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joylegacie7:
damnnnn............................ not in my life i can ever imagine a man bring family matter to the public... so childish though, some women are more matured sha........

what do i know just my own opinion

Will you shut up? Is he not anonymous...

No mother in law will try that rubbish with me that I will not confront very sternly. That's bullshit! In my own house? Is She to tell me how to rule my house..and even how and when to Bleep my wife..wtf...Why are some men here so stupid and fearful. To hell with her. I don't take nonsense especially when someone is trying to control me.

Some people said he should go out and Bleep...so if I'm Hot in the morning or in the middle of the night I have to endure cos one stupid. jealous, depressed mother in law is around? That can never work, not in my house..she can pack out if the noise is disturbing her.

ebonyggurl:
I know exactly how you feel. Take heart bro. Right now I'm thinking of standing up to them. Instead of wasting years pursuing something that I hate and will regret in future.

The earlier the better for you.. cos you are going to be the one to face the consequence in future...Its better to try at your dream and fail than not trying at all. When we make decision and fail, at least we can own up to responsibility and forge ahead.
Most of those fear we had about our parent then are unfounded..fear that we will be neglected..But its a big lie..even if we rebel against their decision, they will still try their best to support us unless they are not our parent.....At least the prodigal son in the Bible did worst, yet he still got some support. And again.. I've come realise that religious parent are usually the worst when it comes to parenting.. They feel they know it all, and can be too authoritarian without considering the feelings of their children. Thats why I I'm presently irreligious...

Right now, I'm starting life afresh again...its painful seeing wasted years, and reality is hitting hard....I know with another dose of patience for a couple of years I will chart another path for my life. This time...I will never listen to any advice coming from my parents again.. cos its only bad and traumatising and memories of bully I have about my childhood and growing up.

ebonyggurl:
If I rebel though, I could be tagged as ungrateful. I just wish I could do things that make me happy. not looking forward to next school holiday at all

That was the fear I Had then...but there are children without Mother or Father who still made it in Life. When I look back I regret never following my own wish, and dream for my life..I regret allowing my parents to influence my future decision even when it was against my will. I regret I was too scared cos I was raised to tremble in fear of my parents, to have no say. no opinion. I wish I had told my father that I will disown and disfather him when he used to threaten me that he would disown me if I disobeyed his authority and decision.

ebonyggurl:
This is my life right now

I wished I had been more stubborn....I wish I had been rebellious.. I just wish. Parents sometimes make decision without looking at the children's feeling

My greatest regret is being scared of my father, following his career advice and allowing him to be too authoritarian on me.

TANTUMERGO007:
This man go don fukc this woman

Taytay....na her fucking she use strike the deal of Regina

Femeto:
@NiRfreak Who is saying Mikel is not good? He has passed his best and needs to retire. He is not the best player in the team and we are not expecting anything spectacular from him. Etebo was player of the season at Middlesbrough in the same league he played.

I can see you are very sentimental with no wit, the current Nigeria team is not ready to play in major tournament with no leader, not even in the midfield where we have mostly redundant defensive players that has no central main man. When Mikel was at Etebos age, he was being vied for by top Europeans teams...Even at Chelsea, Juve and Inter Milan and many others begged him to come which he dint for personal reasons.
Mikel is not our best player.. then who? Which player has Nigeria discovered yet that is dependable with experience as Mikel?
Etebo was the player at the league he played This is how sentimental u can go? Mikel join the league this December , half of the season fro crying out loud, and you want him to win best player of the league? Hate him, he's still the best experienced midfielder we have. Or have u discovered any? And what's bad if Etebo plays together with Mikel?

