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...First of all what is gender equality?..
Using Cambridge English dictionary, Gender equality means equal treatment to all genders, it doesn't imply that men and women are the same buh that they are given equal treatment and opportunity.....
Referencing Wikipedia, Gender equality means equality between men and women, entails the concept that all human beings, both men and women, are free to develop their personal abilities and make choices without the limitations set by stereotypes, rigid gender roles and prejudices.
Gender equality means that the different behaviour, aspirations and needs of women and men are considered, valued and favoured equally. It does not mean that women and men have to become the same, but that their rights, responsibilities and opportunities will not depend on whether they are born male or female. Gender equity means fairness of treatment for women and men, according to their respective needs. This may include equal treatment or treatment that is different but which is considered equivalent in terms of rights, benefits, obligations and opportunities....


Now to your argument, going through those definitions, you'll realize that gender equality entails equal treatment and responsibilities... To an extent, gender equality equates equal treatment..... Feminism is a struggle for gender equality,. Equal responsibility is an integral part of gender equality.

hkidola00:
i keep wondering why u women always defend shiittt, d man made absolute sense, u women think u can run ur mouth or disrespect ur hubby without getting a stamp on ur face.

Chisos... I pray no woman ends up with this beast......

So the right way to correct a woman is by giving her a stamp on her face?.was that what your dad thought you?... chaiiii...so people still have this mentality...

Oga, believe me, you are a COWARD.....

Sunofgod:
Lucky boy....

now you all see what I was talking about.... Later you'll want the world to take you serious on male child molestation......

The girl is a sick nymphomaniac....See her face sef...

hehehehe. Wait lemme goan ask him....

Buh wait,... Why will any of them slap me in the first place, is he mad?... Well, won't run to Boydriend...
Just one heavy blow to his balls and he'd be dead before bf gets the news........
Moral lesson: women don't underestimate the power in thy hands... you can kill and unkill with it...
* make I dey go*

EVILFOREST:
I don’t have issues with that because Someone must be the FATHER, but my problem is this her daily restlessness towards being nakked just to prove that she’s really pregnant. Flaunting it everywhere.
Does she think being in the US to deliver will most likely prevent complications...

She should get settled and pray about her delivery and not rushing to the social media to show everyone bathroom, toilet, garage pictures
What is her MOTHER doing for Christ sake...??

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Wow, I never knew flaunting one's naked baby bump now brings about complications......and you already know she hasn't been praying....

I dey learn new thing for nl o...

omoiyalayi:
I don't like what dis woman is promoting everywhere

How can you be flaunting a pregnancy and not showing us who is responsible

planning of having a baby without father?

Hope she can remember she's a role model to many women out there

I hope some of women who sees her as a role model will not start copying this

Smh

Her life, her baby, her flaunts,.. Because you're a role model doesn't limit you from doing what you want.... You peeps need to understand that her interest comes first.....

US celebrities are role models to thousands buh they do worse so cut the woman some slack...... If she doesn't want to show u her babydad, it's her choice... If she doesn't wanna get married, it's her choice. Respect that.




So the baby is gonna arrive soon. awwnn. wish her safe delivery.... Swithrt flaunt it jor, you own it.

The heart of man is wicked.

AreaFada2:
Yet no pretty "young lady" attracted him. He married a woman 25 years older than him. Wife's first child is 41. This president is 40.

Age is just a number.....

The president is handsome.

Divay22:
Must you bash her
She asked for cash to save the life of her mom, which you and i would do if we were in her position..
Nobody feels happy coming online to ask for money for one thing or the other, but it's better to speak out than dieing in silence.
This is not cool.

Don't stress yourself Dear,.... Believe me, she's not worth the stress...

Colourich:
I know you need the 2k 'cause your reputation on nairaland precedes you and I know how you beg for money here but try not to be affront about it.

And who is talking about reputation?.. The well known attention seeking brawler who goes about nairaland trying to substantiate a life she wished she had cause in reality it's the exact opposite? the one whose dirty linen has been washed in public a thousand times?.. Girl you talking reputation? you've lost it babe, someone needs to wake you up....


Yes, I begged the whole of nairaland for my mum, something I'll never regret, if you think I'm gonna be ashamed because of that then you're on a long thing....

