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Never done that before. Luckily, I have 100% score rate at first chyke!

This is what happens when you use “doggy” to conceive.

Her brain will be backwards.

Dem go adjourn this guy case till im full name go become mazi Nnamdi Adjourn Kanu!

Stay where you are now.

It is normal to feel that way early in marriage.

Just turn a blind eye and live each day as it comes. In the end, even the bachelor life go still tire you. Earlier you settle into marriage better for you potentially.

I’m married and still dealing with the challenges of carrying someone along in everything I do.

But I deeply prefer marriage than the directionless bachelor life. I wasted millions of naira living as a bachelor that would’ve been useful for me.

The best you can do is to send your family abroad since you’re okay financially that way you can get small space BUT not the space to chase women around as that will complicate your mental health further.

As for me, bachelor life can miss me for now and forever.

Develop your idiotic agbero reasoning first!

In order of priority…

First, gain a skill.
Reason - it’s a lifetime investment with minimal risk and opens more opportunities to network and grow.

Second. Start a side business with small capital. Especially what you can manage effectively alongside your job.
Reason- it’s an investment with some risk but can open up doors of independence for you.

Third: Go for PHD. This is good but be sure to deeply inspect what you expect here. PHD abroad is good but critically evaluate how much funds you have to pursue both the visa processing and all. Be careful a bout situations where you e come halfway and the entire ups and downs of visa processing gulps your 900k or even more, and visa is not guaranteed.

DON’TS

1. Get a house.
Reason, it’s NOT an investment! It takes money not give. being very honest with you, 900k will not be enough to rent a house with key properties. And leave you some money to live with.

For a girlfriend and living independently, put that on hold until you have enough resources to handle that. Any woman who does not accept you the way you are will never accept you, they can only accept your money when you’re rich but not you.

Mrs Onuegbu, you’ll always be in my heart and prayers.

This dead guy or Osibanjo is the next president of Nigeria!

Another dead president to be imposed on the people.

Just be aware!

this one wey her body count mileage don reach 1,000,000,000

Welcome development!

I can't wait to see female Pope too.

Thunder fire both US and Buhari!

See as people de eat poison o!

My mind always told me that this Dana is a flying coffin. Stupid people that cannot fix their planes. That’s how they gave me agege bread inside plane when na burger dem draw for the food pack.

Nonesense!!

Dem no see Canada or America post people.

Truth hurts!

You’re wise OP.

If you have the ability to see clearly through the maze of life, you’d probably see that over 70% of what the world run after are actually false realities.

Odidigboigbo:
Making babies has nothing to do with knowing how to Bleep.

It’s indirectly related bro. If you no sabi your wife go de form tired all the time which means fewer children. But this guy like toi-toi too much so the wife de give am way.

As I see this guy I don conclude say na only fvck im sabi do.

I got admitted to Stockholm Uni for Computer Science.

Money too much i fit run if SI scholarship no click.

Any info to help will be appreciated. Anyone living in stockholm already plz hi me

What a good piece!

Well, I can confidently state, without evidence, that you Reno Omokri, and everyone else that serve or have served in Nigerian public office in the last 20 years, are smart unrepentant THIEVES!

No sorry...ROGUES!

Ndi Ori in mother tongue...

Bye

In a nutshell...

Find out what your woman’s ultimate motive in marriage is...

Because that’s what you will see play out in different shades down the days, months and years.

They don’t change, they just patiently wait to execute their ultimate aim, whether in your presence or absence.

Bye

This is how they rob us...

They tell you to abstain from sex so you’ll go to heaven. And when you do, you’ll naturally encounter wet dreams so they come back and tel you that it’s mami water so you need deliverance.

Either way, you’re fvcked!!!

Religion na setup.

Well...

This is the reason I have been contemplating on starting a wife renting business. Because this people are of no use staying permanently in a mans house.

Their original intention is to use your prick born and turn you to donkey from then on till you’re dead. That’s when they relax to enjoy your efforts!

And what does the man benefit...nothing but the title, “head of the house”

Head Kor Foot Ni!

Mtcheeew!

But the afonjas connived to push him out of office!

Symbol of people wey like poverty!

Did your Boss promise to marry her as his wife’s replacement and make her rich?

That I believe is the only convincing reason the parents will give in to that.

And that’s the other reason they got her a maid...as new madam of the house.

And that’s the main reason the family was focusing on “MARRIAGE” because that’s what they were told.

Since your Oga who promised marriage to get a kidney failed to fulfill his ultimate promise and disappeared, then you will be made to fulfill it even in death. Since you refused to tell the whole story, I’m helping you.

crazyinlove:
This is totally a very bad mindset, you can't say she will do the rest just like that. You guys need to agree to move the family in love and understanding. You guys should agree on how much each party will provide. Your statement can also mean that you will only do 10% because that's what you can do and then leave the 90% for her to carry.

As far as I am concerned the journey of marriage is not easy on both the man and woman. The society has placed a lot of responsibilities on both parties and when they focus on fighting who should do what it doesn't help. Women has their own responsibilities which they carry and they men don't get to talk about.

The goal should be for couples to have a mutual understanding on how they should run their home, financially and otherwise.

Well, you spoke well. But theoretically.

And it’s not a one-size-fits-all situation. What is fair in most situations is you put yourself in your partners shoes and carefully examine what will be done to you that’ll be fair, then do it for her.

Also when you deal with a partner who has other ulterior motives separate from the common goal of the family(as the OP mentioned), then the leadership of the home has to be redefined. And that simply means you have to do what is right for everyone. What she thinks or feels doesn’t apply anymore.

You can go with the Bible if she lives according to the principles of marriage as explained in the Bible, or you run your home like a corporate organization if she doesn’t. The ship has to move forward.

E bee like say you drink aboniki abi?

You de chop somebody daughter for six years without marry.

You even de complain say she de refuse. If na my daughter I for don disown her for still remembering your name sef, let alone sleeping on the same bed with you.

You’ve made your points to her. Stamp it and move forward.

Don’t hurt your children because of this by breaking up the marriage.

My wife earns much more than me but I sincerely don’t care about the specific amount. My position is that I can only do what I can, she do the rest. Finish!

BigDawsNet:
I Wish you best of luck

Thanks bro

megastu:
If your visa was revoked they would have informed you of the reason.

Your mum filing for you now has now confirmed the fear of the VO when he made the initial F1 refusal. A visit would be a tough call. Have you visited other European countries or Canada and Australia. A visit visa would be a hard nut based on your previous attempts at F1 and your current petition for Immigrant Visa.

Thanks for the advise bro.

Howbeit, I’m not sure I want to waste money traveling on holiday to so many countries just to prove to ANYONE in US embassy Lagos that I’m not an intending immigrant. That’s weird really. They can keep the visa if that’s the way forward cos the visa doesn’t bring money rather I spend. I visit countries only when I have family, friends or something meaningful to do there, not to prove to a child VO that I’m genuine.

BigDawsNet:
Everything will be fine and okay

Don't loose focus aND hope

Just take a break froom applying right now..

I will advise yout to explore othere countries on visit while you wait....

You can as well apply for a studies in Canada..

I really appreciate the advise bro. I’m currently checking out Australia or Canada for a holiday. But academically, North America is no longer an option.