May God punish anybody who insults Mikel on this thread. May your life be empty without success. stupid idiot oloriburuku...If you have nothing to say, just keep shut.
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In 2005 U-20 World cup I was 20, preparing for Jamb, but I would sneak out of tutorial class to watch Nigeria and some hot matches. I was almost shedding tears watching this new young talent. It doesn't take you 20 mins watching Mikel in that competition to know we had found a new gem; a different class above the pack, blessed with sublime touches and brilliant passes that makes u wow; confident control of the midfield with 'swaggalicious' movement and grace on the ball that is rare in black African players that are rather brash on the ball. He will never panick on the ball even if crowded by 10 players he would still find a way out, in a simple and graceful manner. The perfect solid holding creative midfielder he was. we shouldn't talk about his vision, and accurate long range pin point passes that flies across the length and breath of the field. It is up there with the best.
I was attached to that 2005 tournament cos I was 20, and my supposed age-mate were playing it and I was also a football player, a street midfield player, albeit a rough, combative or Essien type of midfider, so Mikel's grace always wowed me. Though it took years for some people to see a streak of grace found in Zidane in Mikel, I was in tears when the Middleborough fans was singing his praise and chanting him as the African Zidane, after they watched him drooling with grace as he controlled the midfield. I was happy at least, even though it came late in his career to see that Mikel has some beautiful gentle grace on the ball reminiscent of the great Zidane. Till now, I still believe if Mikel had been White or had the trust and mentorship of coaches that raw talent usually enjoy, maybe he would have commanded more football respect today. I think Ferguson could have helped norture him well if he had gone to ManUted, unlike the rigid Morinho.
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It was no surprise when teams like Barca, Chelsea and the great Manchester United bleeding with top quality players, unlike now, were all dying to sign this raw midfield wonder boy from Naija after watching his exploit 2005. He surpassed Messi in the tournament in terms of all-round performance, just that Messi was a budding goal poacher by that time, who tricked us by getting penalties which led us to becoming runners up. If you doubt Mikel's quality, how many African players at 20 can you mention till date whose quality has led club like Barca, ManU Chelsea to fight and jostle for his signature? how many? Tell me and stop being unfortunate.
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Regardless of his career trajectory, or his changed playing style that had to evolve or be adapted by coaches to suit their philosophy, you can never say Mikel was a failure. How many young talents today will be able to break into a creative or defensive midfield role in a team that had fabulous and legend like Ballack, Lampard, Essien, Deco, and many others who were at their pinnacle of their careers? Tell me how many players of today will bench those guys? Yet Mikel got his playing time and was respected..and never loaned cos the club knew he had some quality.
May God punish anyone who disrespect Mikel, who can't see his special style and talent that helped us win the midfield battle and the Afcon medal in 2013 for the first time in 20 years!. Mikel was the fulcrum, pillar, confidence, and leader of that team that had young, home based players lacking experience like Oboabona, Omeruo, Sunday MBA, Ideye, Onazi and the rest...Yet we won this tournament by his exemplary leadership and quality.
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Remember the midfield battle with the great Yaya Toure at Afcon semi final. Mikel bossed him and took the mantle of midfield control from the great Yaya toure. We don't have to talk about his champions league exploit with Chelsea or how many trophies or medal he won at Chelsea.
The only problem Mikel had was playing among players who are not of his calibre or quality in the national team, yet he helped the team. He also became the traditional holding 4/who wouldn't go on attacking at club level, but in national team where his attacking quality is trusted, you can see him excel with penetrating passes and control of attacking play.
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Till today since 2005, Nigeria has never discovered any player better than Mikel in midfield quality, many came and gone, many were tested or mooted to take over the no.10 shirt from Mikel, where are they today? Mikel has longevity.
Mikel has served us, given his best even among low quality players, unlike the the Great Okocha who had brilliant players playing with him from keeper to wings and to defense; Mikel didn't have that opportunity yet he carried the guys on his wings and inspired them to win Afcon. Let's stop disrespecting this man. He's a success already and when he leaves we will remember a talent who inspired us to win Afcon even with home based players, and it is this same Mikel.

mrsage:
She's a legal cheerful giver

This is how you Sheep of a Christian misinterprete the Bible. The Bible says 7 woman will beg a man for marriage, even with their own money. Not 7men on a woman

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Legalissues:
Dont let him cheat you. You are a yearly tenant and should be entitled to 6 months notice if he wants to terminate your tenancy and the 6 months notice should be computed in such a way that it ends not earlier than the eve of the anniversary of the renewal of ur rent. Except if there was a tenancy agreement to the contrary when u took up the apartment.
Forget about the fact that he is ready to make a refund or he wants to renovate the apartment. The law isn to be used as a sword. Yes renovations of apartment can suffice as a ground for eviction of a tenant but only by following the laid down procedure by law and in your case is 6mnths notice if he is to evict on this ground. If he refunds, who bears the loss of the exhorbitant agency fee you must have paid wben taking up the apartment and the inconvenience of moving about.
So insist he either follow the due process laid down by law, 6MONTHS NOTICE WHICH SHOULD TERMINATE NOT EARLIER THAN THE EVE OF THE RENEWAL OF YOUR RENT
or he should refund your full payment plus the agency fee you paid cos you wouldn be the one to bear that.
No reasonable landlord should take a tenant and be thinking of evicting him 2mnths after based on renovation, he is just looking for an excuse to evict you.
Cheers

Thank you Sir. How can I make him comply to this rule.. cos he told me he gave me 1 month to look for another apartment, of which I don't even reckon with his words cos I know its unlawful, but I don't know how to press charges, to make him give me 6months or my full payment.

