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Luscious111:The men of God just have to be good shepherds of the sheep. Humans would always have weaknesses, only God can deliver from the lusts of the flesh. |
Considering all the extra "details" the op added after his/her first post, plus the fact s/he registered the id today and has been online for 1 hour and 2 minutes, I'm inclined to believe this is one of the fake nairaland stories like many others. Op, if your story is indeed true, I would advise you to tell your sister to stop bringing men home but she should go to her boyfriend/s place instead whenever they want to have sex. I'm of course assuming the boyfriend is a single never married bachelor. Minding the fact it's up to her if she wants to listen or not. The man or men too should find somewhere to meet her besides her residence since obviously that is not working out and everyone is upset. I am also not endorsing extramarital sex but I can't dictate to adults if they should or shouldn't do that, I can only advise. Her so called relationship/s also don't have to involve sex, can't the man lead by example and make a honest woman out of her. If your sister's relationship is going somewhere, they should make this known to concerned parties. If they are simply booty calls with different men (hard to see how a chronic churchgoer would engage in such), then it's obviously a nympho situation which might be arising from rebellion against your judgemental attitude or some other problems which you refused to explain. |
Pointmade:You're very harsh on your sister, perhaps you should back off and let her be. |
SamjohnnyB: nairalandposter: |
OP this case is more serious than you let on in your initial post. |
Ruins is an African thing not specific to Nigeria alone. |
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I remember when MMIA was just like a shed. . . . a small building with lots of open space around it. Nice one, nice reminiscence too. |
My perception is based on the fact there is no biblical basis for your statement. I didn't say angels can not invent, I said "choice of what to invent". And as per choice, I get your point about angels choosing to follow God, however they do not have the human capacity for choice. I've explained how you read my post wrong, not sure where disappointment applies. |
A woman in my neighborhood went missing for a year and it was scandalous because she had five children. It turns out she became one of the wives of the prophet who she went to to seek help from for her husband’s joblessnessok, what a quandary. what you never hear is how many of them literally beg for their pastors to lay with them either outright or by seduction.True. It's wrong to ignore that fact. But the pastor would not take advantage of their desperation, I've heard many pastors preach about women trying to seduce them, or them preventing themselves from being seduced either intentionally or unintentionally. When you have Christ, you can guard against your sinful nature because temptations would surely come but you need to watch for your own lusts and desires. |
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All you're trying to say is Adam is a sinner. But Adam is not sin, satan is. |
The man who is sexing anyhow without considering little kids can hear him, can't he show some restraint? And he's not even married to the lady, isn't there a taboo against such things or something. He needs to stop sneaking around because of sex and go pay the brideprice if it's allowed? Unless he's hiding his reasons for not doing so. Probably one of those romance section sex addicted nlers (pardon me if I'm wrong), who don't know sex is not food. |
twosquare:No, there is no father of sin, only sin. I know you're trying to say God is the father of sin, not so. Satan is not the inventor of sin, that would imply he has a choice of what to invent, whether sin or righteousness, which is another gbagaun from you. Sin is satan and satan is sin. Se finis. |
I don't see anywhere in this discussion saying man of sin is father of sin. In my opinion, there is no father of sin because satan is sin. Man of sin in @ Thessalonians 2:1 clearly refers to a finite human being. My earlier response on man of sin was in reference to your question about who births sin. You meant satan, therefore there is no "son of sin" in that context, sin is sin. |
twosquare:Satan is sin, meaning any sin has it's origin in satan. Simple. Think of tree bearing fruit, the tree is not the fruit but the fruit is from the tree. If they tell you folks to read your bible, you protest, but then you don't even know what you're saying a lot of the time. |
Fountainofyouth:Madam, why are you so angry? She does not have to bring these issues to the web and especially not nairaland, but she did, and people gave their views, so what's your problem now? Drop your advise for her if you have any or ignore the thread? Who are you sef, I know I've seen your moniker around, another romance section personality? Most of you there lack manners, probably because all you know is copulation. |
twosquare:Satan is sin. Man of sin= sin, not father of sin. I'm not going into an exposition on obedience versus disobedience here because nlers obsess over it too much ad infinitum. |
A few tips I found on the web (paraphrasing): 1. Labelling your sister promiscuous to the outside world, is not kind. Don't do that even if she is. 2. Why exactly do you and your sister have such different values? Does this reflect besides morality? Perhaps your sister is struggling with things you did not have to face? Like, maybe your struggles or experiences are/were different. 3. Is she practicing safe sex, does she not care, have you talked to her about it, why is she looking for love in the wrong places (in your opinion) 4. Even if she refuses to listen to you, be there for her and let her know you do not hate her, it's her lifestyle that doesn't gel with you. 5. You aren't her parent, rebelling against you might be her subconscious way of rebelling against the idea. 6. Is there a genetic tendency to this type of behaviour. How/why did you buck the trend, because maybe you are the odd one out here, not your sister. Consider that. |
If the problem is a moral one but the kids are being taken care of, I doubt you have grounds to remove them from the mother. You can't force your own moral choices on adults, even if you're related. You can pray for your sister and advise her, but it's her decision whether to listen to you or not. You can't force it on her. Did you talk to your sister about how the kids are perceiving things? It's not always easy dating when you have kids, the man too should be considerate of the household and not make the woman feel she has to choose between her reputation and family, and him. My opinion. Btw, did you talk to your sister about raising her kids for her? I see you mentioned many men, not just one man-which is correct? |
fratermathy:There are nl threads discussing Ijaw history, one in particular deals with pre-modern Ijaw history (Oru), it was a long time ago. |
raybaba97:Many Ijaws have maternal Yoruba ancestry (I'm assuming your claim is true). |
Names like Okafor, Okonkwo, Okeke are indicative of people bought as slaves and are probably Yoruba in origin.How so? |
MillerJnr:Lovely photo. |
Freehuman:Lovely picture. |
Genesis 3:20 And Adam called his wife's name Eve; because she was the mother of all livingThe human race (and creation itself) finally had a chance to not become extinct, hence the name Eve from Adam. |
ScepticalPyrrho:I guess you must mean explaining bible stories cos some of you appear to intentionally lack understanding, and it's ok to ask, also ok to decide whether or not to respond. |
wirinet:Too much errors in the writeup, however it was for comedy purposes, so I didn't nitpick. |
The notion that the GODhead, and Jesus . . .were caught unawares at the fall of man is laughable.Very. |
CANTICLES:A very erroneous assumption is believing the first human was created immortal. Not so. |
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