If she's your sister what would you do?

Advise her to remain in marriage with a man who is gay?

D you understaand that this is a permanent problem with no end?

Do you think his sexuality will change eventually?

For your information, this is no marriage and I hate maltreating a womans feeling in such a gruesome manner. Cut her loose and let her go. I will BOMB that marriage if i have one slight evidence to. If you cannot, please share the message with me and tell the wife to contact me - I will glad share the message with her and represent you in hell if thats the price i will pay for saving an innocent woman from the hands of a fool in the name of marriage.

I dont understand what women marry these days!!

I hate this girl with all my heart!

Mad people full this school o

Since this scammer prints money by speaking in tongues, then why does his flock still give offerings and tithes?

You people moved from being friends to her telling her fiancée(your friend) that you raped her?

As far as I am concerned, she wasn’t the one that initiated the sex.

I know women, a woman whose your friends fiancée cannot be so Hot she’s dragging your boxers with you.

I have lived with a woman, my friends friend in same condition for over a year and I can’t remember her entering my room to sit let alone sex.

All these rubbish posts and most comments are from the same people Tinubu hired to help him regain Toll Gate. Let’s see how una wan reopen till gate. This time una offices and homes go join!

I don’t like the way most of them dance like mad people in church!

Plus unnecessary screams in the name of praises!

I’m catholic for life!

They don’t need a Fulani tribesman to spy on you, they will use your own people. Because most of you can’t be trusted at all.

This girl is short like akoodo - pestle

Divorce her. She married you out of pity. Period!

Then why does she wanna get married in the first place?

I don’t understand women wallahi!

In her mind now

“My customers we don open for the year o”

Small girl with big god!!

A married woman went to spend two whole weeks in hotel in the name of advertising for the hotel, eerhkwa?

And same married woman came on social media to state that his fully married husband cannot claim to be feeding her since they married? Even publicly added that the dude is owing her?

She said that she does not want her own husband to know anything about that her spiritual side??

Does conductor business for Odumeje and collect her percentage too? And that’s her career??

Was even speaking publicly about showing someone what “ometere buru” is...that’s black magic!!!

Does not believe that indecent chats or other forms of indecent engagements with any other man is cheating even if it’s not sex on the bed?

...these are signs of end time wives!!

No it’s not.

The same way him giving you money or taking care of your needs is not necessary too!

Anu mpama!

Both of you are crazy for accessing each other’s WhatsApp messages.

Here is my advice..:

Love her, forgive her genuinely. And bring her back. Discuss with her not argue, find out why she does what she does, solve it if possible, protect her and pray with her. God will be with you then and heal your land.

Bring your home together, these experiences of yours are painful but also think about the children before you fire any billet.

I made the mistake of being too unforgiving on my daughters mum, today my daughter is growing into a very wise and gifted woman whom I love with my life...and it’s hurting her that her both loved parents are living apart. And can never be together again as we are both married.

And one question I fear to answer from her in the future is...what sin was that deep that I could not forgive her mom?

And the truth is...NONE. Just as yours...mine is same but more serious.

Learn from my experience, if you love yourself. Fix it, don’t fight it, don’t quit.

Quietly shut the door for them to continue...

Then head straight to church for thanksgiving!

Because you must be a wizard to catch these ladies red handed.

And If you mistakenly catch them, then it’s a sign that God truly loves you.

Onye anwuru

Wonderful. I’m delighted that you found your true calling. A lot of goons are still searching for their calling even at 45 that they turn out to be bitter warriors on NL.

My brother. I feel your pain. It’s possible you made that offer innocently because I feel that same way about helping women especially because I feel somehow I’d get someone I’d gist and share info with every morning while driving to work.

BUT because of the stupid mentality of most women in Nigeria, I tend to respect myself and drive empty vehicle from mainland to island daily even when I know a lot of people need a ride.

For example, one time I stopped at my bustop to pick anyone that needed a lift to the Island, only for two ladies to rush my vehicle and opened the front and back passenger side doors. I told the one at the back that I can only drive with the one in the front because I do not carry people at my backseat as my bag, laptops, work phone and tablet are there and I have heard about incidents of my friends being robbed by innocent looking people that they gave lifts in the back seat.

After I told her that, she shouted aaarh Oga nawaa o, na so you like woman! I was enraged!

Are we animals! Will everything be sex sex sex!!! Stupid backward mentality!

Well I understand, and in heartfelt response - GOD PUNISH YOU!

Where is the rain?

oladotunfelix2:
Please can I have your number please

Okay bro. please share your email i'd share with you on there.

oladotunfelix2:
Are u there??