Hello

Hello guys..more please

Fadelex:
You guys probably don't get along well hence the need to evict you. tell him to give you full payment with the agency fee(you can forget this is the same agent can get another place for you). he should also give you minimum of 6 months to get a new place. you have the upper hand here. I've seen instances where people moved out of rented apartments less than 2 months to their yearly rent cuz of work or family reasons but the landlord won't return a dime and will even rent the place out before the expiration of the rent. stamp you feet and tell him you ain't moving.

Thanks For this.

Hello guys. ... Guys help me

I need professional advice please...I paid a rent of one year, it is barely 2 months and my landlord wants to send me packing , he says he needs his house for renovation and will probably deduct the few months spent and refund the remaining month. Also know that I will be forfeiting agent fee which is quite high...
Pls what do I do. Does a landlord have such right to terminate my tenancy prematurely thereby putting me into unfair stress without a mutual consent or a tangible offence? even when I still have a rent of 10months advance Please help me before I'm treated unfairly
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Lawyers please...what am I guaranteed within law to do? can I request for a 6 month notice? even when the landlord is ready to give me back my rent? Note that I'm not ready to go through stress, he only wants to make life difficult for me.....And I would not be able to get enough money to rent another apartment cos agent fee and agreement will probably not be returned with the refund... Please help me Lawyers.

Michael6292:
Got a message from fsb yesterday evening to apply for Italian and Japanese Scholarship.. I am really confused on how to go about it

I got the same message too, i've been worried also. Does it mean we've been picked for Japan ? I abi its for everyone who chose Japan ?

biacan:
Something must have led her to commit this dreadful act..... maybe he cheated who knows.....

You are a fool and a monumental nicompoo....

This is a classic case of 419. And she was caught because she's a classic Olosho.

fizzyf4:
Honestly , PSG should have won the game , Neymar isn’t so experienced , Mbappe was something else enterely , Cavani wasn’t really in the game , Barcelona won’t lose this type of match ,it is obvious that Real Madrid isn’t in their best form , Ronaldo goals Weren’t even spectacular but a goal is a goal

You be Ode. Is that the match you watched? First and foremost, u said barca cant lose that kind of a game...But Barca lost by 4: 0 last season to Psg at Psg's home. Stop talking trash.
You said nothing spectacular in the match, I wonder how sentiment will kill some people, their brain cant speak truth.
Possession was 50 50, madrid had more attempts and more short on target, more corners and set pieces....so whats your point. Ode

tiredoflife:
Don't mind these men
Any cooked up lie is OK
I thought they are immune to what people say
Seems social media is hitting him hard
He can see people disrespect him now
Power is a feeling given to u by the people
Once they take it away from not following u
U are finished
He knows he is losing his base

Yea. They are okay with all the stupid logic and reasoning they dish out on their members as long as the killing does not affect them and their family. Same man will travel around with armed security and entourage and now tell members that 'prayer' is more effective than 'activism' in matters of security and social upheavals. Can you imagine what affront on rationality. It's sad for me, I cant deal at all. Pastors have finished our thinking! Stupid people.

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Stupid rationalizations. These people will never make Nigerians and their member think. Religion can be bad for sound reasoning as applicable to life and its problems. They are the reason why the killings may not stop soon.

darol4real:
so many people are in bondage today because of what they did or said to men of God. That is why i advised you to keep your mouth shut.

You know what? You are a big headed fool.

Mathematical:
With Kelechi lack of game time with the Foxes, you Rohr will just give him an automatic shirt because of his past achievement.

C'mon where's your brain?

Are you mad or something? Your brain must be missing for refering my brain.

Game time or no game time, kelechi will make it there. How many intelligent players do you have in the squad. Not to mention is all round ability to play as a playmaker, striker and also good with setpieces...forgotten his freekick against Argentina? you are mad

Mathematical:


NICE ONE KELECHI.. just worried if he's going to make Rohr's 23 man list to Russia Lalasticlala

If he doesn't make make it, na you one make am?

