₦airaland Forum

Outstrip:
noetic what is your point

beauticious is tryin to justify sexual abuse if the teacher is female and d victim is male.

texazzpete:
Nice to see you've dated over 3 billion women to come to this conclusion.

because - otherwise - you'd just be a silly guy spouting a stereotypical comment on Nairaland, wouldn't you?

but there is an element of truth un what he said.
female mugu's are rare

syren:
What if she doesn't have a father? There are always exceptions

what exceptions . . . . . . . .must she b a burden? . . . . . . . . most of em end up as ingrates

dreeldee:
to rewrite History by removing Crude Oil from Nigeria, ensuring that I existed in Generations before mine and if at all i'll exist in this generation, then I swap position with Bill Gate

uhmn

boyscout u have spoken well. . . . . . . . . .

Outstrip:
The parents are clearly at fault here. How irresponsible can you be to leave your kids alone with a tutor. No one should have private access to your children at any age. It is your responsibilty to protect them. I can't even believe that nayone would consider doing that in this day and age. I will not even allow most relatives alone with my kids for more than a few minutes.

a sexual abuse is a sexual abuse regardless of the sex of the pepetrators.
y should a female teacher expose a child or pupil to sex?
both sexes are giulty.

Tayo . . . . . Heaven will compensate u for ur loss

Ijiji1:
I love it when the southerners and northerners fight over political posts and [b]we easterners [/b]sit on the side lines and watch you guys go at it.

uhmn i pity u . . . . . .

Kobojunkie:
huh??
I hope you see the problem in this yourself. I am not sure if anyone is saying the American presidential system is the way it has to be. All that has been said so far is for us to start thinking more like the west and taking what works and applying it effectively to our own benefit.

maybe u need to bend a little from theorical assertions to practical evidences. the biggest asset of the americans till this very day is their democracy. and our presidential system was imported from them. true or false?
I m not insinuating that d regional system was perfect, but it was a brilliant attempt at originality. even d british who brought up this idea do not practice, I can then deduce that the decision to have have a regional system of government was as a result of acomprehensive study of the nigerian state. so my take is can't we have a repitition of originality? can't we go to the drawing board and invent solutions peculiar to our case?

Interesting that you already have this conclusion only 9 years into democracy in Nigeria. You sure the problem is the system itself or the fact that we recycle corrupt leaders?? Come on, be sincere here. Are you able to tell me, without a shadow of a doubt that democracy, which I will assume is the American system you refer to, is what we have in Nigeria today?? ROFLMAO!! I mean with a straight face, can you say that??

exactly what we are saying. the presidential system is peculiar to america, it was imported to nigeria and here in nigeria it is a disaster.
do they recycle leaders who are not subject to the wishes of the electorates in america?

and when u say nine years, have u forgotten shagari was president under a democratic system? do u remember d reasons y buhari claimed he snatched power? the presidential system in nigeria was imported, it has no originality, it is complicated n not peculiar to the nigerian society and as far as nigeria is concerned it is a disaster. do u remember the infamous words of ogbemudia, he said pdp will rule for 100 years. . . . . . that is d result of lack of originality

So electronic voting, even though it works well in so many areas but somehow iwu brought it into a country where technology is not as developed, should never be applied in Nigeria??

yes. it should never have been used in d first place, apart from the usual logistics problems. they had untrained staff, unstable power supply et all. even d literates never got to c d machine or the way it works which u would have expected to b advertised on tv before d elections. hw many nigerians r literates?

Should we then conclude that computers should be abolished as we have scammers a plenty who use it?? I really don’t get what you mean there. Are you saying electronic voting is bad??

nope. i m saying somebody studied the nigerian political process and came up with option A4, it worked out fine, it was original.
is there a problem repeating that?

Interesting!! So, Universal basic education, which in essence implies all persons get basic education available to them, should be cast out just because Obasanjo decided to selectively deny some people right to this? Do you see the mistake you are making here?? Is the System the problem or Obasanjo himself??

y r u tryin to deviate from the issue at hand? is UBE not western oriented? it was imported and it failed.
obasanjo is a demon on his own. but UBE can only work in a country where statistics are accurately taken. we r still disputing the results of the population cencus till today.
this is another imported idea that has failed. it did not work because it is not nigerian in nature. it is western and a failure.

Privatization has not worked in Nigeria and should be thrown out because corrupt persons (whom we have known from the beginning to be bad leaders) keep misusing these ideas for their private interests? So Privatization is hence to blame for Atiku’s ineptitude??

yes. whats d rationale and idea behind privatisation? why sell these companies to private hands? y create billionaires overnight?
the fault of atiku is the fact that they cld not curtail their greed "corruption", so they opted to import the privatisation idea to attain capitalism. it has failed because only societies with established middle class operate capitalism.