Trust me, you need that money more than I do.. you know it, everyone knows it, stop it with the stupid pretence.... Someone offered to give strangers his OWN money and you're fooling yourself calling it meagre, my dear, what have you given out in your whole life?.....

Ain't gonna stoop to your level to engage in a wrangle with you dear, you ain't endowed with reason so you're not worth it....

Colourich:
2k is meagre.

Something is seriously wrong with you ..

anayolity:
lol when you say especially the girls ... it goes alot way to show how much ya all neglect the boy child while growing up

Lolz. no need to turn this to a gender war.... I made that statement for a reason and you know it ....the number of male psychos in the society are more than that of female psychos....

And the male tend to use force and violence against little girls.

Yes, boys get molested, a lot, even some sick gays now harass little boys...that is why I said parents should keep an eye on their CHILDREN....

As for the case of boy molestation being neglected, I will always say that no one will speak for you guys except yourselves, when you guys start taking it serious then the world will take you all serious...saw a thread where a guy slapped a girl for touching his dick and some nairalanders ( guys) were insulting the guy for doing that, with the claim that the girl was only playing...

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

12 dumbos actually liked this post and some other idiots shared it ... anything to boost your wrecked ego and validate your mentality about women.....you all are stupid..


As for the element that typed this trash, you are sick and you've got no one to tell you.

Admin401:
Somehow I doubt that. Parents focus more on their female children then the male, so chances of molestation happening MIGHT be little. My problem is, with the amount of men that were molested as kid, why does it go unnoticed?

....look at this one, what's your point exactly.....

That a lot of girls don't get molested?... parents focus more on their female child and you think they do that for no reason?.... so irrational....


Don't bother replying, it's useless.

too many... way too many.......


All I'll say is, parents should keep eyes on their children. we have a lot of perverts and paedophiles in this world, you won't believe what little girls go through at their tender ages...

Create a bond with your children so they can tell you anything... In my case, I was too scared to tell my mum so it kept happening and happening and happening....


When I see random children, I just imagine what they may be going through....It's saddening....

Baby lotion??.. I don't understand. pls stop using that, it's not safe, get a lubricant instead....



With time it will be less painful...buh for 9months hmm...pls if your power house is really really big, pls leave that girl alone...or marry her... buh if you don't have that in plans, please leave her...she may never enjoy sex with another guy if you continue....

And again, please stop using baby lotion... lolxzz

RichardRandy:
Not surgical I know back then in owerri.
That time she was even more pretty.
Raw yellow color, not now she want to turn white.
If u see her in real life ehn

not surgical ke....was she not the girl that acted 7 book of Moses?.... soo skinny and flat buh very beautiful facially?.... where did all the hips and Bum come from?.... wait let me ask my chief priest.

lefulefu:
for real u have a better figure than the pix of the girl that martin uploaded.

lolzx. thanks. ... I'm just like her, almost..
I like her body tho... it's perfect...


E be like say u nor like am...well Na big yansh u Dy like...

thegentleman:
It's a project I did last year with two other Professor at Ibadan. Trust me, majority carry it. That's the mistake u ladies make, this infection are not by unprotected sex only, so u think HSV is mostly gotten from sex ? That's so wrong.

It's not a girl thing, you are very very right but most lady not all normally live careless life style, careless I mean sharing lipsticks, letting someone perform pedicure etc on you without using gloves... this increases chances of a lady getting it. Everyone must be careful but Ladies are prone especially Nigerian ladies with their life styles... There is no difference between a skin doctor a fashionist helping u to fix your nails, in developed country this people know better, they use gloves but here.... something else


our ladies need to leave that notion that they only get diseases only through sex.

Where did I say that one could only get infections from sex.... Goshh, you can't comprehend or what... you're down there calling me ignorant, lolz Oga what do you know.... I knew about all of these a long time ago...

I know there are various infections that one can contact without Condom, and the ones that condom ain't even enough to stop them, the ones you can get just by touching someone and using same hand to touch ur privates...... I really didn't wanna drag this buh you guys are acting like you know it all, I put it to you that the few things you know about infections is just the tip of the iceberg....


I ain't no doctor or whatever buh a large number of girls in my sch hostel come to tell me about their problems and a large number of them had it during sex without condom, that's why I'm emphasizing on the use of condoms even though it ain't completely safe cause one can get an infection just with the guy's balls hitting one's vagina......