You are a big fool for this open lies you typed here. Do you think it is babies or primary school children that will be reading this?

You mean she doesn't insert anything into your pvssy during a lesbian sex session after licking your pvssy? Like she doesn't even finger you too? you mean you don't kiss her because i don't understand what you mean by you don't do to her what she does to you. You even believe you were more holy than her. chai. Your hypocrisy is disgusting!

I'm not against the act itself, its your body, that's not my concern. But quit lying or deceiving yourself.

Its obvious you have some terrible attitudes which you lie about or find a way to rationalize, just the way you did with this post. Your husband changed all of a sudden, travelled out with a woman for no reason? And you are here appearing like a saints.
I've stopped caring about single moms because most of you are shameless, promiscuous liars with bad attitudes. You guys need to change and own up to your shits.

You are a big liar and it's extremely disgusting even with your thrashy claim of being a Christian, you are a terrible unrepentant hypocrites!

I'm writing this to call you out on your lies and hypocrisy. Its too much and pathetic. Nonsense

TolaniLuv:
Women are something you should fear and respect , never trust a woman..

I had a similar case recently , my gf of 5 years moved to Australia to continue her education there. I plan to spend Xmas and new year with her there . I couldn't get visa to visit her in Australia for Xmas . She called me that she want to go on 7 days trip out of Sidney cuz I won't be able to come spend Xmas with her and she don't want to feel lonely!

To me, I said 7 days is too much.. but, she insisted that she will go but not spend the 7 days. When she came back from her trip..I called her and ask her to be honest with me if she fuc which I fly will happen. She started crying and told me, she was having fun with her camping members and fuc one of the guys.. she was honest with it!! I felt really sad.

We had plan to meet on 6th of this month and again travel together to New York and she can go back from there to Aus for her school.

Before she moved to AUstralia I specifically told her that let's have open relationship or still be together Bcus I don't like distance relationship.


She said no we should continue with being BF &a GF . I got her expensive promise ring that she is officially my fiancé .


Apart from her cheating before which I forgive her bcuz understanding why she cheated at the time was due to the fact that her parent always tell her that I am Nigerian and we are not good people she should look for a white or different guys. She stayed with me faithful for 5 years waiting for too long , she met someone else who is American her parent was happy for her that she could get rid of me! But, it didn't last .. we got back together base on that I have cheated in the past too! She told me if she can forgive me why can't I forgive her.

That's when she got admition to a university in AU, we had plan to get married after her school. Her parent gave up and accepted that she should just do what she want.. but, cheated again after we got back stronger and more serious.. I felt this second time was on purpose .

I don't know what to do! I know women cheat , men cheat too. But, I love her and I know she love me too from all the sacrifices, pain , from family too .

My mind forgive her but, I felt I will keep forgiving her due to my own past and what she has done to improve my life for this past year, she really tried a lot for me when I was down she is the only person who always rescue me ! I sometimes feel she was my angel.

She is not here, but I can list many good things she has done . I just can't trust her again and she is around now I decide not to see her and travel to New York alone .

I can't trust her again, but I still love her. Sometimes in life shit happens. As a man I felt leaving a good girl or loyal one cus she cheated base on logic should be forgiven or just let her good

Meanwhile....all this your epistle shiit only prove one thing......that you no get sense.

biacan:
She is in pain right now biko she might kill herself........ just carry her to your place for some time so she'll be under your watch you guys have come a long way....... biko nna meliya ebere

Abi you are the shameless LovePeddler. Why cant ladies learn to face the consequence of their actions in life. You are a LovePeddler and still want to be treated like a queen? I cant deal. nonsense

biacan:
No it's not like that I mean if you're having infidelity issues with her you should take her there cause she's a change woman she have learned her lesson trust me on this she will be forever submissive to you than before...... biko nna give a listening ear biko ehweyniwe nna biko orzugo

You are a shameless unrepentant cheat. Your husband is in trouble. Just listen to your flawed thinking and words

Newboss:
My guy park well!

After having a good time with her, she still needed another dick?

My guy use your money to do dick enlargement and take a course on the art of seduction!

It shouldn't be a lesson to the girls but to you and to those who think money buys love!

This is why payments for women must be abolished in Africa! You need to learn how to make a lady fall in love with you instead of trying to acquire her through marriage!

Hard truth. This is a comment a can relate with. Red pill Nigga