So the very fact that the corrupt government officials continue to award contracts to selective few is not the problem but privatization is?

this are two different issues. privatization has failed woefully. it has enriched few pockets at the detriment of millions of others.
awarding of contracts to officials by large scale is also capitalist driven. y can't the fedral ministry of works tar all roads in nigeria? is that a big deal?

But the move towards capitalism in Nigeria is less than a decade old. Over 500 people have been feeding off of rich corrupt individuals in that country for decades before that. Is Capitalism still to blame for the same problem existing before 2000?

was nigeria socialist driven before 2000?

May I ask why capitalism seems to be your only problem here?? Does copying what works in the west essentially default to capitalism?? Because I remember I did add copying from even China, a country that itself copied from the west to get it where it is today. If China copied from the west and, according to you is not capitalistic, why are you harping on capitalism and trying to make it the problem?? So because Obasanjo bungled the plan,

maybe u need to explain explicitly what china copied from the west.

but to answer your question, YES capitalism is a problem in nigeria. why should a country with over 100 million people living in poverty be capitalist driven. y should a few people control the assets of the economy in a 3rd world country with no middleclass?

to develop nigeria, empowerment must be encouraged (u can call it capitalism if u like) but not at the detriment of socialist driven initaitive s to cater of over 100 million people wallowing in poverty. there are no welfare services all because of a prepay capitalist initaitive imported from the west. it has failed. or y do u think people keep crying for a revolution?
it is because they are hungry. and they r hungry because we foolishly copy western capitalism.

because obasanjo bugled the plan we don’t need social security of any sort in Nigeria?

sure we do. but shouldnt it reflect on out distinctness as a nation?

I disagree with you on what the major problem facing the leaders is. I used to have health insurance in that same country, as a kid. It was through my dad’s company and we enjoy it much too. We went to the clinic a lot as kids and, I would hope my own kids enjoy the same benefit as Nigerians. So is health insurance the mistake here or the fact that the leaders continue to bungle simple ideas??

it is a non issue because u had a luxury. how many nigerians have health insurance today?
can't we have a national health scheme where u get basic health care free of charge but funded by 2% of workers wages and subsidized by government?
must we use health insurance like d germans?

I have to say that you have yet to give me a serious example of implementation of what works in the west that we have applied to date but you have succeeded at giving me tons of examples of how inept our leaders have remained and have they have taken on simple plans and twisted and maimed the people even more in the name of progress. Two completely different things.

except you're running from the issues being raised.
our leaders are made inept based on our system of govt. presidential imported from US
they started privatisation to attain capitalism, it has failed. it was imported from the west
health insurance . . . . . . . failed
UBE . . . . . . . . failed
PAP. . . . . . . failed
electronic voting. . . . . . . failed
capitalist contract awards. . . . . . . . . . failed . . . . . and a host of others.

I can however give you an example of a plan from the west that was implemented and I hope many still enjoy it to date. Obafemi Awolowo’s free-Education-for-all program. I happen to have been one of those who benefitted from that program; free books, free uniform, good jobs for teachers, free education from primary school level up to High school level. Even though some will argue that he did it mainly for his own tribe, you have to admit, that it worked. Everywhere you go today, you mean more Nigerian Yoruba’s in high seats today that benefitted from that program. Sure, after his death, it sort of went the way most things do in Nigeria. Not as much funding and what not but it worked while it was funded and effectively pursued. He knew that it was not just about applying the idea but maintaining it as much as he could. The Jakande buildings helped a great deal. Made sure that education reached those who were in remote areas, at low cost. I happen to know because I also went to school at one point in a village in the middle of nowhere. LMAO!!

uhhh
u easily made refrence to this because it suceeded and for the ones that failed u blame the leaders inept.

did tinubu and his fellow 5 thieves not attempt to implement this same policy in 1999? did they suceed?

So please, can we not turn this into another ANTI-WEST thread and be sincere with ourselves in this debate. Instead of trying hard to blame it all on the west even when it does not make sense to, can we be honest enough to pin point what the actual problem is.

no body is blamin the west. lets just stop importation of ideas or policies and start originality.
creating policies that are a reflection of our own society.

khufu:
@ noetic,
you rather than huxley needs serious attention and help. so posting anti - christ or atheistic messages is sufficient for you to speak thus. you that wants to pray for people has your own prayers been answered? i wonder why people find it difficult to mind their businesses.
nothing is wrong with huxley. heal your own wounds.

yes.

I understand that i shouldnt have approached huxley this way.
sincere apologies
cheers

redsun:
I think he is in awe of Huxly,his mind set to him,the poster is unimaginable,but it is just common sense.Self-freedom,god like freedom.

u r right. i want to get to know the source of the passion n energy, maybe i can tap from it.

Siena:
In that case, he doesn't wish to be contacted.