Sold

TheExalted:


1200 is okay but it is more than your monthly income. I'd suggest you stay within your monthly net income which is around GBP1,000 at today's Oandas rate.

I see...

This is well noted.

Appreciated!

giselle237:

U dont need to provide tax clearance. It is not a mandatory requirement.
Providing 5 bank statements wud be much. Provide the ones with ur salary credits and any other one u feel like but 5 is alot.
At least provide the bank account that shows the source of your funds both salary and otherwise.

Now for the businesses, My own issue is complicating an easy appication. If u say u need to then, you can mention them. in the form pls address it as a side business (I hope u have cac docs and other things to back up all the transactions and forthwith business sales)

The problem with this I will reiterate is for u not to go and complicate a simple application.
Lastly, there is a way to reduce the complication should you decide on including all these car stuff.
Ur proposed travel is January.
U can do ur biometrics in December.
So from now till ur submission in December which I will suggest, is it possible to keep all ur car business monies and large deposits away from any bank statement u will be submitting?

This is to reduce the explanation u want to do as ur salary is good enough as an economic tie.

I hope it comes in monthly and is this amount u quoted.
U can be receiving ur trading money in an account u wont b submitting.

Thanks a lot for this. God bless you all!!

Cyberknight:


You can go to the UK and return in one week, but since there is currently a 2 week quarantine requirement, you will be indoors throughout your stay which makes absolutely no sense.

Work on this aspect.

Wow...very important information right there!

This is really a show-stopper.

Thanks much for this info, bro.

giselle237:

Do add your daughter’s information, birth certificate etc .. She is your dependent and also serves as a tie. ... viz a viz you can’t abandon your daughter in Nigeria to go and live in the Uk is the point you are trying to translate to the ECO by doing this.
Do you have a spouse? It will also help.
U should also include ur landed property. Assets in home country or resident country also serve as ties. If this is ur first application, it strengthens your application in my humble and personal opinion.
Keyword= personal

Oh thanks a lot brother for the information. I surely cannot leave my daughter for any reason.

Spouse, not yet.

Other challenges i have is that:

1. I do buy and sell cars from IAAI, USA i.e I have multiple large deposits from cars i sold at different times few weeks ago. All i have to prove these are the pictures of the cars and bill of Laden from USA in my name. Will these deposits be an issue as they are different from my salary payments or will the export documents from USA suffice to prove ownership?

2. I receive most of my monies on a Zenith Bank account and then transfer from Zenith to my savings with another bank which this other bank account statement is what i want to provide to the embassy. Since most of the inflows to the main account are from my own account in Zenith bank, is this a red flag? Will providing the source account statement help in this situation? I did this because my Zenith ATM card is tied to SEVERAL online payment sites that make auto deductions so the account is very prone to fraud.

3. I have other important deposits from two different corporate accounts from two companies i own, do i need to include these? Should i exclude my corporate accounts so the ECO does not think my income stream is complicated i.e one salary and two different corporate accounts(different companies) IT related? In a nutshell, will 5 five different bank statements be a red flag?

4 . MUST i provide tax clearance certificates for ALL the companies i own if i must have to mention them in my application?

ABeg no vex my brother, as i de read the forum de go i realize say my matter complicate die....

Any info from anyone in the forum will really help clear my head as i want to visit early January with my partner.

Nchabuomo:


1. It's okay to indicate that you will spend that during your stay. It's a VERY decent estimate given the duration of stay
2. Your earnings is great. I feel you do not have to include your private business but that's up to you. There's an additional income section for that
3. I don't think you can indicate both at the same time
4. You can but it's not a MANDATORY requirement. Your job is a tie
5. No you don't need an invite. Personally, I have NEVER used one.

Thanks for the confidence, brother. You guys are doing a great a great job on the forum. I'd go ahead and put in my application right away.

Heaven wish me luck!

Hello my people, I am new here and will need your wise counsel.

I want to apply for a UK Visitor visa and will need your guide on below concerns.

1. Is it safe to indicate that i'll spend GBP1200 during my visit? Note: i earn 500k after deductions, self sponsored with a statement of about 6m and also have my own firm which is additional source of income BUT not a steady one.

2. I wish to stay for a week max (Is this safe or should i state 2 weeks instead) so it doesnt look false.

3. Will there be a conflict if i indicate that i am employed and self employed(own my own firm) at same time??

4. Will it make any difference to include a landed property and, my daughter as ties in my application? (Or will someone think i am trying too hard to prove ties?)

5. Do i need an invite from the UK or can I just apply as a tourist intending to stay in a hotel/hostel? Which will give more credibility to my application?

Your response will be HIGHLY appreciated as i am TOTALLY clueless about the decision process.

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