida99:
Lol

But we have French nairalanders, so...?

Vivalavida99:
Damn!! it took me hours to catch up on this thread, to the parties involved,please try as much possible to resolve this issue amicably.

There is saying in French that says : " après l'amour c'est pas la guerre".

coogar:
still very busy....
i will be back to address the ignorant bastärds talking trash on this thread.

fasten your seat belts - there's a sting in the tale. in the next 3 hours, you would all witness why it's unwise to label coogar a scammer.

tick tock, bïtches!

pickabeau1:
Nihilist


The first indicator of the quality of decisions is the consequence and whether it was an intended one

If you are now saying that does not matter or that nothing really matters... good for you

That message was for guys to be careful of women who intend to reinvent themselves after years of liberty and licentiousness without any inward or real change

It is clear and to debate some philosophy which will not change the impact the PTSD 'd women will inflict on the men

Simples

pickabeau1:
hehehehehe.. now this is funny

This attempt at deconstructionism is funny

Are u emo?

Anyway I am not ready for a philosophy debate

pickabeau1:
Nihilist

Making a bad choice or two is miles different from making a string of consistent bad choices

TV01:
Run young man run - Part II

I’d also like men to be keenly aware of how individual females and also “the herd mentality of women” will work together to blind men to these very pertinent facts.

Be aware of efforts to white-wash the past, resist slut-shaming, campaign for divorce, sell single-motherhood or divorce as of no consequence (or outright good), Be aware of advice that sells immorality, or justifies any action based on “feelings”.

The notion or claim of “love” is often used as a justification for any action, or excuse for any wrong-doing. It’s literally been endued with a moral righteousness in and of itself.

Note the kind of advice that counsels women to be economical with the truth, or simply lie about their pasts. Also beware tropes such as “what happened in the past is past”, or supremely annoyingly “it’s none of your business”.

All of this you will see repeatedly here on NL. A theme repeated across threads and from posters many look up to. If her future is your business, her past certainly is.

Query advise that tries to sell the result of destructive behaviour, of poor life choices as something one needs “heal from” – did she pick up a virus of get hit by a car? Bad choices were made based on character – and if the character was not properly formed, then one must question if that kind of empowerment is good? In any event, the consequences are damaging.

It’s not healing that’s required, it’s a character overhaul. And yes, there are some people who can achieve this via self-will, but they are very few. It first requires acknowledging, and then real effort to overcome.

Many women would rather just lie to themselves and everyone else about who and what they really are, and re-direct fault for the cause of their woes and trauma.

So here’s a caveat, as a Christian, I believe in redemption – people can change, but only the grace of God can bring about a lasting change of nature and true healing. Not just to mask, or forcibly resist destructive behaviour – which will ultimately reveal itself or manifest in other ways - but actually hate or have no desire to engage in it, and be free from it’s echo.

IFF you are sure a woman has been truly redeemed, should you consider her as spouse. And note, not only will she be honest about her past, she will be rightly acknowledge it as something she sees as wrong, and clear about how she intends to live in future. If you are not God-fearing, and looking to Him as you seek a spouse, OYO.

I’ve said it before and I’ll repeat it here; most women would be better served by staying under parental authority (especially their father’) until they get married. Especially in this age where the temptations are myriad and liberty can come at a relatively early age - before character is fully formed. In an era when everything is fluid, morality is relative and the pressure can be tremendous.


TV

^{...if you wouldn't accept a bruised piece of fruit, why settle for a damaged wife?}

coded01:
I heard; "Even if you have an IPhone 6 Plus which has a screen of 5.5-inches, you would still have to scroll down to find EPL's defending champions"...

IlekeHD:
I'm now a sir?

Okay o

IlekeHD:
Abi o. I know how honey dey flow from Yoruba men's lips

wonlasewonimi:
Your egbon JustKay3 no fit call me a child not talk of hunchback midget like you... So in the interest of global warming and the carbon emissions produced when you open your mouth.... I repeat STFU!

BoboYekini:
Agege, ogba, bariga, obalende, okota, ipodo, lekki... Guy, I be Lagos boy.
What's your guy's initials? Imma deny anyways..no offense.

elrony:
#50Cal ...?

elantraceey:
Hahaha, I can see you want to strike a convo with me but sorry I will no longer grant you that pleasure.

elantraceey:
Then get off my mentions

elantraceey:
To you ? Of course. Of what use could I possibly be to someone like you?

elantraceey:
I find this thread totally unnecessary.

MaziOmenuko:
Nah, more like a Poker player. In chess, we defend our reputation king with all we've got. We play our evidences knights, bishops and queen to make this point. We don't wait till our opponent clears our pawns and opens up our defenses before we castle to protect our king.

Chess players don't wait till they lose all pieces before fighting back: while poker players reserve the best for the last, chess players bring their best and end the game before it gets to 3 threads and 107 pages each.

And it is obvious your opponent has one extra jaybee queen, extra airmark bishop, extra sunlesunle knight and an invincible extra rook waiting for the endgame.

Its checkmate staring at you bro: your move...

Dhellake:
If Chelsea signs Higuain, he won't give us 20goals in a season even if he spends 10yrs, Costa not getting goals is not an isolated case, it's only a reflection of the whole team, only few strikers can excel here, surely, Higuain ain't part.

If we buy Higuain, he'll be back in the transfer market before he even settles in

chic2pimp:
Oya meet me at the back of the shed lemme show you where those lips has been

naijaboiy:
[b][color=#1980BC]From what i've observed,,i believe that Babe still loves cooger and she only played all these stunt to get back at him. Something like to get back his attention.

It's not as if she hates him or really wants him to go to jail. NO. There is something she really wants and that is for cooger to come back to her and make peace. I think she has been really hurt.

Maybe the way it ended wasn't nice at all and she was the one at the receiving end. Now she doesn't have anything else to draw his attention than to threaten him with his alleged scam business and bringing it to Nairaland where he usually frequents.

She acted out of her emotions and not her brain and i'm sure that somewhere inside her she has that feeling of withdrawing from all these,but on the other hand she already has a lot of people who are surging her on.

Hmmm...

Taking this thing back and forth on NL will not yield fruit at all. The court has already been divided,with some people standing for babe while some others for cooger.

I think the best thing which should be done as everybody has been saying all along is for you both to take this issue off line and settle it amicably. [/color][/b]

dopeJemi:
Yeah, but igbo, shayo and ashawo is all you know if I slap you