You can't bully people into speaking to you.

Most will merely be annoyed by your means of "trying" to contact them.

well spoken.
i will still like to reach him though.

I m tempted to ask that what really works in the west that has not been importd to nigeria and has worked ?

Even the british in colonizing nigeria, attempted originality. They created a regional system of government, where the developmental process created healthy economic rivalry for the advancement of democracy. this form of government is not prevalent in d world.
did this regional system not work? must we now use the american presidential system?
it works in america but it has breeded godfathers and sons in nigeria.

Iwu borrowed the western electronic voting system, u saw d disaster. even in london here, voting by post(i.e postal mail) was used during the last mayoral election just to accomodate the societal diversity which reflects illitracy n inconvinience.

where do u think policies like the universal basic education of obasanjo originate from? y were rural communities not put into consideration or y are they not beneficiaries?
the concept of privatisation? is that not the foothpath of capitalism promoted by the west? was atiku's privatisation not a disaster?

the continuos capitalist traits of tendering and awarding all government projects in form of contracts has breeded corrupt moguls and institutions like julius berger, aliko dangote to name a few. thus widening the gap between d rich and d poor.
capitalism has made sure we have 500 people feeding from adedibu's residence daily, capitalism has ensured that we have 70% of nigerians living under $1 a day.
are the libyans, saudi's, chinese and others who have ameliorated the livin conditions of their people capitalists? where then did we get the concept of capitalism from?

I m sayin lets stop copying and pasting.

In the name of western economic empowerment programmes like the social security, obasanjo brought PAP (poverty alleviation program)
it was a disaster, they ended up distributing "okadas" and "keke napep".
do u remeber the health insurance scheme for workers obj started in d mould of wats applicable in germany? do u know what has bcom of it?
the major disaster facing nigerian present crop of leaders is lack of originality.

otokx:
Enugu has an Airport and so does Owerri so what is this dude talking about?

no mind am . . . . . . another tribalistic . . . . . , . . .

dats a jamb ??

chamotex:
For me it was a good thing, when i was younger, my sisters friend used to tutor me and worked quite well
she was as pretty as pure gold, everytime i looked at her boobs, previous unsolvable maths problems just get solved instantly,
it was like magic,
and at the end i passed my maths exams, me that i wasnt very good at maths before,
i still till today thank those pair of lovely breasts and cleavage that changed my mathematical life.

lol . . . .

beauteous:
disadvantage of a female teacher?NO!
some'z stil waitin.
bsides many many cases ve yhu heard or seen a female child bein abused
sexually by a female teacher?none i guess.its common wiff d male

we dont hear of it does not mean it doesnt happen. and in the instances it happens d victims dont get pregnant or depressed like their female counterparts. they see it as a sexual baptism _{I know a living example}

kufreabasi:
why not check mosque

seconded. . . . . wear an hijab so u can disguise

superstan:
i am number #14.

is there any problem with that?

lol

are they not subject to d same hormones like their male counterparts . . . .

cases of sexually abused pupils by female teachers are not nihilant u know?

poetikalz:
My name is Kayode .Am in my late twenties(27 to be precise).I have a bachelor's degree in Applied Geophysics and finished with good grades.I am everything a lady wants in a man .I am passionate,emotional,loving ,caring,understanding,i[b]ntelligent,smart[/b] and faithful.I need a job desperately because i think i can't continue like this .My girlfriend has been acting funny due to my lack of job.I don't feel happy again and i feel its not really worth it continuing.
Am saying this again.Any lady who helps me get a job to start with,i promise to marry.

i dont tink u have those two. . . . . . . . .sit up my guy. . . . . . and get closer to ya GOD

beauteous:
teacher ko,lecturer ni.
whatever happened tu d female onez

are they better? abeg. . . .

ahhhhhhhhh . . . . . nkan beeee. . . . . .

biggy08:
Yes ooo i do just that i keep wondering how i could have as inteligent as i am

na luf n emotions cause am . . . . . . . we all get wiser

thats creative

candy:
Mo ja mo 'sa ni akikanju. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

akikanju to ba moja tio mosa, ma bogun lo

kini itumo owe to koko pa?

keregbe tio ni orun . . . . . . . . .

Gamine:
Please o!

Why the defensiveness?
it shows you all fall into one or more of these types.

and it proves u r insatiable

@ biggy08
u r sure better off now . . . . . all da best

u r an example of the insatiable breed of grls walkin around d face of the earth

landis:
It means: in any situation seek benefit for your people. How you do it depends on your style.

what have we been sayin all along?

Nig: what benefit did we get or set to get when we supported ANC during apartheid?

ur opinion is unfortunate

Akolawole:
He can't and no one can step into Adedibu's Shoe.

may God kill anyone that attempts to. . . . . . Amen