₦airaland Forum

Kapilta:
All of you just dey act somehow somehow for this thread.

All of who?

I've been the only person posting.

Kapilta:
Well op, you are so gay and you don't even know.

Because I admire Nigerian men you came to this conclusion?

Even if they dont have my time, that's cool.

e don do, I just saw this in romance section for some reason.

Go back to what you were doing before you got the memo.

abaimuyi:
I believe it is high time we begin to open up our political space for foreigners who have acquired the Nigerian citizenship through birth or marriage or naturalization to participate in our national politics.

modified to include naturalization.

noted.

It doesnt matter if they like me or not, I just like them.

.

1. There is culture regardless how much he knows about it

2. Community feeling

3. Goal oriented

4. Go getter

5. Easy going

6. Hard worker

7. Takes things easy

8. Encourages you to achieve

9. Not likely to sugarcoat things

Etc etc

In a million years.

Share how you coped.


Dunno if celebrities should be included in the discussion. They are out of the league of almost everyone, I think.

Perception matters.

hooha:
Dealing with seductive spirit is good for a lady suffering from the crisis of people eager to sleep with her, but never wanting to date her. Some ladies go through this issue, and it could be heartbreaking at the later stage of their life; when they are set to marry, and all what guys want from them is sex.

I don't even mean sex while dating, which is wrong, but I mean people wanting to sleep with you alone and never wishing or wanting to date you. So no matter how you cook, dress, even dress decently, behave nicely, and so on, every guy or most guys see you as someone that will be sweet in bed. It is indeed terrible!!.

I will advise such ladies to pray and fast against the spirit of seduction in them. This kind of fasting may be for 7 days, with reading of the Bible and much prayers.

Neither gender is guiltier than the other.

Both need reorientation.


A lady looking for husband should check the type of men she moves with, are they the marrying type, what are their goals, are they in a relationship, is she having sex with a man who is not ready to marry her, does she offer sex quickly to men, has she checked if the man or men she's interested in, are ok with her background, etc etc.

Fasting and prayer are also recommended in addition to all these. Plus a personal relationship with God.

A matchmaking service might be of help. If you let people know you're trying to get married and finding it difficult.

For some or many women, men might see them as sex objects through no fault of their own but for various other reasons.

Interesting article.

Could also be for prevention or treatment of smells, perhaps.

Looks like some type of alternative health treatment I'm guessing.


This?
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginal_steaming

In Nigeria isnt it traditionally recommended after childbirth? And usually administered by females, not males.

Sex and bible do not have to be considered contradictory terms.

As that person complaining of smelly vaginas was saying, and I corrected him, it seems some people feel sex prevents them from being godly. In my opinion, never assume God doesnt like you because of your sex filled lifestyle.

It's good but the girls themselves might feel awkward having to cope with pregnancy related symptoms etc. I think they should be encouraged in their education but allowed to return/continue or take subjects privately after they require time off to take care of their personal needs.

My opinion.

I am quite sure I would have been a single mother if I had dared to have sex , being as scatterbrained as I am and considering the fact lots of people expected it too.

I did not have the courage to engage in casual premarital sex just for any number of reasons including the one I mentioned and I guess everyone I knew was also afraid to be the one in the impregnated somebody position. Everybody waiting for everyone else to start the trend. Even the males did not want to start it, I suppose we were mostly scared silly plus the fear of hell was very real back then I think.

So I really sympathize with single mothers and ladies looking for husbands these days when men insist they dont want to marry or stay married and say they cant find any woman who isnt like them. Unlike other countries where being a single lady is preferred by many women who dont want to deal with unstable natures of relationships, in Nigeria, there isn't much progressive fiscal structures to help the single ladies advance without a man (besides the woman's own family).

God should help all ladies because the basic thing is it's not easy being a woman, it's even harder being a Nigerian woman. Everybody is complaining, even mariage folks have their own challenges and envy the single ones.

One thing I'm looking for on the thread which I have not seen yet, is any poster saying it was their decision to be a single mother out of wedlock, or accepting any blame for it. All the blame seems to be on the baby daddies and exes, perhaps rightly so I guess. It's not always easy to understand what a single mother goes through from society et al and also to raise her baby. In fact, there are married women (I'd say a huge percentage of Nigerian women) who can even fit the bill for singlehood because they're practically in similar situations, so I'm sure they know that feeling.

are those braids, extensions, a wig, attachment?

stupidity:
been fvcking

Having sex you mean.

Tracing Adam's genealogy in Genesis, I once wondered if he was there around the time of Noah. I think this might have been mentioned before by other folks.

@ candidtalk

Your post reported.

ALABACONNECT:
Here goes

Does a guy who can cook really get you turned on??
Not like turned on!!! But to you see him in a "he is so special and I want to try to date or if possible marry him" kind of way?

Is that what you mean?

If nlers dont mention South Africa in a day. . . you aren't fulfilled...

Shouldn't this be in sexuality section btw?

Modified .

I meant it like this:

Nigeria (ie in Yorubaland)

MrCork:
... bro ARE U gay? How the fuk can u advise hom to stay away from pucccy?...u crazy?
. u better live nairaland & go to yahooGaysMans.com

Reported.

Impressive!

Sounds interesting and challenging.