With the use of condoms, strong immune system and good hygiene, the wide spread of infections will reduce drastically



I browse a lot so I know a lot about these things... I could go on and on buh I'll rather do that when these information are needed....

Have a goodnight rest....

thegentleman:
Honestly ladies carry so many infection, I can categorically tell u that 60% of ladies has HSV virus. An incurable disease at that and they don't know, they blame symptoms on stress... ladies life style get them prone to such disease... sharing lipstick, holding hands with their female friends, sharing clothes, many more... most have a notion they only get infection from only unprotected sex

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60% of which ladies?. Nigerian women or whole world?. where did you get that from?.

and please EVERYONE is prone to infections...you all talking like it's only girls that have infections forgetting the fact that most ladies got all these infections from having sex with a guy without using protection...


like guys don't share things too...

I told that oga to grow up because he needs to....how can one girl infect you and you come online to say all girls are dirty..... thousands of women get infections from men and I don't see them shouting that men are dirty bla bla.....


Finally I get your point, I know you're trying to enlighten people about infections buh focusing on girls girls girls is what I'm against, instead used the word EVERYONE...

femi4:
180/30 = N6,000 per day

If it take 4hrs to charge a phone and charges 10 simultaneously.

Working for 16hrs = 40 phones charged per day
@ N200 per phone, he all make = 40*200 = N8000

Now, that make sense

Who pays 200 naira to charge phone...... It's 100naira here, some go beg you for 50 sef

make I sitdon here laugh jor...

Heartbreak is terrible...

dingbang:
go and get tested..

Grow up...

dingbang:
are you kidding me right now? Jeez. Brunclezuma can you let this babe know that its not only through the vagina one can contract TDs.. Damn you know nothing about infections.. Jeez when last did you even do a lab test? Y'all dirry mehn

Oga you should calm down owkay....You can't be pouring ur frustration on everyone just because a girl infected you with whatever....


You ain't the first person to get an infection from someone, you ain't the first person to spend thousands of cash on an infection so stop it with the annoying generalizations......

Good girl gone bad....
How is she even comfortable in that....*minding my business*

lawrsmith:
baby you can lie oooo

what's there to lie about?..

did u live the life for me?

lefulefu:
fighting on top chicken and fish?... Na during this buhari time d incident occur right? Iyam asking cos i know dat struggling over chicken can never happen durin jonathan days cos food was damm cheap.i recall some weeks ago i read one story for frontpage wey one guy carrry knife stab another dude for stomach over the fighting of cowmeat for one owambe party for ijebu ode. Then two days somebody was posting how im enter bus dem d lady sitting next to him was jus shinin teeth at him cos she see the food pack containin fried chicken with rice for im hand.

hahahahahaha, I saw that chicken and rice own...


Well, that time Na wen Buhari newly come office, wey recession talk dey fly up and down..... That time people nor dey too chop remain buh Immediately one babe do shakara leave chicken, haaa Na world war 2 be that for kitchen oo..... lolxzz...

Gawddd....see thigh gap....sooo cute.....
* going to the gym tomorrow*......

.. The second pic, the man is lost in that ass..... .....

Beautiful couple...

Hehehehe........ Now remembering all of that makes me laugh a lot.....Thank God for life..


I was sooooooooooo broke one day eh... Gawddd it's was so glaring on my face..... Had only #50 with me, didn't even know what to do with the money I just held on to it ....After lectures that day I left school feeling so frustrated and tired... I think I cried sef.... Kikikikikikiki.....


Buh my God is alive .... As I was trekking back home, A car just stopped, the kind eye wey I use look the man ehhhh.. hahahaha.... The man noticed it sef, he said ""Oh fine gel, y are you frowning soo much na, is it cause of the sun.... please don't be angry, don't wanna disturb you...I'm looking for a place I can get pounded yam and soup and I'm lost please can you help me?"......

There was an eatery down the road and that was the only place one could get pounded yam..... I tried to describe the place to him buh he wasn't getting it so he said " Please just come in let's go together, you can get a plate for yourself if you don't mind".....


See full speed wey I use enter stranger car ehh ....For the first time in life, I didn't care whether he was a ritualist or something .... kikikiki....

We got to the eatery.... I ordered and ate ehhhh... kikikiki...The man sef, seems like he was really hungry...after eating, he dropped me off and thanked me.......


I don't think I will ever forget that day..... Thanked God so much for being a girl...... hahaha